₦airaland Forum

Chinjo2:
This is exactly what Geh Geh has been advising men against.

This must be a skit. It is not in a Nigerians place to kneel to ask a woman to marry u. Why we de borrow culture wey no be our own. Education is indeed colonisation. We no gree colonised technologies, na culture we de collect. Nonsense

Samantha125:
How is she strong when the husband will still go and get another side chick?

So the wife is gonna spent the rest of her married life fighting and collecting all the gifts given to ladies by her husband? And there's no achievement in depriving a child of his or her father... He or she didn't ask his or her father to cheat on his wife with his or her mother.

I'd rather walk out of the marriage than separate a child from the father for my own selfish benefit because I was raised by a loving present father and I wouldn't want to deprive another child of his or her father.

real African ladies don't walk away. They sort issues with their husband by honoring them, and giving them nice Bleep. Supporting the husband, and the husband will have no choice than pushing the side piece away

JovialJune:
The power of a woman scorned by her spouse is how she controls her anger, in cases of cheating, silence is golden and your ultimate weapon, never ever confront the two involved but make sure he knows you're aware of his cheating with iron clad evidence, then plan in silence, move in secret, and attack beyond expectation, believe me, he will never see you coming.

woke craziness..una think say na abroad una de....spits

Dpharisee:
What benefits has this brought to Okrika, has there been any technological inventions or major investments from the cult activities that has attracted global attention to Okrika?
Abi na to shout Egede Who goes you and carrying out violent bloody hits on opponents and when Fulanis enter area they will all go into hiding like cult groups in Benue!

The last sentence nai I no take understand cult structures. Fulani go come, them go hide


So what's the use of ruggedity if u cannot protect ur territory

Esthered:
Do you mean the above?
Even when a person kills?

True..even of govt

duduade:
Obviously has to be through being a fraud.. the kind of people happy for him.. all of una must to share in the jail sentence
Una dey think say the money na life time fortune abi…. It’s actually the jail term that will be the life time.

not in nigeria

ajalawole:
kidnapping is bad and a crime, but let be honest with ourself Yahoo isn't a crime. I know of many guys who don't force cleint to send them money, they do willingly. How will you feel you open your phone and see a white man sending you nude, those white bring this upon them self so I don't blame most guys out hustling. I have a app where some ladies in Nigeria sell nude to those Yahoo boys to work with. What should we call this too. But of them are hustling to survive.

truth is that if not far yahoo in the south, armed robbery will have ravaged the south like banditry is doing in the north. Vices feeding the people since govt and politicians have failed their people only thinking about their children and themselves....nonsense people

jaxxy:
I repeat the problem for Nigerians isn't paying Taxes but paying taxes only for it to be mismaged and looted by corrupt politicians who don't think they owe the citizens any accountability will be diabolical and create new consequences of shocking proportions.

Nigerian cannot pay taxes and INEC who is paid from our taxes riggs elections against sane taxes paying Nigerians to favour criminal politicians.

Local government councils can't take tax payers monies and go on shopping sprees and buying houses for girlfriends.

There has to be a equivalent responsibility and consequences of mismanagement of taxes by government to taxpayers.

one thing I know is that when they start these tax laws in Nigeria; several political upheavals driven by mass unrest will begin...and not even the paramilitary nor police will be able to stop it, then the end of this republic may begin. Right now, citizens are still quiet because it is assumed that they have not touch 'our' personal, but they are stealing money from natural resources like crude oil. At this rate, even government will know that enough is enough of administrative rascality

franchasng:
I understand your point but that is not enough excuse to continue to use this result grade discrimination in modern recruitment.


It's outdated for Christ's sake.


We have technology that can be used to lessen the burden of HR recruitment process.


Can they receive more applications than healthcare organizations in UK that people from all over the world apply to their job openings that don't use graduation result grade as criteria to limit number of applications?


It is only or mostly in Nigeria that you will see a job opening specifying people must have 2.1 or this and that.


Result grade doesn't matter in today's job market.


What matters is practical ability, experience and other skills.


A lot of things make students to fall short of first class or 2.1 in Nigeria especially, these recruiters should always hear this in mind.


Whenever my company advertise for a job, we don't use result grade to scare people away, and it's because I know better.


It's discriminatory and I will take up the matter as a case soon. I will sue one of them, the only discouraging thing is the compromised Nigerian judiciary, if not, I would have started with this NLNG people honestly, it won't cost me much to use them as example for others but unfortunately our compromised Judiciary will most likely not give it a fair hearing

Worth noting our useless compromised judiciary...a pitiable dismal abysmal

ddippset:
Tinubu still doesn't have the courage to declare SOE in any northern state.

Na only Fubara him get power.

Hypocrisy in this country stinks. He should make Wike minister of defence....

Nuzo1:
It’s very good to have an extra work to support your education as a student. It’s done in other developed countries.

That being said, buying and selling will only worsen the bad economy.

In this other climes, most of the working students are hardly into buying and selling. The school maps out working hours for them in normal production and service industries.

Heck, most of the universities employ over 5% of their students in their various sectors of the school.

China for example has most of their engineering students work in their school workshops where they build or fabricate goods for export and the students are well paid for it.

So instead of turning our schools to a nuisance in the name of buying and selling, empower faculties to be mini factories and production lines where students will learn and work and earn money at the same time.

Well said, Nigerian only love building churches and mosques especially those in the south

Tohsynetita1:
Why don’t we know more than pos?
You can run waste management. You don’t need to be there. Just look for a maid that will be collecting the waste, approach estates and rich individuals and make connections with them. Get a place to dispose or burn it. Your expenses will only be on nylon, receipt, and transportation of those waste to dumping ground.

nice one

Nazgul:
Many broke guys haven't had sex in years because they can't afford it, yet they're still broke.

no mind the mugu lady

LoneSoldier:
There is no copying of anything, all marriages are the same everywhere.....

check again...compare American, Europe and Africa...distinctly

LoneSoldier:
Dear esteemed men, why will a woman you married that has nothing, came from a poor background, have the audacity to say, "I made my husband what he is today, I was with him when he had nothing" why this said man worked for his money without your efforts, is this not entitlement mentality......


Another thing I have observed around marriage is the fact that a man's money is always a woman's money, why a woman's money is only for her self only, is this not greed.....


Why the hell will I pay 1.5M to 2M for bride price just for a useless liability that has nothing to offer me in the long run, except high BP, I will always say it marriage is the biggest scam in this world.......


Most of the married men, are all crying silently, because if they knew what marriage really is they won't have gotten there self into it, marriage is a path to slavery......


I know two friends my age, suffering from marriage wahala, one came to me yesterday and was explaining his ordeal with me, telling me how his wife is good for nothing and a liability and had it been he knew, he would have remained a bachelor like me, I just smiled, I wanted to convince him to divorce, but he has five kids with his wife already..... But I will still tell him to do the needful....


So dear esteemed men be careful out there, so you don't make a terrible mistake...... Remember we are Kings.....


Bachelor For Life

This is because u are copying western idea of marriage. With African idea of marriage, u will act properly

ariesbull:
That's slave mentality...some people are designed to be slave till they die .. they are designed to earn salary and get paid till they die and not to be the ones paying

The education or training makes us agents and thinkers only..hence every one is a middleman. Education sector is bad..

FunkyJustice:
Think about how to better yourself and leave other people

of course, just that it is clear that Nigerians have an inferiority complex problem that is now a culture, entrenched in the japa spirit..

Smartguyboy:
With all that degree she will end up as a cleaner or security guard. What a pity

Nigerians are actually crazy people. I know an engineer in Nigeria who goes to sea that is now working in a nursing home in UK...I don't understand how we think

shox:
Reality don dey set in. By the time the price dey compete with cooking gas. Una eye go clear

Na Nigerian politicians way. Economic bandits...

Racoon:
Nigeria is a wacked nation. The government have so much destroyed every facets of our national life especially the health sector.

No thanks to government officials especially the seating and past presidents, Senate president, NASS members and many others go to seek healthcare in cosy foreign hospitals in advance nations.

So the mass exodus of the best brains in this nation is putting unnecessary pressure on the available hands that defied the odds to stay back.

Now another young promising brain is gone because of the failed healthcare system and administration in Nigeria. May Nigeria never happen to you to feel the pain. Rest on Dr Femi Rotifa!!!! God's console to your grieving family and associates. Adiue bro

Same scenario playing out in the telecoms sector. People being scolded on the job for sleeping and not picking calls while resting
There was a devil in human form then, Mr Voke who was so power drunk and obsessive about scam performance ratings, thereby working people to death. Telecoms power operations in Nigeria are 24hrs daily duty for those in the field..One of their top engineers slumped and died last month due to cardiac arrest

praisecity:
To be honesty, thats the truth. e be like say I will consider dat cheating because konji na bastherd and not a respecter of any man. imagine been begging for 4 months now

how ? Not possible. Another person de service her

Softmirror:
They can't eliminate the will of the people. Which is why till date Israel despite all of their so called sophistication have not been able to free Israeli hostages. Which indeed is a big shame!

if na u, u go fit? Ordinary Boko Haram and bandits de operate freely in Nigeria, una de talk cho cho cho...

Wimkeh:
If a woman starts making money, she suddenly doesn’t care about men or even procreation. But if she was still struggling, she’ll want a man to procreate with.

Could it be that God knew what he was doing when he made man the sole head? Cause it look like if women start becoming like men, they will refuse to procreate and that will lead to drop in birth rate or even extinction.

I guess my question is, why are women not as selfless as men?

Men want to make money, start a family, and pass on their wealth to their extension (offspring)

Women want to make money, not start a family, die off, and give the money back to government.

Very true observation. Reason I say women should never compare themselves to men when they make money. Dey are too selfish and they need the leadership of a man

saintkel:
u guys haven't even answered d main question.....is it normal for one partner to demand for sex everyday in a relationship/marriage?

E be like say u very sexy ooo...maybe that's why he wants sex with u everyday as long as his prick de rise every morning... And u de give am free....

She actually likes the sexual urge of the guy that is why she is giving advices a thought. She is just looking for online validation. I no de shook mouth for man and woman matter except there is physical abuse

Therock5555:
What better way is there to correct her if not by using your pipe to filter all cobwebs from down there?

The guy de avoid to correct her na...he want give her girl...imagine the fool

mightyhazel:
Only Nigeria for Africa? Haa wetin we do? No be country wen dey do well them dey hate and envy?

This is actually opposite of dislikes. These are the countries loved.

We4all:
So marriage have conditions? It is people like you that makes marriage boring and difficult.

Every thing in life has conditions....know this and know peace

Adexgentle005:
who eat what they don’t really need? It still doesn’t change the fact that transactional sex is trash. I’d rather soapy than pay such fee for.

De play. U never see fine girls

Therock5555:
Na tomboys dey sweet pass...


If you know, you know...

It is an opportunity to correct her and make her feminine. It's obvious u are a bit senseless too

JASONjnr:
She's probably not a tomboy....

But if she finds you attractive, it means you're probably her spec.

Then if you don't find her attractive, you can either use this opportunity to draw her close and try to redirect her steps and know why she dresses like that and how she should be dressing.

Point is,.you should use this moment to do the gospel.

Who knows? Maybe God wants to use you.

Best advice. It is an opportunity for u to correct her and you are sounding as if u want her to continue in that lifestyle. Reason I say Nigerians are too hypocritical

ChristCee:
Ur a worker in the house of God and you speak carelessly like this??

honestly I wonder the kjnd of people in churches nowadays.