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Romance / Re: You See Women,fear Them by Boomboost(m): 11:57pm On Jul 07, 2022
immortalcrown:
Misguided men sound as if all women are the same. Misguided women also sound as if all men are the same. See the way you say "Fear women" as if your mother is like this your wife.

I do not know if you are saying the truth. I did not witness the marriage and I have not heard her own side of the story. But if what you said is the truth of the matter, below is my opinion.

Your wife and her mother are extremely greedy and selfish. Your wife does not love you. If she loves you, she would have even borrowed money to support you. You used money to compel her to marry you.

But what about you? You are not better. Your tone and your logic show you may even be worse. You are the type that believes money is all that matters. That is why you chose a wife based on your ability to earn and spend money. You lavished money on her. If not how you pampered and spoiled her with money and petting, she would not have married you or the marriage would have ended within 2 years. Maybe she was a point of attraction for all the men in your area and you prided yourself as the champion in getting her. When wise men try to use prudence and rationality to test a woman, people like you mock those men and say "Na mumu dey use poverty test women". You got what you bargained for.

But let me tell you what is about to happen to you. A serious marital crisis is about to hit your home. I do not foresee a divorce. What I foresee is a serious domestic violence that can result in death. Two wrongs never make a right. You and your wife will equally surfer and your child will surfer most when it happens. You and your wife are equally irrational. Both of you are heartless towards each other. You may end up with another woman that will worsen your life. Your tone shows you are yet to know how to enjoy women. Your wife may commit paternity fraud against you in future.

Better pamper her and pray God changes her. Trying to hurt her will not solve the problem. It will only add fuel to the fire. If what you say here is true, your wife is wicked and she won't mind poisoning you to death if you torture her. Only patience and petting can soften a wicked woman a bit. You don enter be say you don enter. Even a divorce will not save you because she and her congenial mother will use all their efforts to make your life miserable.

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Nairaland fools have no remedy. They cannot decode an abridged comment. The same fools still go out of context when a detailed comment is provided. This poster just said he dated the wife for 4 years and made her comfortable because he was making much money. I pointed out that she would have shown her true colour if he was rational in spending on her during the dating or during the first few months in the marriage. He used too much spending on her to deprive himself the opportunity to know her true character. Those who quote and insult me should prove me wrong. Do not just say rubbish when you quote me.

The rubbish you said was pamper her and pray...
Romance / Re: Is My Boyfriend A Simp? Your Advice Is Needed, he acts like a Sissy by Boomboost(m): 4:48pm On Jul 06, 2022
...met this nice old man today who's married to a white middle aged woman.

He called her today at the bar and the conversation was one-sided. Later, he dropped the call unhappy and i pitied him.

Make all the money in the world but don't be a stupid nice man to your wife or gf.

Life is supposed to be lived happy with one's partner. Choose happiness and respect over her.

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Romance / Re: Men Only: How Women Manipulate Simps (format Busted!) by Boomboost(m): 9:03am On Jul 01, 2022
They need to hear what comes out when a woman talks dirty...

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Family / Re: Is It True That When Women Have More Money They No Longer Regard Their Husband by Boomboost(m): 8:52am On Jul 01, 2022
Amotolongbo:
Only an insecure and lazy man would reason like that.

A working wife should bring two things to a reasonable man;

1 financial support in the home
2 A challenge and motivation for a man to work harder to increase his source and level of income


I understand that kind of man won’t like to marry an intelligent lady cos he won’t be able to handle her and think she may be egoistic but a “sit-down-there” kinda woman.

This kinda man will spend all his last kobo on his daughter(s) to be successful in life and be happy that a man isn’t allowing her to utilise the potential she has?

Moreover, don’t some men think of what their daughter(s) will inherit from their mothers after turning their wives to a dummy.

So in 2. you're saying her attitude will be challenging, so the man brings in more money for her and the family?

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Romance / Re: She Left When I Was A Good Poor Guy.now Am A Rich Bad Man by Boomboost(m): 5:46pm On Jun 17, 2022
Bahamas95:
This is why I always say it's not possible to change overnight. That person you call Mr. Nice guy is not truly nice, na poverty tame am. Money brings out your true colour.

If you see any wealthy person that's still humble, nice etc it's inbuilt.

More like Environmental influence... Genuinely nice guys start to realise women are genuinely heartless, even the born again and morally conscious ones.
Romance / Re: Some Girls Are Just Too Beautiful. by Boomboost(m): 4:42pm On Jun 03, 2022
Richsteemit:
Chaii Omo this girl fineoooo. I can spend my live savings on this girl. I can even sell my family house to marry this girl. grin grin. Omo see beauty. My dream to marry a beautiful woman will come true. I finally know why some niggas simp. We know all girls are useless but we go still manage them grin grin

There's a stage in self development that makes you aware of the abundance of physical beauty. There are millions/billions of girls that can be as beautiful with makeup, filters and the right poses.
Celebrities / Re: "Make Una Leave My Wife Alone” – Tuface Idibia Tells Critics by Boomboost(m): 8:12am On Jun 01, 2022
How is it that women claim to be sensitive yet do insensitive things? Pero no try.
Romance / Re: 7 Things To Avoid If You Want To Impress Any Lady. by Boomboost(m): 8:10am On Jun 01, 2022
After the impression, na breakfast somewhere along the line...
Entertainment / Re: Zimbabwean Female Soldiers Twerk In Their Uniform (Video) by Boomboost(m): 1:20pm On May 25, 2022
Strong twerkin...

Yuck!!!
Romance / Re: Nigerian Man Records His Girlfriend After She Slept With His Best Friend by Boomboost(m): 11:39am On May 25, 2022
Ihuomanice1:
This is absolutely nonsense
Why did he video's her? , he has no right to do these on her because he's not married to her
And beside what was the man thinking, that she's a scent or that he was tge only person in her life or what? Did the man ve only her as girlfriend , meanwhile the lady is free to do whatever she wana do with her body.... This is not right and the man needs to face the law bc it is barging of privacy..... Rubbish!!!!
I wonder why men cheats it becomes very easy to weave but when a woman cheats people sees it as the worst case
Oga go carry your coat were you keep am
Bleep off this country called Zoo

So many contradictions but it's okay... wink

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Family / Re: My Wife Don See Me Finish. by Boomboost(m): 7:09pm On May 22, 2022
twinning200:
Justa quick one guys, am I suppose overthink being judged or being stereotyped because of my height? Was having an argument with my wife over disagreement on
doing what she wasnt suppose to do. After going back and forth, I said she should stop going to this particular place, because once she sets out, whatever she is
suppose to do at home becomes less of a priority. Next thing I heard was, people of your height have issues as such as this, which is controlling people, at 5
feet 6, i dont consider myself too short, though I know its not like the aevrage height for a Nigerian male. I felt a bit bad because i thinks its petty to use
my height as something to prove her point, infact she had called her younger brother who is just like 23 years to ask her a question regarding what we were arguing about
, I told her it wasnt necessary, next thing I heard, you dont want him involved because you feel intimated...lol probably because the boy is 5 feet 9, omo height
don make man see plenty see finish oo.

Find something she's sensitive about and attack her with.
Religion / Re: What God Did When I Found Myself In A Den Of Cultists In Port Harcourt by Boomboost(m): 6:40pm On May 22, 2022
pyro62:


God has forgiven you already because you are just ignorant Acts 17:30. I recommend you stay humble and have a deep meditation for a longtime it would help your spirit connect with it's manufacturer (God). It would convince you of his existence, and gradually you would learn and grow. But there is so much work to do on you rn, because I don't even think are conscious of the existence of your spirit(THE REAL YOU). I will be praying for you

Guy, you see that FERNANDEZ girl, when you have urge to reply her senselessness, remind yourself she doesn't matter. You de waste time on that nonsense woman.
Family / Re: Not The Marriage I Had In Mind by Boomboost(m): 6:28pm On May 22, 2022
Augustwife:
I had to open a new moniker so I can rant in peace. My head is full, so it's going to be a long post .

I got married to the love of my life 2017 (we started dating 2009) and we have two wonderful children.
He loves me (I know for sure), doesn't cheat too and my in-laws are the most wonderful people on earth ( my mil especially).

We have a joint business but the bad part :he is addicted to alcohol.

He wasn't like this before we got married, he used to drink occasionally so I can't really tell how we got here.

It's so bad that he can't go a day without it. Once he can't lay his hands on alcohol he will begin to shiver like a malaria patient.

This addiction has gotten us into debts that I had to pay with my savings on several occasions.

I'm talking of debts of 120k, 167k, 136k e.t.c. He's takes several loans from loan sharks , drinks like no tomorrow.

He has wrecked ourbbusiness and only with the help of God was I able to rebuild It by taking loans and paying back.

We even decided he gets a job so he can be more responsible but after working for a year he had nothing to show for it.

Twice his parents had to take him to a therapist but it was all in vain as he would go back to drinking.

My head is scattered,I can't think straight, it's making me hate him. I tried leaving a few weeks ago , I went back to my mother's house but trust my mama, she begged me to go back and my mother in-law too.

I don't even know what to do, my mental life is zero, I have withdrawn from everyone, I'm practically in poverty due to this addiction
He is a wonderful man BUT this addiction is a very big problem. We have prayed, fasted, gone to doctors but it's still there.

I don't know what to do .

Think, there must be something to replace his alcohol addiction with.

You can show him summarised material on Bacchus and how the demon works.

Use reverse psychology and tell him what a wonderful non-alcoholic he is, and give him a gift if he skips drinking even for one day.

Act the part of a playful girlfriend, you'll do what women do best (manipulate) and reduce his addiction.

At the time he would go out drinking, divert his attention to something else like a short game like the ones on tiktok, an evening date, roleplay session, movie night or enjoying comedy videos or even drink with him from a flat plate (at home).

Talk about his passion and strengths and the good ol'days and don't bring in the alcohol part.

When he has to go drink, tell him to bring some alcohol back for you. That way, he'll consume less bottles.
Romance / Re: I Would Have Lost My Girl Friend If Followed An Advice I Got Here. by Boomboost(m): 6:05pm On May 22, 2022
Alaigbopress:
Some days ago, I posted here about how my girl friend posted her ex pictures twice and I got a handful of advice, insults and very derogatory statements. Also at the same time I also got very few matured and helpful comment.
I wanted to apply the advice I was given here because I was furious and that could have been disastrous.

The next day after posting here, I confronted my girl, I told her it is over between us(all was a ploy to know how much she loves me). Since that day, my Girl's mood changed, she doesn't talk to people, she doesn't laugh and even started skipping her meal. She came to my house and was crying heavily that she was sorry. That has it been she know that it will provoke me that she wouldn't have done it.

I still pretended that I will never forgive her. Just yesterday she called my female bestie and narrated to her what happened and she called me yesterday evening and pleaded with me to forgive her. Which I did and You need to see how happy this girl has been. I will send screen shot of her recent Whatsapp status.


My Advice to anyone seeking for a relationship advice is not to follow the popular comment here.

Her change is in her actions not cries. In your heart, is she done with her X?
Romance / Re: How Do I Save My Friend From The Claws Of A Manipulative Woman? by Boomboost(m): 9:08am On May 22, 2022
Supreme145:
It's not in my nature to bother about people's relationships but this is happening to someone that's like a brother to me. He has been dating a girl for a year now and it's obvious this girl doesn't love him but he won't just give up. He keeps throwing money at her in a bid to win her love.

Things got messier when this girl met a particular guy some months back... This guy happens to live in the compound of my club mate so I know him well. The girl has begged my guy to free her that she's in love with someone else but this guy no gree instead he's planning to attack the innocent guy.

He confided in me that the girl has not let him touch her since she met this other guy, that's over five months now. I once overhead the guy boasting to his friends that he's a redpiller because someone else is taking care of his girlfriend while he does the knacking free of charge. He's even flexing everything that my guy buys for the girl.
All pleas to my guy to free this girl has fallen on deaf ears.

My club mate told me that the girl has been with the guy for over one month now, my guy comes to town once a week to see the girl, gets her stuffs and this girl will just go back to the other boy that is even jobless.

My guy is finer and far richer than this new guy, he's planning to start a business for this girl and I've been trying to change his mind to no avail. It's no longer normal, I would've said he's charmed but the girl has begged him to free her but he refused. The guy is even the one flexing the sample of the products he sent her. Everything she has done to drive him has failed so she just relaxed and enjoying the money.

This simping is on another level, it hurts me to see my guy in this kinda situation. I've gotten him picture proofs that the girl is cheating but he won't change his mind. The girl even admitted that she's been having sex with the guy buy he's claiming its a lie and the girl is trying to drive away.

Is there anything I can do to help him abeg.


Only another woman can cure a man's obsession of some other.

Words don't work here, so if you are willing to spend, pay another attractive woman to pay him attention and treat him better. When he starts falling, she ghosts him as the contract is over. He'll have gotten over the first and become more aware of the machinations of women. Love has a formula and it's in action.

Maybe get him "the Art of seduction" audiobook or some other material so he can understand human relations better.

Lastly, have audio recorded evidence so this contract lover doesn't become his new leech.
Romance / Re: My Cheating Is About To End My Marriage by Boomboost(m): 8:54am On May 13, 2022
Cassahav:

I am a fortysomething man in a long-term relationship – nearly 20 years – and have two children. For the past 10 years my partner has been having short-term lovers. These were clandestine, but more recently she has stopped hiding, called our relationship “open”, and currently has a lover who I do know about. But this “open relationship” can only be one-sided, because she is jealous and suspicious while I am basically not polyamorous. So why stay together? We get on, communicate well (other than the no-go zone of her other love life), rarely argue, are bonded by bringing up our children and are financially tied together.

However, the years of suppressing my emotions – of jealousy, rejection, insecurity, being lied to – have left me broken. Sex (which we still occasionally do have) has become stressed: if I don’t perform enthusiastically, it will justify her seeking other lovers. Also, I am expected to remain sexually attracted to her, which gets more difficult when I know she’s been with someone else recently. We had frank talks when she offered to end her extramarital affairs and be monogamous with me – or plan how we might separate without affecting our children. We were both very upset, as we are very much still in love, and wish the sex side of our relationship wasn’t such a terrible mess.

But it has occurred to me that I am emotionally and sexually broken after this past decade. If I was single again – or my partner was to become monogamous with me again – I don’t think I would be a viable person to be in a relationship with. How do I start to repair myself, inside or outside this relationship?

Any advice would be cool.

Go be a man, modafucka!

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Sports / Re: Cristiano Ronaldo Has Announced That One Of His Newborn Twins passed away by Boomboost(m): 7:37pm On Apr 18, 2022
In the end, we'll all pass on...

RIP, little one, you've missed out on this hell.
Romance / Re: Why Are Nigerian Parents Afraid Of Sex Education?? by Boomboost(m): 5:10pm On Apr 18, 2022
No. 1 : We Africans are religious
No. 2 : You cannot be talking how to f*ck instead of Bible stories or Homework with the kids
No. 3 : Thirdly, you wi'not like the questions that will follow.
No. 4 : You may just have given permission to research and utilise such knowledge
No. 5 : You will not look so Christianly and moral again. So Daddy and mommy always do bad tins in dia room?
No. 6 : Your child may tell teachers and peers, "my Daddy said...".
No. 7 : You become friend instead of parent and some don't want that.
No. 8 : Such information has consequences. Your child would have lost some innocence of childhood early on. The earlier the spoiling, the faster the spreading.
No. 9 : Some want the child to discover some things about life by themselves. Dia parents did not do it, why should they?
No. 10 : The Biology teacher and school counselor should do it.

Thank you!

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Romance / Re: What’s The Main Reason Why You’re Presently In A Relationship Or About To Enter? by Boomboost(m): 6:25am On Apr 18, 2022
Jennyclay:
Then speak for yourself... Why are you now quoting me?

Please get out of my mention!!!

Well, who also was waiting for this? grin

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Romance / Re: Women Don't Want To Be Respected... by Boomboost(m): 6:20am On Apr 18, 2022
I've realised there are some truths everyone should know but not say...

This is one of'em.

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Romance / Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCA$HIN: (2021) Ice Cold Cash Queen. by Boomboost(m): 12:47am On Apr 06, 2022
ubunja:
How Cold Hearts Get Gold Diggers Paid.

Gold Diggers. Two words that invoke images of cold-hearted greed and manipulation. Yet rich men can't seem to get enough of these icy, empty, conniving creatures. Nice Girls have never been a hit with rich men.

As a woman it might be puzzling how an icy cold heart makes men bust open their bank accounts.

It all begins with understanding how men fall in love versus how women fall in love.

HOW MEN AND WOMEN FALL IN LOVE.
When a man starts dating a new woman, usually he's in conflict with his friends and he hates the advice they give him. Most of the times they're disapproving of his actions because most of the times he's acting dumb doing too much too soon for too little.

On the other hand, when a woman starts dating a new man, usually she's in harmony with her friends. They're all of one mind. The woman agrees with them, welcomes their advice and follows it.

Why do men and women start out so differently?

A man is roughly 80% logical and 20% emotional. A woman is about 80% emotional and 20% logical.

When a man is attracted to a woman and approaches her, he's in a rare EMOTIONAL STATE. His 20%. He's in his feelings and even his friends can't reason with him because he'll do anything, say anything and give anything to have her. He's thinking with his heart. That is why emotional him stays in conflict with his logical friends.

On the other hand, although women are emotional by default, the woman, when she's first approached by a man, he'll find her in a LOGICAL STATE (her 20%). Because at that point he's a nobody to her. She doesn't love him. She doesn't hate him. She's simply indifferent. AKA Logical. And because her friends are logical as her concerning her suitor, there's harmony in the girls camp.

Unlike in the guys camp.

And so the woman, with a cold pragmatic eye and reasoning logically, she closely scrutinizes her suitor's credentials, his financial state, his character and his friends. She's as logical and as calculating as a man considering a business deal.

THE GREAT SWITCH.
Now, as time goes and things progress, the man and the woman start to switch places...

Because the woman has sufficiently studied her new man, shared sensitive information, bonded with him through shared experiences like going on dates and trips, or even slept with him, she stops being indifferent (logical) and gradually gets into her feelings. Now what her friends and family have to say about the guy starts to clash with what she has to say. And she begins standing up for him when they badmouth him.

She's finally emotional and can no longer be reasoned with. This state she's in now, the man started out in.

Meanwhile, the man, because he has got what he wanted (sex), cooling his head and getting him back to his senses, the emotions that have controlled him all this time evaporate and he goes back to his old logical self. Now he's the one sober minded and thinking straight. This is when he'll start acting funny and ghost the woman.

This state he's in now, the woman started out in.

The man and the woman have switched places.

She who started out indifferent, is now in her feelings. And he who started out in his feelings is now indifferent.

THE GAME GETS COLDER AND COLDER.
Ever noticed this? A guy pursues you and you give him cold shoulder after cold shoulder, which ironically makes him pursue even harder. Then at some point, finally impressed and satisfied with his determination, you turn around and become kind to him. At which point he starts acting funny and pulls back!

What just happened??

You were supposed to stay cold that's what!

A Gold Digger, when she's finally satisfied with a man's determination - when she realizes he's sincere - instead of warming up to him and becoming soft and kind like other women do, she gets colder and colder. The man's determination inspires manipulation. He's so lost in emotions by the time he snaps out of it, he'll have paid mountains of bills, bought bags and bags of groceries, given accommodation, allowances, investments - and if the spell was particularly strong - bought even a car.

And the scam that scams him is a simple scam...

A gold digger DOES NOT ask for money. What she does is She presents a problem. If a man loves her enough, he offers a solution. By spending. Without being asked.

That's the standard method. And it works everytime. While protecting the gold digger.

By talking about her problems to a man the gold digger is dropping hints that she needs his help. Hints are preferred because men don't like to be asked for money. It's crucial that if and when a man decides to help with money, he imagines his offer originated within himself. He must not realize that the woman is infact asking for help otherwise he'll feel used and demand for something in return (sex).

How does this approach protect the gold digger?

You've heard this angry argument before, even in the movies:
Man: "Remember I did this, this and that for you! I did it all for you."
Woman: " But I didn't ask you to!"

Of course she didn't ask him to. Not directly anyway. What she did is she mentioned a problem a few times, she spoke about her situation a couple of times, which put the idea in the man's head to help. By spending. But the idea was put in such a way that it can't be traced back to the woman. That's why she can confidently say, "Did I ask you to do those things for me?" And the man can't answer.

It works everytime.

When a gold digger voices her struggles and a man offers his help, she, to strengthen the man's belief that his offer to help is self motivated, she will flat out refuse his help - Waiting for him TO BEG HER TO ACCEPT HIS HELP. It's a mind trick that allows her to gauge the strength of his love by how strongly he'll insist and press his offer on her. If he doesn't insist and force her to accept his help but instead feels relieved his offer has been declined and he gets to keep his money HE'S THE WRONG TARGET. He doesn't prioritize her happiness high enough. Moving forward getting anything from him will always be a chore.
A Gold Digger needs men so keen on seeing her happy that they put money in her hand by force to solve her problems.

Guys know what I'm talking about here.

Almost every guy has that one girl he cared about so much he personally put money in her purse by force even after she turned it down. That's exactly what gold diggers are aiming for. But with rich men.

If a gold digger speaks about a problem a couple of times but a man ignores and doesn't offer his help, she doesn't beg, cry or put a gun to his head. He's the wrong target. She quietly moves on to the next man.

When Gold Diggers fail to achieve with a man, they know it just means one thing: "It's not that they're asking for too much, THEY'RE ASKING FROM THE WRONG PERSON."

Gold digging is NOT the ability to scam every man but the ability to pick that One Man who can't say NO to you. It's not about begging men for things but finding that man you don't have to beg for anything - because there's nothing he won't do for you.

ALL women do this. But gold diggers do it on a grand scale.

The average girl knows that if she complains long enough to a guy about her old phone and how its cracked screen makes it hard for her to read his messages, IF THE GUY LIKES HER ENOUGH, he'll offer and get her a new phone. It's a common scam. By a common girl.

Gold Diggers run massive scams.

A gold digger tells a man she hasn't fvcked yet that she can't invite him where she stays because she's sharing a flat with two friends and there's no privacy. To which he assumes she's ready for sex, so he tells her to look for a place of her own. To which she tells him she's broke. To which she tells her not to worry. A month later she tells him she's found a nice apartment. To which he makes the bank transfers for the rent. To which she tells him she can't move in because it's just empty rooms. To which he again makes the bank transfers for the furniture.

Now here's the scam:

The apartment already belonged to the WOMAN, so deposit and rent money goes straight to her pocket. The furniture bought is bought at inflated prices, so money goes straight to her pocket. Some of the property bought is secretly resold, so money goes straight to her pocket. Some of those items bought at normal prices are taken back for cash refunds - without the man's knowledge, so money once more goes straight to her pocket. Now the woman has a flat full of furniture. And pockets full of money. But not a single drop of sperm in her pussy.

Such is how a man's bank accounts are emptied. Without showing him even a panty.

It doesn't matter if he's seeing other women's panties, the gold digger with her legs closed always wins. Because of one little-known fact: a man can fvck 10 women but he can love only 1. While a woman can love 10 men but she can only fvck 1.

This is the center core of male-female sexual dynamics. Everything revolves around this little-known truth >>>Women open legs, Men open hearts.

It's not about who a man fvcks, it's about who he loves. And it's not about who a woman loves, it's about who she fvcks. A man's dick any woman can have, even hoes. And a woman's heart any man can have, even a simp in her DMs. It doesn't matter who, where, how, a man is fvcking; to win his heart all you have to do is spend his money. Because his heart follows his money.

NOW, THE MORE COLD-HEARTED AND RUTHLESS A GOLD DIGGER IS in emptying a man's bank accounts, while he's blinded by emotions willing to do anything and everything for her, the stronger will be her grip on him when he finally snaps out of it and comes to his senses - He can't trivially toss her to the side because he has spent too much on her. It will be in his best interest to make sure the relationship works out. With or without sex.

AS REFRESHING AS AN ICE COLD HEART.
Here's the summary of what we're saying: You get a man irreversibly invested in you while he's hopelessly smitten with you (and while you're still cold before you feel anything for him), so that by the time you yourself fall hopelessly in love with him (which coincidentally will be when he starts going cold on you), he can't play you because he's bound to you through his investment in you.

MEN FALL IN LOVE BY BEING LOGICAL.
Men are logical in nature. But when a man sees a woman, he's drawn to her by what he sees and how that makes him feel, which makes him emotional in that he's acting by his feelings. A man will see a woman for the very first time and shout "That's my wife right there!", genuinely believing he's in love. But what he's really experiencing is a rush of feelings and emotions that he's incorrectly decoding.

This rush of feelings and emotions is not a man's natural state. It is a temporary state. And his weakest state.

When that temporary/emotional state passes - usually after sex - what remains AFTER, in the man's head, when he becomes logical again, is what determines if he's in love or not.

A man's shift from being emotional to being logical again is best understood in the context of something called Post Nut Clarity, where a man does not know if he's in lust or in love with a woman until he sleeps with her. Men are emotionally clouded until sex which clarifies their emotions for them. MEN KNOW IF THEY LOVE A WOMAN BY HOW THEY FEEL ABOUT HER AFTER FVCKING HER.

Whatever a man might say about loving you, there's a 50% chance sex will prove HIM wrong. A guy can honestly believe he loves you, but toss you aside after sex. Not because he's a Player. But he was feeling this rush of feelings and emotions but which turned out to be lust. Sex clarified this for him.

Post Nut Clarity is a man getting back to his logical state after starting out in his emotions. Any scam or manipulation to get to his money must happen BEFORE this clarity. Before sex. It is before sex that a man's logic is disconnected. Sex reconnects his logic.

Because of Post Nut Clarity if a man gives you, let's say a phone for sex, one second after ejaculation he's already regretting his own stupidity in giving you that phone and he's wishing to take it back. He has come to his senses. Any man who has ever fvcked a prostitute knows that the minute you climax is the minute you regret wasting your money paying for sex. This is also why guys promise women money for sex but after sex guys change their mind and refuse to give women the money. Sex gets men back to their right senses.

But it's the opposite for women.

Women have PRE NUT CLARITY.

As opposed to men's Post Nut Clarity.

Where men get clearheaded AFTER the sex, women are clearheaded BEFORE the sex.

In dating, because it's the man who usually pursues women, women start out cold and indifferent and have a full understanding of their feelings about him - that is, UNTIL SEX HAPPENS and suddenly they're not so sure.

A woman can read her own emotions clearly as day as long as she keeps her legs closed. But the minute she opens her legs, her mind becomes clouded because emotions have poisoned her judgment: "Does she love this guy or is it just good sex?"

All this means: A woman may hate a man before sex only to like him after sex. While a man may like a woman before sex but hate her after sex.

It also means:

Sex simplifies things with a man.
Sex complicates things with a woman.

Sex pushes a man away.
Sex pulls a woman closer.

Sex makes a man logical.
Sex makes a woman emotional.

And because manipulation works best when a victim/target is emotional since then they're not thinking straight, a man is easiest to manipulate BEFORE sex. While a woman is easiest to manipulate AFTER sex. Which is why gold diggers stay celibate. It keeps men emotional while they themselves stay logical.

When it comes to sex, men are easy. They'll sleep with anything. But when it comes to commitment they're extremely choosy. Because then they're logical. Who men fvck is an emotional decision but who they marry is a logical decision.
When a man commits for marriage, that decision comes from a calm, quiet and sober place. A cold place. The same cold place his business decisions come from. And that place a man only enters after the excitement of emotions have passed and he has cooled down.

When a woman rains pussy on a man - overdosing him with sex - it's the harder she makes it for him to make a decision about their future because his logic has not engaged. The big head will not engage until the small head disengages. Small head handles the small decisions (sex). Big head handles the big decisions (marriage). That's why it's when a woman finally closes her legs, cuts off the sex and sometimes moves away temporarily or even temporarily breaks up with him, that a man will propose. Because the handover-takeover between dick and brain gets a chance to happen.

Sex will get you nowhere with men. You can put your panties back on. Because you're only hurting yourself trying to use sex to gain marriage.

YOU'RE ONLY HURTING YOURSELF TRYING TO USE SEX TO GAIN MARRIAGE.
When a woman opens her legs for a man, she opens her mind to that man. By taking her panties off, she's putting a gun to her own head. Because sex, for women, triggers the release of very powerful hormones in their brain which have a very specific job: to bond the woman with her sexual partner. These hormones are called bonding hormones. Think of them as super glue. And oxytocin is the strongest of them.

If sex is a gun, oxytocin is the bullet. And its the WOMAN HERSELF who takes this bullet in the brain. Oxytocin is dangerous because it awakens something peacefully sleeping inside a woman's mind: Love. And when a woman's love is awakened by sex with the wrong man at the wrong time, then the woman has hurt herself.

Song of Solomon 8:4 "I adjure you, O daughters of Jerusalem, that ye stir not up, nor awaken love, until it please."

AWAKENING LOVE BEFORE THE TIME.
When a man approaches a woman he's in his feelings. But the woman is indifferent/logical because at that stage the guy is but some random guy she just met. She's indifferent. Logical. But as the woman gets to know the guy she starts getting emotionally attached.

And it's easy to see that change happen:

At the beginning (the indifferent/logical stage), a woman is calculating and inquisitive because SHE'S SEARCHING FOR REASONS TO DISQUALIFY THE GUY. So it's always complaints: "he's a bad dresser", "he's not very good looking", "his house is not big enough", "his car is too old", "his job is not that great".

And her friends agree.

Then a few weeks or months later the complaints cease. And when her friends attack the man, the woman now comes out DEFENDING HIM and MAKING EXCUSES for him: "He's not that bad though", "He's a good guy once you get to know him", "he's been through a lot", "you guys don't know him like I do"...

What has changed?

The woman.

By getting to know the guy the woman has become attached. She has shifted from indifferent to caring. And most of the time it's because she has slept with the guy. Love is a game that women lose the moment they catch dick.

Women need to hold off sex with a new man for as long as possible - not to prove his love - but because the longer a woman waits on sex the longer she stays logical and rational, and able to keep her head in the Game. To properly strategize and play to win.

Sex gets women emotional, and sex before the right time (Premature Sex) gets women emotional BEFORE THE RIGHT TIME. And when a woman gets emotional before the right time, she'll be scoring own goals till infinity.

Premature Sex - sex before a woman has fully vetted a man - is dangerous for women because it cuts short the woman's process of correctly scrutinizing a man by moving her too soon from being Objective (unbiased and realistic because she's not attached) to being Subjective (biased and idealistic because she's now attached after sleeping with the guy). That all-important work of properly studying a man and gathering all the facts about him, to make an informed decision whether to accept or reject him, is canceled the moment sex happens.

Sex must only happen after this process completes. If sex happens BEFORE the process completes then that whole process - that entire fact finding mission - gets aborted. That sex is called Premature Sex.

Premature Sex is how women get stuck in relationships with broke men, abusive men and unproductive men.

The heart got involved before the head completed its work. The women shot themselves in the head. Shot themselves in the head with their own pussy.

Legs must remain closed. Because as long as a man's dick stays in his pants he stays emotional and dumb. While you stay logical and smart.


Happy 2021.

cool
Romance / Re: Guys Can You Marry A Woman That Is Physically Stronger Than You by Boomboost(m): 9:39pm On Apr 03, 2022
This nigga above me sha! You talk about marriage not been a boxing match and end with the last statement.

Person de waka with high level of testosterone and you think say she no go play rough play with her man?

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Celebrities / Re: M.I. Abaga Set To Marry Eniola Mafe (Photos) by Boomboost(m): 9:31pm On Apr 03, 2022
Dem two get pride, who go come submit?

Mehn, I'm enjoying this Sound of Music o. cool
Education / Re: This Picture Says Alot (important Life Lesson) by Boomboost(m): 6:29am On Apr 01, 2022
kushercain:
That's a Kangal. One of the strongest dog breeds. Nicknamed ‘The Wolf Killer’

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Education / Re: This Picture Says Alot (important Life Lesson) by Boomboost(m): 6:28am On Apr 01, 2022
Emuforlife1:
Dog fight wolf kwa? op, you think say wolf na Ekuke abi??

Literature / Re: How Exactly Does A Post On Nairaland Become Trending Or Enter Front Page by Boomboost(m): 11:19pm On Mar 29, 2022
Moderators probably check the "New" page for newly created threads and choose the one with potential viewership.

Remember this is Naija, Politics is also involved so you cannot explain how some threads get fp.
Religion / Re: If Homosexuality Is Normal Or Natural! by Boomboost(m): 11:05am On Mar 29, 2022
LordReed:


Who programmed penguins to be homosexual?


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Cgj7Wg1_Yc4

Probably a social accident from an amoral animal.
Politics / Re: Telcos Warn Of Shutdown In 11 States Over Kogi’s Clampdown by Boomboost(m): 10:35am On Mar 29, 2022
AbdulHakeem44:
Work dey for the next incoming President.

He's not interested in Nigeria's problems, his name has to live on in the History Textbooks.
Politics / Re: Ngozi Olejemes' ₦1.3 Billion Trial Stalled As The Ex-NSITF Boss ‘Slumps At Home’ by Boomboost(m): 10:31am On Mar 29, 2022
lexy2014:


You haven't answered the questions:

how did you know that Tinubu has anything to do with alpha beta? Is he the owner?

You be better investigative questionnaire, Mr Lexy grin

I bet you will soon ask me something grin
Phones / Re: Oraimo Unveils Pro Hybrid Active Noise Cancellation Freepods Pro by Boomboost(m): 1:28pm On Mar 28, 2022
Orpe7:
All these dangerous devices will end up making you deaf.
Trust me
I had to spend over 130k on myself when I was almost deaf in my left ear using them pods

Guy, no be lie. Especially after morning jogging, ear go de pain.
The thing na load for ear, headphones are better.

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Crime / Re: My Experience With A Cultist Today by Boomboost(m): 8:09am On Mar 27, 2022
FERNANDEZISBACK:

Are you done?

It'll feel good to slap you off.
Crime / Re: My Experience With A Cultist Today by Boomboost(m): 8:00am On Mar 27, 2022
FERNANDEZISBACK:
You are too scared..you could have kept on walking and ignored him..or screamed out for help..

He wouldn't stab you..that was an empty threat..why give In to him so easily..the moment you start acting like a kid then y've given yourself to them.. undecided

You know how to tell niggas what to do, why don't you know how to tell yourself to look and not comment?

Wetin be N800? Someone is hungry and senseless and you wan collect unecessary wound.

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