Gracejeri:
Why are doctors so cold.. They aren't romantic.. You will go out on a date.. Boom.. They are called for emergencies.. Me I'm tired oo, that's why I'm just giving him headaches this January ler me know my stand

Please forgive him. He needs to save lives

pocohantas:


E concern you? Aproko.
Yes, na me.

You know how I have been looking for a rich gf.. Why haven't you become my babe already?

frozen70:


I was quoting his moniker, his moniker is (surgakane)

Hello dear, I studied anatomy and spent some good time studying the eyes.

Do you wear glasses?

I don't Care if she's a feminist or not but there can only be one lead captain in this ship. And its certainly not her...m

You had to state you live in the US.



Your DM will be full. Trust me

pocohantas:
Impress? No.

Not because I do not think they are worth it, but because I am generally a nice person when I am in my best behaviour. I will do anything for you o. Call, chat, listen, cook, clean, take him on dates, gifts...etc.

The problem is, it seems Naija girls are not usually nice to Naija guys, so whenever you are nice to a Naija guy- they start suspecting you or catching feelings anyhow and seeing future.

Poco, that comment you quoted.. Who posted it? I can't find the poster... Was it you?

So babes dey like this

prettysassygirl:

Okay

Are you Nigerian?

frozen70:


It's the excess sugar that you are taking from your sugar kane that is causing diabetes in your brain

Sugarcane

You are welcome

stupidity:
I want to share a new tip to those our new comer brothers in the relationship game.

Please first of all, don’t come here to tell me that my mates are breaking grand innovations overseas by building houses on the air everyone has its area of specialty, everyone’s destiny can’t be the same. We have someone in this Nigeria that his destiny was to come and make 200million people miserable he’s living the life God created that man to come and make Nigerians miserable. And he’s quite good at it. so don’t insult me make we nor carry 2019 issues enter this new year. Nonsense!!


Infact I’m not sharing the tip again

I swear to God. I like you die

Debramaye:
Happy new year to all Nigerians (I'm in the United States so it's not new year officially over here) but hey this is what i found on my niaraland page when i logged in

I see you are an app developer. What's your stack?

Preciousgirl:
Can you imagine?
A guy sent me a Christmas wish via text message : "Merry Christmas to you "

And I replied "Merry Christmas darling"

My husband has seen this message and says I must leave his house. Now I think I have reached the limit. I am leaving for good

How people have not realized you are trolling marvels me

Its so obvious

SteveOfu:
Since we are are sharing our experiences in past relationships let me share mine..
Pls don't laugh...

I remember when I was dating one guy like that ...

Before we met in real life....
During our chat, any time uncle asks what I've eaten..
I will tell him I'm not hungry, how I'm not the foodie type, how I don't eat much...
He will be begging me to eat...
I will pretend not to really like food...

I finally visited him after he's drop by my school to visit me severally...
I decided it was my turn to visit...

Reached his house...
First day
Met stew with chicken...
I boiled white rice, ate and ate ehhhh....
I didn't know when I finished the meat in the stew�...

Second day, I made oha soup..
I ate fufu 4 times that day..
Drank tea,
All the small chops and fruits he used to decorate his fridge to impress me, I finished everything��...

Third day, i was on the second plate of the spaghetti I made when I noticed uncle was squeezing face...
When He couldn't hold it,
He asked,dear I thought you said you don't eat much??

Me: ermmmm���,but you've always begged me to eat naa that's what I'm doing..BTW i don't want you to feel bad I did not eat in your place...
Him: hmmm......you've finished everything in this house o...

Uncle don't know as a student I'm always hungry,
Not that I don't like food..its food I did not see to eat..

Well nobody should ask how we ended...
The relationship ended to the glory of God.

BTW this thing happened many many years ago, when I was a student...
So future boo shoot your shot, no need to worry, I won't finish your food...
Even this Pepsi I'm holding,
It's doctor's prescription�

Did this truly happen or you wanted to lighten our mood

theTransporter:


If a guy ask me I wunt even think it twice, you don't know what it takes for a man to come to you and make such a plea... what I can do 4 a woman I can do 4 a man over ND over

Actually it takes nothing. What you should have said is the man could be armed and that could be a ploy.

A woman can also be a ploy too.

IyaTola:
What's that misconception that people have about you?

1. Men find it difficult to believe it when I say am not in a relationship . They will be like "fine girl like you ".
2. Most of my friends think am so rich and comfortable. When I say I don't have money to give them, am tagged wicked.
3. Alot of people see me as cold, rigid and stubborn maybe because of how I Express myself or how I look. But the few close people in my life will always attest to how soft I can get.

With your dp and personal text. I believe you are single. I know what you want

username1111:


what happened to not entering into a relationship when you are not ready. For those saying I rejected men i'ld say yes I rejected BOYS in my teens cuz I wasn't ready and I started dating at 21 cuz that was when I was ready and about rounding off with University education

Its good you decided to focus on something. But when you started dating, I am certain genuine guys came around but they didn't meet your requirements or were broke. You friendzoned them. The players were given attention because a bad boy is attractive to most ladies.

I sincerely wish this isn't your case.

My advice is keep an open mind. If a guy comes, fine. If he doesn't, live the best of your life.

If Hot, find someone. Guys hardly say to sex

strungup79:


I'm always out of town looking for one job or business. I've just been unfortunate that all my efforts have yielded little or no fruit. It's almost as if there's a curse working against me.

To be honest, it will be difficult getting a job at 42. Only managerial positions at that age. And if you didn't acquire certifications and experience in your glory days, you will be needing a miracle.

Stories like this make me plan to retire before I am 40.


This year will usher in favor for you. That's what you need.

I sympathize with you my dear.

I always tell young girls that men are the prize but they get offended.

In the youth of a girl, she thinks the world is at her feet. Genuine guys come and they are rejected. Unfortunately for her, the genuine guys do not woo them for long (after say a month, they give up). The players however can spend a year trying to win them over.

2 years ago, I tried connecting with a young girl. She didn't even give me a chance. The guy she chose has since left her. And boy.. she has grown fat.

Every womans beauty will fade. It is at this stage they become humble.

Time is a woman's enemy

Life's easier as a man.

chiommy123:
this is the reason our society is the way it is. A guy is married and has like four concubines outside and he tells his wife he's not emotional attached to them. Who are you fooling if not yourself

Whatever you typed up there, is it a reason why men find it difficult to forgive cheating gf?

Cos that's what the thread is about. Except I must have interpreted the op's post wrongly

chiommy123:
but most women forgive their husband's

Its difficult. Except she is slutty, ladies attach emotions to sex. There's an 80% chance that under same circumstances she will still sleep with that same guy.


On the other hand, guys have sex for fun without emotions. Under same circumstances there's a 50% likelihood of reoccurrence. Note that for consensual sex to happen, the girl must fully agree.

So if sex happens anywhere, the girl permitted it.

Its the reason it difficult to forgive a cheating babe

Consensual sex is usually 100% the female. If sex must occur, the female has the say most of the time if not all the time.

If the babe sleeps with your friends. It only means one thing. She's an unrepentant slut

If they are silent, its not because they lack words or choose not to talk. Its because they lack content.

Most haven't done anything

Jodha:


I totally understand what yhu meant ...and I still insist it doesn't fit the context because "sexual assault" is a different ball game of provocation all together...and yhu can't equate it with anything else...

Plus we were trying to draw a rational conclusion void of sentiments and emotions...
That example is a very sentimental one...

My point still then remains that provocation should not warrant violence.... because during our daily activities no matter how hard we try... because we deal with different people and personalities everyday... we'll get provoked whether we like it or not....but that doesn't mean we should resort to violence...

If everyone act based on provocation ...there will be total anarchy , chaos and loss of order...

What differentiates us from animals is our ability to rationalize and deal with issues(conflicts) sensibly...
If yhu feel a particular lady is too hot for yhu ...why not avoid her. ...and find another woman ...for yhur own peace of mind and sanity...

"sexual assault" is a different ball game of provocation all together"

hmm i see..

so a lady is justified when she slaps a man for "touching her boobs", right? because "sexual assault" is a different ball game of provocation all together"

i see where this is going..... makes sense

you wanted to win... you now have...

Jodha:


Yhur question had nothing to do with our topic of argument it was out of the scope...
And here am i saying that if yhu have anything in mind to say in addition yhu should feel free....



If yhu don't want to say it ...then leave it now ..

Yhull have to ignore my "yhu" "yhur" "yhure" ...etc
That's how i type...

my question was about "REACTION TO PROVOCATION" ... sexual harrasment/nagging are just variables that could lead to provocation.. thats the point i was trying to make. the reaction is a slap (for instance) .. why is a slap for one justifiable but not the other.. this was my question...

p.s: anything that can lead to provocation is a variable e.g (insults,religion,sexual harrassment,tribalism,political views, nagging etc). i was looking at a general perspective. i hate that i had to break it down..

Jodha:


I left a question...yhu chose not to answer it...

Don't let it slide....say it if yhu wanna say it ..
Lost which words.... I won jhoor

But on a serious note hope yhu get where I'm coming from and where I'm going? Cause I get where yhure coming from...but I'm clueless to where yhure going...

YES!!!! Too difficult for me

You didnt answer my question because you felt it was sexual and a different thing.

YOU and YHU
YOUR YHURE

madam, stop giving me headache trying to read your submissions..

Jodha:


I totally understand cause and effect relationship...yhure the one bringing sentiments and masculine favouritism into this argument... I'm trying to be as rational as possible...

Majority of men? When and where did yhu do yhur research and yhure quickly running into conclusions...some men have major anger issues and lack basic conflict resolution skills ....plus even manner of approach in resolving conflict...
Women are outspoken beings ... we're meant to talk...I tell yhu personally the quiet ones are more deadly ..
Women express themselves through words ...they express their feelings.. thoughts...and everything..
Or are yhu trying to say all women are mad?...that we just go about ranting and nagging for no good course?...for a woman to nag seriously the man must have provoked get beyond her elastic limit....So how is expressing her disapproval something that warrant panelbeating from her husband?


Using sexual harassment in this context does not fit at all... we're talking about something totally different...so do not base yhur argument out of point...

Lemme use my own example...So if yhure on yhur way to work and yhu board a taxi or something....then yhu and the driver starts arguing about maybe change or something....
So if the driver starts using "annoying" words ..yhull beat him up right?... If yes then don't yhu think the world would be no place to leave in...if everybody starts fighting anyone that annoys them...


I believe my wording as been as objective as possible....hope yhu see from my point of view now ....hope I've been able to convince yhu and not to confuse yhu ...with these salient points of mine...

I'm not a sentimental person... I'm always logical in my decisions

@bold you didnt leave a question for your opponent to answer

I would have said something about the sexual harassment but I will let it slip (You made me laugh, I lost my words)

SideNote: is YOU/YOUR too difficult to type.