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Good for them

Sixfeetbelle:
I agree with you. She didn't take responsibility for the cheating but blamed it entirely on the Op.

In short, these counselling thing should be encouraged between engaged people. They both have problems they need to work on.

Lol.

Inside life.

This people are playing with this virus.

Sixfeetbelle:
I was in agreement with what you wrote until the last part. There will never be 'a good girl' for someone like the Op.

The problem here is that Op is full of ego and self-righteousness. He wanted a virtuous woman who would be completely loyal to him, despite the cheating on his part, despite the name calling, despite the threats to break up and such, forgetting that people deal differently with emotional issues. He fails to see that being emotionally unavailable was the precursor here (she cheated when they had issues).

Advising him to leave the relationship is good only if Op will endeavour to work on these attributes. Even if he leaves this girl, the cycle will repeat itself with another girl, and may even occur after marriage. If care is not taken, he may abuse her physically.

My two cents.

The girl in question isn't taking full responsibility for her actions but is rather blaming the op for everything. A mistake committed more than once automatically becomes a decision. Though I'm still in agreement with most of your assertions.

Happy birthday to her. Growing old and being happy is a priceless gift. May we all be happy and alive to enjoy such bliss.

The beauty of science.

May God protect us and all our loved ones Amen.

francislin:
That is my challenge. this taught keeps coming up all the time.

Some decisions are necessary for our own well being. You're a man with great ego. The possibility of you forgiving her wholeheartedly isn't realistic. Follow your mind bro. They are thousands of good women out there.

Leave her alone and move on. Please for the sake of your own sanity let her be and move on. Trust me they'll always be a thought of her cheating whenever you two are not around each other. Besides the thought of her past deeds will always hunt you.

The iroko.

Rubbish news. Always trying to paint our darling president bad. I don't blame ya'll.

Confused people. A time will come when we'll all be ready to fight our common enermy but until then let's keep praying for a better Nigeria.
God bless Nigeria.

Who takes this people serious?. This virus won't last in our obodo Nigeria. I still have faith in this government.
The virus will surely be contained. AMEN.

SisterFire:
...u are so fake

Is that all? You win.

SisterFire:
...my dear u aren't fake like blinking001 , others enjoyed it n they are lying .. .
I enjoyed those angelic moments from jss2 to ss2 in girls govt college in anambra branch( though am from portharcourt ) my dad prefer anambra cos of the cultist life in port but ..... U know now

I'm not fake na.

Hell no

Why has guns still not been banned in the US?
May God continue to protect us and our loved ones. Amen.

RIP to the dead soldiers.

Her birthday her problem. I believe there are more important things to talk about in this our obodo Nigeria.

God bless president Buhari. He's a true Democrat. Under his watch the supreme court has been really fair in its judgments thus far.
God bless Bayelsa state
God bless president Buhari
God bless Nigeria.

Cultism kills. RIP to the dead.

Yes soooooo. More greese to your elbows our darling president. Continue moving this nation forward inspire of the hate. Some of us still believe in you.
God bless the president
God bless the Federal Republic Of Nigeria.

May the sponsors of boko haram never go unpunished. Amen. This people are trying too hard to give our darling president a bad name inspite of all that he's doing for our darling nation.

MissGhosted:
pig u tink say i get ur time? Na farfromaverage i wan teach lesson. Ode

Abeg get my time na. Ah feel say you no the fear. Coward.

MissGhosted:
shuu. Persin wen dey answer me any how. The guy nor know me. A whole me na im he render. Omar09 don dey crase. I don show blinking001 shege. I go catch farfromaverage for brokus.

Attention seeking whoooore. I'm not really in the mood to throw banter with any foool anymore. Lass lass na you go press the report button. Just stay off my mention or else I'll surely put you in your place. Spits.

That woman should be held responsible.

Fake news

NigeriaIsDoomed:
If you are not a comedian you are wasting your talent.

Let's join hands with our darling president to move this country forward. He has the interest of the nation at heart.

God bless president Buhari. He has written his name in the sands of time as the best president Nigeria has ever had. Wailers should stop wailing and join hands so we can move our darling nation forward.