₦airaland Forum

jhydebaba: Her problem should be psycological. People like that would have been told series of lies when they were young for example: when a boy touches you, you get pregnant not to talk of when he holds you. So, the fear of socializing with boys will be building up over the years and when she finally grows up with that mentality, it will be difficult to change her.
My 10naira note:

She needs somebody to stand by her always and to convince her that guys are not always like that but if the Devil will add 'insult' to her 'injury' she will meet a player. I swear, she will never move closer to men again in her life.

Lool that part is funny but true

I think its a cool thing...i dated this girl for over a year,when we broke up and i bumped into her and she called me by my first name it sound really weird coz i couldnt remember the last time she called me by my name we alwayz call eachother baby then

edwardaigb: Let appreciate our own bcz i appriciate everyone of them. For the haters, get a life.

Leave them..let them keep hating..99.9% of all these fools hating are probs people that dosent even know what their talent is

[quote author=musiwa.]I think the people who have been saying Nigeria should continue, are not good people. when you look at the level of violent in Nigeria.

Look it is not possible to continue with the nation of Nigeria. But some people because of their own selfishness want the country to continue even while they know millions may die. It is an issue of people selfishness , that they are more important than the people.

You cant force people to live together. and I believe any southern christain living in the north should relocate. the govt can not protect them. Now on the issue of some northenener been christain. Majority of Northerners are muslim. the far north for example have more than 95% of its citizen been muslim. And I believe they should break up Nigeria to protect the people.

Even while you have some little muslim in the south. Their form of islam is different from the one in the north. There are different type of Islamic believe. that what I understand. just like you have different churches.. Their believe is different too.



Ethnicity play a major role in this crisis in the north.... which people are not talking about. I am a believer in the break up of nigeria to protect the life of the people. I dont think I want thousand of people I know to die because of adenuga money .. Even Adenuga is not going to leave inheritance for any yoruba person. So why should the yorubas die for Adenuga money that he will leave for his own children.. Adenuga and his children should worry about their inheritance and nobody I believe should risk his family for Adenuga children hesitancy.

I dont think We should risk the life of millions for adenuga or dangote children inheritance.. It is not worth that..

As far as I am concern, it will never be well with anyone who want nigeria to continue after many violent. It shall never be well with that person and his family. It shall not be well with them in the morning, it shall not be well with them in the afternoon. It shall not be well with them in the night. the pain of a suicide bomb shall be their lot .[/quote]The sooner Nigerians realise this fact and start working on it the better it would be for everyone

DivideUs: help break it up peacefully!!

Best way

MrPrsdent: f.u''ck your mum pussy

and stop opening useless threads

Lol now i know u the biggest fool on here

[quote author=Isale_eko]@OP ^^^^

You got your answer up there.

You are wondering why they are still single only because of one reason. One reason only and that is because you are not close to many of them. I am close to very many of them and I must tell you they are not manageable i.e. they are not marriageable. Many (not all) of them have horrible and stinking attitudes. Believe me, the really fine girls, with good home training, get married before they are 25. The good ones are taken and all you have left is the chaff.

Anecdotal evidence abound that ladies who get married before they are 25 are less likely to divorce than those who marry after they are 29.[/quote]Fact!!!

MrPrsdent: Your original post gave the impression that she was still under life imprisonment. I stepped in,to inform you that she was given clemency(reducing the life sentence) in 2010. No where in my post did i mention she was FREED.

Brof shut up pls...d main reason for d post is to ask a question not you coming up here with your ''i too know''

MrPrsdent: In 1994, Sara Kruzan was sentenced to life without parole at the age of 16. Now 35, Sara was granted clemency by then California Gov. Arnold Schwarzenegger in 2010.

@OP
Get your facts right

I too know will kill you...her sentence was reduced to 25years,she's still in prison

And thats not even the question i asked KMT!!!

Billyonaire: Its because ladies take kisses seriously and sensually, while the man is just using the kiss as a staircase to the real deal...

Good point lol

Sara Kruzan was born by a drug addict mum to a father thats serving a long term prison sentence,At the age of 11, she met 31 year old Howard, calling himself "G.G.", who, it is alleged, began grooming her for a life of prostitution. By the age of 13, Kruzan became a victim of human trafficking, forced to work as a child prostitute, and subjected to sexual abuse. At the age of 16, she was sentenced to life imprisonment without parole after being convicted of murdering her alleged love-vendor...

Now my question is,would you say ''she is who she is'' or she was affected by the whole Nature and Nurture thing

Pls i wanna you guyz thoughts on this

90 day rule!!! what the hell is that,?? can you imagine the amount of congi that
would have accumulated in your system in 90 days, that level of congi fit cause madness.[/quote]OMDaizzzz looool am actually rolling on d floor..dats really funny man

sexkillz: [color=#000030]She is 23, planning to get married to you and doesn't allow you to hold her phone?

*Singing "Fire on the mountain" by Asa. . .* [/color]

loool

Another Okija: Really!!

Just researched it and found out my Primary school english teach (Miss Mercy) was a diseased a'nal b'itch for teaching me otherwise..

My bad hommes..

loool...this is really funny... Take it easy on her lol

drzed: Let me help you re-phrase your statement so you can get a different perspective of your own argument/logic:

"the only Achievement majority of Nigerians in cities can boast of is EXPOSURE ...in my opinion, only the wise ones makes that bold step to relocate back to the villages.

How does that sound to you? Oya, we are waiting for you to relocate back to your village. Dont forget to take your 'exposure' along with you. And make sure you dont loose it (exposure) along the way o! cos that's the only thing you have over your village counterparts.

You are missing some points here! let me explain it to you..relocating from Village to City, you are still in the same country where you have equal RIGHT with the rest of the people in the city you relocate to. You can never have the same right with these white people coz its not your country and if you eventually become a citizen of that country theres still gonna be some kind of discrimination against you because of your skin colour and you will always be second citizen FACT!

And the point of this topic is ''What Motivates Diasporans To Relocate Back To Nigeria'' and part of the answer in my own opinion is EXPOSURE coz you are more expose to alot of things your mates back home are not expose to (thats if you have brain anywayz) no offense tho,just saying. let me give you a couple of Examples...

(1) James Ibori(Ex Governor of Delta State)...he took that bold step and relocate back to NIgeria coz he feels his brainy and expose enough to maneuver his way to riches in Nigeria which he couldnt do while he was living in UK and guess what eventually he did but overdo it(greediness) which landed him where he is today

(2) Michael Sata(President of Zambia)...He was a railway sweeper in london,he took that bold step and relocate back to his country and becomes the president of his fatherland

Bottomline is if you got brain and exposed,theres a better chance of you making it big in your fatherland than washing pots and sweeping the street in oversea SIMPLE.

justwise: This is a narrow minded view, not everybody that relocated were happy with the move, some went back to the west after some times.

Many Nigerians have made other countries their 'home' and still visit Nigeria to invest and for other reasons, refusing to move permanently does not make them unwise, rather does it mean that they are unpatriotic.

Nigeria is my home by default, that does not mean that i will live and die there, wherever i found myself and happy is where i call 'home'.

Yea you right..I guess you have a pretty good job you doing wherever in oversea you are...speak for yourself brof,but you know there alot of people in oversea that wake up at 6.00am in that cold weather to go and wash toilet or resume in kitchen or carer house.Would you say there lifes is better of if they were in Nigeria?

[quote author=chreld_b]Personally I think almost everyone that has commented on this thread so far has some good points and are relatively correct (different strokes for different folks). In my own opinion, if you are a Nigerian (raised in Nigeria), it is better to settle in Nigeria in the long run but foreign exposure is absolutely necessary. it is a big mistake to assume that relocating from Nigeria to a more developed country equates to a happier life and access to greener pastures. If that is where an individual lays their hope on then they are almost hopeless. if you choose to go abroad (a better developed country) for the purpose of exposure, furthering your education, getting abreast with modern trends e.t.c in whatever career or occupation you choose to be involved in with the aim of adding value to and developing yourself then your on track. But if you relocate as a result of frustration with the happenings in the country (which i cant blame anyone for doing @ this point in time) then you are simply gambling and may most likely return in the same frustration that made you run away in the first place. Bottomline diaspora no be heaven o and Nigeria no be hell to. if you know what your doing, you will know what to do [/quote]This comment makes alot of sense.the only Achievement majority of Nigerians in diaspora can boast of is EXPOSURE...in my opinion,only the wise ones makes that bold step to relocate back home.

Sometimes i dont blame Nigerians that goes to oversea and try their possible best to change their nationality...No future for the poor masses wiv these kind of leaders

Man no be God so anything can happen

Its so obvious that theres nothing for Nigeria again as a country so whoever that wants to risk his/her neck to keep Nigeria together(be my guest)
I cant wait for the break up to happen..i pray it happens fast and bloodless

Only God can safe us from all these wicked leaders...The best thing that can happen to Nigeria is a NEW START and that can only happen if we go our separate ways...every region should go and start all over again and learn from Nigeria mistakes...Theres nothing for Nigeria as a country again coz these is the kind of new we gonna continue hearing

Nigerians love to complain about every little thing...thats one of the problem thats moving us backward. If you dont want your car to be clamped, why would you park where they says NO PARKING? This kind of conduct is everywhere in Western World

How can Nigeria be a better country when we have these kind of people as leaders Have been saying this and i will continue to say it 'The northerners are Nigeria's problem' Boko Haram are killing innocent people and his calling it JUSTICE!!!Who knows maybe his one of the people behind them....I cant wait for the CIA prediction on Nigeria to come true...I seriously dont have faith in Nigeria again! having these sort of brainless people as leaders.

You can date someone older than you but not someone old enough to be your mother...thats just stupidity and lack of ambition

These Nothern leaders are just plain thieves..Now they are complaining coz they not getting what they were getting when their people was in power....can u imagine! His calling from his base in Washington USA while his people are suffering from poverty and insecurity....I seriously cant wait for Nigeria to break up and let everyone have a fresh state in building there region