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Just let her be.

Don't over-work your mind.

Freshtruth:
Picture Seyi Tinubu Posted This Morning

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When you don't need to bother about what your 5th generation will eat because you and your father stole the commonwealth, kept quite in the face of insecurity and shared rice to pacify gullible Nigerians.

WhiteIverson:
You want all this but you're a solid 3/10

I mean look at where your hairline starts

I disagree...she's damn fine.

ThierryJay:
Personally, I did not expect Messi to win it. Obviously the World cup win still somehow had a major role to play and that blame rests on FIFA.

FIFA putting the voting commencement period in December must have confused several voters that the World cup was still a factor. Many of these footballers are not as arithmetically accurate as some of we fans and the WC sentiments played in. Voting period should have been clearly stated as Jan - Dec 2023.

This is the only Messi award that I'd clearly say another player deserves which is Haaland. I'm sure even Messi did not expect it and that may have influenced his absence.

Like I said the joke is on FIFA and doesn't take anything away from Messi's previous successes. Messi is the GOAT but he wasnt the best player of 2023.

Oshe... mathematician... you think football is maths and the voters are dumb to not understand dates. Somehow, you think you are smarter than the voters....SMH

When a criminal is your president, expect anything.

SMH.... Nigeria come resemble ponzi scheme

007Marvel:
You are just as ignorant as the person you are emulating

I look at you and see the adverse effect of not having a dictionary.

007Marvel:
Messi is a better footballer no doubt! But saying he's a better Athlete than Ronaldo is way off the mark! You only need to fully understand what athlete means!

Stop advertising your ignorance online.

007Marvel:
Sick of you to think I would envy someone that doesn't even know of my very existence! It's like envying Elon Musk! Yes Messi is a better footballer but not a better Athlete! It's more than being good at a particular sport!

According to google, an athlete is a person who competes in one or more sports involving physical strength, speed, power, or endurance, this is just incase you skipped classes.

007Marvel:
Ronaldo is a better Athlete if you know what the word means! Messi is gifted! So he doesn't have to do much to excell but Ronaldo has had to break human limitations to keep up! I doubt people giving out award even knows what those awards represents anymore.

Somehow, you think you are more clever than all the award organizers. Is Messi not an athlete? Or you are the one who doesn't understand basic English.

Envy is evil.

Unnecessary

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Freshtruth:
Messi secretly knows ronaldo is better than him but shame won't let him admit it. Ronaldo invited him to Italy but he no feel go Ronaldo went to EpL at 37 still invites messi to come n challenge him but messi still no still come . Ronaldo was hoping messi still comes and challenge him at Saudi abrabia but guess what scary messi ran to USA . the question is why is messi always afraid of facing Ronaldo??

But they were both in Laliga and Messi beat him hands down.... During the period they both played in Laliga, Messi had more goals, more assists , more mvps, more individual awards and more trophies. So what's your point? So Messi should follow Ronaldo anywhere he goes just to prove what point? an non existing comparison that exists in the minds of penaldo fans.....

Dancebreaker:
This is where our leaders have failed woefully. Ideally, the local Oba/Igwe/Emir/duke's palace recognised by the Local Govt and Chieftaincy affairs Ministry of bride's paternal homestead/place of marriage should play a big role. A palace official approved by the ministry ought to witness traditional marriages and issue a recognised/valid Customary Marriage Certificate. This can then be forward to govt marriage registry.

So that one can decades later obtain a copy from marriage registry, say kids or grandkids, in the future.

We don't seem to be truly proud of our African heritage or take it to the next level. Eating oha or Ewedu soup, or wearing agbada or Ishiagwu is not how to be African. Anyone can eat any food or wear any clothes but not promote that culture.

But by looking at a core part of culture and make it modern to endure into the future. Traditional marriage/bride price is part of it.

Very true...It couldn't have been said any better.

Africans will do their wedding according to the African tradition and still do it the white man's way - total madness. Even the church certificate is not useful anywhere except it comes from the court, so why all the stress?

If we are wise, we would marry the African way and if need be, we ask a priest or pastor for marital prayer or blessings. Nothing more.

Parental blessings/prayers supersede any other.

Dude knows he can no longer push the competiton.....

No one can compete with ingenuity - you either give up or it swallows you.

If he continues the rivalry it will definitely shatter his mental health. CR7 has become wise.

God bless them both...

Messi is the greatest. QED

Bentonite1:
Op he achieved nothing. Dmaria was the key. go and watch those games and see for yourself. even in the finals against Nigeria it was dmaria who scored that beautiful goal from outside the box to hand Argentina the trophy. including the world cup finals, dmaria changed the game for them. they know what he does, that was why he was rested until finals and he delivered.

You mean the frauds penalty kicks? 5 penalties in his 7 goals hahahah laughable. if it was Ronaldo you all will say all kinds of trashh..

Confirm that frauds goals against those south American teams, 90% came from friendlies.
more reason he's called king of friendlies.

his goals from competitive competition is not even up-to halve of ronaldo's goals in competitive tournaments. make enquiries and come back. I tell you facts.

RONALDO without penalties in international level still has 102 goals, help me confirm Messi without penalties in international level hahahah, king of penalties

RONALDO SCORED ONLY ONE GOAL IN THE WORLD CUP, AND GUESS WHAT - IT WAS A PENALTY.

IF DI MARIA WAS THEY KEY, WHY DOES MESSI ALWAYS WIN THE GOLDEN BALL? PEOPLE LIKE YOU WATCH ONE MATCH AND MAKE A HASTY GENERALIZATION.

FROM UNDER 20 WORLD CUP - QATAR 22, MESSI HAS WON THE GOLDEN BALL.

EVERYONE IN MANCHESTER UNITED HATES MESSI - WE KNOW WHY.

But France got two penalties in the final.... and ARGENTINA still won..... scripted too? Y'all are dumb.

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Na she score, Na she win, Na she collect money, Na she Fifa, ESPN etc use on Twitter, Na she commot clothe, Na u body dey pepper...
Well done

Go Girl.... Even those with no purpose who go unclad on Instagram and FB are talking too....

Acidosis:
Oga falseprophet, you are not a Levite

This is the new testament understanding of tithes:

10 Bring the whole tithe into the storehouse, that there may be food in my house. Test me in this,” says the LORD Almighty, “and see if I will not throw open the floodgates of heaven and pour out so much blessing that there will not be room enough to store it.

Are you a storehouse?

How are you a Levite? Are you a member of the Hebrew tribe of Levi? Please educate me....

Adeolaeniola:
A legend that never achieves any tangible trophy for his country am refer to deco, C.ronaldo will always be GOAT.
I can count the times that Messi runs from national duties when the needs arise. whether bad or worse Ronaldo always stands by his country.
To all dwarf fans quoting me since, Portugal has never won anything before the era of C.RONALDO. ORORO liberates his country from trophy drought. Show me the trophy that Argentina has not won before the era of Messi.
There was a time that Argentina's legends wish to have Ronaldo on their national team.

Out of context

BigBizzy:
You be small boy

If that makes you happy.... I agree

BigBizzy:
OP something dey worry you sha...

With your overly claim of hardwork, what haven't you made it to be overly sufficient? You still dey find person to find fault up and down.

Do you think you don't have flaws that she's managing?

All these small boys think say na so marriage dey.

Trust me, you're not ready to marry.

I just looked at your profile and if the picture you have there is anything like a recent photo of you, you are the small boy... ..

Why can't you be reasonable in your comment or just walk away....?

for someone who joined Nairaland in 2006, I'm not a small boy.

Myer:
The irony of life.
You hate anyone who is lazy yet in the name of love you want to force yourself to marry a lazy woman.

I have a colleague whose wife is a type of your girlfriend and all I can say is he is not happily married. He laments every time over his wife.

Truth is laziness is a stronghold. She can however change but only with continual deliverance. You will be prepared to endure and have a lot of patience.

I perceive you're a believer so I guess the obvious question is have you prayed concerning her?
If you need divine direction for other needs, how much more for the wife you will spend the rest of your life with?

No one can determine a man's wife for him except him.
Any 2 persons can marry if God wills or allows it.

Life is spiritual, she already has the best part- good character and virginity.
However an unbending spirit and laziness is a combination that destroys marriages insidiously.
Mothers are pivotal to what becomes of a home.

I don't judge superficially, all I can say is that you should not rush the marriage at all.
Both of you should seek counsel from marriage counsellors in your church that you respect.
Start with prayer, continue with prayer, end with prayer.

You will get marriage right in Jesus name. Amen.

Amen

owolabiza:
Never give up on the push for her to achieve her set goals, there might be need for one on one discussion trying to figure out her likes and dislikes which can be used to develop her passion.

I feel her background might not have exposed her to the hustling spirit as your own side but if you truly love her, you would not give up.
The reward is a great one afterwards, bet me..

Humble, trustworthy and decent girls are hard to see in this our recent times, it takes the grace of God for one to meet a 80% self made lady who has the earlier mentioned characteristics.

I pray the almighty guide you in all your endeavours but truth is that YOU CAN'T HAVE IT ALL.

Thanks and God bless you

Entanglement:
foolish men like you still exist?🫤

Please change your name to bobrisky because both of you share the same stupidity

Later in life this ediot will blaming innocent village people for his downfall

Why did you abuse me? It shows how you were raised - failed parenting

Blazebond:
Mr man stop writing long epistle,leave her if she is not fitting into your type of woman,stop looking at people on the internet to decide for you,nor be everybody want to become millionaires or billionaires,some people just want a simple life so if you are not the type that wants a simple wife or a stay at home wife,now is the time to go,stop destroying someone you claim to love on the internet where nobody including me don't give a damn about you.

Why are u this bitter?.... If you read the article well, I highlighted that the decision to continue or withdraw is solely mine, however, a piece of advice would do.

Secondly, I am not destroying anyone cos no identity was published. I even withheld the type of commodity she wanted to trade - I was being discreet.

Lastly, You were not forced to comment, just take your bitter self somewhere else....... Neither do I give a rat's ass about you.