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victorian:
You are completely right.

I concur.

There was time in my life, even though I'm a lady. when I shunned guys wooing me, especially broke and hustling guys, including rich guys who have nothing to offer than just sex.
I told them, I want to develop myself and biz before Dating any guy. I'm not interested in any sexual relationship until I'm balanced financially and my biz is stabilized. They thought I was joking. But I was serious.

I don't need distractions back then. I want to be focused to make money aggressively. Now they can see what I was saying back then. They are now like wow! You be man! You've done well for yourself. Babe I still love you nah. You are wife material.

Na so! I'm now balanced to be in relationship and thank God I'm in one.

So hustling or broke guys should leave babes one side and try make it first! Because if u are not financially OK? Babe go Waka!

Funmmyastic:
https://www.nairaland.com/5604583/ideal-lady-doesnt-marry-rich

tiffanyfan:
But 10k weekly is small na..why not 20k weekly.

khia:
I never said I don't believe in the bible, I don't believe the fable of Jesus. I believe in Yahushua the true prophet. My point is, that story of the Egyptian God Horus is a fable that the Jesus fable mocks but the Egyptian fable was created thousands of years earlier.

khia:
The false Egyptian God Horus (birthday..Dec 25) was created thousands of years before the christian false deity Jesus was created.

Check this out, according to the history of the pagan god Horus, his mother gave a miraculous virgin birth, Horus was born in a manger in a stable with his mother ISIS next to him.

Horus was to be the savior of the world, the fighter of darkness, the light of the world. Does all of this sound familiar and mind you this story was created thousands of years before the story of your Jesus?

Boiz2men, this is only one opening there are many more.

khia:
The Egyptian Goddess ISIS(your fake Mary) gave a miraculous virgin birth to HORUS (your white Jesus) on December 25(your white Jesus's birthday) which is celebrated annually (like your Christmas).

HORUS as a baby was laid in a manger (your white Jesus) in a scenic reconstruction of a stable and a statue of ISIS was placed next to it.

HORUS was supposed to be the Savior of the world (your white Jesus). He was the people's avenger against the powers of darkness (your white Jesus). HORUS was the light of the world (your white Jesus).

This is ancient Egyptian belief thousands of years before the creation of the Christian fable.

Boiz2men.

khiaa:
No bro, I can roast turkey anytime I want, no big deal. Once my eyes were open to the lies of the fake deity, Christmas sickens me, Jesus sickens me.

FanOfMyself:
@the bolded
And please don't make me start feeling jealous na I hate that feeling

Jewessgratitude:
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promise you won't make me cry again...

May God help us to nurture that which we feel for each other cos I feel it so strongly and its overwhelming I'm beginning to get scared.
Ok...let's be optimistic though.
Thanks.

UyaiIncomparabl:
That boy will remain scarred with that memory for life. Such a brave father! That's the kind of man I want. Brave, fearless and courageous to shield me from the dangers of the world.

That's one reason I hate Australia. Too many snakes. I don't think killing that snake was the best idea, though. Snakes will soon go extinct if they're being killed this way. Let's save the snakes.

sexymoma:
I'll always say this...
Guys will appreciate big boots first before dey notice you are intelligent.
buh if you are intelligent without hips, bweast with correct back.. before you see person admire you
e go tey.. Awon okunrin, won ya were gan, agaga awon teko!!

IcraveLove:
Depends on your...

IcraveLove:
Does it matter?

Richnerd69:
So I met this youth corper lady in abuja when I escorted my friend Whose babe pushed buttons for an appointment for him to meet with a dignitary in brit high Commissions, in order to secure visa to Europe and job connections on arrival to the UK. Who recalled I created a thread about my friend who was about to leave everything he worked for, to travel along with his rich babe? Well, dude just left days go.

Well, that aside. Prior to meeting this pretty corper who just came back from camp, I just came out of a messy break up which left a vacuum in me... We got talking and loved up in 2days cuz she also lodged in the same guest house as we did, and at night she would come downstairs to relax, as even i too would.

We got down, We became so close in a short space of time as we exchanged pleasantries, thoughts and ideas and we laughed about the funniest things together. Told her about the opportunities in Port Harcourt and how I would love her to come serve in PH, and that she could live with me.

She's 23 and she has a very humble spirit and a good vision. On my proposal, she declined and her reasons were the security threats and rumors about evil practices and she hasn't been to PH before . I tried to assure her to keep her safe if she would allow me work her transfer to PH. Guys she agreed, and that evening I put a call across an uncle who's a Brig.General who pushed buttons the following day... And by January she is to be in PH for service .

My friend left for Lagos on the 5th to meet with his babe so they would catch their flight and I couldn't follow him because I had to stay back to make preparations for her to come stay with me in PH. Beforehand, I had introduce her to my guy and he told me to be careful with this one but he liked her vibe and everything about her. She then took me to see her elder sister who is married in Niger state before we would both be leaving for PH. Her sister was mean and harsh at first, but I spoke with her husband who was from my home town and he talked to his wife so I could take her sister with me. We would be leaving on Wednesday as my 2weeks work leave expires this Tuesday.

Now guys, I don't know why I feel like I've started stepping out of my boundaries, like I'm moving too fast and doing too much, just too early... Now that she's coming over to PH, I don't know what the future holds tho but I really like this lady and I want to build her up...But do you think moving in together in a short time of knowing each other is bad for us? Any suggestion whatsoever ?? Do I get her a place so she could have a roommate so we could at least keep space ?

IcraveLove:
Never knew people hated virgins so much

lefulefu:
chai! her yansh looks so small nau .this is why i will find it difficult to be with a white or asian girl
anyway dis na my specs

lefulefu:
surprising ... though op said his friend loves a very flat bony ass on a woman...is dat ur spec too?

lefulefu:
must be a white guy.no black guy or african guy would complain if his lady is blessed with a round behind

Amatarasha:
9th wonder Amatarasha the great artist/nurse will list them so that you will know them ,
Warning: No mod should take down my artwork because it took me days to draw it ...hmmm

1. Ubunja ...SMH

spencekat:
We are in a different dispensation now.

LilMissFavvy:
The answer to your question can be found in (2nd Kings chapter 2:23). The children in that portion trailed Elijah, abused him verbally, mocked him, and told him to go up. Would you have the efrontery to mock an elderly pastor who is going his way and has done you no wrong? Can you do that as a child?. I am not interested in an argument, I don't argue when it comes to religion.

paul100:
The children cursed his bald head,Sha if it is me i will not curse them.Maybd Prophet Elisha said it out of anger

LilMissFavvy:
Proverbs 26:2 says that a curse without a reason shall not stand. Cursing a girl for refusing his advances is invalid, the curse can never stand. Relationship isn't by force.

Jacqueline22:
Same here sis

SBL28:
I have received mails from a few, added two on whatsapp. For one of them, I actually thought I was adding a girl because his profile said female on NL, I stopped responding after few days though. The other one too was not just 'it' for me.

Word of advice to NL guys that are still abbreviating in 2019, stoooooop. Maybe that is why those girls are not responding. It says a million and one things about you.

MasterRahl:


Nigerians have this belief that doctors are stupendously rich and so they do all they can to take a slice of their assumed wealth.

pocohantas:
Nope, it is just what it is - lack of sense(of responsibility). A sensible man with his ego, positively intact, prides in taking care of his own.

The woman should also be sensible to reciprocate. When I talk of care, I don't even mean money, because I have NEVER been in a relationship where my man had my acct number and was sending some stipends. But I expect him to hold his end down, no matter how little. We go on dates, little gifts here and there. If I have to try you, because you want to prove to me that you are different. Why should I bother? C'mon, I have things to do with my time.

pocohantas:
You do not have sense...

pocohantas:
Never encountered one.

-When an average Naija girl calls a guy stingy, there is a high probability he is prudent in his spendings.

-When a Naija guy calls a girl stingy. There is a high probability she is indeed stingy.

For me, I know how to get the best out of my man. The easiest way has never been to ask directly. Just lovingly and strategically work on his ego and allow him do the rest. Except he is an efulefu (or doesn't even have). A man's ego is his greatest strength and weakness too. Ladies keep missing this. Impatience...maybe.

However, the first step is to date a man that has sense and conscience too