PuZZyNegro: It's not about it being local or little. The Bread was gotten from Market Square super market. I just find it awkward giving bread to your son-in-law to be on the first meeting.
Third chapter This chapter called "Women", y'all been the rib since the beginnin' A woman's intuition, is what a man is missin' To understand your wisdom is something I had to learn Somehow you the most unprotected on planet Earth Your smile lift me up and your eyes kiss my soul Your sweetness is honeycomb, such a lovely tone You hold the power to make a house a home Because of you, I wanna right my wrongs (love) Kiss your mother 'cause we only get one (one) A grandmother's words to her grandson Beautiful minds develop in time (yeah) Checks every month 'cause you held me for nine They might see an image of a woman who's flawed But I see a woman in the image of God Highest regards, I light a cigar To man, woman and children, my Bible is ours (yeah)
Third chapter This chapter called "Women", y'all been the rib since the beginnin' A woman's intuition, is what a man is missin' To understand your wisdom is something I had to learn Somehow you the most unprotected on planet Earth Your smile lift me up and your eyes kiss my soul Your sweetness is honeycomb, such a lovely tone You hold the power to make a house a home Because of you, I wanna right my wrongs (love) Kiss your mother 'cause we only get one (one) A grandmother's words to her grandson Beautiful minds develop in time (yeah) Checks every month 'cause you held me for nine They might see an image of a woman who's flawed But I see a woman in the image of God Highest regards, I light a cigar To man, woman and children, my Bible is ours (yeah)
kerry57: Common, this gwr cooking thing is becoming stale. Let's wake and get back this country on its feet from the current suffering bedeviling this our country
Dvea: The hormones in genetically slim people aren't affecting them because their genetics play a part. I am not going to claim I know anything medical, but since I am female and I know the female body, I can tell you for a fact that bodies differ. Because Mama Imade did it doesn't mean Chioma can. And Again, I go back to the point: you are talking about watching weight to a woman who just gave birth. Even if she gave birth before and didn't lose weight, the point today is that this woman just gave birth; talk about weight loss or weight watching should not even come up yet.
And yes, the fact that your approach to losing weight included the word sexy means you are thinking about something other than her health. If you indeed are in the healthcare industry, and you have any inclination about the female body, especially after birth, you will not, for any reason at all, mention weight-watching to a new mother. If you had said this seven months after birth, I would just walk by. My problem is that you are refusing to understand that your statement was unnecessary. You do not mention things like weight, a sensitive topic for most women weeks after giving birth. Most women know they should lose weight after birth but can't for many reasons. It is insensitive, and usually only men who would do this, to speak about a woman's weight right after birth. It is wrong. If no one has told you, let me tell you now: there are certain things you do not say about or to a woman at certain points in her life. Every woman is aware of her weight gain, but you do not even think about it, much less speak about it when the situation is not right.
I am not disputing your claim of the need for healthy weight, but you are mentioning it at the wrong time. This is not the time to mention weight. I am saying this because if you ever have contact with a new mother, do not mention her weight. It is rude, it is insensitive, and it is uncalled for. Aunty will watch her weight when she is ready to because she knows. You think people who are naturally predisposed to add weight are not aware; they know.
And again, even with my little medical knowledge, me sef know that genetics is a powerful play in the human body, and genetics also determines how your hormones will play. Women who give birth and are slim are so because that's their genes. Just like some women lose weight while pregnant, that's them. Don't compare women, don't compare anyone. As a health care professional, did you even consider that maybe she had or still has post-natal complications that require her to take things easy. Or is that not a medical things, at least I have seen it play in two women, post pregnancy they have random complications that they manage and work on for years.
And the fact that you call my opinion ranting, is a whole new level of uncivilization. Even if you have to oppose my point, do so with some respect and decency. That's how people reason, learn, and grow, not by abuses and a desire to prove that na me know all.
Woo, good night. I have work today.
U nor dey tire niiii. Ahhhhhhh! Na me know all. Happy new week. Chai!!!
Dvea: Uncle, stop comparing people. Just because a woman has the gene for better body weight doesn't mean she will. Besides, no matter what lifestyle you want to have, expecting a new mother to lose or watch her weight is plain wicked and partly ignorant. Women's body does not work the way you think in your head; hormones play several parts and child birth is the king of hormonal imbalance. Leave a new mother alone with her weight. Don't come an put your toxicity to a woman who is still breastfeeding. If Hausa women maintain their bodies after five, then go and look for them, live the aunty and her body alone. If only slim women with the gene of slimness gets your attention, go for them, but don't sit where you are and put a yardstick on every woman.
And do you know her kind of lifestyle also opens her to having a trainer to help her watch her weight when she is ready and fully recovered? All you see is your sexual interest, not the fact that she is a NEW MOTHER AND HAS EVERY RIGHT TO STILL BE BIG. Even until those children reach one and no one, absolutely no one has a right to speak to her.
How old is she really? Did they tell you that young women must be slim? Where is it written that because you are young, you must be slim? People like you still don't understand that body type differs, and being a woman does not change that. Yes, Let her reach one and stop breastfeeding first, then we can talk about weight. But as long as she is feeding for three people, no body has a right to talk to her.
What is really ur problem. You don't even know ur talking to someone that is a professional in health related issues. Like I said ur just ranting.
No where did I mention she needs to be slim. I already said she looks like the type that can get fat easily.
Ur talking off point. Who is talking about sexual interest here? Advising a woman to stay sexy means one one is taking the person as a sexual object?
Have u seen imade? The other baby mama of davido? Don't u see that imade is physiologicaly built in a different way and has been able to maintain her shape?
And to ur point again.... China is not a new mother. She's had a child before and afterwards she gained weight.
U seem to fail to understand that one's genetic makeup plays a bigger role than hormones.
Why doesnt the hormones in many slim mothers make them blow up after birth?
Ur just talking and making false premises a d points
Dvea: Let the woman finish nursing her twins first before you talk of weight. Don't you know her body is still acting for two... in this case, three. Talk about weight when her kids turn one. Until then don't live yourself monitoring other people's weight. If you have nothing else to say after looking at a person other than their weight, simply keep quiet. Aunty no even fat for a woman who just had twins. Men sha. Like you people are always that fine.
Ur just ranting nonsense. Do u know her mind of lifestyle opens her up to adding weight? U not dey see how hausa women maintain their body even after 5 children?
How old is she? So until after one year before she starts taking care of her weight
Oga read my comments very well. Yes Enugu ard say they don't have enough doctors. They are only echoing what is happening in all the other states if the federation.
My bringing in abuja doesn't negate the premise of the thread.
No player in the Nigerian squad is as good as players of old like Okocha, mutiu Adepoju, amunike, oliseh, eguavon, celestine babayaro, amokachi, kanu, ikpeba, keshi etc except OSIMHEN.