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So the cost of buying a new transmission is now 20k. My brother, if you know what is good for you and your friend, please leave that car. Don't ask me why?

Madam, I hope you get to read this.


Immediately I started reading your write up, I said to myself. I hope they have a house of their own and you have confirmed you don't.
I am sorry to say that your husband has no plan for you and the children.
How can a full grown man give his wife N2000 for a week. That is just for 2 mudu of rice. You are the head of the family since your husband's head (sorry) is not thinking right. I am sorry to say that you are only married on paper. Please plan for yourself and the children alone.

Best of luck.

Young man,

I understand how you feel. Please be careful the way you handle your sister or else your innocent fiancée will be on the receiving end. I am wondering why they stay in a 3 bedroom if they cannot plan their life. Who are they trying to impress?

Erratic siblings can bring down an entire family. Your sister should split up her load and take to other people's house. The best decision is to discuss with your brother in law about the load. Please don't hide your feelings. Just promise him you will help him out when your business takes shape again even if you can't really go all the way to help so that he can find a way to sort his load out.

You need to be OK psychologically for your business to move forward.

I need that settee 3 in 1 but I am in Abuja. Oh no.

Hello lady, I don't understand why couples check each others phone. I guess it is based on trust. You don't trust your husband. Roundcube webmail is an email messaging platform.

Your husband is behaving weird no doubt. You did not say if he has a regular job. You can get detectives to track his IP and hack into those mails instead of giving yourself high blood pressure.

Your marriage is not adding up.

Bambi0000:
I have please price is 75k
Location:Apo, Dutse abuja

Price though.

It will be recovered in Jesus' name.

Set of sitting room chairs needed.

She has been busted!

OP, please pick a good novel and read and leave health issues. Before you know it, messages like this will be dished out on social media forums.

What is your scientific basis, data or theory for this gainsaying?

Her classmates do it in class a lot.

MizJaY:
Thank every one for their responses I want to reply everyone word for word but my battery and data are very low now. But this particular msg caught my attention and I couldn't help replying this one. I laughed after reading it. e be like say u no want make I no get peace this night or this weekend. Very funny. He will use at least 4 hours to scrutinize, explain, scatter, batter, finish, destroy the message and it will lead to more problems cos oga is always right and am always wrong. i remember one incidence where i gave him my atm card, after using it he apparently forgot where he kept it and i now wanted to use it, oga was 150% sure he gave it to me and i was very sure he did not. This is not matter of he was hiding it to use it later or wanted to steal from me cos theres not a time i say no when he asks to use my atm inshort at times its permanently in d car. We argued back and forth until he reminded me that thats how i am that i need to check myself that i always forget things that i have serious problem bla bla bla. For peace sake i said its alright that i will go to d bank to block it and get a new one even tho I was sure he didn't give me. Lo and behold as we came down from car and i faced him to tell him something atm was facing me from hes front pocket i now showed him and he shamefully gave me after all d bragging that day sweet me well well but guess what, oga said he was giving me one time that I probably didn't collect it so maybe that's how he mistakenly put it back in he's pocket. I just kept quiet cos I felt shame for him


My husband will tell me, if u like dont take care of yourself u Will just die for nothing....mennn


But My mother always tells me, my daughter, u better be taking care of urself, hypertension is not a good thing, if anything happens to you, your husband will marry another woman and move on. Someone else will take care of ur children. I will not be alive forever but I will tell u d truth while I'm still alive...

Madam, you always give your husband your ATM when he needs it. On top of that, he will still insult you. I am so sorry for you. You have laid the foundation of your marriage.

From now on, start withdrawing your financial support. Let it be 70(husband) - 30 (you) or 80 - 20.

Please keep some reasonable money and start taking care of yourself. Your seeds of help towards him are not being appreciated and never will. You are still living in the days of our forefathers. The syllabus has changed. Please update yourself fast.

If you kill yourself, he will go and marry a new and fresh babe. Please wake up!!!!

olabrinks:
Don’t marry for love marry for money. We have been saying this for centuries. Let them call you a goldigger, let them shame you, you will have the last laugh. What is a man, when he doesn’t have money? What can he do for you? What kind of husband will he be, and how can he provide for his future children? What is potiential, everybody in this world has potiential. You need to see monetary proof that he can lead a home. Think with your brain and not your heart, you will avoid many problems. This is not the generation of building with a man, if a man ain’t got money today, he will 90% not have tomorrow. At least when the man gives you problem, you will have stability in regards to finances which is One less problem to deal with. A word is enough for the wise.

For 30 pieces of silver? He can as well marry 5 wives while the lady can as well roll for more options. Well, it all depends on our perspective of marriage. Believe that at your peril.

Good evening madam,

You and your husband are entering a mid life crisis. This is the breakdown:

a) You have 4 kids (family of 6)

b) You still live in a rented apartment

c) Most of the bills are presumably on you and your husband doesn't appreciate.

I will try to proffer you a solution to cut down on your stress:

a)Please look for a cheaper school for your children. Paying the school fees of 4 children in these times is not funny for a family.

b) I would want you guys to look for a cheap land and start building a house for yourselves that should be ready in the next 18 months from the start of the project.

c) Your husband has anger management issues. Don't let it wear you out. He finds it difficult to handle relationships with his parent(s). This will affect his spiritually.

Pheurly2:
Good evening,I'm a guy that posted that was sexually abused...and my parents are not helping me...no one is...i feel used , useless and worthless...i am depressed..i'm 20 ....i can't bear it any longer...i almost committed suicide...God saved me o... I've decided to leave home..i'm going far away..i play d piano..how wld i start up ,pls advice me..thank u..nairalanders....i'm tired of everything...help please..

You need someone to listen to you. Send me PM by tomorrow.

We know how difficult times can be. Some of us have experienced it at one time or the other and I know it is not funny.

Due to this lockdown palava and scarcity of funds, it is necessary to know those that really need help so that anyone willing to help can reach out to them. People have had to create new monickers with 24/48 hours to ask for help which may or may not be right.

But to limit people scamming other people of their hard earned money, I am suggesting that anyone that has opened a new monicker (username) in the last one month, March 27, 2020 should not ask for any financial support. This is just to ensure that people get the needed help when they cry out.

Well that is my opinion. Feel free to add yours.

OP, is 5w20 ok for that ride. Thought is should be 5w30.

Mrshape:
Please be fast because j am almost having high blood pressure here,
This suspense is not good for my health sir

This guy, better go and check your blood pressure. Don't come and faint on nairaland.

Please you guys should leave the OP. If he changes his mind, you can't fault him. Its his money. Guys, please relax.

,6.59pm

Have you scanned it? If you are in Abuja let's see after COVID 19 for a free scan.

Soknown, thank you for all your write up. You got me transfixed. More grace

Please where can I buy good used foreign doors in Abuja at pocket friendly rate. Do you have for sale after the lockdown?

Adaba0803:
Good evening sir, pls how much did you buy the gear box I’m having the same kind of problem. Thanks .

I bought my 1999/2000 sienna gear box N80,000, 5 pin in Abuja about 6 months ago. It works perfectly now. The old one had issues.

thank God 4 you my brother.

I have been wondering why you chose the moniker 'helpmeohgod'

Get well soon in Jesus name. What do you rub to soothe the pain?

I am in Abuja. I use the same ride too. Most likely the transmission. Check my old posts for my number and let's see after the lock down.

You should iron the kaftans properly and use a good camera to snap it to enhance sales.

The pictures you took are very poor.