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NaeChris:
The question is, how many women are ready to be independent? They should not be limiting themselves.

And the ones that are independent, what do men have to offer?

There are a lot of independent women around if you must know.

Most times I wonder what a man has to offer in marriage, especially when he's got a working class wife.

Mtcchhheeeew
What does a man have to offer an independent woman in a relationship?

arsenic33:
Why are you so dumb? I'm a writer, a researcher and a critic. What I post is part of my observations about the affected people. It doesn't necessarily mean I'm making a post about me.
You must be a short girl.

Don't be a dumb ass nigga, stop shying away from the truth.

You stated clearly that you are the chief introvert here. So what affects others as you claim, is bound to affect you the 'chief' and even much more. I believe you honestly wrote about yourself, and it may apply to 0.1℅ of introverted guys, basically the ones with low self esteem. I'm yet to see all these on healthy introverts I know. Also, in all my years of surfing the net, I haven't come across the crap you put up there about introverts.

Quit writing please. You should rather narrow your research on how to be a better boy.

What's wrong with being a short girl? though I'm not one but I find that statement of yours hilarious.

arsenic33:
Did you say "No woman wants to be with a weakling in the name of love"? What weakling are you talking about? So all the trash you've been saying is linked to relationship? Thunder fire relationship.gat no time for that

But all the crap you wrote about your introverted nature has to do with being with the woman you love, being in a relationship.

You got no time for it because you suck at it. No wonder you claim your type treks a lot, looking at ladies while at it. Don't die of loneliness in the name of being an introvert. Trash!

arsenic33:
.....and how has that gotten to do with self esteem? I'm a giant with indomitable willpower when dealing with others, but I'm easily humbled by the woman I love. That's the conclusion of my post if you can't apprehend it. I actually know what you're trying to say, but you were off point. In one of my books with my editor, a whole chapter was on self esteem. You're a low self esteem girl by saying your definition for self esteem is equal to the one Google gave.. Calm down, humble yourself and stop being proud

Trash.
I can see you find it difficult accepting advice, the typical childish boy attitude. I only want you to grow some balls and stop being a puppet in the name of being an introvert.

You can actually become a better person and not hide under introversion. No woman wants to be with a weakling in the name of love.

I won't reply you anymore because this thread has to die down, as it doesn't make sense. We need strong men not the ones who think being abnormal is fine.
#Bye

[quote author=arsenic33 post=56076395][/quote]Nawa oo, you gave yourself away when you decided to give us your history being an introvert.

Nice one

I agree with the write up.

arsenic33:
If you don't have your own definition for self esteem, it means you're not in a position to tell me to work on my self esteem because you're confused

You are too dumb. So from all I've written here, you can't deduce what self esteem is, you can't clearly see its the way you view, value and regard yourself. So I should have a different definition for self esteem other than what's on google or the dictionary? did I invent the word? Chaiii SMH

[quote author=arsenic33 post=56053610][/quote]Well Google is my friend, so we share same definition.

arsenic33:
Ayaf hear, but what's your meaning for self esteem?

Check Google!! I just gave you my definition!

arsenic33:
Out of point. What's your meaning for self esteem?

Too bad you can't comprehend what you wrote. Self esteem has different meanings. I don't see you as someone with a healthy self esteem going by what you wrote because you don't come off as a confident person when dealing with the opposite sex. You sound too timid for a guy. Don't allow the media make you feel comfortable with that kinda life by calling you an introvert.

Work on yourself, you can be a better person.

arsenic33:
Sorry for what? What's your definition for self esteem? And how does it relate to this?

Sorry for being a sucker when dealing with the opposite sex. You should work on yourself dear. Lol

Op sorry, but you sound like someone who hasn't got a healthy self esteem.

Number 6 is so true!

A lady's perception about marriage changes when she's due.
All the tall, dark and handsome talk will slowly die down in her head
What about the naira loaded talk?? She'll start saying "as long as the guy can take care of me, I'm okay, he doesn't have to be rich" Lol

The hustle for "husband" when you're due is real.

MrFlavvor:
no words for this poo

One word for this poo, MrFoolish
Mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeewwwwwww

MrFlavvor:
what's this bloody fool saying?

this chick is really dumb

what's too difficult for this bloody fool to comprehend?

This he-goat is truly dumb

luminouz:
I get Berra story jare!!!!!
Last night I ate beans n I started blessing my room occupants with nice wet,AK47 sounding, boxer rippling, strawberry scented,all purpose insect killing,long duration FARTS!!!!!!! All roaches in my room screamed ' wtf is wrong with dis guy's gastronomy' while scurrying for d door! N no single mosquito disturbed me dat night!
Dis morning I woke up to a carpetful of dried ,very dead mosquitoes n parboiled roaches with 'ABEG EPP ME' expressions on dia faces!!!!!!
Cc skylowlow
Curiositymaster

Make I laff? Kikikikikikikikiki

Walahi, your mumu go sell pass Mr IBU own

Op go and work hard. Leave girls alone.

Synord:
Na here is the full gist...We were heading to a birthday party... Like I said , I no why he no gree lap him babe..Probably because we were in a rush...And the Boyfriend was ready to foot the transport bill ..


plus we all had to be there early..Gf was in charge of refreshments, I was performing and the oda guys all had one thing to do....

lol , we were 6 guys and one girl ....And 4 at the back with the girl and two in front... so


So if u like believe ,if u like no believe , na you know !!!

7 guys don turn 6 now now, 1 for front don turn 2 for front? No be only you guys were in a rush, na in a rush hour.

Abeg make we hear better thing.

Who get better story wey get head? Abeg share make I see road, no be this cocck and bull wen dey here

So because he's fat, he couldn't lap his girlfriend? What happened to staying at the back and lapping his girlfriend, while two or three other guys manage the front seat instead?

Op sorry o, but this your story no get head. To think you put this on Twitter ?? Chaiiii You see your life?

6 guys behind? Na so una dry reach? So 8 people board one cab in your village Op? Are you a Northerner? Lol. Even the northerners don't pack themselves like this in a cab, at least some stay in the boot and driver's seat.

Nawa wetin we no go see for Nairaland. Op I shake my head for you

Lmao..

Trouble dey sleep yanga come wake am! Op you don see wetin you dey find na. Lie Lie Op

I hereby close this thread with immediate effect as its a mumu post.

Lol... Nairaland no go kill person
Op e *turns yellow because you just won yourself a packet of STD. Enjoy

Op so you think ladies searching for rich husbands don't have better dreams than yours? You need money to make that dream come true, that rich husband can be your destiny helper, it only becomes bad if the Lady is just idle and not independent.

Don't judge others, don't compare yourself to other ladies. You don't know their story.

Marriage isn't about been a boss lady, as long as a woman isn't a liability, she is good to go.

This is what you get when highlighting and contouring isn't properly blended, then you go ahead to snap your face with your flash on Ogaah ooo

She be like new craze

See her like new craze . See her Papa dash me shoes. Adekunle gold dash her shoe

Emmahunk:
Brilliant post. However, I tend to disagree on letting the matter rest despite the unpleasant memories it will continue to stir up. We are used to making light of grievous matters in this Country. Sexual molestation of any type should not be made mockery of . I am not a woman but for my two lovely daughters, I can kill .

I concur but we can't keep crying over spilt milk. The news is becoming stale. The victims are even tired of hearing the news. So people should stop adding salt to injury.

Coke and Fanta

l'm overly concerned about the shame and stigma part. I don't think any woman wants to constantly remember sexual assault of any kind if one happens to be a victim.

Tboss wouldn't find this easy being the emotional person she is. She may have appeared okay during the show, but who knows? She may have cried herself to sleep because of the stigma.

Kemen on the other hand, wouldn't be happy about this either. The guilt and shame will always be on him. It's more like saying, "Kemen you will never know peace" . Abeg make them allow the guy sleep with two eyes closed.

This isn't a thing of joke, especially for the fact it happened on continental TV. These comedians didn't try, especially as parents. No woman should be put on the spot with such news.

Bottom line, they should let this case die a natural death.

Secured future.

Forever is a long time to be struggling with the basic amenities of life, I mean food, shelter and clothing. You can grow in love with your partner with time

omogidi234:
I like the last statement "......free himself so God can bless him" Whao!
I once heard a story of someone who was told he would die coz of terminal disease.
The story had it that he went and gathered video of comedy shows, atleast if he would die let him enjoy and die laughing and joyful.
It was said after weeks of doing that he felt better and went for test to find out what happened. Lo, he had laughed away the terminal disease.

There are a million advantages laughter, joy and being free within brings to the body , also there are a million disadvantages being bitter and envious etc brings to the body.

It would appear if blackface sheds his bitterness ( even though he maybe justified being bitter), things would pick up for him.

Modified.
I just googled the laughter story and below is the link. It is not only good for blackface but also all of us. Free yourself​, don't envy anyone. Do your thing. Please be happy even though there are a million reasons​ not to. Many thanks.

https://healdove.com/alternative-medicine/normancousins

Very well said. Thanks for the article.