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He looks like he's begging for something else, not proposing

RealHaute:
Let's see yours.

So you expect me to have beards? My estrogen levels won't permit that.

Freiden:
Just say you dont like his beards

Yes I don't like his beard.

His beard is unkempt

Since your mother is the only woman you can ever love, then be with her for the rest of your life.

No woman wants to marry a "mummy's boy". So you'll love your mother and not love your wife?

Biko remain single, this your lamentations about women get as e be.

Alezy:
u are 110% wrong.

its not how far but how well. aunty A will only attract her kind and later learn the hard way. reason why we have so many failed marriages. smh

You're 120% wrong. I wasn't talking about who gets married first, I was only making reference to being available. Only the wise will understand my statement and they know themselves.

When he gets wifely benefits in a relationship, why would he need a wife?

You are always doing these things for him, because you want him to see how many yards of wife material you possess? You should tone it down, Less is more.

Guys be like "why buy the cow when the milk is free"??

Ladies be wise.

This post has nothing to do with who marries first.

Lol...Mami water spirit is real.

lonelydora:
Different shades of nails

Yeah

It just shows different types of nails, not that one would fix all at once. Just nail styles, just like we have hair styles.

obataokenwa:
Those days in Lagos, some of us are already counting in millions as Corper. though most of the money were not legit back then. Old things are passed away. it was a choice to get married then, but my eyes was on bigger things

That's cool.

lonelydora:
Your dp though

What's with the dp, is it funny? strange? hilarious? childish? too girly? ashawo tendencies?
*sigh*

You wey dey propose, I hope say u get job wey dey wait for you, if not your eye go clear

And aunty that's collecting ring, I hope he won't turn you to lord of the rings??

The hustle is real, no more allawee ooh.

Congrats ooh

Propose ko, can't you see they are just having fun? This one na acting play.

Biko Op, I cannot comman turn my relationship to Nollywood drama featuring Tony Umez or Earnest Obi

Sandyveralucia:
Gifty has a beautiful face but that's basically it, t boss is beautiful everywhere and has the better body.

So the picture posted by the Op is about who has a better body? It's makeup please! Just the face!

And what do you mean by tboss is beautiful everywhere? If we wanna talk about body then there are others to mention, not even tboss.

Gifty only missed her chance of being the hottest female because she played fake and dumb. She would have gone really far in the game.

Enough of this bbn shiit.

Sandyveralucia:
Hate is evil.

Mmmmtttttcccheeeeeeeewwww. If u haven't seen her instagram video, fvck off!!! Alele!!!

Hate indeed, Lmao. I haven't hated gifty, it's tboss I would be hating on .

Gifty the fairest of them all!

Did she break her neck? Why she do neck like tolotolo? Abi she get neck pain? *sigh*

Madam Omobolanle, you dated your man without sex, kissing, smooching, e.t.c. BUT did he date you without these things?

Attention seeking dick head Op. Your life doesn't depend on Nairaland, so stop fooling yourself.
#Bye

Op, this is the best. Who needs your money? Most ladies would probably agree with this decision. We give you wifely benefits when we're married to you and you get to save that cash. Good one, this is the kinda relationship I love.

And please don't cheat on her.....

If a lady isn't ready to be a slave, a prostitute to her husband and play the fool to a lot of things, then she isn't ready to stay married in this country.

Just pray for an understanding man, not the one with the typical Nigerian husband mentality and marriage won't be much of a burden to you.

Op I agree with you to an extent, I understand where you are coming from.

I hope you also shared this with the females in your household? We need this message everywhere, not only on Nairaland.

fineboynl:
hahaha. u funny out of my which league. r u fresh.

No oo, I freshener

fineboynl:
pain ke, you sound like a baby.

You type like an alien. Who wants an alien? That's why you didn't get the fresh girl's number. She's way outta ya league.

fineboynl:
you de craze for head

E pain am. Trash topic!

See him mouth like "spin". Girls sef dey give this one number?? Nawa

NaeChris:
LOl. No be una dey give them? Imagine if they say 'NO'.

Every woman with her values. Not every woman sleeps with her man before marriage. Some Will never wash for you. To each his own. Women do some of these things so they are considered marriageable.

NaeChris:
Yes the way ladies take this money and sex issues is making guys take you for granted. Imagine someone said ''every girlfriend is like olosho'' simply because they ask for money in the presence of sex probably as a gain or something.

You don't ask for money because of sex or at the point of having sex. You demand when you need it.

Whatever rocks her boat though, as long she doesn't feel used and taken for granted.

NaeChris:
Even if you spend on the man sef just as he is spending on you, na bad thing? I take men dependent ladies to be broke babes. Maybe you can put me right. I love to learn.

It's not bad, as long as he doesn't get the 'wifey' benefits in the relationship. Lol

NaeChris:
Lol. You are quite correct but i said 'in a relationship' thats before marriage. Well, most ladies cook, wash and as well sleep with the guys sha. In your contex, you have to spend na, certainly not on the man, but on his/your lovely kids, thus being a help meet.

In marriage, a woman can spend on her man when the need arises.

I was talking about relationship not marriage.

NaeChris:
LOL. Women offers more than men in relationship but i have given you one already. Well, if men have such mentality, women made it so. Their default mindset is to depend on a man. This is what i am fighting against. Imagine you as a big girl, meet him as a big boy. Haba! Who no like better thing?

We women are not stupid. You don't expect us to cook for you, some lazy men even want ladies to clean and wash for them, sleep with you e.t.c and spend our money again? It's not that we don't earn a living, but we can't just be stupid. A lady has to enjoy the relationship too, we can't be doing for you guys and getting. Lol

Also, men like to be in charge, so we only massage your ego by being that damsel in distress.

All this money talk is for broke guys.

NaeChris:
One of the things a man can offer is defence or Physical protection. Its not that a woman can't offer anything, but its their kind of mentality that is making them do what they do.

Defense? Lmao.

A woman does much more than a man in a relationship, but she's always taken for granted because of the money factor. You men think you do women a favour by giving them money. You men need to change your mentality too.