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After Roma, Aston Villa, then Liverpool after international break.
Things I love to see!

"The players are hungry".
They are definitely hungry to concede goals.

nateevs:
That's why I keep telling fellas to give Lavia time. He's not played for 3 seasons.

No one should be talking about selling Lavia abeg.

Seconded. Never lost faith in him.

larride:
We go party here today.

I don see ham for inside dream

Definitely seen it in nightmare.

Edoreborn:
Hmmmm.this is seriously serious o..This man with funny dance step and e go come dey make him eyes sexy..very funny lots

Seems you've studied him well because it's absolutely true.

airmark:
They should transfer the points deduction punishment meant for City to this useless, God-forsaken Manchester united team.

This is actually the truth. God has actually forsaken them. They don't just realize it yet.

raumdeuter:
Iamoyindamola and BlueRayDick

Whats your opinion about this series Lioness

I dont want to invest time into boring series


I am on like episode 5 and they have started making lesbian moves

Don't worry, it's a very good series. This is season 1. Season 2 is better and Season 3 is even much better than season 1& 2 combined.

franchasng:
lol

It's funny how some people think life is a movie script where you can write every scene and event to happen how you want it. You see some declaring things ignorantly like they are God. Whenever I see such utterances or behavior, I just laugh cos I know such person haven't experienced life much to understand how life works.


If the Op's story is real, he must be very careful not to hurt that lady or mislead her or take advantage of her if not, I pity his future. I am a student of positive affirmation and applying the law and power of attraction in drawing the things we desire into our lives but still, I have realized that some things are beyond our control no matter how much we try. Some times, God intentionally send the things we ignorantly or arrogantly despise and belittle our way to teach us a lesson about life. Like I said, I grew up being a highly religious kid who feared sin, especially sexual sin based on my late mother's extreme indoctrination and repeated warnings about it, as a result of that, I grew up disliking girls ignorantly and seeing them as similar to evil lol.



Because of this, I avoided girls so much that it was so obvious to everyone that knew me even till university days. Based on this same reason and more, I unknowingly developed disdain for girl childs and always said I will never have a female child no matter what. Even after school and NYSC, I still harbored that desire not to have female child based on so many reasons but look at me today, I am a proud father of more than one beautiful and adorable female childs, that is how God and nature operate; most times to humble us and to teach us to be reasonably, to be empathetic to others and to follow life with love for all and open heart

Hmm, deep. Thank you for your words of wisdom as always. Respect.

franchasng:
Why do you guys think certain things are impossible or let me say, impossible to see certain people on Nairaland? What is a first class? I missed being a first class by 0.02 and it was because I was not sociable in school and most lecturers didn't liked me like the only guy that made the first class in my department which is more like an impossibility; Mech. Engine Dpt.


You guys should learn to stop seeing Nairaland as a gathering of nodowells and failures, there are lots of well to do members and guests on this forum that I know of including myself and many that only read and pass. Nairaland have more intelligent people than Naija x or tiktok, just that Nairaland is an anonymous forum where anything goes so most people keep their identity anonymous for the fun of it.



Now to the Op's topic and question, I felt so emotional reading his story, sighs life.

I have had SS friends, they are usually intelligent and reserved, one was a Doctor sighs, another a Pastor currently and also married. If they could all find a partner I believe God will do it for the Op's girlfriend cos the Op sound like a perfectionist who thinks life is like a drawing book where one draws all his life wishes and plan and it happens that way.


I was born super intelligent, always the best from small, that kid other parents used to give example to their children, thats me. I grew up very secluded from others, my best friend growing up was my mother, may her beautiful amazing soul continue to rest in God's bossom. She drew me so close to God and reading the Bible as a teen. She told me Bible stories and made me to realize consequences of sin and hurting others and this shaped my life till today; I am very careful of hurting others, especially those that didn't hurt me. I was so reserved that almost all my university days I didn't had sex lol, though I finally ate the forbidden fruit in finals, does sign of the cross ❌


Why am I telling all these stories? I want to draw a point; Op lack empathy and he believes life will go just as he has planned, he will learn reality of life with time as I learned myself and realized and reason I now approach life differently.


In life, you can never have everything perfectly as you desire, something must keep you constantly praying or seeking for answer or solution; some it's finance, some its health, some it's finding spouse, some is finding a good paying job, some it's having kids, some it's having cool headed kids or kids that are perfectly okay with one or two health challenges, some it's addiction (drugs, etc), some it's always ending up with betrayals and inhouse enemies. So dear op, prepare for it, life can never be perfect for you or anybody, something must be missing. I disliked certain people in certain profession, at the end, I ended up marrying someone in that profession.


I planned to become a Professor before I turned 40 as per growing up and wishes, at the end, it has taken me years now still struggling to finish PhD lol.


I planned and wished to become a billionaire before age 40, today I am 40 and not yet a confirmed billionaire but some childhood friends, course mates and former colleagues that once looked up to me as a role model are confirmed Naira billionaires today while I struggle to get to that point despite having everything so planned out and doing everything I ought to do.


Growing up, I wished not to have a girl child, I said I will have only two boys, today I am a proud father of a boy and more than one pretty girls, and I now seem to cherish girl childs even more


Life have made me to realize that truly the race is not for the brave or the strongest or the wisest or the most intelligent or the most beautiful people, but of God that showeth mercy when He chooses to show us mercy and reason I laugh at Tinubu supporters who believe life and events will all play out as they and Tinubu have planned it to be like a movie, life will equally teach them one or two lessons.



So dear op, if you know you don't have sincere feelings, empathy and the heart to walk on that life path with the lady, please don't mislead her or lead her on. They said people should not marry for pity but that is a lie, it's a professional advice not based on reality. You must be empathetic to your partner at some point. Our God is a merciful God too, He is compassionate and shows us mercy when we do not merit His mercy, so why must we His children be so mean in our decisions just because we want to act the way relationship counsellors who still fail in their own relationships told us?



There is nothing wrong in marrying someone based on empathy haven considered other good qualities of the person.


Op said he doesn't want to have an AS child, what sort of bullshiiit is that? If you say you don't want to have an AA child, that's understandable but saying you don't want to have an AS child so that your children bla bla bla, then you are joking and thinking you are so perfect without blemishes, you better think again young man

Oga Franchasng, I dey always gbadun your posts. Whether it's relationship, career or life issues generally. I read the comment and already knew it was you even without looking at the poster.
Well-done sir!!

Saturnalia:
To me, this is not possible. I cannot engage in a romantic relationship with female societal leftovers that have been damaged beyond redemption, because if I climb her at night, I will be seeing all the faces of the Politicians & Yahoo Boyz have climbed her.

Pray tell, which advice can a woman who has gone to the Middle East to engage in “Dubai Porta Potty” and now retired give me?

My friend, if I cannot get a 20 year old virgin, then they can all keep their Vajuju.

What if the older woman is also a virgin?

nitrogen:
Issokay. Enjoy the gbasgbos, but be careful, make blood no touch you o.

nitrogen:
Fuvk off to your miserable thread!

Oga nitrogen, no be fight nau.

Commotion in the camp of the enemy.
I love it!!!

izzou:
Oga

We no dey do refund oh

I don't understand where all these is coming from!

Abeg, help me tell am oo. We still have Emmanuel Emegha incase he's not satisfied with Santos.

afrodoc:
As how? Who no wan live forever? 😌

Lol, leave Elder alone oo.

afrodoc:
Ohh ok. I get now.

But that should not make you stop completely. You just need to start back slowly and not go that hard especially in the beginning.
These things are good for cardiovascular health. It is not just for show and they have health benefits even though they don’t grant eternal life like some people want.

Na wa for you oo, doc. You like trouble pass fight.

BlueRayDick:
It's just unfortunate. They know if they decide to fix the existing bad roads instead of starting a phantom project, they won't have enough to steal.

The people that amuse me most in all of these are the regular everyday Nigerians who actually took it upon themselves to defend the white elephant project. They thought those who asked questions hated Nigeria , but they loved Nigeria most.

In Lioness Season 3 episode 5, people like that were referred to as "useful ediots"

Hahaha. This particular season was top-notch. They raised the bar high.

GloriousGbola:
To whom it may concern

15k meat compounds over time

Egbon, you too like wahala.

nateevs:
Add to this that my boy hit 9G/A in his first 7 games in all competitions.

Correct me if I am wrong, but I believe that this is a Chelsea FC record. No player has hit 9G/A in their first 7 games for the club.

I think I saw something like this too but I'm not sure either. Anyway, hopefully,Alonso continues to give you bragging rights.

nateevs:
I laugh in Maresca.

My oga, na you get this weekend oo.
Maresca won plus three at the back blew the opponent away yesterday.
Enough food for you.

Skimpledawg:
Brethren, my wife put to bed a beautiful girl

Congratulations, apostle!! Your wife win you sha.

afrodoc2:


After 40 days and 40 nights of cramming one sentence to show off, na still 0/10.

afrodoc2:
See tall dreams. Haaland switching from Man City to Man Utd.

Of all the things that will never happen that is one of the ones that will never happen the most.

Doc, don't kill me abeg.😆😆

Roland17:
Na to dey begin pray against this kain rubbish passion wen dey always bring me pain.

You"ll still watch the next match. You just can't help it.

Roland17:
I don’t even know why I put myself through this nonsense everytime.

It's the passion for your country,lol.

afrodoc2:
Hahaha. Actually, i don't think so. At least not more than the average Nigerian.

Oh, alright then.

GloriousGbola:
A friend who went to unilag (sowore is a unilag graduate) told me flatly four years ago that sowore is a scammer.at the time I chose not to argue, but it turns out the guy was right. I guess in the end if we live long enough the truth will become obvious.

Your friend knew Sowore? My Elder, I greet you sir.

Realmrsean:
bars dey cry 😭

How you wan take know say na doc?

afrodoc2:
Both teaching and non-teaching staff have bloated egos. Bank tellers, gatemen at government parastatals, bank tellers, doctors, typists in the civil service, PA to the Senior Pastor etc.

Nigerians don't drink responsibly from the well of power. That is why most (including the freedom fighters and activists) become power drunk when they are in any position of authority/power. There is an oppression codon in the Nigerian genome.

E be like bank tellers don show you shege, doc? This one that you typed it twice.

afrodoc2:
I saw the guy watching a few minutes ago na him i say make i hail am. Before i type finish e don disappear again.

I come dey feel for am. To score 2 goals against Brighton no be day job. We wey don do am we know wetin our eyes see.

afrodoc2:
Roland how far?

Egbon does not have network.

Konsa konsa. Baba dance makossa today.