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samwriter:
I dont have time to arrest anybody. I want to fight back like a wounded lion but for now how would my face return back to normal. Doctor and nurse in the house should help

Wounded Lion Indeed...
See You, See Blood.!!

samwriter:
why you dey laugh. I just want my face to return to normal

So that you will go and fight again?
You might not be lucky this second time.
SEE YOU, SEE GRAVE.!!

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Erys:
You don't necessarily need to beat up a child to set him/her right. Like my nephew, about 2years old now. I don't beat him but when he's doing something wrong, and I scode him, he understands and adjusts immediately. While the mother out of love does the opposite. There are many ways to correct them. The problem is that, many parents thinks because they are too young, that they probably won't understand, which in my opinion is wrong. The truth is, kids a very intelligent and are capable enough to take advantage of the over pampering and most parents fall for it. As young as my nephew is, if I seat him down in a place as a punishment for doing wrong, he would never get up until I tell him to, but he never obeys his mother to that extent because of her approach. Your facial expressions matters a lot while correcting a kid. You can't say don't do this while smiling and expect them to refrain from it.

And let me take your name as Ernest for instance,, the clueless mother would now be using you to tell the child what to do.. Something like: “Sit down here,, or I will report you to Uncle Ernest”...
(Instead of her to cut down on the pampering, she now dragged you into the picture, and painted you as the villain)

nwanyiugbo122:
Very true. I work in a private school where you dare not touch a child in the name of discipline, when you mistakenly do, the child will tell his or her parents, the parents will come and be giving serious warning infront of the child that him/her as the parent doesn't beat his children not to talk of a teacher, you will see a student touching a teacher's hair in admiration, you will see them talking back at the teacher carelessly, even when you are correcting them, they will be smiling stupidly without remorse. Parents are breeding uncultured children in the name of pampering. I have kids, I love them, but can't condone any act of misbehaviour from them.

1st Question: How then would a teacher that is teaching in such a school correct the acts of misbehaviour by the students?

2nd Question: Do you think such students can develop self-control and restraint as they grow older?
(Their respect for elders may be a topic for another day)

LikeAking:
At the end the success of the children 9 mater.

If the over pampared kids become richer than the so called disciplined kids. SHAME!

Over pampered kids are the winners las, las. They dont settle for less, they fear no one, they get what ever they want in life.

Make una go investigate.

The truth of life is hidden from mankind.

Majority of what we call right is 100% wrong.

Yess..
I investigated a lot about this.
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There were three Over-pampered brothers who fought themselves to death with machetes while they were dragging about their father's wealth.
Their father was still sick at the time.
These kids studied abroad, yet they couldn't stay on any of the jobs that were gotten for them.
All they know how to do is selling properties and clubbing really hard.

LikeAking:
And you think the ones floging their kids, their kids no spoil.

You bring up a child for adulthood, you bring up a child for the world.

At the end the success of youe child is the most important thing.

Take Burna Boy for eg, Is success is because he came from a family were he was pampaered. Burna boy was trained like a King and the world treats him that way. The dude cant settle for less like most of us and the world dey obey him commands.

The rich bring their kids up like kings, while the poor bring their kids up like servants.

A good reason why poor families remain poor from generation to genration.

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LikeAking:
You need that troublesome and sturborness to survive in this world.

A good reason why the over pampared kids are making it big and the others are still in dia shells. Take Burna Boy for eg.

Guy no go dull your children oh.

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Answer this quick question bro....
Was Burna Boy actually “Over-pampered” as a kid and as a young growing adult?
(Serious Emphasis On the “Over”)

LikeAking:
Guy calm down.

You need your sons to be rugged in a civilized way.

Life is not for sheeps.

Parents are the number one destroyers of their kids destiny.

Over-pampered Kids are not even rugged when they finally grow up to become adults, not to talk of them being close to anything civilized.
They tend to be bunch of nuisance characters, and never-do-wells. They hardly take their own decisions as adults without first confirming from their over-loving pampering parents.
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So tell me how such a person can be rugged.

cococandy:
a four year old is still a baby.

Ok Ma.
Thank You Very Much Ma..

Bola146:
A lazy woman will always do that. Ifa man can do his own financial part to his wife and kids, I don't think it's good idea stealing from her husband. It's a curse

My dear,, it baffles me.
Like, how can such a lady correct any of her kids that was caught stealing?
Won't she feel guilty that maybe the kid learnt this from her?

merieam16:
We own the money together so its fun stealing or taking it

So, wives really have fun stealing from their husbands’ money??
How would these same wives feel if their Husbands start having this same “Fun” with their money?

Nigeria don sawaaa...
Everywhere don corrupt.

eazzzy1:
Lol. Are you saying all single mothers are whores?

1) One of the sole reasons why people go the baby mama route is because they know marriage isn’t a guarantee of exclusivity. They have a child and that’s it, the woman is free to do whatever she wants with whoever she wants. A BM fvcking another man won’t hurt, a wife fvcking another man is like the end of the world.

2) Most Baby mama’s try their best to be in the good books of their baby father. They hope the relationship will lead to marriage and that hope keeps them on their best behaviour. When people are seeking for something they tend to be nicer than the people who got them easily.

Just like you said about wife’s, a man who gets a compatible baby mama won’t have problems either. Baby mama, baby daddy can also be a complete family. Just without the encumbrances of a signed document, easier entry and easier exit if things do not pan out well.

Nice Contributions..
So, when a baby-mama dies first before the baby-daddy, where would she be buried? And then, which family would take custody of the kids?
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Cc....
Airforce1 (Airforce01)...

CharisEleos:
Taking ones belongings without their consent or knowledge is stealing. That you're their spouse doesn't justify it at all. Stealing is stealing. Period!

If I happen to get married tomorrow, I can never do such by His grace.

I wonder how some people comfortable going into their hubby's wardrobe and "fabbing" (according to one of them) some of his money. It's preposterous. You're no different from the theif who break into people's houses and steal their stuff.

Men and Women, please stop it!

Thanks for your contribution.

Lalasticlala,
Seun

Crunchyg3:
That's how over pampered wife and girlfriends gets stubborn. Which proves that women are like children at heart

You're very correct..
Many men learnt this lesson above the very hard way.
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“I love my wife, I love my wife..” And very soon, the man is having a very stubborn woman in his house who constantly challenges everything he says.

This is typical of those:
“I love my baby.. I don't want my baby to cry... If my baby cries, it tears my heart apart.”
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The baby had reached FOUR YEARS, and the baby is still a baby.

Over-pampred Kids are very troublesome and Stubborn - Especially to those parents who usually do the over-pampring on them in the name of LOVE.
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A parent who claims to love the kid won't even correct the kid, because the kid is a kid.
The time the kid becomes stubborn and troublesome, the parent would start to compare and complain

Woowww...

Romanoff:
Lol. If a woman has a decent paying job and a thriving business and still steals from her husband, especially if he supports her, na inborn thief she be.

End of story.

That's Simple And Short.!!

Romanoff:
Me I feel women who steal from their husbands do so cause their husbands are stingy towards them. Some of these women either don't have jobs or have business that's just bringing in little to nothing. They will take care of themselves, send money to their families and in most cases, augment the feeding allowance money they are given.

All in all sha, na bad economy cause am. Cause a wife that's gainfully employed won't have need to steal from her husband.

Well.
Let's assume to pardon those who have stingy husbands.
What about those whose husbands are not stingy?
Like, she has a boutique opened for her by her husband, and she continued to receive “supports” from him - at least, you know how “supports” feel like naa..
And still, she continues to steal at every little opportunity.
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And again, for the sake of setting Moral Standards for the kids, and also for the sake of having the Moral Standing to correct kids if they steal, a Wife (now turned Mother) should definitely desist from such behaviour, and resist it forever. (And that is, even if her husband is stingy - she should try and resist that urge to steal from his wallet, if she really hoped to teach her children that: “picking something that is not yours is not good” )
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Meanwhile, you're a good role-model.
Keep it up.
(I don't know how I got to notice this shaa oo, so if you ask me, I no fit explain oo).

MadelnNigeria:
Imagine catching her while stealing from your pocket. You'll just laugh. All married women do it either they are working class or housewives.

What do they enjoy in that stealing in particular??
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Don't they enjoy the one their husbands give them any longer??
Now, the stolen money is reigning??
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What exactly is this world turning into??

Romanoff:
It's for one reason, if they ask the husband, he won't give. But if you take it without informing him, most of them don't even know money was taken from them.

Makes me wonder why they just don't give their wife the money. Money that she will still go an steal from your wallet.

If you wife has a need and it's a genuine need, give her money.

You no gree give your girlfriend, you no wan give your wife.

Who you wan come give?

I'm not in support of theft in any form but give your wife money.

I know a wife who has borrowed money from almost all loan apps to the point that one loan app sent messages to all her contacts cause she couldn't meet up with payment.

Her husband is doing well, I am not aware of any house project they are doing so it makes me wonder why he doesn't give his wife money and he won't let her work.

(@Bolded Statements)
See my dear..
For the wife that habitually steals from her husband, even if her husband constantly gives her money even when she didn't demand for it, she will still steal from him. To her: “the money belongs to her too”.. So, why stealing it then? Even with all the money he had been giving her.

And again, even if the husband doesn't notice the theft most times, should that be a reason for the wife to form the habit??
What if he dared to notice it one day and started asking??
In fact, what if he tightened himself as a result of the serial thefts, so that it would be that “only the money he gives out becomes the money that left him”, what would be the result.?
(The wife would then start seeing him as a stingy man, upon the fact that he continued dropping money for her constantly... She still needed to be collecting the petty-pitty stolen money from her husband's wallet for her to confirm that her husband is Not stingy??)

Honestly,, this type of mentality baffles me badly..
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I have a scenario at hand:

A man called his kids to the parlour one early morning and knelt them down for up to thirty minutes.
He continued interrogating them to know who took away N23k from the money inside the water-proof bag that was hidden inside the old box that was kept under the pile of files inside the wardrobe..
None of them knew what he was talking about. But he was seriously suspecting the second son.
The wife was there all the while, looking on and keeping mute.
She doesn't know whether to continue keeping mute and watch with such guilt grinding deeply in her, or to set the kids free by confessing her actions, and thereby getting blamed and thoroughly cautioned in front of the kids - ohh and also having the kids register in their little minds that their mother is also a thief, whereas she had been cautioning them and punishing them all these while for stealing little things.
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She kept mute after-all., and the husband later left for work that day with such a bad mood.
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It was later that night that the wife wanted to know why the money was so important to him to the extent of punishing the kids that way.
And the husband told her straight away that if she was the one having the money, she should give it back to him, because that money was meant for the office procurement purposes, and it was just withdrawn the previous day and given to him.
The wife after some moments of silence, reluctantly apologised, and added that:
“I never knew you would notice it”.
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That line became another wahalla that night.
The man asked her to explain.
Like, for how long had this been going on?
Ooh Boy.!!
It Had Been Going On Since The Time They Got Married.!!
Aaahhahahhaahhahaaa.

Upon all the money he had been dashing her??
That was how silent malice entered between Husband-and-Wife ooo..
Things never became as it used to be again.

Someone posted the Prayer-Point below on Facebook, and a lot of women were shouting “Amen ooo”:

“God abeg, put my husband in a position where I will secretly withdraw ₦1m+ from his account & he won't notice”
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Honestly speaking, some prayers don't deserve an “Amen”, no matter how it is disguised.
Some people may think that the poster was joking, and maybe join in the “Amen” bandwagon jokingly, not knowing that she just prayed to become an in-house thief.
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See, if you want God to make your husband very very very rich, then ask God directly to make your husband very very very rich. And God will make your husband very very very rich, to the extent that he would be constantly dropping that type of huge sums for you for no reason at-all, and he would always say: “Oohh, It’s nothing my dear, just keep it”.
(I mean, must it be that you must take it “secretly”, before you know that God has answered your prayers??)
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Then, if you want God to make you to become an unnoticed In-House Thief, then ask God directly to make you an unnoticed In-House Thief, or ask HIM to make all your In-house thefts to always successfully go unnoticed.
In that case, God will understand, and HE will grant you your heart's desires.
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Let me make it very clear.
If your interest is actually in “Secretly Stealing” your husband's money, and you're praying that all your thefts would go unnoticed; then, even when the money is no more there in abundance, since the stealing behaviour had already entered deep into your blood, you will still go and steal the little shishiii wey remain.
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In fact, this question below is for such ladies who say this kind of prayer, (or those who reply “Amen” to such prayers), I would like to hear from you..
What exactly would you do if you discover that your son is praying such prayers too??
(Yes.. His parents' money is also his money, because the bulk of the money will eventually be spent on him - so he has the right to be secretly stealing the money too.... Isn't it??)

Omihanifa:
It has nothing to do with that tweet

She was simply suspended because of the massive fraud going on under her watch. Of recent the NPA has been under remitting to the federation account.

The woman clearly knew her end was near that's why she decided to switch back to her fake activism so that it will look as if the government suspended her for speaking truth to power.

If her suspension was because of her views about the state of insecurity in the country then people like El-Rufai, Samuel ortom, rotimi akeredolu,nyesom wike, Godwin obaseki would have been impeached. Because at different times they have criticized the APC government and even singled out the president.

She was simply suspended because the president felt like ( even this one way they steal sef still get mind castigate us)


If she was very passionate about the welfare of the country, she should have just resigned her appointment long time ago because this insecurity issue didn't just start today. It's started almost immediately after this government took over power and it became worse 3years ago so why didn't she just resign then

So, they never noticed the under-remittance since 2016 until the Tweet dropped??

Xscape1993:
Perfect truth.

You Know,,, we were blaming some imaginary hoodlums for causing the violence during the 2020 #EndSARS# Protests.. But the truth happened to be that, those quiet protesters were the same ones who turned violent after they got provoked as the controlled protests continued.

Lalasticlala

That's Just The Simple Truth,, and nothing but the Blunt truth.

Since Hoodlums infiltrated a supposed Religious Protest-Rally that started from a supposed Christian Praying-Ground, and Marched to the Bishop's Residence to destroy things there, then it simply means that Nigerian Protests Cannot (and will never) happen without hoodlums joining in to disrupt it's purpose..
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In-fact, let me put it better here...
“Most Nigerians are just silent hoodlums waiting for any slightest opportunity to open up and release the chained hoodlum-personalities that are hidden deep inside them... (even the Religious Nigerians too)”

Only his Wins he kept announcing...
Why won't he announce those days he lost?