Romance › Re: HELP!! A Tomboy Is In Love With Me by blesdman(m): 9:15am On Aug 25, 2025 |
RollinTNDA: Go where?? I'm looking for what I will tell her to stop. I don't like her but she no dey hear word still trying to woo me.
To make it worse we dey the same group so we see regularly Leave the group and don't be stupid. Environmental factors are usually stronger than discipline. It is better u leave the group so she doesn't see u and lose attraction or u show stronger rebuttal tendencies that will make her afraid of u. |
Romance › Re: Lady Raises Alarm After Being Asked Out By Female Passenger In A Keke by blesdman(m): 10:22pm On Aug 24, 2025 |
[quote author=Apcshit post=136570017]Nothing wrong with Lesbianism .Nigeria is a backward country[/quot Very wrong..... A mental disorder |
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Romance › Re: Can A Relationship Recover After Cheating? by blesdman(m): 6:04pm On Aug 17, 2025 |
It is women that cheat, men don't cheat in Nigeria...so long they are taking care of their wives. That's why men are all paranoid about it...but for a woman, a man does not in any way cheats on her |
Celebrities › Re: My Wife Was The First Person To Support My Company Financially – M.I Abaga by blesdman(m): 5:19pm On Aug 17, 2025 |
We4all: So marriage have conditions? It is people like you that makes marriage boring and difficult. Everything in life has conditiona..u don't play by it u remain where u are, until u are able to change the conditions. That's how life operates. |
Celebrities › Re: My Wife Was The First Person To Support My Company Financially – M.I Abaga by blesdman(m): 5:09pm On Aug 17, 2025 |
We4all: Why won't you love your wife? You guys like mumu women that you can control. marriage is not everybody just as employment is not for everybody untill u are willing to fulfil the conditions... |
Celebrities › Re: My Wife Was The First Person To Support My Company Financially – M.I Abaga by blesdman(m): 8:46am On Aug 17, 2025 |
condralbedez: That's a good wife, that believe and value their marriage, they will do all it takes to see it strives. some women are like this. I love my wife too for her stance |
Christianity Etc › Re: Nigerian Pastors Among World Richest, But No Nigerian Church Listed - Omolehin by blesdman(m): 8:39am On Aug 17, 2025 |
Emmy000seun: This is deep ooo,...hmmm.. Nigeria version of pastorship ehn,..e get how e b...even our version of democracy too, everything we copy na d other side of ham we dey do My thoughts too. We copy democracy, we turn am to another thing. Christianity too, same thing. Government we turn am to another thing....our way get as e be o |
Celebrities › Re: I Don’t Hate Men; I’m A Hopeless Romantic – Toke Makinwa by blesdman(m): 9:00am On Aug 15, 2025 |
Beremx: Safe delivery Toke. Whether you hate men or not, it's your decision to do so. When your ex husband slept with another woman and got her pregnant, it's enough reason to do what you did. You owe no one explanation Women de craze on a normal level. Haba...husband slept with another women , she vex. If the man were a Muslim, would she run out? I really don't understand women's frame of thiughts |
Politics › Re: First Lady, Oluremi Tinubu, Gives ₦50,000 Grant To 500 Women In Ondo by blesdman(m): 7:50pm On Aug 14, 2025 |
naijapikin2: All these monies she's dishing out. Fiam fiam anyhow. Soon another government will probe rhi the we will know wassup.
Shege banza kawai 😎 Dem no de probe president....my fear is whether Remi Tinubu will come out to contest for president after Tinubu, cos I no trust that family. They are desperate for power |
Politics › Re: Godswill Akpabio ‘Slow Walking’ Sets Tongues Wagging (Video) by blesdman(m): 7:54am On Aug 13, 2025 |
wowcatty: Crowd can swear for you 24/7 & 365, but it won’t work if your hands are clean and don’t deserve it. Now that’s how curses work. curses no de work for this country again cos everybody na criminals even the crowd cursing.... |
Celebrities › Re: Internet Fraudsters Fund Many Nigerian Artists – M.I by blesdman(m): 7:49am On Aug 13, 2025 |
fnep2smooth: M.I is right—many Nigerian artists rely on funding from internet fraudsters ("Yahoo Boys" because the country lacks proper investment in the creative industry. He calls this a national embarrassment, pointing out that most financial support comes from either foreign sources or illegal means. His message is clear: Nigeria’s wealthy elite and government need to step up and fund talent legally, or the industry will keep depending on crime. Definitely. If not for fraudsters, the rate of armed robbery in this country would have been off the roof. EFCC should target politicians and leave them alone. The real estate industry and hospitality industry are also been funded by such crimes funds. The politicians are only concerned about promoting insecurity, thuggery and banditry. Devious humans. |
Politics › Re: We belong to the Nigerian people and not APC, fraud is fraud - EFCC replies ADC by blesdman(m): 10:27pm On Aug 12, 2025 |
Raskimonojendor: Where was Atiku and his fellow losers when YaYa Bello was being hunted by EFCC. efcc are liars |
Health › Re: How Can I Restore My Smell Sense by blesdman(m): 10:24pm On Aug 12, 2025 |
SonofElElyonRet: And your sense of taste? Cos both usually go hand in hand I do taste very well. It is only the smell that I can't really understand what happensed |
Health › Re: How Can I Restore My Smell Sense by blesdman(m): 10:22pm On Aug 12, 2025 |
binary123: It's been over 3 year now that i lost my smell sense,I don't really know what cause it, I just discovered that I could no longer perceived any smell good or bad,idon't really know how to restored it back.i really missed my ability to smell everything around me, please anyone with solution should help. I am a witness. This is me too....just that minw was 4yrs ago. I need help too |
Politics › Re: Tinubu Appoints MKO Abiola’s Daughter, Rinsola As DG CLTC by blesdman(m): 6:42am On Aug 12, 2025 |
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Properties › Re: Man Shares How A Tenant Stylishly Defrauded His Uncle Of Four Years’ Rent by blesdman(m): 7:52pm On Aug 11, 2025 |
rhythyson: God will help him,
He will build another house and his tenants will do worst things to him
Karma never sleeps I doubt it |
Sports › Re: Akin Olowokere Slumps & Dies During Shooting Stars Training by blesdman(m): 7:50pm On Aug 11, 2025 |
femi4: You never chop, you dey do exercise..God abeg o
Go for regular check up Even with exercise, people de die. So much Ado for exercise. |
Celebrities › Re: Davido Gifts Chioma $300,000 Richard Mille Diamond Watch by blesdman(m): 7:48pm On Aug 11, 2025 |
[quote author=blesdman post=136422743][/quote]The fundamental issue is that if u pay a price for a person, does that remove the need for u to get another person? Marriage is a transactional part of culture. If women can be sincere to fight the part of culture or tradition where a man does a ceremony and pays huge prices to family and extended family, then we will know women want to change the culture. As in the West, African women can now contest for men cheating. Otherwise, no Nigerian man is cheating on his wife so long he is taking care of her. |
Celebrities › Re: Davido Gifts Chioma $300,000 Richard Mille Diamond Watch by blesdman(m): 7:40pm On Aug 11, 2025 |
Karashikaa: You're constantly harping on about culture, but let's not forget that these traditions were created by specific groups of people ancestors are dead, gone and buried. If you ask me, many of these customs were probably imposed on women who lacked the voice to resist. Now that modern Nigerian women are rejecting these norms, why not just let them be? After all, didn't our ancestors also adapt to the traditions forced upon them? |
Celebrities › Re: Davido Gifts Chioma $300,000 Richard Mille Diamond Watch by blesdman(m): 12:27pm On Aug 11, 2025 |
Karashikaa: Who made the rule, you? E shock u? When people are well colonised, they begin to see every indigenous idea oas evil...that is the effect of western mind training also called education. Think inward and understand the reason behind some lifestyles... |
Celebrities › Re: Davido Gifts Chioma $300,000 Richard Mille Diamond Watch by blesdman(m): 12:20pm On Aug 11, 2025 |
Karashikaa: Who made the rule, you? from time immemorial, it is only this westernized generation of Nigerians that says a man is cheating on them cos they do not know the African culture. A man pays a bride price on ur head to ur family and extended family, and the woman dares says he cheats on her when he sleeps with another lady? That's nonsensical. A n African man has right to wife and a harem of concubines so long as the wife is being taken care of. In the West, the girls family contributes to the welfare of the man's family just like they are doing to our young guys now through yahoo. It is normal culture for them, so they have their rights and it is their culture. Nigeria girls are demanding what they don't have rights to, until they can change the culture of bride prices on their head!!!! |
Celebrities › Re: Davido Gifts Chioma $300,000 Richard Mille Diamond Watch by blesdman(m): 10:54am On Aug 11, 2025 |
Sellfish: Will that stop him from cheating?
See as she dey shine teeth while the video of her husband begging for pvssy is all over the Internet 
In this life, just get money, because it covers a multitude of sins 
Faithfulness is for poor men A man does not cheat a woman if he is providing for her and sleeping with her, and still decides to do same to another woman. It is only a woman that cheats a man, if she is not the one providing for the man, and still decides to go to another man. In the western world, the females carry dowries or gifts like houses for the husbands, that's why they feel cheated on when, the man goes to meet another woman. This cannot apply in Africa. Nigerian girls should not use the word, cheating on their husbands. They don't have the right |
Politics › Re: VAT Revenue Rises 84% To N6.7trn by blesdman(m): 10:08am On Aug 11, 2025 |
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Travel › Re: Only Five Airlines Control 75% Of Air Traffic In Nigeria – Rewane by blesdman(m): 3:25pm On Aug 09, 2025 |
SmartPolician: Of the 23 active domestic airlines in Nigeria, only five of them control 75 per cent of domestic traffic in the country.
Yet, state governors are racing to build more unproductive airports that will eventually become a burden on the viable ones because they want to show achievements and massage the ego of their people (our state get airport). most Nigerian governors are very stupid. Sometimes we should be talking of optimisations. Though this character seems to be prevalent with Nigerians generally. |
Romance › Re: Don’t Travel To Abroad If You Have High Sex Drive Please by blesdman(m): 5:27pm On Aug 08, 2025 |
Softmirror: That's why I like U.K the made sure that prostitution doesn't thrive. Not a single prostitute in the U.K. 😁 For real? Cos everyone has opportunity to work menially and being paid I guess?? |
Romance › Re: Is She Into Hook-up? by blesdman(m): 5:24pm On Aug 08, 2025 |
Fiscus105: Not you realise 8 of 10 ladies are into transactional sex. In fact, some married women are in coded hook up. seems true, a lady once said there is no need of having a girl friend, if one is not ready to pay her. I was like, is this not prostitution? I tire for Nigerian girls sha |
Family › Re: Wife Discovers Husband’s Secret Second Marriage On Facebook After 3 Kids by blesdman(m): 5:19pm On Aug 08, 2025 |
Diamond098454: Married men cheat a lot . Many of them that has money are very stubborn they don't give up hmmm it's disgusting. there is nothing like cheating in Africa or Nigeria. A man pays a bride price to marry you, meaning the lady is bought. So it is only when the lady looks outside, there is cheating. The man cheated nobody so long as he takes care of u. I don't know how Nigerian ladies got the idea that a man cheats on them. It is only when he stops taking care of u that a lady has the right to say he is cheating her. How can a man pay a price for u and u claim he cheats on u? I don't understand it. In the western world, the woman's family pays a dowry, ie part of the family's wealth to the man,and the men live in the females houses in most cases, hence they usually have right to say the men cheated on them. But for African culture, except the woman is the one taking care of the man, she has no such right to say the man is cheating on her. |
Politics › Re: TELCOs Warn Of Service Disruption Because Of Blockage Of Diesel To Telecom Sites by blesdman(m): 3:39pm On Aug 08, 2025 |
free2ryhme: You like to argue
Make seun provide the 26 more characters needed talking from experience...learn. solar is not as reliable for major power use |
Politics › Re: TELCOs Warn Of Service Disruption Because Of Blockage Of Diesel To Telecom Sites by blesdman(m): 2:45pm On Aug 08, 2025 |
free2ryhme: Are you aware that numerous sites run on solar power? MTN alone has multiple solar-powered sites - maybe you should check with them 😂😂 I know that but not solely on solar power. Sole solar power is for only rural site with very low power usage |
Politics › Re: TELCOs Warn Of Service Disruption Because Of Blockage Of Diesel To Telecom Sites by blesdman(m): 12:51pm On Aug 08, 2025 |
PAWG: Please someone enlighten me, can’t these sites run on solar/inverter or windmills? Must it be power generators? They’ve been doing this for 25 years telco equipments consume power and cannot be sustained with solar alone. They have tried it and it has not being able to sustain the system. If grid was working, they will be reprieved a bit. Telco companies are trying alot to surmount business challenges in Nigeria. Doing business here is not for the weak |
Politics › Re: TELCOs Warn Of Service Disruption Because Of Blockage Of Diesel To Telecom Sites by blesdman(m): 12:49pm On Aug 08, 2025 |
free2ryhme: Run your sites on solar panel you wont need diesel anymore do u know the amount of power that telco equipments use? Don't say what u don't know...and solar is not reliable in raining periods |