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PoliticsRe: Court Sends Nnamdi Kanu’s Brother, Lawyer, 10 Others To Kuje Prison by blesdman(m): 3:13pm On Oct 21, 2025
wediehere1:
https://dailypost.ng/2025/10/21/court-sends-nnamdi-kanus-brother-lawyer-10-others-to-kuje-prison/
Nigerian govt only understands guerilla antics and tactics. Civil systems no longer work in Nigerian politics
RomanceRe: Man Shares The Brutal Message A Lady Sent Him After Asking Her To Be His GF by blesdman(m): 3:11pm On Oct 21, 2025
dollynnn:
She will end up in Shiloh. We know her type.

I feel sad for ladies of the younger generation. “Wokeness”, arrogance and toxic feminism make them end up toxic and lonely at the end of the day.

By the way, is it a crime for ladies to be respectful and polite? Nothing kills a woman’s character faster than arrogance and rudeness.
This happens when they are trained by single mothers and fathers
Christianity EtcRe: Is Repentance Only About Going For Altar Call? by blesdman(m): 1:30pm On Oct 12, 2025
ebubeson:
Going for altar call is one of the methods of identifying yourself as a sinner or backslider in need of repentance. It is not a way to bribe God or to pacify your guilty conscience, but an act for the purpose of repenting from sin.

If you have committed terrible sins & you are feeling so guilty, going for altar call is not a way of looking for how to make your conscience feel alright & then go back to sin after pacifying your conscience. Repentance is a change of lifestyle that is aided by the HolySpirit.

You should be determined to repent when going for altar call. After repentance, you are to stop your old evil ways, apologize & make peace with those you may have offended, study your bible regularly, pray always, attend a bible-believing church, serve God faithfully.
Repentance is a change of mindset from wickedness, pride to good attitude and positivity
RomanceRe: Life As A Single Mother Is Hard, Don't Leave Your Marriage. by blesdman(m): 4:35pm On Oct 11, 2025
dominique:
And if a woman dies in a marriage, it's still this same sets of people gaslighting women to stay in bad marriages that will berate her for dying because of marriage. Not all marriages are worth fighting for. Al
OP did say except for cases of physical abuse.
CelebritiesRe: “what I Enjoy About Being Single” — DJ Cuppy Shares Why She Loves Her Own Compan by blesdman(m): 8:33pm On Oct 10, 2025
PerfectStranger:
But if rich man marry broke woman it's love and OK ,now e reach broke men turn they're hungry and angry predators grin
One reason I do not rate women highly is because of their hypergamous nature. A man can decide to be hypogamous but e hard for woman....
CareerRe: "Who I Wan Explain Give?” – Nigerian Lawyer In UK Reveals Her New Job by blesdman(m): 8:27pm On Oct 10, 2025
Sonnobax15:
. Eyahhhhhhhh grin. Pain,is that you? grin

Well,lemme don't reply you in a tone similar to the one in which you just did to me undecided. Personally,my first job after my secondary school was in a lawyer's chambers...I could recur how we hardly had clients,to the extent that my boss had to close his chambers undecided. I'm talking about a well known and respected lawyer,but he was also a contractor under an engineering site as at then..... No matter how you may try to sugarcoat or sweet-mouth it,law as a profession in Nigeria has long lost it's respect and regards..
What do people do in law? I really do not see their relevance in Nigeria. They are only used by politicians for their purposes. Otherwise , English law does not serve the masses here in Nigeria. I have a case and take it to a court where it takes 20yrs to rule over. But a political case is resolved in record time. English law is useless in Nigeria...except maybe in corporate cities like Lagos and port Harcourt where we still have registrars
FamilyRe: LGBTQ Activist, Bandy Kiki & Her Wife, Jenny, Share Maternity Photoshoot by blesdman(m): 7:35am On Oct 05, 2025
CoronaVirusPro:
How do you explain to kids that people smoke, snuff cocaine and join gangs?

Shouldn’t that be of more concern than LGBTQ?
This is educated madness . LGBTQ is educated mental disorder...
CrimeRe: Are You Aware: 7 Out Of Every 10 People In Nigerian Prisons Are "Awaiting Trial? by blesdman(m): 5:14pm On Oct 03, 2025
EyeCumInPiece:
...and many of them are victims of mass arrest by our police in the vicinity of a crime.
No need of studying law in this country. The judiciary are a beehive of corruption and ineptitude
CareerRe: 43 In Every 100 Nigerian Bank Workers Are Contract Staff by blesdman(m): 5:22pm On Oct 02, 2025
casdoruche:
When last did labour union fight a good fight.

Many people are languishing in various jobs

All of a sudden Labour union remembers Dangote

Let labour union fight the good fight

You now want a private entity to listen to you

When they fight as ASUU they leave out those in private universities
They leave out those in private institutions
When they fight for workers they ignore those in private sectors

Minimum wage is effective in govt jobs

The private worker still earns 30k 10k 15k and all.

Now all of a sudden Dangote refinery is now the place to fight

lol

Dangote should just open portal for employment for engineers and you will see the rate at which phd and profs will aim to get the jobs.

Nigerians want same treatment with Indians

But Nigerians have not been able to make ph and Warri work

I rather pay Indians more and get the job done
U said the truth here. Like I use to say, Nigerians are too hypocritical and that is the bane of the country and the government. Also, after theu have done all these wickedness, they will be the first to rush to Canada and western countries....tufiakwa
FamilyRe: Jim Brown Marries His 19th Wife by blesdman(m): 5:03pm On Sep 25, 2025
franklingud:
His ambition in life as a billionaire is to marry many wives.
Useless billionaire
Africans really do not have sense or is this inferiority complex. What do u think is different from polygamy and monogamy? In polygamy, the man is legally married to many women. In western monogamy, they marry divorce, remarry, divorce and repeat. Is that not polygamy in disguise? Most average westerners marry ams divorce and remarry almost immediately. It's all the same. Nigerian women should not be deceiving themselves with western ways
CelebritiesRe: Neo Akpofure Speaks On Men Kneeling For Marriage Proposals by blesdman(m): 5:41pm On Sep 23, 2025
NiceLegs:
I will not kneel down to propose to a woman.
I will not kneel down to propose to a woman
I will not kneel down to propose to a woman.

Abraham did not kneel down to propose to Sarah
Isaac did not kneel down to propose to Rebecca
Jacob did not kneel down to propose to Rachael.

There is no where in the Bible where God in heaven commanded a man whom he created to be the head to kneel down to propose to a woman.

My father did not kneel down for my mother when he wanted to marry her.
Therefore, I will not kneel down.

These "kneeling down" has deep Spiritual implications but men don't know.

May God help you people indulging in it.
indeed that is why the women are oppressing the men in those societies where they kneel down like US and Europe. Hence the proliferation of abnormal lifestyles over there
CelebritiesRe: Neo Akpofure Speaks On Men Kneeling For Marriage Proposals by blesdman(m): 1:28pm On Sep 23, 2025
dollytino4real:
Na choice not force, but it all boils down to the guy proposing not who is watching
The guy plait hair already so he is feminine. A man should not kneel down in Africa to be a protector and provider, never. Marriage to a lady is a call to her to join him in his life journey. Not the other way round.
PoliticsRe: Ghost Refineries: P’harcourt, Warri, Kaduna Plants Rot As Workers Turn Idle by blesdman(m): 12:37pm On Sep 21, 2025
dominique:
All the billions of dollars spent on renovations gone down the drain just like that
Even old cars of more than 20yrs are being resuscitated but refineries are no way...it's terrible
BusinessRe: Man Turns Failing Hotel Into Olosho House, Makes ₦300K Daily — Wife Walks Away by blesdman(m): 1:41pm On Sep 18, 2025
jojo1415:
Pikin wey go get sense and become useful is not by the type. Of money u use in training them but the impact of the schools they attend...tell me if those kids where to be on Europe or America they wil not be useful or what?
na personal training u give children nai matter, not the money used. Money is neutral
BusinessRe: Man Turns Failing Hotel Into Olosho House, Makes ₦300K Daily — Wife Walks Away by blesdman(m): 1:40pm On Sep 18, 2025
erad:
Does he realize prostitution is illegal in Nigeria?

What will ever prompt anyone to post something like this online? I'll be waiting for the thread where he has been arrested for human trafficking and exploitation because I don't understand how a grown ass man can't do his things on the low key. Common sense is truly not common.
Nigerians no get sense again...
Everything online haba
BusinessRe: Man Turns Failing Hotel Into Olosho House, Makes ₦300K Daily — Wife Walks Away by blesdman(m): 1:39pm On Sep 18, 2025
Tito24:
I don't like the idea of having a husband running such business

He probably sleeps with the women. I think that's what this woman has in mind as well...what kind of woman would be proud to say her husband does that kind of business

Money is money but the way you earn it matters especially when you have children
seems that in Nigeria, this point does not matter any more oooo...people do a lot of things for money
PoliticsRe: Appointees Of Out-gone Rivers SOLAD Whose Appointments Ends With Emergency Rule by blesdman(m): 7:31am On Sep 18, 2025
Wike is the governor of FCT and Rivers now. Just that to serve Wike no easy o...the guy is deeply autocratic
RomanceRe: Pastor Shares How Her 42yr Old Friend Remained Single Because Of Her Policies by blesdman(m): 10:54pm On Sep 16, 2025
saintkel:
Guess u didn't even read it at all...cos it's not about religion here but her principles....she did set standards for herself I guess.....that's way wrong.....when u set standards for urself.....loosen up especially when a man is close u....don't be too tough....men hate tough girls
A terrible reality. Why should a lady be tough? It baffles me too
PoliticsRe: “thanksgiving Service In Rivers: Celebrating The Return Of Democratic Governance by blesdman(m): 9:00pm On Sep 15, 2025
DSS1335:
What are they doing thanksgiving for? For successfully cashing out billions of our money meant to pay contractors handling the ring road project that was suspended by the sole administrator? Hmm! If I were Fubara I will probe the sole administrator 6 months rules and challenge the federal government imposition in the supreme Court. That wasted 6 months must be taken into consideration during the next guber elections as Rivers state won't be participating until after 6 months. Fubara should be prepared for showdown because we Rivers people will stand by him. Those that took part in the Wike nominated LGA elections are less than 20% of his former 200,000 SA
Rivers people are conquered species
PoliticsRe: Why Do Some Nigerians Think Charlie Kirk Is A Racist? by blesdman(m): 5:22pm On Sep 14, 2025
thewinning101:
I've been seeing some funny commentary from Nigerians and africans saying that Charlie Kirk is a racist and he doesn't like immigrants.

What Charlie Kirk said:
Black people are 12% of the American population but commit about 60% of the total murders in America.

There are other factors involved but the most noticeable one is the absense of fathers in black children's lives and the increase of single mother homes from 25% in 1960 to 75% in 2025.


Please can someone tell me the racism in above statement. It's just like somebody saying Africa's problem is bad leadership and the next thing someone starts calling the person a tribalist or a hater.

About immigration:

Charlie Kirk said:
Kirk has repeatedly said that serious reforms are needed for both illegal and legal immigration.
He argues that the southern border, especially due to cartel involvement, has become a security threat that demands stronger measures.


Now the immigration part is also funny to me cos there are certain people who preach unity, diversity, blah blah blah in the morning in Nigeria yet in the evening they start saying "Igbos must leave Lagos". Telling taxpayers to leave a certain part of the country cos you feel they are voting a certain way.


So there you have it. Nigerians who are confused, please tell me which part of Charlie Kirk's statements made him a racist
na today u know say Nigerians are very hypocritical?
PoliticsRe: Rivers Begins Transition To Democratic Governance by blesdman(m): 5:36pm On Sep 13, 2025
tunjijones:
I am sure fubara is planning to fight back in 2027.

But someone shd tell him that he will still fail.

He who wants to dine with the devil shd use a long spoon. You know how wicked wike is and you went to dine with him.
The truth is that Wike will still give him second term...he is the only that can respect Wike
TravelRe: FG To Connect Lagos-calabar, Sokoto-Badagry Highways With Underwater Tunnel. by blesdman(m): 2:24pm On Sep 12, 2025
LagosOrigin:
Yeye people , creating avenue to steal more funds. They are never satisfied with all that they've stolen already. They must steal more with projects that probably won't be completed forever.
This umahi na big thief. Weti we no go fit sustain or maintain na him de build... criminality at its peak...he built a useless airport in ebonyi too...what a catastrophe!
Foreign AffairsRe: Suspect In Charlie Kirk's Murder In Custody - Trump by blesdman(m): 2:13pm On Sep 12, 2025
WriterrNg:
World power in what world? Inside your papa house I guess.

After arresting 2 innocent people. And a whole day passed without even knowing who the shooting was.

Even Nigerian police would have performed better.
Nigerian and hypocrisy
Foreign AffairsRe: Suspect In Charlie Kirk's Murder In Custody - Trump by blesdman(m): 2:13pm On Sep 12, 2025
CoronaVirusPro:
A good one! Trump is now learning and working at the same pace with His Excellency, President Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu (GCFR).

Hoping they get it right and mitigate against future occurrence by revising gun laws.

No civilian should have access to a military grade rifle or accessories .
U de high on kolos?
FoodRe: Hilda Baci’s Giant Pot Arrives Lagos For World’s Biggest Jollof Rice Cook-a-thon by blesdman(m): 9:29am On Sep 12, 2025
erad:
All these stupid, nonsense records.

Indians have been cooking way larger quantities of rice in aluminum pits for years and they never made it a record. These ones will just see something and abuse it at every opportunity they get.

Very nonsense mentality.

I don't blame them though, I blame a country of jobless folks that will keep sucking up to them out of laziness and joblessness. They are people actually affecting lives positively but no, it's some useless acts and people we'll rather promote and give popularity.

SMH!
The Nigerian society empowers nonsense instead of sustenable productivities
RomanceRe: Drama As Lady Rejects Plumber Boyfriend’s Proposal On Sign-out Day After Sponsor by blesdman(m): 2:04pm On Sep 11, 2025
hharsnan:
this not a skit actually happened @ LASU . i witnessed it cause i signed out on the same day ...
For real? This is bad. So the guy no know say them no de trade girl wey no be ur wife? Very sorry for him...but that was stupid of him except he did not plan to marry her...
FamilyRe: My Wife Secured A US Visa For Herself And Kids Without Me Knowing: Man Cries Out by blesdman(m): 9:24am On Sep 11, 2025
LilMissFavvy:
I guess he wasn't giving his wife peace, she left to find the peace that was missing at home. He may also have been cheating on her, oga you can't be eating your cake and still have it.
now I understand why young boys of now adays are afraid of commiting to ladies. What a generation!!!
EducationRe: Ebosetale Okhueleigbe Bags Doctorate Degree At 30 by blesdman(m): 9:20am On Sep 11, 2025
oluwaseyi0:
Men with inferiority complex
You cry daily on gen gen university as how ladies are liabilities, but the few ones that are shining you claim their parents are senseless for educating them

What exactly do you guys want
I have no respect for degrees. Very useless in this environment. Her family is rich from her background. I just hope she has the right mix of humility.
EducationRe: Ebosetale Okhueleigbe Bags Doctorate Degree At 30 by blesdman(m): 9:18am On Sep 11, 2025
CorrectionFLuid:
Omo. Sometimes I wonder where men like you crawl out from. Giving us bad name everywhere. And na una loud pass.

Just see the nonsense you wrote on page one of a thread that made front page. SMH.
I included a caveat. Much learning makes people proud and foolish sometimes. If she is humble, she will be an asset. Otherwise, problem is being created for her.
EducationRe: Ebosetale Okhueleigbe Bags Doctorate Degree At 30 by blesdman(m): 8:27am On Sep 11, 2025
E go hard her to marry sha.if she no humble. Parents of some ladies no get sense at all sha

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