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no i cant and i wont

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=6814.msg4897525#msg4897525 date=1257875272]YAWNS.
The rape stats in Nigeria must be staggering then.
99% of the babes in Naija were deflowered by rapists as far as what i hear everyday is confirmed.[/quote]ur point being?

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=6814.msg4897455#msg4897455 date=1257874742]I have but this particular babe lied about the incident.
Did she report this to anyone when it happened?[/quote]do you seriously want to claim to be unaware of the fact that rape victims are almost always seen as both those at fault and those that instigated the said crime
basically more oft times than none, a rape victim is responsible for her rape in nigeria

she didn't lie she simply withheld information
information that wasn't ever inquired about if i might add (based on his story. . . )

whitelexi:
Words of encouragement and advice:

Girl u done good
Just dont go feeling like the man, cos u aint!

how hard is it to PRETEND to be sensible?

kmt,
for all ur talk of creating new ids,
the trademark borderline stupidity is always apparent

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=6814.msg4897422#msg4897422 date=1257874505]Believe that and there's a dinosaur in Yaba market.[/quote]excuse me have u never heard of the term spiking one's drink?

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naw they arent
body cavity's empty

yesh shnow

dayo, will i marry u?

trekkie:
if she can take some constructive criticism, teach her if  not GET OUT NOW. i know what i am talking about . if you are like me and bad grammar grates on your nerves  like someone smacking their lips and making noises while eating; or just embarrasses you, this relationship is not going to get easier to bear

seconded

i didnt understand the topic to be honest the writing is appalling. . .
but im in full support of what izeek said
are u that desperate?
is ur guy that dumb?

i needs a doggeh

other than his being nigerian that excuses your posting this on this site,
i honestly cannot make head or tail of your issue
if you think he's got issues why don't u ask him?

ROFLMAO!!!!!!!!!
now see that wasn't hard was it?

TheSeeker:
It's a normal thing to beat women in their family, and what kind of family is that? First of all, her mom is a blind fool. Where and how the heck in this new world will a mom ask her daughter to go back to where she's beaten all the time? Poor and stupid parenting. Because of the kids? Why can't he consider the kids before beating his wife? How sure are we that he's not doing it in the presence of these kids? This is violation at every ramification.

As her friend, I think you have a little bit of say on this issue but that depends on how close you are; you know each other a lot better, and I think you're one of those should know a little bit of her private life especially where matters like these are involved. First of all, a dog will always be a dog, and so is a pig. There's no point waiting for the man to change, of course, if he doesn't like I sure hope he won't, there are other steps that could be taken. Stealthily - without the knowledge of anyone (including your friend) - hire two soldiers and tell them the story, give them some money and I'm sure they will help sort him out, but do remember to tell them not to kill him but put him in his place or probably give him an everlasting damage.

On the other side, a more civil manner, I think she has to leave. She can leave the other grown (or not grown) kids with him to cater for; she has the obligation, only for right now, to look after the 3-month old baby. But she can't do this alone. She needs someone to make her see that she's going to be killed soon, and when it is all over, the kids she's trying to get killed for will be maltreated by another woman - or worse, the kids will be street kids hawking pure water. Her mom - unapologetically - is a first class graded fool, and who knows maybe she's getting something from the man's family or they are being intimidated by their wealth, influence or whatnot. Because, I don't see why a parent, especially a mom, will watch her daughter on the brim of being killed. . . . . Nigeria with their caveman mentality of marriage being a union of enduring perseverance. Ile oko, ile eko ni my black ass!

case closed!