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igbosoupkitchen:
Thumbs up my friend, the boldened is all it is about...because we are wise savers and will always show forth when they need it, ñoone should call it stealing, it is working togther to build the home..

If a man counts every money his wife takes from him, will he also count how many times she has given too...
Like I said, it is fun to do both ways then gist and yab over and it goes on and on.

Marriage is what you make of it, Dear Op, in the long run the attraction wears out, beauty fades, breast and penis shrinks, buttocks sags, 6 packs become packless, slim become fat or vice versa ,wrinkles and white hair come etc.
You see the little moments you share with wife,husband and kids and make them memorable are the only things that never wears out,,
If you always make those memories full of anger and resentment that is all the partner,kids will remember.

Op, Like I always say, this life no hard, pls dont make it harder, if she take ur money, na with prayers that heaven will answer provide more...

WAR ROOM.!!

donbachi:
N aso we see am...powa no poha.just like midwife no midhusband.

No MidHusband Sheey??
Ok Naa.
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After now, them go dey hustle for equal rights and opportunities..
And be saying Awomen instead of Amen.

ChiefJusticeFuc:
Is it so bad that armed robbers aka bandits now attack or attempt to attack the residence of the chief of staff in Aso Rock?

Then bandits can come and carry the entire parasitic lazy Buhari clan and we promise to pay $100mil dollars for their release.

It had gotten that bad.
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I mean, for anybody anywhere to even think of attempting it.
Then, it had really gotten that bad

moneyissweet:
She don thief from me Taya sote I don dey give her all the money to keep for me. Since then my money dey in tact.

A reckless spender can't control herself. She will still steal from that one you kept in her tight custody.
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Remember Jonathan's proverb about Goat and Yam, and how it all ended for him??

FarahAideed:
The Husband's can join POWA If they want

The husbands have no business there.
The association is self-explanatory.
It's an association meant only for the WIVES, and not the SPOUSES in general...

supportnija:
Op, men don't have time with all this.

Nnaa Meehhhn.!!
Women shaa....
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And you will just see how them go dey carry the matter for this association for head.
Whereas their male counterparts no even see the need for such association in the first place.

FarahAideed:
The Husband's can join POWA If they want

Chhaaiii.!!!
Oohh Boy Eeehh.!!
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It's very awkward naa??
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I mean, can he ever contest for anything in the association?

The Husbands of the Female Police Officers never get time for such gatherings I guess??

Yesterday (10th May, 2021), the new President of the “Police Officers Wives Association (POWA)” Hajiya Hajara Alkali Baba, officially assumed office.
(They even get Aso-ebi, or abi na uniform be that??)
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Nice One.
That's for the Wives of the Male Police Officers.
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But then, is there a similar association for the Husbands of the Female Police Officers??
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Just Asking....

SupaDesign:
But that is not true

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Please Bro...
WHAT EXACTLY IS NOT TRUE HERE??

nwanyiugbo122:
My dear to be on a safer side you ignore such a child, most teachers has adopted the "I don't care attitude"towards such children. Even the owner of the school will tell you to keep your advice and counselling to yourself. Well to your second question, I believe some of them are driven by juvenile delinquency, maybe they would change as they grow in maturity

I know that I will get really depressed if I teach in such a school.
In I fact, I will most probably resign from there, than to see such a thing happening, and pretend not to see, and it be tormenting my soul deep inside, yet I can't do anything even when I have a lot of things that I can do to save the situation.
Imagine little kids talking back at their teachers anyhow without restraint, and the teachers would just cower down mumuishly, and they can't do anything just because they don't know the sanctions they might get from the school management.

Honestly Speaking, things had gone so bad.

Bashir Ahmed’s tweet below:
“Armed robbers invade Aso Rock, empty Buhari’s chief of staff Gambari, admin officer Maikano’s residences” STILL AN EXCLUSIVE FAKE NEWS.

People of understanding and reasoning of course understand the difference between an ‘attempt’ and an ‘invasion’.
(https://twitter.com/BashirAhmaad/status/1391881558865453059?s=19)
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So that means, there was even an attempt??
Like, the security is now so weak, to an extent that an attempt was even dreamt to be attempted by anybody??

saphiere:
What they mean is, God should make their husbands so rich to a point that even if they get 1m from him it won't affect his pocket.

It takes a sound mind to understand this.

Mista-Woman, I think you and your sound mind should just get lost.
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You need to weigh your thoughts and opinions from every possible angle before vomiting it out to the public.
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She clearly prayed for “Secretly Take”..
And not “GET..”
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And the whole arguments on this thread is about the “Secretly Taking”, which we had also established as “Stealing”..
If you support the stealing, then you state your reasons here, let us read it and analyse your response.
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So, don't Derail us with your silly sound-mind bla-bla-bla.

Dreyton36:
Na love
No let mumu and over seriousness kill u
If I find my wife worthy enough to marry, Dem no born her well not to steal my money
Besides she doesn't need to ask before she's given

Na stingy man dey get thief as a wife

Lights up my kpoli in peace

Bro,, You never marry.. So Chill..
Come Back Five Years After your marriage.
At-least, by that time, with all your free-handedness towards her, you can come back and tell us that she no dey steal from you. Then we can agree with your Bolded Statement.
Because, once she dares to steal from you, then you had been stingy to her. Q.E.D

igbosoupkitchen:
You have not quoted me well brother, recall i said we cant steal what is ours right?? Recall I also said we know it is btw us and never get the kids involved..
Only daddy and mummy knows where and how their money is kept so dont worry anout the kids.

Note that I said it is fun because we have "understanding" this wil not work where there is no understanding, cos in that case u will have fathers shouting at their wives in front of the children even extend the rantings to the kids..then it cant be fun, cos the children will begin to see their mother ad what the father called her , a thief *

Ok..
I got you now.
At least, the “Understanding” part takes care of it.

unscripted:
bro , let love lead,, I woman that loves you properly will not take money that will harm you .. a woman that you care for properly will only take things you can both laugh about ..

You see, if she takes ₦20k out of ₦800k, no wahalla.. But if I get to notice it, she must tell me what she did with it...
But you see, for someone to take out ₦20k out of ₦40k,, hmmmmm..
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In fact, taking away ordinary ₦1000 out of ₦5,000 is very dangerous.
And if you ask her about the ₦1k, she will be like:
“So, just because of ordinary ₦1k, you're doing as I the whole world is coming down on us?”

Romanoff:
Probably cause those friends also bought her own asoebi.

All in all I tell women to hustle for their own money in marriage. You can buy yourself anything you want without hubby thinking he's doing you a favour.

Truth is, na money dey yab man.

If a man is rich, all these won't be an issue. The woman can even sit at home, lounge and Spa and hubby will be filling out allowance with joy.

You see your Bolded Statement,, that is what we continue to pray for.
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So that No Jupiter or Hades (whether from the heavens or from the hells) would ever bring it inside her mind to leave all those fat allowances in her account, and still think of stealing anything again for any reason..
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Let that spirit of stealing disappear and die.!!

femi4:
Like buying aso ebi cos your friends insist you must buy.

An average woman cannot separate her needs from wants.

Women and Aso-ebi...
Women and fashion.
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At times, women think that what they take as priorities are also priorities for the men.
-- Fashion Accessories and Aso-ebi things for instance.
(Colour Of the Day at events, Every Month change of Wardrobe, e.t.c)

Lollittaa:
[color=gray]why so selfish [/color]

Selfish??
I guess you got me wrongly here

unscripted:
Let love lead ..

A man that does not acknowledge that women just loves money even when they don't have what to do with it is not ready for marriage..

A man that does not know that when his wife spends his money (even when she has her own) taste different to her .. is not ready for marriage responsibilities..

Thats why I say let love lead .
My wife will always steal my money .. in short I make it a duty to inform her of the money she shouldn't steal , I would have to lie that it has a specific importants and she won't go near it ..

I say a big Amen to that prayer .. May heaven bless me enough , so she can steal away without me being concerned ..

(@bolded)


You see, that particular day that you informed her about the money, she won't go near it.
But the next day, she will still tamper with it again.
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So, does it mean that it's everyday that you have to be constantly reminding her about the money, and why she must never tamper with it??

igbosoupkitchen:
Marriage works better as team work, never one-sided..the moment the me-factor comes in, trust me, even things that should be fun becomes a source of trouble...

I will investigate this “Me”-Factor later, and x-ray the real causes of it.
But for the topic in question, it's all about the future..
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Like for instance:
You said that the “stealing” thing is fun between you and your husband, and that both of you have fun doing it to yourselves.
That's really fun.
Honestly, it's fun that way.
But then, the kids will soon grow older and start joining you guys in the fun, and be “rolling like that” with you guys.. And naturally at first, you guys might be thinking it was the other spouse - unto say, na we-we - not knowing that some of the kids had joined the fun.

emmanuelewumi:
Nothing bad if a wife steals from an irresponsible husband who is making money.

A woman stole from her husband over a period of 10 years, she used the fund to expand her business, buy land and built a house for the family.

When the husband lost his job and could afford the house rent, the woman took the husband to the house she has built for the family courtesy of what she had been stealing from her husband over a period.

The husband was happy and asked how come the wife did not steal more than she stole perhaps that would have built 2 houses for the family

You see this one, na them sabi..
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It's actually not what I was trying to point out.

Lollittaa:
[color=forestgreen]you're a stingy man [/color]

I guess that tag is better than being a thief..
So, Think about it.

kingmsookwagh:
Op! From the long epistle of yours, all I deducted was you striving to create another angle from the lady's point. You just had a different perception from hers.

but don't impose it on us. I for one felt she was indirectly praying for her husband to be rich to the point that he won't even notice money missing. That's a bipolar view from yours. But obviously, you instead, tried to fault it.
OP! Mind ya self o!

I stated what I saw, and that was how I saw it.
Even if money wants to miss, let it miss then..
Must she tell God in prayers that she wants to be a thief??
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And I repeat it here again..
“That prayer is a very very baadd prayer. It doesn't deserve an AMEN..”

Antoeni:
It’s an Inbuilt Thing, Once you Bear the Title Wife, That Demon of Stealing begins to Manifest

You call it “Title”..
Me, I call it “Tag”...
A lot of wives these days had made the tag a very useless tag.

dejio42:
The same reason you refused to return mommy's change when she send you on an errand when you still never get sense

You suppose be bad pikin when you small ooo.
A lot of us dey return change well well when we small oo.

igbosoupkitchen:
You have no idea how much fun it is, even the other way around. Have u ever been privileged to hear discussions about the missing money btw husband and wife, hilarious i must tell you....

I take my husband's money and he takes mine, not because of anything, but just the fun of having to talk and gist and yab over those incidents. Marriage is a teamwork, wen I'm broke he supports me and when he's broke I support him. We cant actually steal from each other??

My hubby knows that wenever his money is missing na me, and i know wen mine is missing na him, so no instance of punishing the kids, we roll like that..this life no hard like that biko

Let me take it as an understanding between the both of you, and that it is fun for you.
For most wives, their money is known as:
“Touch not my money, and do my wallet no harm”
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Meanwhile, the kids will soon grow older and start joining you guys in the fun, and be “rolling like that” with you guys.. And naturally at first, you guys might be thinking it was the other spouse - unto say, na we-we - not knowing that some of the kids had joined the fun.

Guyman02:
I am careless in keeping money as long as it's I'm my pocket. By morning I realise that the money has reduced but most times I won't even know the amount because I didn't count it before hanging my clothes from the office. It's obvious my wife takes the money and will cause quarrel if I try to confront her

Any day that you are ready to confront her,, just count the money well well before hanging your clothes..
In the morning, just ask her with full authority, and tell her the actual amount that was missing, and even the denominations that they are.
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If you confront her, and you're not very sure of how much that was missing, my dear, you are definitely going to be the devil that day for accusing her wrongly.

P1PrinceKT:
Let me told you how they might plan for her trap as soon as she looks for a better position .

Nigeria is Nigeria.

Just look at the leader of the @BBOG and how she will answer the questions about the missing funds.
✓before was she not saint?

Until that time comes.
She showed credibility with a small office.
It shows that she can do same with a bigger office..
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Jesus said such too.

WorldRichest:
Let me ask my wide wife if she has been stealing "our" money.

She will never admit, until you catch her red-handed.
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If you ask her, the response you will get from her will be:
“Is your money missing?? Why are you asking me this kind of nonsense question?”.
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My brother, na there you go even regret bringing up the question to her.
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But in reality, the possibility that she had been stealing from your wallet, and that she even did it recently, is very high.

Kingluqman:
En hand don collect, so en mouth no fit talk truth again or even en brain think right.

Do we have saint politician in this country?

Yes we have..
At least, one was outstandingly spotted recently.
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The Councilor from Bayelsa State Who built a community bridge with the money that was legit meant for her personal consumption.