A friend of mine told me how infuriated her parents were when they saw the guy she was dating,they called him ugly and all sorts of names.
She dated handsome guys in the past and she was either played by them or taken for granted cause she's pretty.

Her parents insist she must not date the guy because he's ugly but she choose her happiness over looks but they disagree.

What's the best advice I can give her as her friend?

Modified

P.S. she's always happy around him

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Sheistoopretty:


Don't mistake me for ur miserable mother languishing in Poverty boy

I'm not like her pls everyone must not be a prostitute like ur wretched mother pls

OMG!
I am not supporting anyone here, but insulting his Mother is an act of disrespect,meaning you don't give a damn and can insult his mum when you guys are obviously having a disagreement, it's simply portraying the fact that you don't have respect for mothers.Issokay ma'am

Borntosmoke:


Mynd44 Rule 2. This trenches Olosho is abusing my mother.

Truvelisback:
Women enjoys the pleasure more than men do(if done well) because they are the receiver. Men do most of the stress during sex while women do little or nothing rather than laying down like a log of wood. Sex invovles stress and strenght, mostly from men than from women. That's why after sex, men gets exhausted.

Yet men crave for sex the more,and ask for sex first,I see.

DollarBuddy:
So there's this cute 20 year-old Yoruba babe who lives with her elder brother, a senior Gynecologist in a government owned hospital in my area. She is so down to earth and very respectful.

To cut the long story short, this Yoruba girl has been entering my eyes like Omo detergent since the year 1241 AD

As I no want to talk too much, or to be seen as a player, I arranged for us to meet at an open space, an eatery. When she showed up, we only had a short chat before I told her straight up, that i want to marry her. If you see as babe shock ba

Anyways, I mean it. I'm 36 and the Yoruba girl would be 21 by next year September. She has agreed that I come to greet her brother. And I'll be doing that pretty soon.

She is just my spec. She is very brilliant and voluptuously curvy. She'll be graduating from the University by next year.

I hate to waste a lady's time, Godwilling as soon as she graduates by September next year, we're tying the knots.

I don't blame the people calling you mumu,you have a reasonable idea and yet you are coming to nairaland of all places to tell them,where they think with their rear end.

Condemning every good idea one has, catching cruise with every fortune idea.

As to those saying you should know her well,of what use is dating for a long time.
People date for 5,6 or even 10 years and still end up having serious issue in marriage cause of pretense from one of the partners along the courtship.


Instead of coming to nairaland next time on issue like this,better go to God in prayers.

I COME IN PEACE

Dimples2022:




You know you wish you had her titts and was able to pull off that outfit

Oh woah!
Sweet miss,that shows you could actually dress like that too.
I am not surprised.

This is the energy behind the word hoelosho coming from guys.
Just why will a sane human being dress like that.
I am so ashamed this is my gender.

WonderManly:
Can you just tell us who gave you this composition. Who composed it for you? Because, if truly it happens to you. You will surely know the difference between 30 and 31 of October 2022.
Never too late. Just go back to the person who gave you the information. And verify if it happened this year or last year.

I thought I was the only one that saw it,I mean the date.
Smh.
Don't even know what to believe, whether it is typography error or not

virginprincess:
It is your own future wife that was deflowered with fanta and meat pie,besides the kind of man God will give to me is not the type of man that will attach so much importance to virginity even if i'm a virgin.

Lmfao, I really wish to meet you,I have read so much of your posts and find you fun to be with ,do you care,ma'am?

I agree with you that finding the right partner is quite difficult, especially nowadays.
But the craziest part of it is that marriage keeps taking place every week
So to answer your question,I suggest you pray to God to show you your future partner by himself,it may take time but ,you will get what you want if you have faith.

elated177:


I don't think so.

urrmm, what could it be then?

Adultery

Sorry dear poster.
Are you still in elementary school??

Extratyre01:
Giyf.com

That is not what I mean,as Airtel customer care code is 111,what is etisalat customer care code?

Please I need answer

Please I need answers asap

I always wonder too why most people always have the mentality of......"if you date me,you should marry me",it's freaking immature and unreasonable.

That's why most people have raised hope,especially one out of the partner and don't end up getting married.

loosecanon50:


How far?...Ldtyp? Abi make I come do am myself

Do wetin

FamTomx2:


Dial 111 Airtel customer care number and carefully follow voice prompt.

Thanks,but what if I want to change my plan.
How do I go about it?

What code will I use or how do they make a migration to smart connect on Airtel sim??

Kinghorland04:
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thanks bro

Sis,not bro.
Not everyone on nairaland is male.

Kinghorland04:
Guys please I need your advice!
I love this girl so mush and today is her birthday, what is the best birthday gift to give her?

Before you can give your girl a gift,consider your capacity first

Albertone:


I'm interested in your reason for saying this.

Imagine!
Because the op inserted his finger in his butt hole,he was immediately tagged a gay.

They don't reason like that in other countries,Nigeria is full with sets of hypocrites.
I am sure some of those accusing the op of being gay are the type that engage in anal sex most.

toujurs:
You that is a man, and using an f, on your profile, are you not worst of them all

I can't reply someone whose sense is half my i.q

Datboredberry:
I've commented...

When y'all slut shame women here...why would they comment?

Even you just called the op gay...

I swear, Nigerians are the worse set of people...

Go to Quora... The maturity there... Even Reddit...

ಠ_ʖಠ

Honestly,most of people in Nigeria have little or no i.q,of all the countries in the world,Nigeria is the worst of all,most people in Nigeria come out of their homes looking all cute but with no brain.
Smh

Jman06:
Even if you have to have that feeling of superiority against your man on account of your superior financial powers, control it in such a way that you don't humiliate him totally. I think where many ladies get it wrong is that they think it is OUT OF PLACE for them to out earn their men. That feeling is what makes them to develop resentments for their men, and believe me, once that resentment comes in, it is a big problem because nothing the man does will please the lady. Even if the man does ALL the chores in the house, madam will still not be happy.

I'm responding to this matter not on personal grounds because I have already made up my mind on the kind of marriage I may be considering. But in this time and age, more ladies are bound to marry men whom they are richer than. I have like three cases of this nature affecting people I know very well right now. The ladies work with FG parastatals while their husbands are under employed. All the ladies show that same attribute of not being happy to be the family's financial backbones. Even seeing their men eat in the same house becomes a very big problem no matter how hard the men try in the home front to make their working wives happy.

Unless we want to totally destroy family system, that trend needs to stop. Ladies need to decide whether it is best we withdraw all our girl children from schools while educating and employing only the males or have them educated and employed but with an understanding that it is not a bad thing for them to shoulder their family financial responsibilities.

I have heard many working class ladies complain that men are not marrying them but are getting intimidated by their successes. The reason is not far fetched as it stems from this same issue we are deliberating about. As a guy, I know that many men would rather soak gari and be happy with their poorer wives than eat the best meal under same roof with a richer wife who disrespects them.

You've said it all, I don't even know what to say again.

1.never get married out of pity.
2.never get married because of sex.
3.never get married for financial assistance.

4.never get married because of pressure from family members(some people get married because their family members kept on pressurizing them to get married).

Get married when you are physically,emotionally,financially and psychologically balanced for marriage,lots of people rushed into marriage without getting prepared at all and they are regretting it till today.

Happy Sunday To You All

You should be honest with her,just tell her you just want to be friend, that's all.

Make it clear you are not gonna date her

Smartb0y:


I responded before he concluded his statement

Okay@smartb0y,your'e smart indeed

Smartb0y:

She doesn't chat him first either, what's your point cuz you seem to be missing the narrative here

You didn't picked context out of his word.
Read @bolded again;

Skyfornia:
Some people don't actually like calls.. personally I prefer chats to calls, even when I want to make or receive call, I like it short, simple and straight to the point. I easily get bored when the call is a bit long.

But I can chat for hours and still enjoy it.

But in your girlfriend's case...I think she is not really into you, since she doesn't initiate calls or chats.