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Quite a number of car headlamps I see at night these days use white light. I guess the owners know why.

I have never used white lights on my car headlamps. One of the reasons is that the white light (on headlamp bulbs) does not help the vision of oncoming car drivers hence I wonder if this is not the reason why people use it.

Please share your thoughts on this. Are white bulbs brighter at night?

We all know that the number of car owners that tint their windows is so high now.

Let me kind of state some of the pros of tinted car windows.

Pros
1) It gives the occupants of the car some privacy
2) It gives your car some cool look.

Cons
In my opinion, it may affect your clarity of vision

Please feel free to add your voice to this

Ceasarceasar:
Calm down madam..

How is 80k job equivalent to 400k job in Abuja ..

That's a big lie...I stay in the north

Please help me ask this person you quoted oh.

What will I do in Sokoto with an 80k job? Go to work and come back without looking for other opportunities. Except if you want to establish a business but think well. E get why!
Can the OP answer these questions?
a) which discipline is the OP? Most likely teaching...

b) Does it mean there are no teaching jobs in the south?
c) If it is not teaching, are you going to spend 3 to 5 years there in Sokoto just because there are not jobs in Abuja or in the south.

d) if you do, most likely you will have a stunted growth in your career

The first 5 years thereabout after youth service, it may not be easy but once you know what you are supposed to do whether job or business, you are on your path to a steady growth.

As a man, I do not have any form of respect for any man that does not support his wife financially. Taking care of bills at home is what makes you a man.

Please separate from him immediately and go with the children. Relocate far from him
This will help you to heal very fast and take care of your children.

Ensure you have adequate backup from your family members.

You need to think about building a career or just having a means of income. What are you looking for in the big picture?

Abuja is a place of opportunities.

Tyre size

Following

Though it seems like N180,000 monthly salary is much money, but considering the recent inflation caused by PMS at N617/litre, the 180k is not much money now.

1) How much is your monthly tfare to and from office to your house. assume it's 40k

2) How much is your feeding allowance per month? assume it's 60k

3) Break your house rent into 12 months. Assume it's 30k per month

4) NEPA recharge and fuel for generator: assume it's 10k per month.

So far, the total is 140k.

So far, your savings is 40k per month if there are no additional expenses. So you need to make sure your spouse has a job or business that can bring in additional income.

If you want to get married, both of you should sit down to do the Math or your honeymoon will not last long.

All the best!!!

searchng4love:
So fast forward to the fixing....

Compressor brand new 150k

Others and service charges 54k

Total 204k.

As charged by the nairaland certified AC specialist

Sister, please why are you doing this? The thread is losing is significance.

Thank you. Finally sold the car

peretei2024:
Hello my fellow Nairalanders,

The frustration about life is getting too much , how can I be married with 2 kids and a wife Andi will be without even 1 Kobo on me.

I have practically lost everything that give me joy. Iost my job since April 2023, then I decided to use my car to do Uber things, now the car has broken and I don't have 1kobo on me to fix it up. How can I be looking at the faces of my beautiful children and I can't even feed them?

I woke up since around 2am, I couldn't sleep, and something tells me to take my life because the shame and frustration is getting too much as I didn't get any help from any of my friends and relatives.

If you care to give me any advice before the incident happens I can be reached on 08062493145 because am too done about this world.

Please indicate your location in your original post. Click on modify, type and then submit.

Please drop the whole gist nah. Abeg!

YoungDaNaval:
Then it won't be a surprise anymore

If I were your sister's husband and you buy a car in your sister's name, I may not take it lightly. It is a very sensitive issue. It depends on your brother-in-law. If he is a traditional Nigerian man, he will read meaning into it - like - are you trying to say I am not taking care of my wife?

So if you are not being political about it, buy the car in your brother in law's name. You are mixing up 2 things which are not related: 1) you want to give them a surprise 2) you want to buy a car for your sister, in her name to aid her in going to work due to distance (to avoid stress).

I wish you the best sha

I will prefer you ask your sister for her opinion. Please don't come and divide the family with your good intention. Don't take that decision on your own. It is easier to destroy a relationship than to build it.

Continue

I think both of you should take a break at this point. You cannot start a marriage with this kind of pressure. If you have made payments of rentals. Please tell them to hold on.

If both families do not agree on issues amicably, please take a break. If not your love will turn to hatred when you get married. It is NOT a good signal.

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@ Verokeena

Please do not feel guilty about arresting him, after all he behaved like an animal.

If it has happened before, please do not ignore it. Tell your parents or brothers to call an extended family meeting. In this inflation, a man will be misbehaving anyhow, still maltreating your wife upon say she is taking good care of the home without disturbing you.

Women who wear trousers will NOT go to hell.

Dust up yourself and regain your confidence. The same grace that brought your present job will give you the new job. Look for a topic that you love so much like balancing of chemical equations or the periodic table. Don't try and impress them please. Always write the topic and objective on the board.

The dashboard sha can make you sleep.

I have used both of them. Of course, it's big Daddy. But of course the big Daddy has a better acceleration. 2.4L engine VVTI vs 2.2 L.

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Hello bro, please be very careful with hiring a mechanic. They often give a signal to the seller for a kick back from the deal and will not give a fair assessment.

Ask the dealer for the custom papers so that you know when the car was imported. Copy the VIN of the car and run a background check on the car to confirm the history.

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