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Nepa like every nigerian prob is surmountable but sadly we put square pegs in round holes! Coruption n ineptitude is what is killin nepa. Imagine we got dis crazy bill after so many complaints we were offerd a bonanza 2 pay 50% of dis crazy bill n have d rest written off. Inspite of payin dis in dec we still havent got d discount. N 2 imagine dat d bill was crazy. These people r 419. The MD should resign, if it is not lack of rain then its the prob in d niger delta! Dis people don chop shame o!

I was born, bread n buttered in Apapa lagos but i'm from Okene, kogi, Naija!!

I was born, bread n buttered in Apapa lagos but i'm from Okene, kogi, Naija!!

Mine is Thomas but friends call me Tom

My best paper is the guardian newspaper without a doubt. I love the columns especially abati on friday and sunday! the cartoons are something else that obe ess guy is a whizz!!

rite age for a woman should be btw 25-33

O boy this is a tough one O! my advice be say let your head and not your heart guide u! the girl is beautiful and u still love her but she let you hig and dry for a cah cow! that tells me a lot about her xter .
i stay diffcult as it may be drop her, you were lucky to have seen her true colours! tell her as politely as u can that you are not sure things would work out! and are u sure you will ever forgive/trust her for running out on you. we don't want a "vice" whom we can't trust, look the wahala wey Baba Iyabo dey face for Aso rock

Girl, you never loved the guy! why did it have to take his going to UK b4 u agreed to his advances. my advice is look to the guys in naija, don't deceive the guy and urself. tori no too long my girl waka dey go

Nigerian women are not supposed to accept the fact (at least not b4 it happens!) that their spouse would cheat on them. I am close to my mum and i have seen first hand the agonies her friends go thru just cos their husbands cheat and sometimes bring another woman in. inspite of the trend there are still good nigerian men who stick with their wives. My father for one has stuck with my mum for 34 years now! he hasn't for one day cheated (at least not to our knowledge), i think it's possible for Nigerian men to stick with their wives and for their wives to expect them to do so.
i used to think it was becos of economic circumstance that women stuck it out with cheating husbands, but after seeing an aunt of mine stick through an abusive and cheating husband inspite of her economic status, it got me really wondering, why do women stay take all that garbage. Are they scared of divorce or seperation? no offence meant but when i see what women in our society are going thru, i am sure gld i ain't one, i truly salute their resilence and courage "under fire".
i don't have a sista but if i had one I'd definately tell her to opt out of a marriage that has an incurable cheating husband!!

sbucareer pls could u send me one too. I'd send my postal address via the email link
Thanks

In situations like this the guy/girl has to accept the fact that things could and would change. even if they both went to university there is no guarantee that the relationship would remain intact, its made even worse if they are in different schools. Let your friend concentrate on his studies and get his addmission if it is meant to be she would come back to him, otherwise like Tupa said LIFE GOES ON!!

BSc Geology 2-2

Girl! there is something this guy is trying to hide. Is he ashamed of you? You have a right to KNOW!

my day started by 7 am when i woke up, took my bath brushed and got reday for church. today was Palm sunday so i went out for some palms and headed for mass. After mass i waited like forever for my mum! and when she came she said she had to wait to bless her palms! boy was i MAD!
Got home by 11.30 logged online, checked my emails and then off to Nairaland!! had breakfast by 12 and now here i am reading through the wonderful threads on this beaultiful site

P.L You see mallam for my face?
E.L Do you think i am a fool?

P.L U see mallam for my face
E.L do you think i am a fool

Private universities are yet to find their feets, some of them are relatively unknown, so u can't blame people for leaving them unrecognised. They have to show us that they are not just flukes, no doubt some of them like failed banks would go down with time. don't get me wrong i am not against private universities just that the way i have seen some of them run gives me cause for concern. Madonna university for one is run like a secondary school!

lordimpaq:
www.answeringcatholicism.com

go there it answers all your questions,

to me, catholicism is a carry over of babylonian idolatry acts,

thus, catholicism is a way of paganism, but people are blinded and they don't want to accept the truth that catholicism is paganism in another different form

How can catholics be pagan yet they worship christ? you might not agree with some catholic doctrines but that doesn't give u the right to call it paganism

O boy sorry O! sh, t happens in life! i guess you alreday knew teh consequences of yoru action b4 u did it. many people do it but it's those who are caught that are scorned. pick your life up my guy and think of something to do (not easy o!). all the best and i hope u have learnt a lesson or two, cheat don't pay!!

Why must we always stir tribal sentiments in everything. I'm sure if the guys were of d same tribal group as d guy who raised the issue he wouldn't have brought it up! Come on my guy let's not restrict our thinking 2 dat of a frog in a well!

I'd like in on this java thing, can i give u a call on dat num? Thanks

Mikel like jose rightful pointed out is PURE GOLD! Okocha is a fantastic player but Mikel is fabulous d guy is outta dis world. Is mikel betta than okocha? Hell YES! Mikel is more positive movin wit d ball jay-jay sometimes plays 2 d gallary dat has always been his prob!

Jose is a fantastic fella love him or loathe him! It's just his way of expression. Jose is a completely misunderstood guy, sometimes in sports or any endeavour of life u gotta make mouth 2 intimidate ur opponent. It's only d frickle mind dat take jose's comments literally!!

Jose is a fantastic fella love him or loathe him! It's just his way of expression. Jose is a completely misunderstood guy, sometimes in sports or any endeavour of life u gotta make mouth 2 intimidate ur opponent. It's only d frickle mind dat take jose's comments literally!!

One has to be very careful when discussing issues of HIV status in a society where victims are highly discriminated. The church can sensitise and let couples take the decision as to whether or not they want to go through HIV test. the emphasis should be on eductaion trying to make it compulsory gives the whole thing a bad gloss.

I have been a passive follower of the threads on this forum and I must say I am highly impressed with the comments and topics. I have decided to throw in my own topic and it is:

Should the church have the right to demand that about to be wedded couples do a HIV test before getting married in church? This was the topic of a recent debate in a BBC Africa living interactive programme. Sometime last month the Catholic Church in Botswana issued a statement that about to be wedded couples should take a compulsory HIV test before they are allowed to be wedded in church, what is your view?

My view is this: much as I agree with the uncompromising abstinence policy of the church, on this issue I think the catholic authorities in Botswana with all its good intention got it wrong. This policy in my view only goes to stigmatise people living with HIV. Education I think is the key not stigmatization. Don’t get me wrong I am not encouraging people to get married no matter how “blindly in love” without first checking their status.

I believe the decision should be voluntary and consensual. Possible flaws this policy might encounter include the fact that the church has not the means of authenticating the validity of the HIV certificate, what happens if one party tests positive days or even months before marriage. You don’t need a soothsayer to tell you then that one of the parties is positive and in a society like ours where stigmatisation and ignorance is rife one can only imagine how the life of the affected party would be like thereafter.

People should be counselled on the menace of HIV, testing should be voluntary not compulsory! What do you think?

i disagree with GL, OBJ personalised the prob, many nigerians were against Taylor's stay in nigeria. we accepted it in good faith when we were told it was for peace to prevail in liberia. now the same international community which Obj says fashioned out the deal say they want Taylor, for goodness sake why should we habour a criminal and moreso one that has the bloods of thousands of nigerians on his hands. Alami's case has nothing to do with Taylor's. moreso two wrongs don't make a right. we owe it to the nigerians soldiers and civilains that died in Sierra-leone and Liberia wars to see that this man face trial