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mkoabiola:
What does it take care to learn ICT?
Hw long does it take?
I av interest in ICT.
BT hw do u av time for ICT being a doctor

bro, i love ICT.. in fact, i am making that transition slowly.. I work as an eye care specialist only on saturdays and as a senior developer mondays through fridays.. I learned programming languages when I was in school ... i am self taught though.. I didntt want to search for jobs and ICT was the skill i could readily assimiliate without struggle... It take interest and determination to fully get the skill.. To be frank with you, I dont think I am there yet but i was part of the team that developed Internet Bankiing for several banks (names withheld) in nigeria... Bro, ICT is the future... Learn it and be good in it... I am always excited to assist people in getting these skills. I believe THE NEXT BIG THING would come from africa ... I could teach you pro bono... I must tell you the obvious truth, ICT people dont have time for anything...

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placeofallure:
The moniker is Place of Allure. You sure know what allure means

No, mind telling me?

i read it as place of failure sha

pocohantas:
This thing you're saying is stale.
Whenever this topic comes up, you guys would be talking off point. The issue isn't him loving his mum, I doubt there is anywhere in my post that said he shouldn't love his mum.

The issue is not being able to take decisions without his mother's influence. If you think it's acceptable, marry a mom's girl that would put her mom before you, then put your own mom before her. Keep on taking decisions with your mothers influences. Let's see how the marriage will end up.

Fuckeen hypocrisy. Justifying what you all can't take. I'm out of here jare.

is this what the thread is about? i didnt read the content but the topic... but then any other day, its my mum first.. all my childhood memories are still sharp in my head... some people have terrible mums .. i dont... if i lose my life, my wife can remarry and she would mourn me for only a time but my mum would mourn me all her life... mums can give their lives for their sons but wives cant.... i owe no one no apology.. if im in a critical situation where i have to choose who would live between my mum and wife.... i would choose my mum.. if you were born into affluence, you might never know what manner of love mums have for their children esp their sons... I remember just like yesterday when i got into admitted into school but there was no money to process my admission.. when i told her i was admitted into UNIBEN.. she was filled she joy and it became sour and she started to cry when she remembered it would cost money to be in med school for 6 good years... no where she didnt borrow money from to make sure i process the admission... I am a licensed health practitioner now. all thanks to her.... in fact, you made me emotional... i am going to call her now and say "THANK YOU" for no apparent reason...


In fact, i would choose my dad over anyone else sef .... u go born sha... me i know that one

pocohantas:
I guess while typing this, you forgot the mother may also be reaping what she did to her own MIL. Naso!!!

lol.. its a cycle my dear... you would join someday... its inevitable

placeofallure:
I agree with you, you can be a doctor and be knowledgeable about other things. My medico boyfriend while we were in school had time to be in medical school and still be the Chief striker of the school football team. He was so good that some football team in the Nigerian League used to hire him. I also have a doctor friend who was a prolific novelist and poet, a very good one at that.


I love your signature

i do spoken word poetry too.. but not pofessionally

thank you for loving my signature but whats with ya moniker ni



place of failure?

horia:
Lawyers, at times, are carrier women.

See my fantasy ... Dr and Barr (Mrs) MyFirstName MyLastName when interoduced together

and i like their corporate short black skirt and jacket with the heels they wear... huge turn on my dear.... God kon punish me.. she kon fair join .. kukuma me oo

nkemdi89:
Marry a police woman, nothing feels good like living in the barracks and your children will know all the Nigerian language, culture and cuisine.

hahhahahaha.. i thew my drink away out of laughter.... a police woman you say?


living in the barracks you added.


i know you joking... u did well

pocohantas:
Boiz, does it have to be a competition?
Why are you men like this? Why did you marry her? To procreate, putting her life on the line and you keep loving your mother. What if she decides to love her own father and maybe siblings more, what love would be left for you both to enjoy as a couple?

Let's be realistic, it makes no sense.
Mothers should stop this blackmail, raise your sons to be strong men. They should go and create their own family. The bible said a man would leave his parents and cleave to his wife, it didn't make exception for single mothers or double mothers!!!

Can you marry a woman who boldly tells you, you come after her father? Women hardly make this statement, it's always you men. Can't you all be men for once. If your wives are not in a competition with side chicks, they're in a competition with your mothers, sisters, brothers...even family pet.

pocobaby, you didnt answer my one simple question.Ever heard of OEDIPUS COMPLEX... it is a sigmeud freud theory that is accepted globally.. although its usage has changed in recent times but its initial meaning is evident in almost all homes... it is stronger with mums and first sons..... as for the bolded, I hear ladies say "I WANT A LADY WHO WOULD LOVE ME LIKE MY DAD"=> anything short is inadequate.... you would become a mother in law someday.. I just wish i would be there to tell you "I TOLD YOU SO" if/when it happens..

pocohantas:
If you dad put his own mother over your mother, his wife... Would you be happy? I wonder how some of you reason.
Your mum has enjoyed her life with your father, let your wife enjoy you her husband. Or does she have to wait till your son grows and the cycle continues.

Is your wife not receiving insults to take care of you guys kids?
Nawa!

Poco how would you feel if your son chooses his wife over you.. Especially if you trained him as a single mum

DokitaDave:
When you see tribalists, no matter their level of education, they'll still show forth what they've got. So sad

i am not a tribalist my dear, have i have travelled to nearly all the geopolitical zones in nigeria but NE... I have had encounter with several tribes and from my observation, the yoruba gals lead in the bleaching challenge... it has nothing to do with tribalism.

eastsidechillz:
Bro I understand how you feel. I was in the same situation until I realizes that too much chemicals in the creams is the root cause.

Try organic creams.

Presently am using COOLING ALEO and DETTOL EVEN TONE SOAP the combo is out of this world.

I bought the cream in GAME stores, if you can't get it try any cream with ALEO Vera

Gentelle lotion is an example, buy the original from any UK store the types we have here re all fakes.

Try that DETTOL eventone that soap is very good. It has apricot scrub in it too.

hmmm... aloe is good for the skin... thanks i would do my research ASAP...

heavy and gluey eyes (when you wake) occur as a result of bacterial infections...... using laptop or anything that has potential or emitting radiations for a long time pose a great risk to eyesight but wearing of shades isnt the best way.. theres somthing we call AR coating... it reflects all lights as the name suggest and gives a cool view of whatever you see.... try to visit an eye specialist for more info

FitnessDoctor:
hahaha.. how is your weekend going?

Stressful ooo... But a man got to do what a man got to do

Oga, see set up oo. No wahala sha.. I am at the clinic now but I would try

sexybbstar:
I'm serious, I don't accept pms. He's the reason y I don't because I don't think I need someone else again. Guys here can testify to it that Ive never accepted their pms.

OK ma, Good luck all the same

omosefeeguaibor:
most of the doctor friends I know are vast in other fields, politics, sports, economics just name it, its a matter of where interest will lie @ the end of the day. Doctor or not it can't be restricted to just health alone.

I agree. For example, I'm a doctor, I'm also an ICT consultant. Yes, I write codes and build apps for companies. But if I marry a doctor, it isn't going to go down well with me. My preference though. I just cant marry a doctor no matter how hot and pretty she looks

sexybbstar:
Na so now, anyway I'm not searching.

You don't look like you not searching. Don't worry one of these guys will contact you soon. You are selling yourself as the marriageable type. Good luck ma

FitnessDoctor:
I see

In your case I could say the best way to get your complexion back is to do the opposite of everything you did before..

I believe that drugs are just there to speed up the process and they don't actually make you fair, so you might have given up too early..

What kind of cream do you use?

He gave me doxycycline and a girl friend told me to use either nivea or jergens... My dear, I became darker. I have lightened up though since I installed ac in my apartment and my office is ac tight. But not as fair as I was. If I wasn't a doctor, I wouldn't care but I think my patients would trust my medical judgment/diagnosis more if my face was fresher and smoother.


Currently I don't use creams. I am scared of bleaching. All these girls esp Yoruba gals bleaching makes it horribly terrifying to try.

FitnessDoctor:
I can see boiz2men viewing this thread..

How are you doing my very good friend?

Bro, I am doing great. I must be frank with you. I helped myself through school via hardwork under the sun.. I'm a fair guy but my face would make you think otherwise. My dermatologist friend prescribed something for me but to no avail. I have given up since I don't want to bleach. I rather stay dark than bleach

This op has been taking guys side for a while now...

Its either she's faking it or she's real.

Op.. You trying to find a guy here?

Romance section isn't the place. There are so many gossip cliques and fuckboys here.

I am a doctor and the last thing I would do is marry a doctor. Our children would not be versed in different issues relating to life. My wife would be either an accountant or any finance or business person or a lawyer.


Doctors are smart people, their children ought to be smart too. Marry a doctor means their children would be knowledgeable about health only

For those of you doubting this



My colleague finished from opt Dept in uniben. He said the lecturer was employed in 2015 and that one time while she was lecturing in 218LT .some boys came to harass her .


The story is so true

One guy on this thread is getting green light from a girl on this thread too but the guy isn't seeing it or he isn't interested.


The other guy on this thread already sent a pm but the babe hasn't replied him yet. How do I know?


I'm a mind bender. I am the avatar

6. Those that are auspicious and positive about their future. Judge them at your peril.

Cinderella5:
I just want to know if she heard something about Nigerian guys, maybe size of their joysticks or something.

you see your life..

not brain, not physic but pennis...

i dey tke one kind eye look u

TSOM:
It's an attention-craving thread all the same. If a Nigerian girl tries creating one, the attacks would have been far gone before I even register my presence on the thread. That she's a foreigner - an exotic 'welcome' to the 'usual' Nigerian females we are all used to - and you're trying to justify this nonsense lends further credence to my assertions on this thread. Yes, I ruined your fun, mental slaves. There's no way you can butt-lick her now without looking silly and servile

i didn't want to reply this but you would be sending the wrong messages. I have noticed you cant make a complete sentence without consulting your arsenal of INSULTS and this speaks volume of your personality.

But, heres why I dont see anything wrong in the op's thread.

1. shes foreign and she stated she wanted naija friends...


shes has a thousand SA friends and this is a naija forum, so she thought she could find a naija friend here... if she does this in a south african forum, she would be bashed bitterly (i guess).. If a 9ja girl does this in a 9ja forum... it is hypocritical.. lots of guys (in real life) try to be friend her but she acts all important only to come online to find a 9ja friend. If this 9ja girl goes to reddit, we wouldnt care at all... not in a 9ja forum..


2. XENOPHOBIA
N.B: if South Africans currently detest nigerians... and one in that many SA wants a 9ja friend and you come up with those things you said.. you give her every credence to believe what every other SA think about nigerians...


3. Butt LIck

Really? U think im butt licking?

the OP is real and needing of a a pen pal (online)... she doesnt look fabulously pretty to want to troll with a pic not breath taking (no harm intended)....

Did you see that? who butt licks a lady and tells her how not so good looking she is?

Your comment was uncalled for and yes nigerian gals shouldnt crave for online attention in a nigerian forum when they get lots of attention (from nigerians) offline and snub them all..

LePrezident:
I don't even understand all that you've typed cos I'm not really following the thread. Do you know I'm just seeing the thread topic? I've not even read the opening comment as it's none of my BI

then go open your thread and chat with zaza (or wareva) .. u are derailing this thread and its purpose..... i wont reply you again.. doing so wuld help u derail it further.