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I'm being realistic. A girl can simply say its over, but not a guy. If you juz blunt n act like you don't care, the girl mind go paint her as a tool you used and the next tin na revenge or eternal hatred.

To those that know better, your comments
are appreciated.

1st STEP: Tell her she's too good for you
occasionally.

2nd STEP: Let her know you may disappoint
her at any time. In my own case, I was like
"babes, ur dating a polygamist, I for like
marry all the cutest girls life would offer".

3rd STEP: Start forming too busy and
serious.

4th STEP: Let her start seeing your bad side,
but as a gentleman, apologize after the act.

5th STEP: Just blurt it out. I was like
"booboo, I no fit handle long distant
relationship, and I distrust myself around
other babes. I wouldn't want to hurt you so,
we knew this would one day end and I know
its today". "Please forgive for disappointing
you. I hope we stay friendly".

6th STEP: GO AWAY IF SHE GETS TOO
EMOTIONAL. Never look remorseful after the
last blow.
It worked for me after my 1 day relationship...

I think Fear is the main reason...and you can add a little bit of self consciousness.

I used to want to appear perfect before my crush but I ended up embarrassing myself.

I also believe the assumption that all Naija babes are money conscious is so wrong, this also is a reason for the inability to approach a well dressed babe.

I've always liked dis man's simplicity... he is completely himself.

Me loves me mum like crazy even when she's grumpy, I love my dad, even when he's annoying. I love my brothers, even when we're fighting. I love my girl, even when she's flirting. I love me, even when I'm hurting.

OK...tough question since real love is dead n gone.

1.4million multiplied by N5000 cost of their cards...

I've already passed sha, juz imagining how much they make from frustrations.

I don't like the color temperature of the infinix zero and camera blurriness. I hope this pro gives clear detailed pics and a bit of warmness in its display.
Moderate specs at a moderate price, I hope it can last upto a year without too much issues juz like d tecno phones I've used.

Nawa for some Nigerians o, dude creates an educational thread, some peeps come to type shit juz to degrade the thread.

Mods no dey here to ban those that insult needlessly.

Blackett:
You're passing thru a natural phase. I still remember the first time I kissed a girl and the first time I squeezed her ass. . . It takes time to master such fear.

One thing you have to start doing now is learn how to look into someone's eyes and holding the gaze. Start practicing with dogs if you have one, then younger children, and then your friends and then girls. Not forgetting your own reflection in the mirror.

When you catch a girl's gaze and she looks away. You've won. Your confidence builds with constants practice.

Thanks bro, I guess I'll have to start practicing.

mkpakanaodogwu:
U need prayers

Not in this matter.

menix:
@ OP.. D day u realise its either a Yes or No frm d opposite sex, d beta u get hold of dat fear.

I agree with a certain position that women don't know wat they want.

My experience, I leaned in to kiss her on our 1st date, she gently pushed me away and asked what was wrong with me, but she no comot o neither did she block my further advances.
Well, I ended up holding her waist, kissing her neck and that was all. My heart was beating uncontrollably.

Guys, I didn't ask for quotes or bashings, juz some practical advice.

Someone once asked me why I'm shy, and from dat day I was almost forcing myself to be social but it didn't work.

I appreciate the comments.

OP u try joor...na wetin shy guys like me dey do. At least, the love still pure.

Ah, the concept that is near and dear to all
of us men who have started on the path to
success with women and dating...

FEAR.

Fear of rejection.

Fear of embarrassment.

Fear of the unknown.

Fear of what she might do if I start talking
to her.

Fear of what other guys would think if they
knew that we needed help with women.

Fear of what WOMEN would think if they
knew that we needed help with women.

Fear of admitting that we're AFRAID.

...just got an awkward kiss this evening cos my heart was beating too fast.

Nlers, abeg help me and other shy guys out there trying to socialize and make friends/relationships with members of the opposite sex who may be out of our social league conquer our fear.

I think you can print it from anywhere. Its common sense, after all, the name of the registration centre no dey the slip.

I guess d reasons we don't progress is becos we see d bad in everything...

1st page of this topic is full of insults, nobody answered her question there.

Read my signature before you quote me.

Him dey there dey block punches, dey find phone, with all d muscles he has...

Treat a bit.ch like a bit.ch. No form gentleman when Ur attacked by a madwoman.

They'll get paid after d elections...Money is critical for winning elections not your votes.

Single mothers in this post sound like divorcees, anyways, every woman has her own imperfections.

This Love tin no get better gain...Don't emotional topics bore u?

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I think cavities mostly cost some people their smiles and laughter, hence their shyness.

I found a method online called oil pulling where you simply rinse your mouth with coconut oil for 20mins every morning faithfully as well as taking in cod liver oil.

I'm going to try this, but I'd like to share this info and see who else wants to give this solution a try.

here is the testimony link
trinaholden.com/healing-cavities-a-true-weve-done-it-story/

Another one.
draxe.com/naturally-reverse-cavities-heal-tooth-decay/

Babe, how's the camera compared to h6?

press and hold power and volume down button at the same time.

Nice, but d ROM 4 b 16gb...Gionee m3 be im mate sha.

Outside of normal height differences, people
with growth deficiency are much more aware
of the role height plays in their lives.

A study done through a growth clinic showed that
children with growth deficiency are more
likely to have social problems. The problems
included lower social competance, increased
behavior problems, and low self-esteem.

Another study found lower rates of
employment and marriage when children with
growth deficiency grew up .

One theory of why tall people are more
successful is that there is stigma attatched to
height, and thus short people are seen as
easier to dominate .

Another theory is that evolutionarily, tall people had an advantage in
hunting and such and were thus associated
with positive trait . Perhaps we still retain
this association unconciously.

The third theory is that taller people have a better-self
image, and this increased confidence makes
them more successful (2) .
A factor that may influence both earnings and
height is one's family background. Shorter
men tend to come from bigger families with
parents who have less education than those of
taller men.

This shorter height may be a
factor of poor childhood nutrition, and parents
with less education are more likely to have
children who also receive less education and
therefore earn less. Family background is not
the only influence, though, as shorter men
still earn less than taller men from the same
background .

Effects that appear to stem from one's adult
height, though, may have a different cause
entirely. Participants in one study were asked
to report their heights at ages 7,11, 16, and
23. The height that affected one's adult
earnings, it turned out, was not the adult
height but the 16-year-old height. (The others
did not correspond.) While adult height was
found to correspond to earnings in other
studies, it seems because of the correlation
between adolescent height and adult height.

I have observed one phenomenon of height's
effect on psychology in my own life. When a
group of people have been asked to line up by
height, there's always some debate. I usually
end up next to someone who I consider
shorter than me - but she considers herself
taller. One of us is clearly wrong, since we
can't both be taller, but it really doesn't
matter which of us is right. The interesting
part is that both of us perceive ourselves as
being taller.

My theory is that because height
and confidence are linked, how people see
themselves affects how they see their height.
Since I am about 5'4", on the lower half of the
height scale for women, I suspect most girls
around my height would like to be taller.
When we have to evaluate ourselves, our self-
images cause us to overestimate our own
heights.
I think, then, that the biggest part of height's
role in our lives is not measurable in feet and
inches, but in our own minds. The fact that
our adolescent heights instead of our adult
heights influence our earnings means that
employers are not doling out pay based on
simple physical appearance, but something
that has been with us for years. Our own
social skills and attitudes towards ourselves
would seem to be what matter here. Maybe
it's true - the scrawny kids who got picked on
in gym class really were changed by the
experience. Maybe they weren't as sure of
themselves as the taller kids, and it affected
how they did in school later, how well they
worked with other people, how much they
were valued as workers. Maybe it changed
their success in love or presidential elections.
It would seem the converse is also true, that
one's self-image can change one's perception
of height.

So in a way, it's in our heads - the
important thing is not how tall we are, but
how that changes our own mindset.

serendip.brynmawr.edu/biology/b103/f03/web2/jwise.html

I am reading what you two are doing...Nobleval, I also like ds Tracey girl.

...So its all about girls's buttocks everywhere. I'm getting bored of every girl flaunting bum every now and then.

Just wanna see them "be normal".

Do like say u get phone call, comot outside, come back inside and seat somewhere else.