₦airaland Forum

Maxymilliano:
https://www.channelstv.com/2022/06/21/peter-obi-will-be-better-suited-as-minister-of-economy-says-ned-nwoko/

boyfwend:
Sorry to bother y'all.

So let me brief you all a little bit about myself, I'm the first son of a family of five. Also a 300-level student, all my life I have been depressing and saddened by the kind of family I found myself in.

First of all, I must commend my dad for pulling me from secondary level to University.
The only thing I know my dad does for me is to pay my school fees and he leaves me with no other choice again.
Let me clear y'all a lot about him.

Second of all, he does nothing, he's one of the Niger Delta amnesty beneficiaries which occurred some years ago. Ever since then, he depend on all that money to train five children.
He's a stay-at-home dad, lol!
My dad left me with depression and hunger for me to deal with here in school.

Now, what got me annoyed to bring this issue here is, that I came back home for some weeks now to sustain myself because I have been going through a lot over there.
The little work that I use to do here in the village, was to get small money for myself and the girl that I brought home. This man has been relying on me all this while to be bringing money for feeding and any household stuff.

I have been here for two months now, working from Monday to Sunday and coming back late at night without any single savings on me.
I cry every night, laying curses on myself and that angel that made me become a first child.

I give this man every money, ranging from the one he will use and smoke, eat, soap, etc.
All he does is stay in the house from morning to night.

I'm tired!

School is depressing me, I have many courses that I am having issues with and no money to fix all these courses, and I have just a year to leave this school.
Home is also making me choose suicide as the only option left.

Whenever I tell him I don't have money, he blows up and starts threatening me about how he's going to withdraw from assisting me academically.

I'm tired!!

mrvictornews:
Compilation of Vote Buying during ekiti election


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LAi8KnyTXlY

bennybuhari:
In all honesty, I support vote buying as long as the voters can vote whoever they like without being monitored

hotplate:
it's not enough to arrest, Inec should wake up to their duties. They are guidelines, rules concerning election as it relates to vote buying. Let the candidates and their party involved in it be disqualified .. if this happens 2 to 3 times all parties will conduct their selg inline with the rules

GOATandYAMtheory:
how does that look like vote buying? Person no fit dash person money again?

DOWN2HeartLoved:
I usually come to nairaland to get advice on business or any other related stuffs am affected with

Currently am in a tight spot, have been dating a lady I met during a trip, after a month, we started chatting and I went to visit her, things were smooth until we have a child, now she's different

The thing am surprised about her is I don't know her family background, only believed what she told me, she's from Auchi and Orogun and the mother lives in Ondo, we have issues I had to move out of my own house for her, the problem is I'm thinking she has children outside, she's always 28 every year, am thinking she's close to 40, why lie about age and many more.

Reasons am baffled, her mother isn't showing any concern.

She has lots of brothers

She always calls me a small boy

She doesn't even care now, even if I die

Problems:- I have invested on this relationship emotionally, physically and even more,

Is she from Benin? She lied too, she has turned my people against me, right now no one reason me seriously again, because everyone is telling me she's a club girl and I need to leave her, she just laughs and blocks anytime I called her, people are telling me she might have built a house with my money elsewhere.

Am shocked this is happening to me.

emexc11:
Long story, who will carry out all the arrests, sheh Nigerian police? Upee!
The youths have resolved to attack anyone or persons seen around any polling unit buying votes, going forward.
Ekiti state guber election is an eye opener

pat077:
30k stipend has be clouded his sense of reasoning so what do u expect?

Olatunji1929:
he won't point out anything probably his parents also sold their votes to the highest bider so he must say nonsense to support votes buying

lexylaw40:
Haba where do you live people's rights in your proposed rules

doggedfighter:
Here,the man is using appreciation to teach her valuable lessons.


Some poverty ravaged redpillers are already fuming at the sight of the dollars.


Always crying over how another man chooses to spend his money.


Go make your own !

Alaigbopress:
I came to this Forum to complain about how my Girlfriend always posts pictures of her ex on her Status and uses his pictures as her screensaver.

Here is the link to the thread
https://www.nairaland.com/7133811/girlfriend-keeps-posting-ex-pictures

After her explanations which looked like Truth. We moved on and I have to make a Counter post where I nearly insulted Nairalanders who came to my help with loads of advice to dump the Girl. Here is the link to the second thread I made which also made the front page.

https://www.nairaland.com/7138678/lost-girl-friend-followed-advice

Please Nairalanders forgive me for not heeding to your advice, and also the way I spoke to You guys. I am really sorry about that.

This morning I woke up again and went through her Status and saw another guy she posted on her Status. Jokingly I asked her if this is the Okechukwu (not my name) she is talking about and putting Love Emorji for because she has done that several times. So I was expecting her to tell me that the guy is her Cousin or a relation and to my chagrin she told me the guy is her ex and that she just loves the picture.

I now reprimanded and scolded her that I had warned her not to post anything ex both pictures or videos on her Status. That was when this same girl told me that it is over between us that I complain a lot bla bla bla.

WHY AM I WRITING THIS
I am writing this to advise my fellow guys.
Guys please You have to be careful with these girls, some of them are very heartless, wicked and very manipulative.

Today I am joining the Redpill Gang full time.

immortalcrown:
Oil dey your head. I keep telling people that more PVCs is not the solution to Nigeria elections. Guiding those who already have PVCs and are willing to vote is more important than encouraging more people to get PVCs. If there are only ten PVC holders and majority of them votes wisely, good leaders will emerge. If there 100 billion PVC holders and most of them vote unwisely, bad leaders will emerge. When a wrong ideology guides the majority in the society, an increase in the number of PVC holders will only result in more votes for the wrong candidates.

booblacain:
Nice suggestions. I just love people that think of solutions to problems rather than just complain.

I wonder though, why voters are allowed to walk around with thumb printed papers.

Fira09:
If vote buying and vote selling is stopped in Nigeria ,then PETER OBI is our NEXT YEAR PRESIDENT.