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Goodmarlian:
Early last month I met this girl on campus where I work in one of Lagos prestigious higher Instititions,the time I met her she was sick and had no one to support her, I was a bit okay financially so I bought her drugs and food steadily until she got better,her parents were late as she narrated to me and she was staying with her aunt and the aunt wasnt financially stable to sponsor her education so she really struggled In school to keep up,Infact the aunty wants her to drop out of school and face her hair dressing skill until when they are financially stable because it was becoming difficult for her but this girl stubbornly refused and insist she will continue with school which I felt was a courageous decision from her.

I really liked the girl and she herself was also In Love with me due to me being caring towards her,and we were really attached to each other however things got bad ever since she started working in one hair saloon inside campus, her female co-workers are beginning to Influence her negatively, I feel there is this coworker of hers that encourages her to start billing me heavily that I have money ,suddenly she started feeling entitled, if I give her money to go eat she no longer says thank you, she will just grab the money from me and move, sometimes she will deep her hands in my pocket and remove money which I really hate. I started to think I am training a baby tiger that will hurt me later.


One day I sat down and thought about my relationship with her, I removed the orphan sentiment and asked myself, what if I am in the same shoes with her will she consider me as a worthy partner? That was when I came to my senses,omo na so I decide to dump her shaparly,in the evening that day she called I refuse to pick, she waited for me in our usual spot I refuse to show up, she asked my friends to call me I refuse to go. Them she finally came to Confront me to ask me what happened I told her I am passing through a lot and needed space she left immediately, I noticed she was depressed throughout that week, I cannot use my money to train up an upcoming entitled gold digger that will later hurt me women are something else.

Nice decision. Men should begin to wise up. Don't date broke girls. Date girls from relatively rich families...it helps alot

coputa:
Drop it in a fixed deposit account with any of the strong banks, Zenith, Access,UBA, First bank etc.

not at all....put in a money market fund

ajalawole:
Bybit has been full of scammers those days.. Better use some trusted Chinese dealers.

Thank u for this expose... unfortunately my bank acceded to make me lose my funds inspite of all the evidence sent to them. Though I have refused to accept the restriction since January this year...

xynerise:
While petrol price is decreasing, transport fare is increasing

Economics doesn't work in Nigeria

Nigerian economics is mad. Flour price has dropped. Bread price has not dropped. Same with transport fares even with the price wars

LibertyRep:
This script is too obvious.

Chase the competitors out with the price war, take control of the entire structure and thereafter become a monopolistic thing god.

The government and the relevant regulatory agencies should do their duties and enforce fair play.

In all, may Nigerians be favoured.

I wish the regulatore can be forthright like NCC who made communication very affordable. The petroleum regulatos have really failed the citizens

jesusjnr2020:
What I Did After Seeing 10+ Opened Porn Sites On Browser Of Phone I Was Gifted

I recently shared the testimony of how I was gifted 2 smartphones after resisting the temptation of misplaced smartphone I saw while shopping in Bokku Mart, despite being in serious need of one myself after mine had crashed.

https://www.nairaland.com/8576404/resisting-temptation-what-did-after

However when i first opened the chrome browser of the first smartphone i was given, i saw it was a porn site on the address bar of the first tab and immediately tried to delete it before it opened.

But after it deleted, i saw that the next one was also a porn site, and the next one after i deleted that one, until i had deleted over 10 of them which had lined up one after the other.

I did it instinctively without thinking much about it, until several days later when I realised what I had actually done, considering my past history of addiction to porn and masturbation.

It also came to my mind during my prayer time, while I was praying for God to deliver me from the spirit of sexual lust, because I remembered how what I did with those porn sites, seemed as a distant and unrealistic dream at the time, because of how much I struggled with such things whenever I came across them.

Even if I had managed to stay away from them and not masturbated for a while, that would usually mark the end of my resistance journey, as I would consequently suffer a relapse after watching it and have to start from scratch all over again.

But here I was instinctively deleting the porn sites on a mobile phone browser without even taking much thought about it, until I would later recall how hard it was for me to encounter such without being enticed or tempted by it.

It was a huge testament of where God had brought me from when I started praying that particular prayer point, while struggling with porn and masturbation, to the point now where masturbation is now history and only a thing of my distant past, that even when i came across porn sites like that on a phone browser or elsewhere, it won't even have a single effect on me, talk less of suffering a relapse because of them.

Hence I marvelled while yet praying that prayer point, at the great work God had done for me, bringing me from that miserable point I was when I started praying that prayer point, to where I was now still praying the same prayer, because the difference was glaring and astonishing.

However I'm not there yet, because my dream is to get to the point of Adam and Eve in the beginning before their fall, and also Jesus, where lust was 0%.

I believe it would bring more glory to God, hence won't stop disturbing God until He grants that desire of my heart.

God bless.

I am sure the reason u re able to kill it is that u have other activities taking ur time and attention. Masturbation and watching porn is largely due to redundancy and inactivity

Deepspirituals:
Welcome New Tax ...More Sufferings to Nigeria .More to come... Renewed Hope of Sufferings was Promised it's being Fulfilled..

It must not work

Rareoil:
unfortunately, this is likely it.
export to china is also likely rare earth metal they are mining here, like lithium in ebonyi state.

Propanda govt. Everything increasing but they are borrowing heavily too. What a govt

Seefinish:
The next thing Fubara should do is to assemble his men to impeach the Speaker and the Deputy Speaker, then elect from his own camp, Speaker and Deputy Speaker. That will automatically end the reign of Wike

una don start. Masturbating and starting a war u cannot finish

LagosOrigin:
Omo , E be like sey Fubara isn't a weakling o, he outsmarted Wike.

With defection, Fubara now has the full ears and support of the president ..he cant he tossed around again by Wike.

Fubara is now the leader of APC in Rivers state .

people should leave Rivers matter. None can tell for now

olaiya2007:
Fubara has outsmarted wike... Or could it be he has the the green light from wike... Interesting times ahead

Let's assume he has the greenlight from Wike. Wike is playing a politics unheard of in Nigeria. Let's keep taking notes. Time will tell.

Blitzking:
These days girls no dey find pay as you go..they prefer being side chick where dem fit ask for favour or borrow to pay back..them dey ready to satisfy you as you want.

For real

GOFRONT:
GodBless Natasha............This is what Akpabio cannot do in his constituency.


Thank you Natasha........Akpabio will never in his entire life see the shadow of the color of your pantees.

nonsense talk...u can't imagine the impact of Akpabios administration as a governor on the lives of obomites in this country. He changed their lives

LagosOrigin:
This is an insult to our military forces and the president.

Serious insult...

nicholasdavout:
Niger Delta Situation Room
12 Pipeline Road, Iriebe, Port Harcourt Rivers State.


Amaechi's Charity Must Begin from Home.


Last week, the apex socio-cultural organisation of the northern region, the Arewa Consultative Forum (ACF) celebrated it's Silver Jubilee with the launching of an Endowment Fund intended to support the socio-economic development of Northern Nigeria, focusing on initiatives in education, healthcare, and infrastructure.

This is a model in civic contribution to the development of a people. The event drew in northern leaders from all walks of life and politicians from other regions, who all contributed generously to the endowment fund. Among the politicians who thonged the even in Kaduna and doled out a sizeable amount of money (30 million naira) is our own son and brother, Chibuike Rotimi Amaechi, former governor of Rivers State and former Minister for Transport.

Ordinarily, this charitable gesture would have earned Rotimi Amaechi accolades, but for the cliché, charity begins at home.

Amaechi has always pandered to northern interests in furtherance of his ambition to be president of Nigeria. In pursuit of this quest, Amaechi's charity has always been estranged and divorced from his people.

As governor of Rivers state, Amaechi emptied the coffers of Rivers state, first in funding the N-PDP and in bankrolling the presidential campaign of former President Mohammadu Buhari. In pursuit of his own selfish interest, Amaechi disrespected the family of former President Goodluck Jonathan and actively actively sabotaged the Jonathan presidency. In a celebrated event Amaechi as governor breached protocol during a commissioning ceremony in Okrika by openly snatching a microphone from the hands of Mrs Patience Jonathan. He later abandoned the First Lady at the event and drove back to Port Harcourt. This is the same Amaechi that kneels, bows and kowtows to northern leaders at every given occasion.

For his efforts in sabotaging a sitting south-south president and slavish endorsement of northern agenda and wrecking the treasury of Rivers state, Amaechi was rewarded with the portfolio of Ministry of Transport. His ruinous and deleterious record as a so called Super Minister has become kegendary. His first salvo against the people of the south-south region was his unsuccessful move to relocate the Maritime University of Nigeria, from Okerenkoko, in Delta State. Citing all manner of baseless and surreptitious excuses, fought against the entire region in his bid to relocate the university and pander to the whims of his masters. The spirited and stout resistance of the entire region was whSt saved the day. The university remained in Okerenkoko to Amaechi's consternation.

Amaechi's entire tenure as Transport Minister was used to wage war against southern interest. He identified and cancelled all the contracts being handled in the ministry and it's parastatals and agencies by prominent southern leaders. His goal was simple: destroy all businesses and economic foundation of key southern leaders. He destroyed the business of late Capt. Hosa Okunbor, because according to Amaechi, "how can only one man be making that kind of money". Hosa Okunbors' Offshore Marine Services Limited (OMSL). OMSL operated the Lagos Safe Anchorage Area (SAA) under contract for the Nigeria Ports Authority. Having coveted the business Amaechi cancelled the contract and gave it to his cronies and Isreali fronts under a nebulous Deep Blue Project. Please from the Nigerian Senate, Nigerian Navy and industry stakeholders on Amaechi to reverse his action fell on deaf ears. Hosa Okunbor died heartbroken.

Contacts awarded by NPA to Brawal Shipping Line, owned by Rivers born Chief Victor Odili were cancelled. The Calabar towage contract awarded to another Rivers born businessman, which has been running for years, was cancelled by Amaechi. Ironically most of the contacts cancelled by Amaechi, were awarded by Northerners during their tenure. But Amaechi who would not have any southerner of equal means and status, in the region, made sure that by the time he was done as Minister of Transport, no southern had any reasonable contract except for the paltry pittances he awarded to his cronies.

Throughout Amaechi's tenure as Minister of Transport the Eastern Rail Corridor was abandoned, while he was busy building railways in the North and South West. The Lagos -Ibadan railway line was built. The Abuja Kaduna rail line was built. The Kano-Maradi rail line was awarded. These rail projects remain the costliest in Africa. But in Amaechi's home region not a single track of the modern rail line was built. The old colonial narrow gage rail line could not even be maintained. The existing rail line runs from Port Harcourt to Aba! From Aba to Maiduguri, there is no single line of rail track existing, as the rail tracks were ripped and sold as scrap by Amaechi's cronies. The rest of the equipment were cannibalized by scavengers.

Throughout Amaechi's years as a so called super minister, no southerner benefitted from any key or significant political appointment at the federal level. His fabled closeness to late President Buhari was only used to further his own personal interests and political schemes. Unlike what currently where an army of Rivers and South -South sons and daughters are manning key and sensitive positions at the federal level, Amaechis' tenure was a period of political drought and famine.


It is not on record that Amaechi has ever made any donation or supported the activities of such south organisations as PANDEF, Ogbakor Ikwerre etc.

It would have been expected that after his disastrous tenure as Minister and his equally disastrous presidential bid, that Amaech by way of atonement would have started to join hands with other leaders of the South South to plan for the Future and development of the zone, the way the Arewa Consultative Forum has been doing for the north.

But in his usual narcissistic behavior Amaechi has continued to wallow in self delusion that he can actualize his ambition by neglecting and underdeveloping his region while championing the cause of others. Charity as the say must surely begin from home.

We congratulate the Arewa Consultative Forum, on their Silver Jubilee and successful launch of the Endowment Fund aimed at the socio-economic development of Northern Nigeria, focusing on initiatives in education, healthcare, and infrastructure. This is the stuff leadership is made off. Leaders must serve and project the interests of their people and not chase some fabled and fangled ambitions.

When the time comes our message to leaders like Amaechi who has serially betrayed and mortgaged the south south region, is simply, THE SOUTH REMEMBERS.

Udofia Aniekan
Scribe.

Well written. Amaechi has consistently been wicked to the south..Wike is a better politician than him..

insidelife22:
Only God know wetin (Pot and table)smoke this afternoon.
Maybe na colos mixed with meth(mkpurumili)

jchioma:
Omoh! This life nor really balance o!

If not love of power and its perks, is this not enough reason to respect yourself and resign?

he definitely has to do so

BizzyJuel:
The truth is a lot of devil's are roaming about in RCCG as Pastors. This is because RCCG just ordains every dick and harry as M.O.G, once you get M.K.O. you are good to go.
Too bad

That church na business churcj...so long money de, u are covered

Fake new. Nothing like this happened

FreeStuffsNG:
Awesome!! This is absolutely brilliant 👏

There has been clamor for this for long but unlike his predecessors, Asiwaju Tinubu provided alternatives to protecting these important Nigerians.

The police officers are clearly underutilized as bodyguards. NSDC will need to recruit more as it is taking up more assignments from mining marshals now to VIP security.

nscdc are largely useless mining marshals. Tantita did a far better job

I don't think there is a president. If it were Wike I go believe

MT:
If you have a clear evidence of genocide, you approach the UN. No country is allowed to stand up to fight in another country, uninvited. That’s called an invasion.

There are global institutions that deal with such cases like World Court.

I am so surprised that you guys don’t even understand the basics. Like I asked earlier, how much would you be contributing to the US to fund the war? Don’t you know the US govt will be using their own taxpayer’s money.m? You want war without contributing a dime.

Jester

all what u have said are basically called being politically correct. But in actual sense, political correctness is what has reduced Nigeria to the disgraceful level it is today. If US threat is what is required to stop this evil menace from the government, so be it. Enough is enough

MT:
Irrespective of what happens in Nigeria, the US has no legal right to say they want to launch military attack on another country uninvited

The US created the global rule-based system which Trump is currently destroying. There are diplomatic channels that countries use to communicate. No sane country comes to social media to plan war.

When US voted a convict as President, no one talked. When guns are killing them in their thousands, no country threatens to attack the US. US and any allies help is welcome but not through disrespect. Right approach has to be done.

Mad people talking. Clear case of genocide and ethnic cleansing with wanton terrorism being denied by a government within a territory and they should not be called to order? A government which have been quiet and not dealing with the terrorists with clear brutality and precision? The terrorist have declared war on the country by killing a brigadier general yet guys like u are quiet about the situation What data boys?

ebukal67x:
The peace deal was the best option under the current circumstances.

peace deal with criminals? Na Israel missiles fit the north...haba

Gotocourt:
Complete state capture , Gumi is pushing for Arabic curriculum.

Tinubu doesn't have balls for declaring State of Emergency .

APC/HAMAS/TALIBAN are all the same thing 📌💯

Are we sure Tinubu is still alive. The silence is deafening

Osai1758:
What a life,,, honestly I think the whole country now is on fire we are being surrounded by this terrorists,they are gradually taking over this country 😭😭😭😭

every one should be prepared for war with terrorist. It is really looking like a jihad

immortalcrown:
Meaning that any man that earns more than you do should disrespect you and should not hesitate to dump you when he finds a lady that earns more than you.

What is good for the goose is also good for the gander.

Correct cos it really intrigues me how women live in denial of reality.

chatinent:
To the Nigerian govt, he is more of a threat than Islamic terrorists.

The hypocrisy of the government is alarming. Haba

CodeTemplarr:
If we allow a section of the country get brainwashed with the idea of unsustainable entitlements. The following are what we shall get.

Entitlement to take another life based on religion tribe and state of origin.
Entitlement to the natural resources of another tribe or region backed by the idea of conquest within a sovereign entity.
Entitlement to kill offsprings of spared/survivor souls from the losing side of an ancient war.
Entitlement to use a local but unofficial langiage after a borrowed one has been agreed in law.
Entitlement to steal public funds because the bulk of it comes from regions considered conquered in a civil war.

USA has done the right thing here.

Everything about Islam seems to be evil...na wa oooo

MaxInDHouse:
This guy had the intention of starting his own church business but most people may not see it.
Initially he was with Kumuyi but realized that there is no chance of becoming popular in Kumuyi's church so he decided to leave for Adeboye church where people will know and recognize him that's when he told Adeboye that Kumuyi said Adeboye is teaching heresy and after becoming famous through Adeboye church he decided to start his own then he said Adeboye laid a curse on him.
Gullible people may be carried away with their stories but if you look critically into the matter you will see that they are not believers in Christ rather they're all worshipers of Mammon seeking worldly riches! Matthew 6:24

Bakare na evil man normally. He is part of the foundational problem of this country

sweerychick:
Hmm Wike really messed up. His utterances was uncalled for, he just disgraced himself, instead of engaging higher military hierarchy to address the issue diplomatically he felt like a demigod until he met his match.

But again, as much as Wike is an arrogant silly egoistic chump, why is Burutai quick to release a statement? Why hasn't he made a statement against bandits and insecurity in the country then he is quick to release about this incident

Northerners have PHD both in theory and practice for hypocrisy