computergeek:
We're planning to contact her family. She's still in the hospital. Thanks Dearie.

Stillthebest:




Just don't meddle in the affair(
The Lady has said that to you indirectly. Try and listen to Ebenezer Obey's song in that regards)

The major reason a man beats a woman is by counter replying during brawls. She perhaps knows that her husband can't manage such and he is highly tempered.

Don't because he beats her and think he is a beast. It takes an extra in a man not to hit a woman that runs mouth. That "extra" might be lacking in him. (he might need a psychologist or a counselor)

The best way to keep your friend/neighbour alive to enjoy the fruit of her labour in that man's house is to; keep silent whenever an issue is leading to arguments since she loves him so much that she can't leave him even with the incessant beatings.. Op, your friend loves his husband very well, but as aforementioned , he can't manage argument as known by the wife.

If the man is cheating, lol, it is just a matter of time, he would soon be back home(hope not with a disease or empty pockets). It won't long. But;

let the woman address the fundamental issues that is causing the current marital imbalance( a wife can turn her husband to whatever she desires of him). She might be expecting the man to change whereas she is the one who needs to change for the better.

As for police follow up, back off ma. If your body no gree u, send a text anonymously to his family.

Your concern only is enough to gain you rewards race whom you serve

No, he won't kill her otherwise watch as she hones back the man she married.

For your child that see the place as a second house because David, I admonish u to abort so he doesn't grow to another David's dad(hope not).



I commend your good writing skills.

Bless u

computergeek:
So I’ve never actually brought a personal issue to this forum, but this one is beyond me and I don’t know the best course of action to take here. I believe that there are people here who may have had a similar experience or might know what best to do. This may be a bit long.

So there’s this neighbor of mine whom I have an after-school agreement with. She’s a stay-at-home mum with two kids (a nursing baby and a four-year-old) while I have one child (also four). I usually leave my office at 4:00pm, so the agreement is, after-school at 12:30pm, I’ll go pick up the kids (they go to the same school) and return to work while she watches my son for me. I get my son his lunch and snacks before he goes there, even though she’s begged me to stop doing that, but I can’t saddle her with feeding a child that’s not hers.

The issue now is, a lot of violent things have happened in that house and as of this week, my son won’t be returning there. But I fear for the woman. Our homes are separated by a wall, but we often hear the arguing and crying sometimes. I knew she was having marital issues but I didn’t know the extent.

About two weeks ago, I went to get my son from the house and I noticed he wasn’t talking as usual. My son is the very boisterous type who likes to bounce as he walks, and he’ll usually try to take the key from my hand so he’ll open the door himself. That day, he wasn’t talking as usual. He seemed scared and shaken up. I knew the woman would sometimes punish the kids by asking them to kneel down when they fought, but she wouldn’t hit them. I asked him what the issue was, if anyone at school or home had been looking for his trouble, the guy said no.
He’s very close to his father (they are best friends), so when my husband came home I asked him to talk to the boy because he couldn’t choke his food down. After about a while, my son opened up. Apparently, he’d witnessed a very violent beating that he was struggling to find the right words to explain. He said that David’s father had been punching his mother in the passage with two hands at a time, and when she’d tried to run, he brought her back and beat her more. He said that he and David had to hide under the table because they were scared of getting hurt. He then said the mother raised a flower vase and hit him on his head, but the man continued beating her and shouting at her.

I didn’t know what to say. My son had witnessed a violent beating and it traumatized him. We soothed the boy and told him to forget about it. I then knew why the woman didn’t come out to hand him over as she usually did when I went to get him. He just came to me by himself.
The next day, I was skeptical about taking my son back there but he said he doesn’t want to stop playing with David and Sandra (the one-year-old baby). After school, I picked the boys up and drove them home. David’s mom came to the door and her face was badly bruised. I had to ask her what was wrong, but she hurriedly said she fell down and then took the kids from me.

On Friday last week, two days ago, the worst happened. It was around 3:00 or 3:30 when the woman called me at work. I picked the phone up and it was my son. He said that David’s mummy was lying on the floor and wasn’t opening her eyes. He said she was still moving but she couldn’t open her eyes. That blood was coming out her nose and mouth and their daddy had driven away. My heart literally flew out of my chest.

I called my husband as I was driving home and told him to meet us at the hospital. Long story cut short, she was badly battered and torn apart, almost about to give up life. I took her and all the kids to the hospital. While they were cleaning her wounds and hooking her up to the IV, I sorted out the bills. My husband tried to reach out to hers but he was rejecting the calls, so he went to make a statement at the area police command. They told us to contact them once she wakes up to give her statement. The police doesn’t usually like to dabble into marital issues but the woman was disfigured beyond imagination.

Sadly, you won’t believe what she said when she came to after a few hours. She started begging us to not report to anybody and not even call her family. That she’ll refund us the hospital bills and we should just call her friend that lives in New Haven to come and look after her. She was trying to protect the beast that had beaten her and left her for dead. We tried to reason with her because the man would certainly kill her sooner or later. She said he’s her husband and the father of her kids, bla bla bla. She told us that she’d been confronting him about a girl he’d been gallivanting openly with him, and that’s been the cause of all their issues.

She told me to use my number and call her husband because he doesn’t have me as a contact. I called him and told him the wife he tried to kill was in the hospital. He told me that she had better remain there because he’ll kill her if she ever comes near his house again. He hung up on me. She’s still insisting that he doesn’t mean it and she must go back once she’s discharged.

The issue now is, should we withdraw the police report or take the case up? The woman’s life is in danger and she doesn’t seem to understand the seriousness of her situation, writing it off as momentary anger. I don’t know why women choose to remain in these violent situations even when they have children to live for. She’s not even thinking about her one-year-old who has been with me all weekend.

Mature advice is needed here. Pease push to front page. I don’t know if we’ll be overstepping our boundaries by trying to help her.

Jackonsy:
Logo youth will still collect money and vote him in

Mtcheeeeeeeeeeew

I hate the notion of youth in this country

Jayslicky:


Many Pastors have always been chronic masturbators and head givers, the excitement gotten at the climax of orgasm makes them start mumbling funny sounds like ishakalaba... skolobobo... and many other funny sounds they use in the church when their members think they are speaking in tongues but unknown to them that the pastor is secretely masturbating.

midnighter:


Lol it clearly said the research was done by a company that produces intimacy gadgets...the research was relevant to them

What does it have to do with economic issues...economic institutions are doing their own research

Dont get why some people must complain about everything

Pauldollars:



I'm sure if a white man tells you his poo is balanced diet, you will believe him. Don't be too uninformed in this 21st century o. Human libido or desire for sex has nothing to do with Human Career or occupation. Its an individual thing.

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Pauldollars:



These Statistics do not concern Nigerians. It wasn't taken in Nigeria. Nigerians have more pressing economic issues to attend to, than taking research on how many times an occupational group of people have sex

OladimejiRufai:
Please call me to celebrste her after she does the real thing which is marriage.


Love relationships this days are just opportunities for the guys to warm their members in warm-holes (or maybe boreholes for the hoes) and for girls to augment their account balance.

Rekhina:
Wicked tart ,

U want to resurrect this thread to rub it on ladies !

Rekhina:
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I will give u job ok
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Nijanija:
I would rather a south African lady does that . Now where is XhosaNostra when need her ? Come out oo and take over the mantle of writer-ship

Wantedmiller:
The way and manner in which all this grey hair men drag their oil well (position)...........you will be forced to conclude that there is no remedy to this structure called Nigeria.

But we still believe..... That one day things will be right!

God organise this country........ Is a plea!

jhubril:
Stfu kid!

True love does EXIST. I have a portion of myself worth sharing. When it comes to love ,the big question is whether it is true or fake. It's philosophically a diametrical construction and it is a balanced law of nature (-) /(+). What each one experiences is not conclusive of anything about love. It's our own subjective interpretation of the subject matter. The man / woman who dumps(ed) youou for another man / woman does not love you genuinely or unconditionally.

EmptyCoconutHead:
me I surrender my monthly upkeep give am then come settle her accommodation for school, dey subscribe her phone every month only for me to realize that the idiot friend zone me, common hug I no even receive.
The juju don dey clear for my eye small small

Lamanii22:
Suddenly boys become the victim... And you lots have been deceiving girls from way back... Making them lose their virginity all cause y'all wanna get laid... SMH

profolaolu:
What men do because of women, so disgusting.

profolaolu:
What men do because of women, so disgusting.

philip0906:

Easy no be war...What that man described there, is an extreme.

I can assure you, except you're also as extreme as she is, if you marry such person, e go tire you.

No one is saying a woman should be too extroverted, infact I like my woman reserved too, but not to the point of hiding from family & friends & people in general, which is what the @op described there.

I'm not angry at the OP at all. His girl is my type though. I'm only pissed that he seems like a weak man with no options, and is wasting too much time with her instead of breaking up ASAP and moving on to an outgoing type

MissOffpoint:
I am exactly like op's gf and I kind of like my life like this.

ginaolo:
I’m being patient but until you are in my shoes you won’t understand. You don’t know the feeling of going to a place where everybody is with their gf and wives and I have to go alone because she wants to stay at home. People are constantly asking you where your gf is, and you have to make excuses all the time. It’s not fair, it’s weighing me down.

Oooops:

What do you know?
You're just a kid na...

viktor88:
M. Salah

A305:
Because they hear More Sallah is doing well in England they now want to have their own Sallah in Basket ball too. See the Lexus down my sig.

Teejay44:
Who else was expecting it to be the football team

popp:
OP, just go and learn how to caption your piece. What is Real Madrid signs Salah?

You can imagine the speed I dived the thread with, without even reading the headline properly.

realestniggah:
Hit like if you don't know real Madrid had a basket ball team

frubben:
Please don't deceive us abeg
Wetin happen now