₦airaland Forum

Simple does it.

Mmm, this kind story shouldn't be repeated. Imagine if after winning, Obi becomes Buhari v2, all talk and no do.

However, Tinubu has evidence of better leadership as governor but for his me, my family and friends approach.

hollandis:
On ya marks
Set
Go


Dem go rig that election for ya face .Imagine Katsina 5 million voters

Naija matter can make person laugh

Nigeria must fail

Hols, you be realist jor!

Everyone knows at the back of their mind that APC isn't going to relinquish power on a silver platter, the police and soldiers will be used to rig rig that election.

Na only miracle fit save us from BAT things in 2023!

But e no mean, you continue to encourage the other obidients.

EmiDon11:
My girl's birthday is fast approaching but i'm still confused on what to buy for her

So girls in the house, what can ur man buy for u to make u people happy?

Especially on ur special day?

I want something that will suprise her (money aside).


As in what she can keep and be remembering me anytime she looks at it.

Buy her a portrait of yourself!

Why will Tinubu win?

The ruling party (APC) is ready to fight dirty to retain power and they don't care what other Nigerians want.

You can even sniff the fact that the police and military will be utilized to keep things in line with their plan.

INEC's administration will not help matters and only sacrificial support, genius planning strategy and a miracle can get us PO as presido.

GraceUnIimitedd:
I reunited with this 30 year old long lost friend of mine online via Facebook and we communicated down to WhatsApp, we have been chatting for months now till i finally asked her out and told her my intentions of marrying her.

I then asked her out but she just kept maintaining stance that we should be friends first, i told her plainly that it's better we start dating and all the friendship should be integrated into the dating phase but she turned down and said we should maintain friendship first till she's ready.

Now she has already started billing me, she told me her birthday is tomorrow and she'll need my financial support, i then asked her to be specific on the precise amount she wants, she then responded that she needs at least 30k for photoshoots, make up and cake.

So my question is why is she financially demanding when we are just friends?

Try challenging yourself to walk away from old friendships that don't develop you. An Ex or (X) is a cancelled figure in your personal history.

You are unwise and naive about women if you really wanted to give her that money.

It'll be nice to have the interpretation...

Personally, on a scale of 1 - 10, he's a good 6.

Obi should win, but the Nigerian reality will disagree.

corporateDan:
Oshey Redpiller

That's emotional unavailability.

I didn't find this funny but you're trying.

I'd rather one just cuts the call and deletes her number. Find another distraction!

siofra:
This is why I don't like this transgenderism.

It's misogyny if you look very well.

This womanifestation is something else, it could make the huwoman race a much better species, no?

Anyway, your womanners are great. Cheers to making more womoney this week.

Obidient and yusful

Obi-Ahmed sweet for ear pass Obi-diatt

ibechris:
Well,I wash my wife's clothes...u said it is pant.
U feel bad because u are a failure and angry for having failed both at home and society.

It is ego like this that makes some of u see women are as property...I simply adore my wife because I cherished her and my children alot.

If washing her clothes makes u sick,so be it. I don't care how stupid it makes u feel. What I know is, i wash my wife clothes and she in turn do more for me.

To even shock u more,I fuel her car weekly and make sure I personally clean her car myself,hence I am so proud of her and I don't care how u feel about it.

I am sure u are a wondering single man with a bleak future,a misogynist I guess!
I didn't cause your problem but your ego is...take it easy. I married my wife and she is the best for me and go marry yours and treat her like a trash (that is ur problem).

I am sure, your ego has brought u unprecedented wealth?
Use your "Ego" to create wealth and stop disturbing us that are married.

Like this, we de bar de chill with guys de discuss. You tell us say you de work abi pay for your wife to like abi love you, I'll laugh and call you a woman's "Ool".

You no go code because, well...

I'm actually calling you "a woman's fool".

Don't take it personal, it's just a joke.

Modified: Ibe, being a subservient lover is your choice but I was foolish to insult you like this. I apologize!

UyaiIncomparabl:
Badbradley and Maverick777, I have reported you guys for insulting me. I hope it comes with a ban. I won't descend to your levels! Bye Felicias!

You can't take insults but you can give them

Ishilove:
Toh. We have been reduced to maids and cooks. Until you have properly engaged me, I remain a guest in your home and as I do not expect a guest to help with house chores unless I specifically request, don't expect me to go to your house and start forming the girl is good. The girl is not a pretender!

So a guest in the family, not a friend of the family?

Mmmm, love de conquer spirit of pride. Also, you just de talk, like Linda ikeji, you probably don't actually act like you say do.

immortalcrown:
Please, what should he do?

What he's been doing so far.

She's taking responsibility for the household, isn't she? She's learning what love is really about, which is unselfish giving. Her level of entitlement has reduced, she's appears to want to change into a better wife, her parents point of view is seemingly also changed.

You don't kick someone when they're down or you'll be fouled.

immortalcrown:
Misguided men sound as if all women are the same. Misguided women also sound as if all men are the same. See the way you say "Fear women" as if your mother is like this your wife.

I do not know if you are saying the truth. I did not witness the marriage and I have not heard her own side of the story. But if what you said is the truth of the matter, below is my opinion.

Your wife and her mother are extremely greedy and selfish. Your wife does not love you. If she loves you, she would have even borrowed money to support you. You used money to compel her to marry you.

But what about you? You are not better. Your tone and your logic show you may even be worse. You are the type that believes money is all that matters. That is why you chose a wife based on your ability to earn and spend money. You lavished money on her. If not how you pampered and spoiled her with money and petting, she would not have married you or the marriage would have ended within 2 years. Maybe she was a point of attraction for all the men in your area and you prided yourself as the champion in getting her. When wise men try to use prudence and rationality to test a woman, people like you mock those men and say "Na mumu dey use poverty test women". You got what you bargained for.

But let me tell you what is about to happen to you. A serious marital crisis is about to hit your home. I do not foresee a divorce. What I foresee is a serious domestic violence that can result in death. Two wrongs never make a right. You and your wife will equally surfer and your child will surfer most when it happens. You and your wife are equally irrational. Both of you are heartless towards each other. You may end up with another woman that will worsen your life. Your tone shows you are yet to know how to enjoy women. Your wife may commit paternity fraud against you in future.

Better pamper her and pray God changes her. Trying to hurt her will not solve the problem. It will only add fuel to the fire. If what you say here is true, your wife is wicked and she won't mind poisoning you to death if you torture her. Only patience and petting can soften a wicked woman a bit. You don enter be say you don enter. Even a divorce will not save you because she and her congenial mother will use all their efforts to make your life miserable.

Modified
Nairaland fools have no remedy. They cannot decode an abridged comment. The same fools still go out of context when a detailed comment is provided. This poster just said he dated the wife for 4 years and made her comfortable because he was making much money. I pointed out that she would have shown her true colour if he was rational in spending on her during the dating or during the first few months in the marriage. He used too much spending on her to deprive himself the opportunity to know her true character. Those who quote and insult me should prove me wrong. Do not just say rubbish when you quote me.

The rubbish you said was pamper her and pray...

...met this nice old man today who's married to a white middle aged woman.

He called her today at the bar and the conversation was one-sided. Later, he dropped the call unhappy and i pitied him.

Make all the money in the world but don't be a stupid nice man to your wife or gf.

Life is supposed to be lived happy with one's partner. Choose happiness and respect over her.

They need to hear what comes out when a woman talks dirty...

Amotolongbo:
Only an insecure and lazy man would reason like that.

A working wife should bring two things to a reasonable man;

1 financial support in the home
2 A challenge and motivation for a man to work harder to increase his source and level of income


I understand that kind of man won’t like to marry an intelligent lady cos he won’t be able to handle her and think she may be egoistic but a “sit-down-there” kinda woman.

This kinda man will spend all his last kobo on his daughter(s) to be successful in life and be happy that a man isn’t allowing her to utilise the potential she has?

Moreover, don’t some men think of what their daughter(s) will inherit from their mothers after turning their wives to a dummy.

So in 2. you're saying her attitude will be challenging, so the man brings in more money for her and the family?

Bahamas95:
This is why I always say it's not possible to change overnight. That person you call Mr. Nice guy is not truly nice, na poverty tame am. Money brings out your true colour.

If you see any wealthy person that's still humble, nice etc it's inbuilt.

More like Environmental influence... Genuinely nice guys start to realise women are genuinely heartless, even the born again and morally conscious ones.

Richsteemit:
Chaii Omo this girl fineoooo. I can spend my live savings on this girl. I can even sell my family house to marry this girl. . Omo see beauty. My dream to marry a beautiful woman will come true. I finally know why some niggas simp. We know all girls are useless but we go still manage them

There's a stage in self development that makes you aware of the abundance of physical beauty. There are millions/billions of girls that can be as beautiful with makeup, filters and the right poses.

How is it that women claim to be sensitive yet do insensitive things? Pero no try.

After the impression, na breakfast somewhere along the line...

Strong twerkin...

Yuck!!!

Ihuomanice1:
This is absolutely nonsense
Why did he video's her? , he has no right to do these on her because he's not married to her
And beside what was the man thinking, that she's a scent or that he was tge only person in her life or what? Did the man ve only her as girlfriend , meanwhile the lady is free to do whatever she wana do with her body.... This is not right and the man needs to face the law bc it is barging of privacy..... Rubbish!!!!
I wonder why men cheats it becomes very easy to weave but when a woman cheats people sees it as the worst case
Oga go carry your coat were you keep am
Bleep off this country called Zoo

So many contradictions but it's okay...

twinning200:
Justa quick one guys, am I suppose overthink being judged or being stereotyped because of my height? Was having an argument with my wife over disagreement on
doing what she wasnt suppose to do. After going back and forth, I said she should stop going to this particular place, because once she sets out, whatever she is
suppose to do at home becomes less of a priority. Next thing I heard was, people of your height have issues as such as this, which is controlling people, at 5
feet 6, i dont consider myself too short, though I know its not like the aevrage height for a Nigerian male. I felt a bit bad because i thinks its petty to use
my height as something to prove her point, infact she had called her younger brother who is just like 23 years to ask her a question regarding what we were arguing about
, I told her it wasnt necessary, next thing I heard, you dont want him involved because you feel intimated...lol probably because the boy is 5 feet 9, omo height
don make man see plenty see finish oo.

Find something she's sensitive about and attack her with.