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Jodha:
It's her decision...he had already broken up with him ....

She should nurse his broken heart and quit shouting foul...

If I read correctly, she officially broke up with him. Yes. Its her decision. That's why I said I fear women. The babe you might be dating might be dating others...

Guys don't marry who is available.

Jodha:
Fear woman Asin..... it's obvious he wasn't ready to settle down any time soon....and he kept leading her own and wasting her time...


She came to her senses and obviously did the right thing ...yhu should fear yhur fellow men....

Look how he's coming here to act like the Saint that did absolutely nothing wrong..

He's still serving. How could he be ready?

The babe was desperate. If I met her today and asked a month later, she might say yes.

pocohantas:
You shouldn't be worried, you should be open minded. Guys like OP are nurturers, useful for understanding men, relationships and prick. That is before we marry those established guys- the same ones you all told to leave woman and hustle. He has hustled and he is ready to marry. One of your babes will most likely be snatched.

It is a vicious cycle. Do it for the brotherhood.

Are we not all the available? Is anyone ever presented with all the options in the world? Lol!

They jump for many reasons. For some it is a tough decision, for many it is an opportunistic one. The aim is sha to marry.

You no well!

@bold includes you ?


Be like na to dey do like ubun.ja na sure pass ooo...

Our heart too fragile for nonsense

pocohantas:
It is okay to fear women. OP is doing NYSC, probably in his early-mid 20s. I see him experiencing two more heartbreaks.

The girl my brother was doing love with then, when she broke up with him and got married in record time. He was blasting 2pac and DMX- rapping with anger. "What these bitches want from a nigga?"...

It has been few years, the girl has a child and she seems to be enjoying her marriage. My brother is still here asking me if he should barb his hair like Pogba or Ronaldo. Looking at himself, I am sure he understands her decision now. He is currently dating one smallie that does Snapchat videos and puts flowers on his head.

OP should not bother his head with this kind word problem. He should move on, he'll be fine.

We break up with one, we marry another. The goal is not to become an evening newspaper. While doing this, someone gets hurt.

I'm doing NYSC too.. Shouldnt I be worried?


Women just marry who is available. How do they just jump on any that asks?


I'm concerned about you. Will you break my heart before I complete nysc

I dey fear women oo.. I hope pocohantas is not like this

Gracejeri:
Why are doctors so cold.. They aren't romantic.. You will go out on a date.. Boom.. They are called for emergencies.. Me I'm tired oo, that's why I'm just giving him headaches this January ler me know my stand

Please forgive him. He needs to save lives

pocohantas:
E concern you? Aproko.
Yes, na me.

You know how I have been looking for a rich gf.. Why haven't you become my babe already?

frozen70:
I was quoting his moniker, his moniker is (surgakane)

Hello dear, I studied anatomy and spent some good time studying the eyes.

Do you wear glasses?

I don't Care if she's a feminist or not but there can only be one lead captain in this ship. And its certainly not her...m

You had to state you live in the US.



Your DM will be full. Trust me

pocohantas:
Impress? No.

Not because I do not think they are worth it, but because I am generally a nice person when I am in my best behaviour. I will do anything for you o. Call, chat, listen, cook, clean, take him on dates, gifts...etc.

The problem is, it seems Naija girls are not usually nice to Naija guys, so whenever you are nice to a Naija guy- they start suspecting you or catching feelings anyhow and seeing future.

Poco, that comment you quoted.. Who posted it? I can't find the poster... Was it you?

So babes dey like this

prettysassygirl:
Okay

Are you Nigerian?

frozen70:
It's the excess sugar that you are taking from your sugar kane that is causing diabetes in your brain

Sugarcane

You are welcome

stupidity:
I want to share a new tip to those our new comer brothers in the relationship game.

Please first of all, don’t come here to tell me that my mates are breaking grand innovations overseas by building houses on the air everyone has its area of specialty, everyone’s destiny can’t be the same. We have someone in this Nigeria that his destiny was to come and make 200million people miserable he’s living the life God created that man to come and make Nigerians miserable. And he’s quite good at it. so don’t insult me make we nor carry 2019 issues enter this new year. Nonsense!!


Infact I’m not sharing the tip again

I swear to God. I like you die

Debramaye:
Happy new year to all Nigerians (I'm in the United States so it's not new year officially over here) but hey this is what i found on my niaraland page when i logged in

I see you are an app developer. What's your stack?

Preciousgirl:
Can you imagine?
A guy sent me a Christmas wish via text message : "Merry Christmas to you "

And I replied "Merry Christmas darling"

My husband has seen this message and says I must leave his house. Now I think I have reached the limit. I am leaving for good

How people have not realized you are trolling marvels me

Its so obvious

SteveOfu:
Since we are are sharing our experiences in past relationships let me share mine..
Pls don't laugh...

I remember when I was dating one guy like that ...

Before we met in real life....
During our chat, any time uncle asks what I've eaten..
I will tell him I'm not hungry, how I'm not the foodie type, how I don't eat much...
He will be begging me to eat...
I will pretend not to really like food...

I finally visited him after he's drop by my school to visit me severally...
I decided it was my turn to visit...

Reached his house...
First day
Met stew with chicken...
I boiled white rice, ate and ate ehhhh....
I didn't know when I finished the meat in the stew�...

Second day, I made oha soup..
I ate fufu 4 times that day..
Drank tea,
All the small chops and fruits he used to decorate his fridge to impress me, I finished everything��...

Third day, i was on the second plate of the spaghetti I made when I noticed uncle was squeezing face...
When He couldn't hold it,
He asked,dear I thought you said you don't eat much??

Me: ermmmm���,but you've always begged me to eat naa that's what I'm doing..BTW i don't want you to feel bad I did not eat in your place...
Him: hmmm......you've finished everything in this house o...

Uncle don't know as a student I'm always hungry,
Not that I don't like food..its food I did not see to eat..

Well nobody should ask how we ended...
The relationship ended to the glory of God.

BTW this thing happened many many years ago, when I was a student...
So future boo shoot your shot, no need to worry, I won't finish your food...
Even this Pepsi I'm holding,
It's doctor's prescription�

Did this truly happen or you wanted to lighten our mood

theTransporter:
If a guy ask me I wunt even think it twice, you don't know what it takes for a man to come to you and make such a plea... what I can do 4 a woman I can do 4 a man over ND over

Actually it takes nothing. What you should have said is the man could be armed and that could be a ploy.

A woman can also be a ploy too.

IyaTola:
What's that misconception that people have about you?

1. Men find it difficult to believe it when I say am not in a relationship . They will be like "fine girl like you ".
2. Most of my friends think am so rich and comfortable. When I say I don't have money to give them, am tagged wicked.
3. Alot of people see me as cold, rigid and stubborn maybe because of how I Express myself or how I look. But the few close people in my life will always attest to how soft I can get.

With your dp and personal text. I believe you are single. I know what you want

username1111:
what happened to not entering into a relationship when you are not ready. For those saying I rejected men i'ld say yes I rejected BOYS in my teens cuz I wasn't ready and I started dating at 21 cuz that was when I was ready and about rounding off with University education

Its good you decided to focus on something. But when you started dating, I am certain genuine guys came around but they didn't meet your requirements or were broke. You friendzoned them. The players were given attention because a bad boy is attractive to most ladies.

I sincerely wish this isn't your case.

My advice is keep an open mind. If a guy comes, fine. If he doesn't, live the best of your life.

If Hot, find someone. Guys hardly say to sex

strungup79:
I'm always out of town looking for one job or business. I've just been unfortunate that all my efforts have yielded little or no fruit. It's almost as if there's a curse working against me.

To be honest, it will be difficult getting a job at 42. Only managerial positions at that age. And if you didn't acquire certifications and experience in your glory days, you will be needing a miracle.

Stories like this make me plan to retire before I am 40.


This year will usher in favor for you. That's what you need.

I sympathize with you my dear.

I always tell young girls that men are the prize but they get offended.

In the youth of a girl, she thinks the world is at her feet. Genuine guys come and they are rejected. Unfortunately for her, the genuine guys do not woo them for long (after say a month, they give up). The players however can spend a year trying to win them over.

2 years ago, I tried connecting with a young girl. She didn't even give me a chance. The guy she chose has since left her. And boy.. she has grown fat.

Every womans beauty will fade. It is at this stage they become humble.

Time is a woman's enemy

Life's easier as a man.