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LIFE'S NOT TOO SHORT TO THINK DEEPLY . You know why most people fail to succeed and few people ever make it to the top? It's simply because most people don't think deeply before they act. . Over and over again, life tries to tell us that there is no such thing as a shortcut. You either put in the desired work or you waste your time trying to cheat your way through. . No one is 'destined' to be poor, to lose, to never succeed or to live their dream lives. There's nothing like having 'bad luck'. Our problems linger because we've not cared to seriously think deeply before taking any action to solve them. . From childhood, we're taught to solve problems. And the basic approach to solve those problems has always been simple; understand the problem, think deeply and find the best approach to solve it, then solve it! If we don't get it, we think deeply again and find out "why we failed it" , then approach it from another method. . That has always been the way to finally solve problems. But as we grow older, we begin to think less and instead of thinking deeply and understanding our challenges, we're inclined to take short cuts and follow the easy way out. . There is no easy way out. What makes you stand out of the crowd, is your ability to think clearly before you take any action. Thinking deeply let's you see the best line of action to take which doesn't usually lie on the surface. Thinking is where the serious work lies, but most people don't know. . Lots of you have the belief that life's too short and this makes us to care less about very important things that will actually gain time for us. . Life is never too short to be patient, to listen, to think, to plan and to do the right thing. A proverb says, "Only those who have patience to do simple things perfectly ever acquire the skill to do difficult things easily. . Where are you rushing to? Often times, not thinking well before taking action, usually leads to failure which brings you back to the same initial position. Ironically, thinking deeply(which would take a little more time initially), would've saved you a whole lot of time wasted in recovering from a failure due to haste. . Often times we lack the patience to see through things. We forget to make use our number asset which is the intellect. We always pay for that mistake through the outcome. . Don't let that quote "Life's too short" make your life shorter for you by pushing to always take decisions without thinking about it's future consequences thoroughly. . Thinking deeply may take your time presently, but it's definitely worth the amount of time, energy, regret and stress it would save you in the future. . Till next time, . Remain bold and win big, . Life's neither too short or too long. . Think Big, dream Big and always use your brain in everything you do. . -Boldwinner Read more>>>http://boldwinners..com
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HOW TO CREATE THE LIFE OF YOUR DREAMS |
Deanny:Thumbs up, Danny |
HOW TO CREATE THE LIFE OF YOUR DREAMS
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LIVING IN THE PRESENT Most of the problems we face in our lives today can be effectively traced to not living in the present. Why? Because most people would rather live in the past or in the future. . The only time that always exists presently is "NOW". It's not yesterday and it's not even tomorrow. You're always existing in the present. You can't bypass it and actually live inside the past or future. This is important to understand. . Living outside of the present (NOW) has proven to always be counterproductive. Have you noticed that you always lose accuracy while doing anything once your mind suddenly wanders away? . Can you still maintain focus whenever you suddenly forget about what you're presently doing and start thinking of something else? The answer is No! Why? Because you're missing the present which is the most important time we have. . Whenever you are really enjoying yourself, for example talking with your friends, you'd notice that you're fully present listening to them, being aware of their expressions etc. That's what makes you happy. You're not thinking of the past or future at that moment. . Dwelling in the past has not helped anybody. People who complain too much dwell in the past a lot and that's why most of them remain in the same situation. Rather than focusing on the present and doing what they have to do, they're wasting that "Now" on talking and brooding over the past! . Now get this straight: The past is past! Get over it! Our only business with the past is to learn from our mistakes and apply the lessons in the PRESENT! We're not to keep crying and grumbling over it. That's bull shit! The past is damn past! Let it Go! Your business is to do the right thing Now! That's what it's all about. . There are some who live in the future, they keep dreaming and visualising, yet do Nothing Now. Those who procrastinate also fall into this category. "I will do it tomorrow" "I will SOON do it" and days and months pass without them utilising the present. . To the daydreamers, I'd love to tell you that it's good to dream visualize and be positive, but of you don't use your present time wisely, you may keep dreaming till the world. . You may tell yourself "I will achieve it" "I CAN do it" "I will be this and that" a hundred times, but if you've not started doing anything about your dreams, my dear your positive thinking will lead you to nowhere. . This is the plain truth: You can change the entire course of your life by what you choose to do right now. I mean right this second. You only have to make a strong decision, make plans and start working in the present. . To those who worry too much.. I've always told people who worry that they're wasting their time. Worrying about the past or the future doesn't achieve anything for you. Guess what? It wastes your time! . Worry makes you waste the time you could've used to take action and change your whole life. Worry steals the "present" for you. And you suffer, because you always miss the vast opportunities for happiness and success offered by the present! . Ask yourself the question: Am I actually living in the now? Or am I just floating and hoping for a magic to transform my life? Am I doing what I have to do now or am I wasting time living in the past? What is that thing you've been putting off which you've always wanted to try? . Go and start that business! . Go and sing that song! . Go and build that system! . Travel to that place! . Make that phone call! . Study that book! . Ask that person out on a date! . Do that thing which would add value to your life right Now! Because, right here and right now is all you got. . Till next time. . Keep Winning! Cheers! Go and start now!! . -Nigel . Read more |
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Florblu:Thanks Beautiful. |
LIVING IN THE PRESENT MOMENT Most of the problems we face in our lives today can be effectively traced to not living in the present. Why? Because most people would rather live in the past or in the future. The only time that always exists presently is "NOW". It's not yesterday and it's not even tomorrow. You're always existing in the present. You can't bypass it and actually live inside the past or future. This is important to understand. Living outside of the present (NOW) has proven to always be counterproductive. Have you noticed that you always lose accuracy while doing anything once your mind suddenly wanders away? Can you still maintain focus whenever you suddenly forget about what you're presently doing and start thinking of something else? The answer is No! Why? Because you're missing the present which is the most important time we have. Whenever you are really enjoying yourself, for example talking with your friends, you'd notice that you're fully present listening to them, being aware of their expressions etc. That's what makes you happy. You're not thinking of the past or future at that moment. Dwelling in the past has not helped anybody. People who complain too much dwell in the past a lot and that's why most of them remain in the same situation. Rather than focusing on the present and doing what they have to do, they're wasting that "Now" on talking and brooding over the past! Now get this straight: The past is past! Get over it! Our only business with the past is to learn from our mistakes and apply the lessons in the PRESENT! We're not to keep crying and grumbling over it. That's bull shit! The past is damn past! Let it Go! Your business is to do the right thing Now! That's what it's all about. There are some who live in the future, they keep dreaming and visualising, yet do Nothing Now. Those who procrastinate also fall into this category. "I will do it tomorrow" "I will SOON do it" and days and months pass without them utilising the present. To the daydreamers, I'd love to tell you that it's good to dream visualize and be positive, but of you don't use your present time wisely, you may keep dreaming till the world. You may tell yourself "I will achieve it" "I CAN do it" "I will be this and that" a hundred times, but if you've not started doing anything about your dreams, my dear your positive thinking will lead you to nowhere. This is the plain truth: You can change the entire course of your life by what you choose to do right now. I mean right this second. You only have to make a strong decision, make plans and start working in the present. To those who worry too much.. I've always told people who worry that they're wasting their time. Worrying about the past or the future doesn't achieve anything for you. Guess what? It wastes your time! Worry makes you waste the time you could've used to take action and change your whole life. Worry steals the "present" for you. And you suffer, because you always miss the vast opportunities for happiness and success offered by the present! Ask yourself the question: Am I actually living in the now? Or am I just floating and hoping for a magic to transform my life? Am I doing what I have to do now or am I wasting time living in the past? What is that thing you've been putting off which you've always wanted to try? Go and start that business! Go and sing that song! Go and build that system! Travel to that place! Make that phone call! Study that book! Ask that person out on a date! Do that thing which would add value to your life right Now! Because, right here and right now is all you got. Till next time. Keep Winning! Cheers! Go and start now!! -Nigel Read more>>>http://boldwinners..com |
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I'm waiting for that person who will say CRK was their worst subject. |
SUCCESS SECRET 2: KEEP QUIET.. NOW IS THE TIME Time is one of the most wasted resources on earth, you know why? Because there are very few people who understand that "Time is Money" and that "The BEST time to start is NOW!" If you're still young and reading this, you have so much money, more money than you can ever imagine. But you've got to start working NOW to covert the time you currently have available into a fortune. If you're much older, all hope is not lost either. Ray Kroc, Donald Fisher and some other people found success during late stages of their lives. So you can still make a big breakthrough. The catch is that: the earlier you start, the better for you. Opportunity usually doesn't knock twice. Hence, it is important to start NOW to prepare for it, so you don't miss it. But how are you going to recognize your opportunity if you don't have a mission and a purpose? Answer: You CAN'T. Opportunities are only seen by those looking for it. You can't find what you're not looking for. It doesn't work that way. Let's say you've got a plan already and you're ready to start working on it, then you somehow find a reason to postpone it to start at a later date. What happens? That future date usually never comes and you forget about it. You've missed starting NOW! Or, let's say you know what you want to do, but you make the mistake of telling other people your plans and they end up giving you one million excuses why your plans are impractical and impossible. Then you quit. You've also missed starting NOW. I think it's counterproductive to tell people your plans for three good reasons: #1 It gives you a FALSE feeling of accomplishment. That satisfaction that you have plans can make you lazy. #2 Nine out of Ten people you tell don't give a damn about your idea. That's why they'll be ever ready to give you the epistle of failure #3 You're wasting the time you should've used to start acting now in talking about the action. A complete waste of time. So what do you do? When you thoroughly make up your mind to accomplish something, keep quiet, think deeply and make critical plans. Don't tell anyone your plan, just start doing something NOW towards what you dream of. It requires serious discipline on your part. You've got to eliminate all distractions and concentrate on the one single thing you've decided to do. If reading that book, playing that video game or seeing that movie doesn't help in any way to achieve you dream, eliminate it. It's a time waster. Your luxurious spending must be cut out too. If I could get a phone of 10000 which would be just fine for me, why would I go for one of 100,000 at this level? You've got to cut off excessive spending and focus NOW your time, energy and money on that GOAL. Time will come when you'd have enough money to spend on luxury, not NOW. Now is time for serious and dedicated work to whatever you've decided to achieve. Let me guess.. Some of you may claim that they're confused about what to do or that they don't know what they want to achieve. That's a lie and I'll tell you why. Have you ever gone online to find an answer to something bothering you? If you have, you'd be honest to admit that you were inclined to take the answers of some web pages while ignoring others. Why? Because deep down, you already know the answer. You're only waiting for a verification from the site that suits you. Asking questions when you already know the answer is a complete waste of time. It stalls you and it prevents you from taking the action NOW. you have to be honest with yourself. You KNOW exactly what you want and what you're passionate about. Stop deceiving yourself, pursue that dream and carve your name in gold when you've achieved. You must FOCUS. It is important. Complete focus on what you've decided you really want to do. Then persevere and keep using your time NOW. Time will come when you'd have more than enough to get those luxuries you sacrificed and the world will become your oyster. Till next time. Remain Bold and Keep winning. -Nigel Read More >>>http://boldwinners..com |
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emryxleena:lol.. really? |
SUCCESS SECRET 2: KEEP QUIET.. NOW IS THE TIME Time is one of the most wasted resources on earth, you know why? Because there are very few people who understand that "Time is Money" and that "The BEST time to start is NOW!" If you're still young and reading this, you have so much money, more money than you can ever imagine. But you've got to start working NOW to covert the time you currently have available into a fortune. If you're much older, all hope is not lost either. Ray Kroc, Donald Fisher and some other people found success during late stages of their lives. So you can still make a big breakthrough. The catch is that: the earlier you start, the better for you. Opportunity usually doesn't knock twice. Hence, it is important to start NOW to prepare for it, so you don't miss it. But how are you going to recognize your opportunity if you don't have a mission and a purpose? Answer: You CAN'T. Opportunities are only seen by those looking for it. You can't find what you're not looking for. It doesn't work that way. Let's say you've got a plan already and you're ready to start working on it, then you somehow find a reason to postpone it to start at a later date. What happens? That future date usually never comes and you forget about it. You've missed starting NOW! Or, let's say you know what you want to do, but you make the mistake of telling other people your plans and they end up giving you one million excuses why your plans are impractical and impossible. Then you quit. You've also missed starting NOW. I think it's counterproductive to tell people your plans for three good reasons: #1 It gives you a FALSE feeling of accomplishment. That satisfaction that you have plans can make you lazy. #2 Nine out of Ten people you tell don't give a damn about your idea. That's why they'll be ever ready to give you the epistle of failure #3 You're wasting the time you should've used to start acting now in talking about the action. A complete waste of time. So what do you do? When you thoroughly make up your mind to accomplish something, keep quiet, think deeply and make critical plans. Don't tell anyone your plan, just start doing something NOW towards what you dream of. It requires serious discipline on your part. You've got to eliminate all distractions and concentrate on the one single thing you've decided to do. If reading that book, playing that video game or seeing that movie doesn't help in any way to achieve you dream, eliminate it. It's a time waster. Your luxurious spending must be cut out too. If I could get a phone of 10000 which would be just fine for me, why would I go for one of 100,000 at this level? You've got to cut off excessive spending and focus NOW your time, energy and money on that GOAL. Time will come when you'd have enough money to spend on luxury, not NOW. Now is time for serious and dedicated work to whatever you've decided to achieve. Let me guess.. Some of you may claim that they're confused about what to do or that they don't know what they want to achieve. That's a lie and I'll tell you why. Have you ever gone online to find an answer to something bothering you? If you have, you'd be honest to admit that you were inclined to take the answers of some web pages while ignoring others. Why? Because deep down, you already know the answer. You're only waiting for a verification from the site that suits you. Asking questions when you already know the answer is a complete waste of time. It stalls you and it prevents you from taking the action NOW. you have to be honest with yourself. You KNOW exactly what you want and what you're passionate about. Stop deceiving yourself, pursue that dream and carve your name in gold when you've achieved. You must FOCUS. It is important. Complete focus on what you've decided you really want to do. Then persevere and keep using your time NOW. Time will come when you'd have more than enough to get those luxuries you sacrificed and the world will become your oyster. Till next time. Remain Bold and Keep winning. -Nigel Read more >>> http://boldwinners..com |
LordZero:hahaha |
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One afternoon, I was walking up the stairs of a 3-storey building where I lived with a friend of mine. When we got to to the topmost floor, she asked me, "how do you manage to climb up and down these stairs everyday?" "It's tiring", she added. I smiled, looked at her and said, "It's because I'm used to it and you're not". What's the essence of telling you that story? It's because I need you to get this point straight: "NOTHING IS TOO HARD OR DIFFICULT TO ACCOMPLISH, YOU'RE EITHER NOT USED TO IT OR YOU LACK THE PASSION FOR IT". Back in high school days, some of my peers had this belief that math was hard and therefore, they just disliked the math teacher and never paid attention in any of his classes. The result? Few of them who were lucky escaped with E's, but most of them failed woefully. There were also some who initially thought math was difficult, but when they tried to solve questions on their own, pay more attention to the teacher and try over and over again to solve questions, they became better and good. It then dawned on them that mathematics was easy and they got excellent results. What am I trying to point out here? Getting to that point where something admirable becomes second nature to you is the goal. I call that point the 'elastic limit'. You subconsciously attain it by constant repetitive activity. It is then your whole system adapts to it and it becomes easy to always do it. If you're very observant, you'd notice that very successful people in any field have one thing in common. They are always relaxed, calm and poised when they are performing. Did they master that overnight? No! A very big No. Rather, they've invested time to repeatedly master their skills over and over again until it became an integral part of them. Smart and driven people understand that excellence is a habit. That's why they put in effort to GET USED TO doing those things necessary to achieve the dream they're passionate about. There's no big magic to it. Most people don't succeed because it's either they're not passionate about what they do or that they give up too easily. Passion for whatever you choose to do is very important. It is fuel that keeps you going until you cross that 'elastic limit' threshold where it all becomes very easy. Therefore, you must be passionate about the goal you have in mind. On a final note, some people like to ask the question "How long will it take?". I feel that question is for losers looking for a reason to back out or for shortcuts. They lack that passion and dedication needed to walk the walk and that's why they want to be given a particular time when they can expect to relax and quit. Truth is: Who's willing is willing. If you've truly made up your mind to succeed in anything and you have the strong drive for it, you'd be willing to walk the walk repeatedly for as long as it takes to attain the goal you have in mind. This can be applied to achieve success in any area of life ranging from your career, relationships, lifestyle, habits, character and much more. >>>Click here for more<<< |
foolinlove:lol..nothing dear. |
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It's obvious now that only thing most ladies know how to do now is just to look good and post their pictures on social media. Asides these two, they don't have any other skills or goals they want to achieve. This is pitiable to say the least. If your only hope is to seduce a 'rich' man that will marry you and provide 'all your needs' for you, you're on a very long thing! Guys have grown smarter over the years. No one wants to marry a liability into his life. Every lady should engage herself with something meaningful than merely keep hope on marrying a wealthy man. Laziness and lack of skills are the reasons why most of them are cheated and taken advantage of. In the bid to secure the 'golden' opportunity of marrying an already-made guy, most of them could go to any length and if finally the guy isn't serious, they lose at both ends. Is that the life you want? A life of dependence? Stop wasting hours and years watching season films and waiting for one Mr.Right that will marry your troubles. Go and engage yourself with something towards the future you dream of(except you have none). We won't eat your beauty, it will fade. We marry those invisible qualities, skills and characteristics which never fade. >>>Click here for more<<< |
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visijo:where is it? |
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NB: I'm still looking for it.. |
Below, a badger is hiding among a herd of zebra. Can you spot it? Check out..
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Barackmeringo:Good response! |
It's actually funny to me that some of you are actually sharing and posting the scam update on their walls about facebook privacy stuff. I mean, it's hilarious. It goes a long way to show how insecure most of us are. Let me for a second make that crazy assumption that the stuff was true. Then... so what? What is there to be afraid of? If You're thinking that everything you've ever done online is a secret peculiar to you alone, you are really dreaming. As long as you've posted anything on the net, it's no more a damn secret. I know for sure that the stuff is a scam, but it has gone a long way to test some people's integrity, gullibility and sense of security. If the world sees all your updates, inbox messages and pictures uploaded, so what? Were you not in your right senses when you uploaded them? Why did you post it in the first place when you knew it was something you're not probably proud of? You are responsible for whatever you do online and you must not be afraid that you'd get discovered because people have been watching you already. Honesty and being straight forward anywhere has always been key. Before taking any action both now and in future, THINK! think well about the consequences in the future. Don't make hasty emotional decisions. use your brain always and you'd never be worried about anything cos you know yourself. Don't be insecure. Be REAL and be PROUD of who you are. Think deeply before taking any actions. Check this out! |


