Properties › Re: Man Shares How A Tenant Stylishly Defrauded His Uncle Of Four Years’ Rent by blesdman(m): 7:52pm On Aug 11, 2025 |
rhythyson: God will help him,
He will build another house and his tenants will do worst things to him
Karma never sleeps I doubt it |
Sports › Re: Akin Olowokere Slumps & Dies During Shooting Stars Training by blesdman(m): 7:50pm On Aug 11, 2025 |
femi4: You never chop, you dey do exercise..God abeg o
Go for regular check up Even with exercise, people de die. So much Ado for exercise. |
Celebrities › Re: Davido Gifts Chioma $300,000 Richard Mille Diamond Watch by blesdman(m): 7:48pm On Aug 11, 2025 |
[quote author=blesdman post=136422743][/quote]The fundamental issue is that if u pay a price for a person, does that remove the need for u to get another person? Marriage is a transactional part of culture. If women can be sincere to fight the part of culture or tradition where a man does a ceremony and pays huge prices to family and extended family, then we will know women want to change the culture. As in the West, African women can now contest for men cheating. Otherwise, no Nigerian man is cheating on his wife so long he is taking care of her. |
Celebrities › Re: Davido Gifts Chioma $300,000 Richard Mille Diamond Watch by blesdman(m): 7:40pm On Aug 11, 2025 |
Karashikaa: You're constantly harping on about culture, but let's not forget that these traditions were created by specific groups of people ancestors are dead, gone and buried. If you ask me, many of these customs were probably imposed on women who lacked the voice to resist. Now that modern Nigerian women are rejecting these norms, why not just let them be? After all, didn't our ancestors also adapt to the traditions forced upon them? |
Celebrities › Re: Davido Gifts Chioma $300,000 Richard Mille Diamond Watch by blesdman(m): 12:27pm On Aug 11, 2025 |
Karashikaa: Who made the rule, you? E shock u? When people are well colonised, they begin to see every indigenous idea oas evil...that is the effect of western mind training also called education. Think inward and understand the reason behind some lifestyles... |
Celebrities › Re: Davido Gifts Chioma $300,000 Richard Mille Diamond Watch by blesdman(m): 12:20pm On Aug 11, 2025 |
Karashikaa: Who made the rule, you? from time immemorial, it is only this westernized generation of Nigerians that says a man is cheating on them cos they do not know the African culture. A man pays a bride price on ur head to ur family and extended family, and the woman dares says he cheats on her when he sleeps with another lady? That's nonsensical. A n African man has right to wife and a harem of concubines so long as the wife is being taken care of. In the West, the girls family contributes to the welfare of the man's family just like they are doing to our young guys now through yahoo. It is normal culture for them, so they have their rights and it is their culture. Nigeria girls are demanding what they don't have rights to, until they can change the culture of bride prices on their head!!!! |
Celebrities › Re: Davido Gifts Chioma $300,000 Richard Mille Diamond Watch by blesdman(m): 10:54am On Aug 11, 2025 |
Sellfish: Will that stop him from cheating?
See as she dey shine teeth while the video of her husband begging for pvssy is all over the Internet 
In this life, just get money, because it covers a multitude of sins 
Faithfulness is for poor men A man does not cheat a woman if he is providing for her and sleeping with her, and still decides to do same to another woman. It is only a woman that cheats a man, if she is not the one providing for the man, and still decides to go to another man. In the western world, the females carry dowries or gifts like houses for the husbands, that's why they feel cheated on when, the man goes to meet another woman. This cannot apply in Africa. Nigerian girls should not use the word, cheating on their husbands. They don't have the right |
Politics › Re: VAT Revenue Rises 84% To N6.7trn by blesdman(m): 10:08am On Aug 11, 2025 |
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Travel › Re: Only Five Airlines Control 75% Of Air Traffic In Nigeria – Rewane by blesdman(m): 3:25pm On Aug 09, 2025 |
SmartPolician: Of the 23 active domestic airlines in Nigeria, only five of them control 75 per cent of domestic traffic in the country.
Yet, state governors are racing to build more unproductive airports that will eventually become a burden on the viable ones because they want to show achievements and massage the ego of their people (our state get airport). most Nigerian governors are very stupid. Sometimes we should be talking of optimisations. Though this character seems to be prevalent with Nigerians generally. |
Romance › Re: Don’t Travel To Abroad If You Have High Sex Drive Please by blesdman(m): 5:27pm On Aug 08, 2025 |
Softmirror: That's why I like U.K the made sure that prostitution doesn't thrive. Not a single prostitute in the U.K. 😁 For real? Cos everyone has opportunity to work menially and being paid I guess?? |
Romance › Re: Is She Into Hook-up? by blesdman(m): 5:24pm On Aug 08, 2025 |
Fiscus105: Not you realise 8 of 10 ladies are into transactional sex. In fact, some married women are in coded hook up. seems true, a lady once said there is no need of having a girl friend, if one is not ready to pay her. I was like, is this not prostitution? I tire for Nigerian girls sha |
Family › Re: Wife Discovers Husband’s Secret Second Marriage On Facebook After 3 Kids by blesdman(m): 5:19pm On Aug 08, 2025 |
Diamond098454: Married men cheat a lot . Many of them that has money are very stubborn they don't give up hmmm it's disgusting. there is nothing like cheating in Africa or Nigeria. A man pays a bride price to marry you, meaning the lady is bought. So it is only when the lady looks outside, there is cheating. The man cheated nobody so long as he takes care of u. I don't know how Nigerian ladies got the idea that a man cheats on them. It is only when he stops taking care of u that a lady has the right to say he is cheating her. How can a man pay a price for u and u claim he cheats on u? I don't understand it. In the western world, the woman's family pays a dowry, ie part of the family's wealth to the man,and the men live in the females houses in most cases, hence they usually have right to say the men cheated on them. But for African culture, except the woman is the one taking care of the man, she has no such right to say the man is cheating on her. |
Politics › Re: TELCOs Warn Of Service Disruption Because Of Blockage Of Diesel To Telecom Sites by blesdman(m): 3:39pm On Aug 08, 2025 |
free2ryhme: You like to argue
Make seun provide the 26 more characters needed talking from experience...learn. solar is not as reliable for major power use |
Politics › Re: TELCOs Warn Of Service Disruption Because Of Blockage Of Diesel To Telecom Sites by blesdman(m): 2:45pm On Aug 08, 2025 |
free2ryhme: Are you aware that numerous sites run on solar power? MTN alone has multiple solar-powered sites - maybe you should check with them 😂😂 I know that but not solely on solar power. Sole solar power is for only rural site with very low power usage |
Politics › Re: TELCOs Warn Of Service Disruption Because Of Blockage Of Diesel To Telecom Sites by blesdman(m): 12:51pm On Aug 08, 2025 |
PAWG: Please someone enlighten me, can’t these sites run on solar/inverter or windmills? Must it be power generators? They’ve been doing this for 25 years telco equipments consume power and cannot be sustained with solar alone. They have tried it and it has not being able to sustain the system. If grid was working, they will be reprieved a bit. Telco companies are trying alot to surmount business challenges in Nigeria. Doing business here is not for the weak |
Politics › Re: TELCOs Warn Of Service Disruption Because Of Blockage Of Diesel To Telecom Sites by blesdman(m): 12:49pm On Aug 08, 2025 |
free2ryhme: Run your sites on solar panel you wont need diesel anymore do u know the amount of power that telco equipments use? Don't say what u don't know...and solar is not reliable in raining periods |
Politics › Re: TELCOs Warn Of Service Disruption Because Of Blockage Of Diesel To Telecom Sites by blesdman(m): 12:47pm On Aug 08, 2025 |
Gotocourt: Companies are going solar, las las everybody go rest. Solar not reliable in rainy season....forget hypes... |
Travel › Re: More Residents Cry Out As Flood Hits Ijede, Ikorodu /photos/video by blesdman(m): 10:44am On Aug 06, 2025 |
saintkel: I don't want to sound insensitive.....but seriously, one can imagine what dis people r going through abeg.....for now, I'd overlook d cause n offer my pity to dos innocent citizens who r made to pay dearly for our clueless government n her silly policies Nigeria does not have government, that's why these things happen. Civil servants don't do their work of oversight and town planning. |
Music/Radio › Re: Ayra Starr Criticized For Using 'gay' Dancers In Promo For Roc Nation Debut Sing by blesdman(m): 10:42am On Aug 06, 2025 |
CoreWaveMedia: We react too much in this country.
Did anyone watch the clip and turn gay or are we just having trying to hold the moral high ground at all cost?
Or is it a case of jealousy masked as morality? Effeminacy should never be projected. Projections are means of mind controls and those in regulation know better. If I were in charge of that industry, she will be banned in Nigeria |
Health › Re: Jock Itch: A Permanent Solution Needed by blesdman(m): 10:39am On Aug 06, 2025 |
Henix: Go to hospital and see a doctor, nairaland is not hospital.
Meanwhile, make sure you are not wearing 1 underwear for 2 days. Improve your general hygiene This is the change u need. Wear loosed underwear and boxers. Not tights. If u live alone, sleep naked and allow air to flow in well. |
Politics › Re: WASSCE 2025 Mass Failure: CBT Fears Surge After Decade-Worst WASSCE Results by blesdman(m): 10:35am On Aug 06, 2025 |
CoreWaveMedia: I think we have a problem of attention span on this country but the thing is, we can't fight it, we can use it instead.
We can have fast paced WAEC questions. We can have tiktok accounts that solve waec questions per video.
We can have WAEC question challenges that we will advise students to participate in.
We can turn our negative to positive Forward thinking. People fail to realise that we are no longer in the era of cramming and passing exams. We are in the era of using info and applying it. Exam is not a true test of knowledge. The learning process and curriculum is not impactful. They should not have just fully embraced cbt yet. It is not yet sustenable and will serve no good purpose. Nigerians think it is only about copying? Are we ripe for some things we are copying? No!!!! |
Investment › Re: Tesla CEO Elon Musk Receives $29 Billion Pay Package by blesdman(m): 9:26am On Aug 06, 2025 |
Emary: The rich keep getting richer! That's just the way it is. Cos they are far wiser and educate the rest to be perpetually lower in thoughts and reasoning |
Romance › Re: Conjoined Twin Gets Married While Her Sister Remains Single by blesdman(m): 10:53am On Aug 05, 2025 |
Mariangeles: So, what are they trying to say, that only one of the conjoined twins is married to the man? What about the intimacy part? Or don't they have sex? These people and confusion.  No be small thing |
Family › Re: Wife Discovers Husband’s Secret Second Marriage On Facebook After 3 Kids by blesdman(m): 2:24pm On Aug 03, 2025 |
blesdman: Women are just too selfish. They don't mind the many ladies should be single o...it beats my imagination how women are selfish in this matter Men do not mind sharing. Hence, some of them patronises brothels and share ladies..but they cannot share wives cause the paid heavy price for their wives in the Nigerian context |
Christianity Etc › Re: Why Gen Z Is Becoming Less Religious? by blesdman(m): 12:11pm On Aug 03, 2025 |
oluwaseyi0: Most of what the church promised can be gotten in a functioning society without need of religion
If our leaders stop been wicked and do the right thing religion will die a natural death Religion and policing is the most effective tool by African politicians to slave citizens. Apparently they are wicked and do not care about the masses is the most sorry thing there is now |
Business › Re: A Friend Of Mine Showed Me His Transaction History Of Him Owing A Bank by blesdman(m): 6:11pm On Jul 31, 2025 |
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Travel › Re: Tulotulo Village: A Beautiful Desert And Oasis In Yobe by blesdman(m): 2:49pm On Jul 31, 2025 |
agbalej: We have so many beautiful sights in our country Nigeria. We just need a government that will harness this. the security crisis upnorth is the major problem of the country |
Family › Re: Wife Discovers Husband’s Secret Second Marriage On Facebook After 3 Kids by blesdman(m): 4:31pm On Jul 30, 2025 |
JIBO4REAL: What do you want us to do like this ? There’s a lot of woman out there with no husband, who will marry them ? Women are just too selfish. They don't mind the many ladies should be single o...it beats my imagination how women are selfish in this matter |
Romance › Re: I Just Discovered A Friend Of Mine Is G*y by blesdman(m): 11:08pm On Jul 29, 2025 |
Hampers001: Some people were born into it Lie. It is a mental disorder. Or environment induced |
Romance › Re: No Woman Has The Power To Friendzone You — You Friendzoned Yourself by blesdman(m): 11:16pm On Jul 27, 2025 |
IbrahimSola: I actually had a girl who friend zoned me in my University days. She was my class mate and went ahead to be the Vice President of the Departmental student association.
In my ignorance, I was still hanging around her, hoping. She was a good girl who had self respect and I didn't disconnect from her. At a point she was giving mixed signals, I refused to take the bait. She got more attached to me, but I had already programmed my brain to be just friends with her. She introduced me to her mum, to her brother and other family members. Everyone thought we were dating, but we weren't. Because she was so pretty and homely, other fine girls started eyeing me. I deliberately had other ladies falling on themselves to date me and she got jealous. I told her I'm your friend and nothing more.
I was everywhere with her in friend zone but I was the one making things happen. It got to a point that she was literally trying hard to make me talk about relationship with her again but I didn't because she knew the girls who were running my show. Some had real problem with her.
After graduation she called me to let me know that I hurt her real bad. But too late I already had a younger girl who was more powerful, prettier and more compatible with my life. I wasn't ready to let go.
So, someone who friend zoned me because the loser, not me.
The twist is that years later, she introduced me to someone as her runaway boyfriend...and the man ( her aunt's husband) gave me a gig that established me in life
The reason I wrote all these is that if someone friend zone you, don't feel awkward. Be her "friend" but run your matters while still being her friend. Take out your mind from intimacy with her but don't take her off your life.
In life Network is better than bleep. Bleeping may last for a while, but Network lasts longer. At least by my experience. Yours might be different anyway Best advice on this matter. Network is better than fucking. Good for the future |
Celebrities › Re: Shaffy Bello Explains Why She Can't Date Young Men Anymore by blesdman(m): 2:08pm On Jul 27, 2025 |
EvilMerodack: Attractiveness or not, there's nothing appealing about older women
I don't care if you are Genevieve or Omotola, as far say you old pass me, I'm tur-ned off already
Make men dey get small pri-de na They are usually very sweet to deal with. So don't just castigate them |
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