₦airaland Forum

goran3310:
Women in general get married expecting a man to fix their life and their mistakes. To fill in their shortcomings.
That’s not a problem if the woman is 20–24 years old.
But with every passing year, those problems and shortcomings grow. A woman over 40 has her whole life behind her — a life full of traumas, disappointments, failures, frustrations. She dumps all of that in front of a man and expects him to solve it. That’s completely wrong.

Watch this couple over time — in at most two years, everything will fall apart.
A man enters a relationship or marriage to start a family and have children. To make a woman happy and to be happy himself in that marriage.
Yes — we men also want to be happy. Unbelievable, isn’t it?

A woman over 30 already has difficulties conceiving, and those over 40 have very small, almost negligible chances.
I honestly don’t know what an ordinary woman in her 40s or 50s can offer me — unless she possesses some truly exceptional qualities.

the man did her a favor. But the woman na big fine meat normally. Women are meant to be enjoyed endlessly

Justdogood:
Make this man just decamp to Apc first.
I want to know how relevant Wike is.

If this man has good advisers, let them advise him to decamp to Apc and promise to deliver Rivers State votes the Mr tinubu. I want to now see how relevant that ogogoro drinker of a minister will be relevant.

Una don start una beer parlour talk and politics of divide and rule. Allow the mana to be loyal to his master.

SpencerForbes:
So she’s celebrating her marriage🤔🤔 what happened to being independent and single lady that don’t need a man🤷‍♂️
🚶‍♂️

Not possible

Satazaa:
Nigeria is a sprawling crime scene, Smart asses have figured out another platform for defrauding millions and cashing out on them, Fintechs are renowned worldwide for thier safe and healthy returns on investments, when they are launched smart investors buys into them during initial IPOs and wait untill their share values rises and they cash out but when it comes to Nigeria with our unscrupulous ways and thinking we mess up such beautiful investments outlets

The government rewards criminality. Hence, Nigerian are very dishonest

wediehere1:
https://dailypost.ng/2025/10/21/court-sends-nnamdi-kanus-brother-lawyer-10-others-to-kuje-prison/

Nigerian govt only understands guerilla antics and tactics. Civil systems no longer work in Nigerian politics

dollynnn:
She will end up in Shiloh. We know her type.

I feel sad for ladies of the younger generation. “Wokeness”, arrogance and toxic feminism make them end up toxic and lonely at the end of the day.

By the way, is it a crime for ladies to be respectful and polite? Nothing kills a woman’s character faster than arrogance and rudeness.

This happens when they are trained by single mothers and fathers

ebubeson:
Going for altar call is one of the methods of identifying yourself as a sinner or backslider in need of repentance. It is not a way to bribe God or to pacify your guilty conscience, but an act for the purpose of repenting from sin.

If you have committed terrible sins & you are feeling so guilty, going for altar call is not a way of looking for how to make your conscience feel alright & then go back to sin after pacifying your conscience. Repentance is a change of lifestyle that is aided by the HolySpirit.

You should be determined to repent when going for altar call. After repentance, you are to stop your old evil ways, apologize & make peace with those you may have offended, study your bible regularly, pray always, attend a bible-believing church, serve God faithfully.

Repentance is a change of mindset from wickedness, pride to good attitude and positivity

dominique:
And if a woman dies in a marriage, it's still this same sets of people gaslighting women to stay in bad marriages that will berate her for dying because of marriage. Not all marriages are worth fighting for. Al

OP did say except for cases of physical abuse.

PerfectStranger:
But if rich man marry broke woman it's love and OK ,now e reach broke men turn they're hungry and angry predators

One reason I do not rate women highly is because of their hypergamous nature. A man can decide to be hypogamous but e hard for woman....

Sonnobax15:
. Eyahhhhhhhh . Pain,is that you?

Well,lemme don't reply you in a tone similar to the one in which you just did to me . Personally,my first job after my secondary school was in a lawyer's chambers...I could recur how we hardly had clients,to the extent that my boss had to close his chambers . I'm talking about a well known and respected lawyer,but he was also a contractor under an engineering site as at then..... No matter how you may try to sugarcoat or sweet-mouth it,law as a profession in Nigeria has long lost it's respect and regards..

What do people do in law? I really do not see their relevance in Nigeria. They are only used by politicians for their purposes. Otherwise , English law does not serve the masses here in Nigeria. I have a case and take it to a court where it takes 20yrs to rule over. But a political case is resolved in record time. English law is useless in Nigeria...except maybe in corporate cities like Lagos and port Harcourt where we still have registrars

CoronaVirusPro:
How do you explain to kids that people smoke, snuff cocaine and join gangs?

Shouldn’t that be of more concern than LGBTQ?

This is educated madness . LGBTQ is educated mental disorder...

EyeCumInPiece:
...and many of them are victims of mass arrest by our police in the vicinity of a crime.

No need of studying law in this country. The judiciary are a beehive of corruption and ineptitude

casdoruche:
When last did labour union fight a good fight.

Many people are languishing in various jobs

All of a sudden Labour union remembers Dangote

Let labour union fight the good fight

You now want a private entity to listen to you

When they fight as ASUU they leave out those in private universities
They leave out those in private institutions
When they fight for workers they ignore those in private sectors

Minimum wage is effective in govt jobs

The private worker still earns 30k 10k 15k and all.

Now all of a sudden Dangote refinery is now the place to fight

lol

Dangote should just open portal for employment for engineers and you will see the rate at which phd and profs will aim to get the jobs.

Nigerians want same treatment with Indians

But Nigerians have not been able to make ph and Warri work

I rather pay Indians more and get the job done

U said the truth here. Like I use to say, Nigerians are too hypocritical and that is the bane of the country and the government. Also, after theu have done all these wickedness, they will be the first to rush to Canada and western countries....tufiakwa

franklingud:
His ambition in life as a billionaire is to marry many wives.
Useless billionaire

Africans really do not have sense or is this inferiority complex. What do u think is different from polygamy and monogamy? In polygamy, the man is legally married to many women. In western monogamy, they marry divorce, remarry, divorce and repeat. Is that not polygamy in disguise? Most average westerners marry ams divorce and remarry almost immediately. It's all the same. Nigerian women should not be deceiving themselves with western ways

NiceLegs:
I will not kneel down to propose to a woman.
I will not kneel down to propose to a woman
I will not kneel down to propose to a woman.

Abraham did not kneel down to propose to Sarah
Isaac did not kneel down to propose to Rebecca
Jacob did not kneel down to propose to Rachael.

There is no where in the Bible where God in heaven commanded a man whom he created to be the head to kneel down to propose to a woman.

My father did not kneel down for my mother when he wanted to marry her.
Therefore, I will not kneel down.

These "kneeling down" has deep Spiritual implications but men don't know.

May God help you people indulging in it.

indeed that is why the women are oppressing the men in those societies where they kneel down like US and Europe. Hence the proliferation of abnormal lifestyles over there

dollytino4real:
Na choice not force, but it all boils down to the guy proposing not who is watching

The guy plait hair already so he is feminine. A man should not kneel down in Africa to be a protector and provider, never. Marriage to a lady is a call to her to join him in his life journey. Not the other way round.

dominique:
All the billions of dollars spent on renovations gone down the drain just like that

Even old cars of more than 20yrs are being resuscitated but refineries are no way...it's terrible

jojo1415:
Pikin wey go get sense and become useful is not by the type. Of money u use in training them but the impact of the schools they attend...tell me if those kids where to be on Europe or America they wil not be useful or what?

na personal training u give children nai matter, not the money used. Money is neutral

erad:
Does he realize prostitution is illegal in Nigeria?

What will ever prompt anyone to post something like this online? I'll be waiting for the thread where he has been arrested for human trafficking and exploitation because I don't understand how a grown ass man can't do his things on the low key. Common sense is truly not common.

Nigerians no get sense again...
Everything online haba

Tito24:
I don't like the idea of having a husband running such business

He probably sleeps with the women. I think that's what this woman has in mind as well...what kind of woman would be proud to say her husband does that kind of business

Money is money but the way you earn it matters especially when you have children

seems that in Nigeria, this point does not matter any more oooo...people do a lot of things for money

Wike is the governor of FCT and Rivers now. Just that to serve Wike no easy o...the guy is deeply autocratic

saintkel:
Guess u didn't even read it at all...cos it's not about religion here but her principles....she did set standards for herself I guess.....that's way wrong.....when u set standards for urself.....loosen up especially when a man is close u....don't be too tough....men hate tough girls

A terrible reality. Why should a lady be tough? It baffles me too

DSS1335:
What are they doing thanksgiving for? For successfully cashing out billions of our money meant to pay contractors handling the ring road project that was suspended by the sole administrator? Hmm! If I were Fubara I will probe the sole administrator 6 months rules and challenge the federal government imposition in the supreme Court. That wasted 6 months must be taken into consideration during the next guber elections as Rivers state won't be participating until after 6 months. Fubara should be prepared for showdown because we Rivers people will stand by him. Those that took part in the Wike nominated LGA elections are less than 20% of his former 200,000 SA

Rivers people are conquered species

thewinning101:
I've been seeing some funny commentary from Nigerians and africans saying that Charlie Kirk is a racist and he doesn't like immigrants.

What Charlie Kirk said:
Black people are 12% of the American population but commit about 60% of the total murders in America.

There are other factors involved but the most noticeable one is the absense of fathers in black children's lives and the increase of single mother homes from 25% in 1960 to 75% in 2025.


Please can someone tell me the racism in above statement. It's just like somebody saying Africa's problem is bad leadership and the next thing someone starts calling the person a tribalist or a hater.

About immigration:

Charlie Kirk said:
Kirk has repeatedly said that serious reforms are needed for both illegal and legal immigration.
He argues that the southern border, especially due to cartel involvement, has become a security threat that demands stronger measures.

Now the immigration part is also funny to me cos there are certain people who preach unity, diversity, blah blah blah in the morning in Nigeria yet in the evening they start saying "Igbos must leave Lagos". Telling taxpayers to leave a certain part of the country cos you feel they are voting a certain way.


So there you have it. Nigerians who are confused, please tell me which part of Charlie Kirk's statements made him a racist

na today u know say Nigerians are very hypocritical?

tunjijones:
I am sure fubara is planning to fight back in 2027.

But someone shd tell him that he will still fail.

He who wants to dine with the devil shd use a long spoon. You know how wicked wike is and you went to dine with him.

The truth is that Wike will still give him second term...he is the only that can respect Wike

LagosOrigin:
Yeye people , creating avenue to steal more funds. They are never satisfied with all that they've stolen already. They must steal more with projects that probably won't be completed forever.

This umahi na big thief. Weti we no go fit sustain or maintain na him de build... criminality at its peak...he built a useless airport in ebonyi too...what a catastrophe!

WriterrNg:
World power in what world? Inside your papa house I guess.

After arresting 2 innocent people. And a whole day passed without even knowing who the shooting was.

Even Nigerian police would have performed better.

Nigerian and hypocrisy

CoronaVirusPro:
A good one! Trump is now learning and working at the same pace with His Excellency, President Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu (GCFR).

Hoping they get it right and mitigate against future occurrence by revising gun laws.

No civilian should have access to a military grade rifle or accessories .

U de high on kolos?

erad:
All these stupid, nonsense records.

Indians have been cooking way larger quantities of rice in aluminum pits for years and they never made it a record. These ones will just see something and abuse it at every opportunity they get.

Very nonsense mentality.

I don't blame them though, I blame a country of jobless folks that will keep sucking up to them out of laziness and joblessness. They are people actually affecting lives positively but no, it's some useless acts and people we'll rather promote and give popularity.

SMH!

The Nigerian society empowers nonsense instead of sustenable productivities

hharsnan:
this not a skit actually happened @ LASU . i witnessed it cause i signed out on the same day ...

For real? This is bad. So the guy no know say them no de trade girl wey no be ur wife? Very sorry for him...but that was stupid of him except he did not plan to marry her...