Jodha:


I'm not supporting a woman that nag .... all I'm saying is it doesn't give a niggur the right to touch a lady ....


I'm done pls... it's obvious yhu don't want to see things from a different light...

speaking of different light... you are failing to understand that theres somethg called cause and effect.

The majority of men who raise their hands dont do so over mere misunderstandings... They do so when the women escalate these misunderstandings and keep on nagging over the issue that may have been forgotten... such repeated nags results to provocation.



speaking about right to touch a lady...

if a random guy touches your boobs in public, and u slap him as a reaction to the provocation...do you have the right to slap? if yes, why? and how is your slap (result of a provocation) different from a mans slap (result of a provocation) on you



please let your submissions be objective and devoid of emotions and sentiments (most women run away from intellectual discussions that are devoid of emotions. I am assuming you are rational)

Jodha:


Lool we learn every day...

I don't see the part in the bible that says ..if a lady doesn't restrain her lips...she should be beaten to the pulp...

My point is that nobody is perfect ..we all have our excesses ....if yhu don't like how yhur lady is talking...yhu tell her when she's calmer....if she doesn't change and yhu feel yhu can't deal with it.... yhu take a walk....instead of beating her...
That's all I'm saying

My dear Nature and God abhors women who provoke men to anger...

Here's what the bible says bout a nagging women... That statement by that guy wasn't dumb. Its the best advice a woman who loves her home should adhere to.




Go and study Proverbs.

Jodha:


Nagging nature or not...that does not warrant anyone to touch a lady...

If yhu don't like how she's talking avoid her and that's it....

Oga first of all....what Bible portion is that....before I go further...

I dont believe you are wiser than Solomon. If you are, lemme know so I can adjust


The bible says he who restrains his lips is wise

Jodha:



Him saying "a closed mouth stays out of trouble" isn't dumb?..

Like a lady should be a robot and agree with anything a guy says ...and if she doesn't he has every right to turn her into a punching bag..


And that's supposed to be not dumb?

I'm sure he was referring to the nagging nature of ladies...

Even the bible says

"In the multitude of words lacketh no sin"

Jodha:



This is the most dumbest shit I've seen all year...

Acquire sense pls

Hello dear, how is that dumb?

lavylilly:
So I went out on a date with this guy I met from Facebook, he made it clear to me he is looking for a mature and God fearing lady to settle down with. Everything seem like it was going so well, he looked mature and responsible, we were having a good conversation with laughter and all till he said to me "baby can you do me just 1 favour?" I was like "sure" and he went on to say..

"You actually looked bigger in your pictures, please can you add some more weight for me?"

I thought he was joking and told him that my plan is to lost and not add more weight. He went on rambling on how he love them big and bold. That was about the last time we saw.

I began to wonder how he could forfeit the nice time we had over extra flesh?

It brings me to this point, when it comes to looking for a partner a lot of people say they are looking for someone with good character, mature, god fearing and all the bull crap because they feel that is what is expected of them but in the real sense what they need is big ass, hips, big boobs and light skin.

I have been observing posts in this wonderful platform, I see big boobs, ass, light skin even with the dumbest captions having 1k plus like and comments with a lot of guys shamelessly shooting their shots while there are post of some very beautiful sisters with interesting profiles with much lesser likes and comments.

In as much as I respect people's choices I just hope we are not getting it wrong when it comes to the criteria for choosing life partners because the rate of divorce is becoming alarming nowadays.

Having said this, I would only appreciate friend request from mature singles (38 years and above). Please note: If you live at Bora Bora and have no plans of visiting Nigeria soon, please don't come and waste my time with online love. Thank you �

Actually we all have different likes and wants. I particularly like slim girls. Don't like big ass one bit

Taywon:
Never impressed any girl b4....

Instead i benefited from financially, materially and food wise while in school.

The one that almost got me was this calabar babe of mine, told me she got a job at shoprite which was true, then she asked me to borrow her some money for tfare pending when she get paid, i told her to call me the following morning .... Naxo i switch off my fone.... She almost lost the job.... She survived it... Few weeks latter naxo we gam for bustop i just dey smile.... She con dey look me..... We are still friends though but not like b4

Guy this was bad oo.. When someone is in genuine need. Don't hesitate to assist if within your capacity. Forget all these talks we say here. That was a genuine cause. You fvck up. Recharge card, hair, data, tfare etc are some of the stupid things but she had a sincere need.

Snipper007:


Real G, no time

Actually I don't like it

Nothing. Absolutely nothing.

I find it difficult to impress people. A weakness

Divay22:

Asking you for tfare? It only means she feels she's doing you a favour by coming to see you.
Sorry
I dey reserve my Amen for tomorrow prayers

Just imagine. A girl will be thinking that she's doing ME a favor . Very laughable.

So you can't say Amen.. You don't mean well for me and you are supposed to be a friend

Divay22:

Hahahahahahahahahahahhahahaha
Girls don show your pocket fire

I'm no longer dating broke girls. To consider a babe for dating, her monthly income suppose reach like 100k. Imagine a babe coming to see you and asking for tfare. God forbid. I reject those girls in my life... Help me say Amen

modsfucker:


You and I know the truth, that your sisters have taken prostitution to International level... They've even outgrown Nigeria, to Italy, Spain etc... and their parents are proud of them...

Is it not in your region that we see teenage girls being camped and being fuccked by useless men in the name of baby factory? Security officers have uncovered many with several yet to be uncovered.

You and I know that even after marriage, your sisters don't give up sleeping around... I swear to God I have an Igbo co-worker who has been disturbing me to sleep with her because she stays far away from her husband... But I wouldn't yield to het demand.

You and I fully know that sex before marriage is very common even among your so called religious leaders...

FYI: Nassarawa State in its entirety is not a Hausa Community, as such any lady you see there speaking Hausa has her own tribe, go and ask her... My parents would never allow me to pick a wife from either Nassarawa or Niger States, because of the difference in tribe.

I would have love to continue but seeing that you are both Hausa and Muslim. Its a terrible combination for a sound argument devoid of emotions, insults and irrationality

Peace.

GoodGirl2021:

I agree totally. This guy sends porn to me and when I rebuke him, he would say I'm not holier and after all I'm his gf.
This guy has messed up my reasoning and is always describing how he would burst my cherry.

I shouldn't say this but when he does burst your cherry, he would find another cherry to burst. You are wallowing in lust. Be careful oo.. If you know you won't feel bad if he leaves after the sex, then live your life as you want otherwise your buy plenty handkerchief cos your tears go plenty

The doctor is probably thinking of settling with you. Such unfortunate soul

pocohantas:


Sign my promise card first. I don't even know why you will not have money sef. The Nigerian horseband should be able to provide.

Your money will make me have money. I will be able to provide for you with your money. Case solved.

Your promise card... What are we promising ourselves my love?

GoodGirl2021:

Not sex per se, many things make girls cheat, men inclusive.
Like i stated in d main post, sex is wat is driving me away from d baby daddy.

Your post says you are moving towards the baby daddy indirectly. The Sex chats you guys are having has filled your imaginations with expectations, desires and lust. I can bet that it won't take long before he has his way with you...

It does look like you want to experience the real pleasure since the chat sex gives you great sensation

modsfucker:


I advise you leave Nairaland and and go back to School. Your writing is so terrible

You are just vexed your folly was caught. The Supposed proof you gave isn't diff from what they have all said but like a typical Hausa who is headstrong about his beliefs (e.g religion) and would never see sense in others, you are unyielding.

GoodGirl2021:

I get

An Innocent question.. What makes you guys cheat? Do you people like sex that much?

pocohantas:


Come and sign my promise card. Give me money.

But you rich and I'm broke

The only document I want to sign right now is one that binds us together forever

GoodGirl2021:

Yes i want a good man.
But d baby daddy seems experienced. I've always dreamt of marrying a guy that is far older.
What do I know

That's not the point. You cheated on the doctor by dating the baby daddy. If he was closer, you would have long fvckked him. Your Eye go clear then sha... Continue

pocohantas:


Leave me, No talk to me...

Baby, I wish I could help it. Can't live a day without talking to you. Whatever I did my love, I'm sorry you know you mean the world to me

pocohantas:


Peak of which career? All these small boys sef. You think life and love is dy/dx.

You just had to. why so mean

MrCork:


..expect another dumb thread from llamina any second from now....by the way, he is a male pretending to be female on nairaland

You spelled correctly

GoodGirl2021:
Please guys, I need matured advice.

I'm 24 dating two men (I'm sorry but I just found myself in this situation). The first guy is a doctor and is God-fearing but he's not romantic at all, he behaves too official and is insensitive to emotions yet claims to love to me. He attributes this to his regimented childhood, I love this guy but I see a boring future with him...
And i heard doctors are serious flirts.. Should I leave him?

The second guy is 11years older than me, he's very funny, outgoing, mature, romantic but loves sex too much. Note that I've not met this guy b4, we met online and have been in touch for a year now. He has a kid whose mom is married already. He looks promising but loves attention too much and always disturbs me for sex video chats. I'm tired because I'm new to that and its really uncomfortable and disgusting.
Please what should I do?

So you were dating the doctor yet accepted to date the baby daddy.... Ask yourself do you deserve a good man

victorian:











Don't bother to fall in love so quick, I'm taken.

Too late I'm swimming in love

Now I feel like its you I have waited for all my life.

You are not taken. If your fingers have no ring, our fingers could still cling

victorian:








You are completely right.

I concur.

There was time in my life, even though I'm a lady. when I shunned guys wooing me, especially broke and hustling guys, including rich guys who have nothing to offer than just sex.
I told them, I want to develop myself and biz before Dating any guy. I'm not interested in any sexual relationship until I'm balanced financially and my biz is stabilized. They thought I was joking. But I was serious.

I don't need distractions back then. I want to be focused to make money aggressively. Now they can see what I was saying back then. They are now like wow! You be man! You've done well for yourself. Babe I still love you nah. You are wife material.

Na so! I'm now balanced to be in relationship and thank God I'm in one.

So hustling or broke guys should leave babes one side and try make it first! Because if u are not financially OK? Babe go Waka!

So now that you don make up...

We should start dating na

I have been looking for a rich babe. See eh, I'm already in love

Funmmyastic:



https://www.nairaland.com/5604583/ideal-lady-doesnt-marry-rich

The guy is sick. He is beginning to believe his own hype. He has probably run out of content and makes up stuff to feed his followers.

But one must be frank, 50% of what he says are true and works. Women are manipulative and one must not be a nice guy to women all the time. The other 50 are just complete rubbish.

tiffanyfan:





But 10k weekly is small na..why not 20k weekly.

If you think 40k a month for being a sister and a student and absolutely doing nothing is small... Then, you have misplaced priorities in school. Some fathers feed their family on 30k teaching salary.


Our father (my sister and i) gave me 5k monthly when I was a student. What I did with those 5k is why I can give her 10k weekly.

And yes if my income increases, I will increase her weekly allowance.

And if you are trolling, enjoy

khia:


I never said I don't believe in the bible, I don't believe the fable of Jesus. I believe in Yahushua the true prophet. My point is, that story of the Egyptian God Horus is a fable that the Jesus fable mocks but the Egyptian fable was created thousands of years earlier.

Ok that's fine. Tell me about Yahushua .

Why makes him Special? Why him and Jesus, Mohammad or even budha ?

Guy why are you giving your sister 5k every month? That's too small oo. I used to give my sister 10k every week for upkeep. I don't want her to start depending on school boys who night take advantage of her

khia:

The false Egyptian God Horus (birthday..Dec 25) was created thousands of years before the christian false deity Jesus was created.

Check this out, according to the history of the pagan god Horus, his mother gave a miraculous virgin birth, Horus was born in a manger in a stable with his mother ISIS next to him.

Horus was to be the savior of the world, the fighter of darkness, the light of the world. Does all of this sound familiar and mind you this story was created thousands of years before the story of your Jesus?

Boiz2men, this is only one opening there are many more.

This theory is not a lie?

khia:


The Egyptian Goddess ISIS(your fake Mary) gave a miraculous virgin birth to HORUS (your white Jesus) on December 25(your white Jesus's birthday) which is celebrated annually (like your Christmas).

HORUS as a baby was laid in a manger (your white Jesus) in a scenic reconstruction of a stable and a statue of ISIS was placed next to it.

HORUS was supposed to be the Savior of the world (your white Jesus). He was the people's avenger against the powers of darkness (your white Jesus). HORUS was the light of the world (your white Jesus).

This is ancient Egyptian belief thousands of years before the creation of the Christian fable.

Boiz2men.

Lol... So you believe this but no the bible. Can you please tell me why this is authentic ?

khiaa:


No bro, I can roast turkey anytime I want, no big deal. Once my eyes were open to the lies of the fake deity, Christmas sickens me, Jesus sickens me.

Kindly share what opened your eyes