shamecurls:
Use her for money rituals

Acidosis:
Women say similar thing to men everyday and we get over it. A woman will insult you today, tell you hurtful things but after a while, you get a yes. Some even go to the extreme by giving you a thousand reasons they won't date you. We have seen women who told us they can never date us in this life but turned out as wives (some as one night stand).

Some women never thought they could date a short man but las las, they married short men. Your wife needs to come out of that euphoria and embrace the hard reality.

Truth is we don't always get that flying specs we all had at infancy. Maturity and experience have played a major role on our choices. This is the message she needs to hear. Words spoken cannot be unsaid but a lot can be done to win her over.

This is not a time to beg please. Begging at this point will drive her further away from you. Just tell her that while her type was never your choice years ago, meeting her changed your life and perception for good. Make her realize she made you the man you are today, and you wouldn't wish for any other. When you sink in this kind of message to her subconscious with all sense of seriousness and truth, her love for you authomatically doubles.

You are mouthed!

The lady is on an ego-trip and being manipulative and the guy is playing to her gallery revealing his weakness

healthserve:





The summary of everything is he destroyed her ego, esteem, confidence and intact he built the marriage on deceit.


The only way to get Op out of this is that he goes back to the basics, foundation and start rebuilding.


As of now, the previous template was destroyed. Trust shattered, marriage picture completely done with too



The way out is like you pointed revisiting the basics


He has a lot of work to do first on her, before the marriage. Word damages, word can rebuild, albeit with time.


He's gotta invest energy, words, moments and speak even foolishly how he loves her and wouldn't trade her for someone else, as of the moment her body maybe there, but the psychological effect has dealt a serious blow to her. She's damaged psychologically, and her actions, though mentioned by a few as passive aggressive is not hers, but the aftermath of the broken spirit. Her spirit is broken and needs to be attended to.


Dude needs physical,spiritual, thereputic healing for his wife.

I recommend he reports he gets both himself and his wife a counselor and then a spiritual aauthirity she won't take offense if he tables the matter to, to help the healing process. If she finds cause to regain her spark in the marriage, then She'll come out of the shock and better. Otherwise the woman in question is to shocked by the event to want to find pleasure and joy again in the relationship. And God help him she isn't planning something beneath the niceities. Dude got himself served big time.





Dude has to start all over. The previous marriage ended with those words.

Make una stop to dey overhype these nonsense na!

Women say worse in dating and marriage than men and men still move on.

The lady is just a a sensitive and manipulative little prick. What happened to the oath of "For better for worse"?

Na was for una, ndi broken self-esteem and spirituality.

OP, don't play into the blue pill nonsense a lot of people are suggesting here.

You said some hurtful things to the one you loved right? Well everyone does.

And you did the best to apologise. Mature.

If she has swore an oath of "till death do us apart" and she can't "forgive" you or whatever the term, these fools use, then ignore the bîtch.

Give her the silent treatment and earn your dignity back. She is only guilt-tripping you and having fun with the game. The social intelligence of women is top notch.

The world today, is pussifying a lot of men.

Hedonisco:


I heard about one riff raff a few years ago who impersonated Mike Adenuga's PA on Facebook. The idiot had bleeped more than 45 women (if not more), married and single, all shapes and sizes, before he was busted. Each of the bleeped singles and married dumbos paid for the hotel rooms where the fucking took place, and also paid him small 'processing fees' after the bleeps to get contracts from Glo.

Guess why he was even caught? Because he was taking nude pictures of ALL the victims, and later started using the naked pictures (of somebody's wife and girlfriend) to blackmail them and demand ransoms to prevent posting the pictures online.

So if he had only been doing this for the Bleep trips alone, he could even have bleeped thousands of these useless Nigerian women by now without any worries.

And na these same women go dey form 'what do you take me for' and 'excuse me, duh' for one mumu gentleman somewhere.

Lol. Thank God for my life. These women ain't shit. Most of them. Don't dignify them at all at all.

I'm not surprised at this.

Don't call those guys riff-raffs. As a matter of fact, I respect them for exposing them to be real piece of shit

Sadly, a lot of our men are pussying up everyday making this women prey on them. You go see cheap puusy wey many niggas don fûck tire, dey give some nice guys problems and these foolish nice guys full nairaland.

Go romance section, you go pity some of our young guys wey suppose dey use their youthful time and energy, hustle hard and catch fun, dey lament about bitchès wey brothers don straff tire.

Hedonisco:
This is why I have a big problem with most women. They are generally daft, penny wise, and pound foolish. If you think being a proper responsible gentleman gets you any credits with these women, my brother na mumu you be. You go chop remnants tire, while scoundrels like this would chop the real meat come leave expensive leftovers for you.

Real talk!

Na foolish men dey hype ladies.

Most ladies are born dumb!

Alashoalash10:
is the killer using juju to take the ladies to hotel ?

I doubt it.

There are several loopholes a serial killer exploits to kill so much people, even in the developed world.

Here it's easier considering the greed of our ladies and an unprofessional police force.

I suspect the individual flash enough cash to attract these poor and greedy young ladies, gains their confidence and even gets them to pay for the hotel room. He murders them for whatever reason known to him and slips out of the hotel quietly.

IGBOSON1:


Don’t be surprised if it’s one of the ‘expatriates’ (Arab, Chinese, etc) that is secretly a racist!

I rule this out. He would easily be noticeable. Most likely an African.

My suspicion points at a very smart, bored, rich and quiet dude taking out his frustration on women of easy virtue who may have done something bad to him.

He is also likely to have been educated outside the country and familiar with serial murder culture such as novels, movies and stories of real-life characters.

Sadly, he would explore our society's weakness to kill more ladies across different locations without suspicion such as:

Greedy young ladies
Lack of CCTV in hotels
Unprofessional police force
An emotional/unintelligent populace not familiar with serial murders.

It was the same way we did with, terrorism, kidnapping and suicide thinking they are strictly western world problems, some years back. Now, they have become common place in our society and we are not prepared to manage it like it's done over there.

StrikeBack:

Low budget Agricultural equipment

It's about 84, 000 after the necessary deductions have been made

Can this ugly, hypocritical, greedy bitch just shut the fûck up?

You have no moral standing to criticize a trashy government.

You and the FG are the cut out from the same trashy fabric!

The private security must be investigated thoroughly.

I see some connivance with these car thieves

Wanity:


Is better to die in silence these days than to associate with some neighbours nowadays

I started living alone in 2017.

The best years of my life.

When I was with friends/families, na so so stress, wahala

Another opportunity to loot and waste our time as usual.

Common national ID card hasn't been ready since 2012

Yeye People!

wickyyolo:
So i no go knack SA babes now.
Which kind wahala be dis

To carry HIV dey hungry dis one. Oponu!

ola33t:


Honestly I've always wondered why majority of people in life enjoy servitude, worshiping and being underneath their fellow humans. The worst is enjoying wasting one's own life and using it to food to others.
Some people hailing davido and receiving free slaps. Don't they think of becoming a celeb too?
Why do majority of people enjoy being under and wasting their lives to the profit of others.
Anyway, maybe it's the destiny of majority of people that they came to life to serve others.
If there are no million fans, how will one person become a celebrity? If there are no many slaves, how will one become master?

It's human nature.

90% of humans would love to "follow" rather than lead.

Strive to be the leader of your pack

Frankiss44:
And one seunmsg or what is his name was busy spamming the other thread denying that the governors did attend the forum..


I just tire for all these people.. What has happened to your conscience for Christ sake?

Why una dey always make parochial party mórons, popular.

APC and PDP supporters here are perennial fools

Jaruma, better name her "Tacha"

Another "hoe" in the making!!

ola33t:


Jobless soul all litered all over NL and social media.

All they do is wake up in a day and head on to NL, post and gather likes and shares.

80% of world population exist to be useless and serve the remaining 20%.

As usual, Na Seun and im dumb "muds" go cash out las las, as long as "traffic" caused by these types, dey.

Sonfethopia:
If south Africans listen to the teachings of lucky dube and nelson Mandela. Africa will be a great place to live.

Surprising enough, both would be disappointed at the current negroes that make up, the present black south africa.

As a matter of fact, the former lost his life because his murderers thought he looked like a Nigerian.

Fûck XhosaNostra (Xhosas are covert aggressive), her Zulu, cape-coloured brothers (openly aggressive animals) and other South Africans.

I stand with my sub-saharan west africans and our eastern/southern african brothers at this crucial moment!

See the " XENOPHOBIC IDIOTS wey we suppose fight and kill.

zjescomltd:
Nigeria is a disgrace, quote me coper c.j said so!!!! how many south Africans ve been arrested in their country. Bleep naija polithiefians!!!!!!

Halopy:
Only God knows the problem of Nigeria police. Always working in reverse order. Are there no police in S.A? If na to go face boo haram or herdsmen now you no go see them, i support make them teach S.A sense say den no get monopoly of looting/violence

Zimzy:
They have made more arrest than SA police, the motivation na bail money wey go comot for each head. Nigeria police I hail thee.

Zimzy:
They have made more arrest than SA police, the motivation na bail money wey go comot for each head. Nigeria police I hail thee.

kereman1:
Nigeria government with eye service.
Can't the NPF see that govt are using them against the ppl, no wonder they are the most hated organisation in nigeria,

And man of the policemen are poor and improvised,

Bleep nigeria government....

greatermeme:
What about the south African murderers? Is it because none of your family member is a victim? Remember, what goes around, comes around!

kereman1:




Trashy comments

It's not unexpected.

Some of the clowns you parade and honour as "MUDS are part of the charade.

They benefit from Nigerians being humiliated and paraded as criminals and fools!

This is the reality!!!!!

NAIRALANDERS, USE YOUR HEADS

Wait oooo!

IPOB no get branch for southy?

Make dem give dat bald-headed bitch, the ekweremadu treatment!

toprealman:
AKA should have it.

Epic reply!

Since e sabi suck the dick of that light-skinned fool, e suppose ask am for the number!

Died for nothing!

Sorry... Died to increase the account balance of top generals in the army!

I can't waste my R.I.P

lilfreezy:
Other African countries are teaching Buhari how to respond as a govt.

Rwanda, DRC, Malawi all withdraw from The World Economic Forum to be held in Capetown South Africa.

Zambia cancels soccer friendly match with Bafana Bafana in SA

Buhari cannot can!

That cow-loving fool will take his big long head there ooo.

The only time he can react is when herdsmen are affected