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gemale:
Do u know 1 problem u hv dt u need 2 urgently work on? Poor communication skills. In 6 sentences, u hv managed 2 simultaneously nt make a single point & veer off d topic @ hand. Instead of returning d insult u hurled @ me in ur last sentence, I choose 2 bring u back 2 D topic being discussed. U spoke abt feminism being behind high cases of divorce & single parenthood. I countered saying dt marriage was a union contract between 2 different bt equal parties & it's both d duty & responsibility of husband & wife 2 protect their marriage so if 1 party decides 2 sabotage dt Union, D oda party shldnt b blamed 4 leaving. My final sentence was a statement of my opinion dt any man who believe by virtue of his sex, he's supposed 2 Lord over a woman & treat her lyk a subordinate is d least of men. Ur subsequent rant showed dt I struck a nerve & dt u unfortunately fall in2 ds category. 4rm ur brownian motion-lyk rants, I gleaned dt u think dt cooking & doing house chores r beneath a man. FYI I've cooked, cleaned & washed my clothes as a single person & so hv many males. I dnt think dt makes any of us lesser men. So if I hv 2 do dt in marriage, wts d big deal? If my wife can wash my clothes, y can't I wash hers? Y can't I wash my children's clothes? Wld any member of my family fall sick & die if I do dt? If I don't want 2 do it, it wld b because I'm unwilling, lazy or exhausted nt because it's a taboo 4 a man 2 do it.

gemale:
So u think failure of a marriage is only d woman's fault? Is marriage nt btw 2 pple? So if a man doesn't want 2 make his marriage work, D woman shld still stay in dt marriage? Both d man & woman r equal parties wt different bt equal responsibilities 2 safeguard their marriage. Any man dt believes dt his gender shld guarantee him an edge or make him superior over a woman in any mata is a lesser man IMO.