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aboyaji:
Some people are not well raised.

I had sometime last year sat my brother down. He's older than I am o. No be taata.

I told him it's still early to end this thing with that girl since he's yet to pay her bride price. Girl that makes him feel uneasy. Because she has your child. She calls to check where you are every minute.

There was a time she asked him to go home that it was late, while my brother was hanging out with friends. She wasn't in the same state with him o. Haha

She gets her phone subscribed every 2 days because she spends all her time online doing tiktok and video calls. This is not a hearsay or accusations. It is what's happening.

The same week she put to bed in her hometown, she asked for data money from my brother to post a new video she made while on wrappers in her house. She was even dancing. I said to myself, na wa o! A nursing mother?

I don't even view her post because it contains videos from tiktok. Na wife be this abi?

aboyaji:
Dont bother yourself. Your brother go soon tire. But pls make aure you lwave him to clean up his own mess cos it is about coming with so much costs and consequences including your pocket















You people don't just read and start typing. Most of you commenters have no such experience, nor very close family. I'll buttress this.

I have 4 brothers and a sister including myself which is 5 guys and a girl (totalling 6 people) in my family.

Our 3rd bro is married to a very lovely girl. She accommodates everyone. She was very young when she came into our family (20). She even calls me her husband and I call her my wife. I'm always confident and comfortable calling her by such name because she's worth it and more. We talk on video calls all the time unending.

She always asks us when next we'd visit. She should be 25 or 26 now. Her husband is financially stable. We all could visit at once and she'd accommodate us all. Mind you, we're all grownups. No issues whatsoever. Our eldest brother is too proud of her. He should be 40 soon.

Our 2nd brother is the one in the mess now. He has a baby mama. Now, the girl wants to be converted to a wife by all means. But before that, here's the story....

I shared an apartment with this our 2nd brother. We did things together. We shared rents together. Cook and eat together until he got a girl pregnant. Because of this, I moved out and started living with a friend to give them space since he had to take care of the girl. One day, due to some irregularities in my friend's house, I couldn't bath their at the time. I took a bike to my brother's place (our shared apartment) to have a quick bath only and get to work early. I met this girl alone in the house. I told her my intentions and situations on ground for coming and I didn't visit frequently since I moved. Guess what she said; "you'll replace the water after taking your bath". I was shocked.

I took my bath and left. One other time, I had a particular cloth I wanted to wear to work. I remembered I had left it in that our shared apartment. I went their to get it. On reaching the apartment, I told her why I came. I went in, opened the wardrobe. Behold, this girl left what she was doing, came and stood behind me to see what I was taking. Me?

Then I opened the fridge to pick a satchet of water, she moved toward the fridge to still know what I was picking. I was mad internally. I didn't speak of it. I called my brother and told him all of those she did. My brother said it's not a serious something.

Now, I live in my own home alone. The girl had put to bed and I hadn't seen their child. This new year, the came back from the East with the new child. My brother called that they're back. I said I'd come see them officially. That is my duty.

Same day, same night, I took my woman to greet them from a distance I live. On reaching, I didn't meet my brother but the lady and child. She barely opened the door. I even asked her to open the door that I'd stay till my brother came back. She barely opened her mouth to greet us. After that, she didn't say anything again. No "welcome take seat". No "will you guys drink water"?

We stood until I motioned my woman to sit after pulling out a seat behind the door. I sat on the floor.

The lady didn't say anything. She was just watching some TV programs. A small girl of 22-23 ooo!!! Shortly, she saw the footwear I came in with and said "you came in with shoe into our house". I was like

I waited patiently. Shortly, she stood up, grabbed a broom and started sweeping the already neat floor at that time of the night. That was when I stood up and went outside. My woman followed suit.

We were outside in the night by 10pm till my brother came back. We went in. My brother had to go to the kitchen to make eba for everyone to eat. Her baby mama wife-to-be sat doing nothing. The baby was even sleeping. We ate, gisted and went home.

I know my brother won't see anything bad in whatsoever she does. He grants all her requests. He even calls us and ask us to please call her wife from time to time. Who does that? You don't force love.

None of my family members welcome her presence in the family at this moment.

Her problem is always telling my brother that she'd take flight to her family house. She'd take flight to some other location. My brother, who's a hustling guy for that matter. The last rent he paid was 130k and he didn't pay once.

Biodun556:
Mike just got involved for the first time

Hyperchi:
Like the one representing Sunday, wa done japa , but mike still da with him client

Injera:
You said well known fact?? Why do you continue to make baseless, spurious claims. A criminal Tried and convicted where?? Continue to stew in your collective hate for Tinubu and all that he represents. A man that worked with renowned international companies including an oil company you misrepresent by assassinating his character. Moreover Tinubu never governed any ibo state

Injera:
Your attack on Tinubu lacks merit and is purely on Tribalism. Hypocrisy

KoshCAD:
Shut up, you are igbo, we know you people. Stop denying being OSU.

Say it with pride, no one will kill you.

I did not assume, I know you are OSU ni.

SmartPolician:
You can only say that if you don't live in Lagos or you are a paid agent. Tinubu removed Ambode because the governor refused to dance to his tunes. The day Sanwo-Olu stops taking instructions from Tinubu, he will lose his gubernatorial position. Sanwo-Olu is a man with a good heart but only a puppet who takes instructions from Tinubu.

Tinubu understands his people so well. The Yorubas tend to respect elders or their benefactors even when the elder is wrong (servitude). This is worrisome. That's what works for Tinubu in the region and he has grown to become powerful in Lagos - even though he's no longer the governor. This, no doubt, cannot work in South East and most states in South South; thanks to cultural differences.

LegendHero:
Like I said, Obi Pandora is just a pretender and a worthless common criminal. His mates are strategically campaigning to the grassroots, he is wasting his time away on Twitter. Such an unserious politician.

He will always say he has no money and next time we see him having Pandora companies all about.

He has no balls and knows he won’t even make the 8th position in PDP primaries so he is waiting patiently till Atiku declares so he can deputize him as usual.

Before he show face, he should tell us why he sponsored the massacre of his people in Awkusu.

adamsmith914:
Hypocrites like you, ok he should have sent Army to guide all the forest in Nigeria?

Why did you not make yourself available & join the security forces since we are short on man power? Coward.

MyVILLAGEpeople:
I’m not from Abia, but I know Abia state very well. My friends over the years are from there.

Injera:
Deep down in your heart you know an ibo man can never smell presidency

MyVILLAGEpeople:
Nwannem I don’t like Tinubu eaither. But let’s start Campaigning for our Candidate too. But the Situation In Abia calls for serious concerns. Nothing is literally working in Abia state.

Eriokanmi:
That was the day he handed over power to him and the hosts of heaven approved it without him knowing. I doubt if the former gov ever knew he'd be the one to succeed him back then. God is great

omenkaLives:
Abia state, inherited from crook to crook. But na Tinubu be their greatest problem.

Chimookigwe:
Abians are very stupid people. They see good candidates but go out of their ways to vote for animals because he is from their side.

YorubaKing:
Your mentality is un-Nigerian and as a result too progressive!

Majority of Nigerians can't and won't comprehend what you wrote up there. They'll rather attack you.

Injera:
Deep down in your heart you know an ibo man can never smell presidency

Bridget95:
we can't continue in the past ,there is a campaign to get a vibrant, energetic and young leader for Nigeria. We do not need the old demented men who have looted and mismanaged states .

nokspos:
no be lie, most people don't know history of this man, he's educated, he's one of the very few nigerians that can give 2 hours speach without using manuscript or teleprompter. This man is the only reason why some of us was able to go to good school in lagos

trutharena:
Asiwaju is our president come 2023.

Signed and sealed!!!

orikoku:
Nothing is worth dying for. The said girl will continue with her life. Rip hero.

Angelfrost:
This is unnecessary... He ought to maintain a low profile na!

Nokio1:
Eye service

obembet:
One thing I know it's that it's either Rivers state people continue with black soot or bad boy, criminals , arm robbers, kidnappers come back the state. People that leave in Rivers that can confirmed that we have been enjoying peace from this people cos of this bad business.. I just hope government with take care of everything.

God bless Rivers State

Thunder fire Buhari and his supporters

SamuelLoch:
What are they doing exactly in those photos? Refining oil locally?

realstars:
All i see is the none lazy youths working hard to earn a living in a hard and narrow way. but dangerous to life of others.

Thank GOD Dangote's refinary will soon open, call all this people and employ them. They have the knowlage and idear of good production.
that's my thought,

chamboy:
And igbo people wants us to trust them with Presidency. Igbo haf a lot to learn from Yoruba

Genero100:
Its easy to assume an Osibanjo at the helm of affairs in Nigeria would mean a better Nigeria by all standards.

seunmsg:
This should answer the question of how Tinubu made his money. Baba has been a millionaire in dollars since his private sector days. Atiku on the other hand should come out and tell us how he made his first million. He should explain to Nigerians how an ordinary custom officer retired into billions of dollars.