Soulflai:
I shouldn't have brought this here but the emotional bargage is too heavy for me to move on in. My marriage of 2 years is about to crumble.

I met my wife in Kaduna Southern part in 2017. Our relationship had been a long distance one as I base in Lagos while she also work in Kaduna, but we eventually married in 2020. The bone of contention is the issue of her ex. That point we are dating, I always caution her to cut communication with the guy, she will do it by deleting the number, but later I will find out they're still relating.

Last month, I purchased a new phone and I had to give her my own. So on the process of reinstalling Whatsapp on her phone, I retrieved all the backup Whatsapp messages 7 which left me devastated. The chat history with her ex really left me broken.

On multiple occasions after I paid her dowry, she met with the guy and they had sex. Multiple times pals! Even after marriage, when she is 5 months pregnant, the guy still had her with my baby inside her!

I am really broken pals, I confronted her on this, she started crying that she will cut communication with him. The guy even send some money to her account on difference time this year.

This is the height of emotional damage. I am just leaving each day just to find my leg financially. I am trying my best, but it is not enough.

Lastly, I called the so-called ex on phone to cut communication with her, the guy is in Kaduna I think while we are in Lagos. She also blocked him all avenues likewise. My decision now is that any time I discovered any form of communication between her and the guy, it is over with the marriage. I think she is not really in to me like that, which beg the question while she married me in first instance.

If am your brother, what advice would you recommend? I only choose to be lenient because the kids are just too small to have their parents separated early. If not, I would have sent her parking!.

Right now I am just not happy with life afterall.

The kids you are protecting may not even be yours.

End it now or suffer forever.

...and ISWAP and Boko Haram?

Indigenous People of BAT
Indigenous People of Buhari
Indigenous People of Bandit
Indigenous People of Benue
Indigenous People of Birnin Kebbi
Indigenous People of Badagry
Indigenous People of Borno
Indigenous People of Borgu


IPOB everywhere

Jesusloveyou:
wetin we gain if we vote obituary

At least you go rest In peace.

Kabaka and crew are broke.

Majority of these guys here will vote Obi.

It will happen and you will be.shocked.

The more they lie against Obi the more popular he becomes.

Na Amadioha candidate him suppose be?

E don dey pain them

For Naija?

Something has been going on even before you travel.

A cheating wife won't stop cheating.

Regardless:
Hey guys,
Pardon the long post.
So when I was still in 200 level staying in school hostel, I had this pre-degree roommate - handsome bad guy. He met a lady at the center he was attending tutorials for Jamb and PD exam. The lady and her mum were living in the town where our school was. They started having sex like mad. They so much had sex to stupor that one day this my guy came back completely drained. We had to arrange Malt and Milk for him to get himself that day. Now this girl was involved with another guy who was already working in all this Oil drilling company and he was alright.

I came back from lectures one day and my former roomie was alone in the room and moody. I asked him what was wrong and he opened up to me that the girl is pregnant and they have tried to abort the baby to no avail. Ha... So wetin wan play like this? He said the girl and her mum had already planned to pin the pregnancy on the working guy's head as this my guy no get shishi plus he couldn't even tell the girl to keep it for him or go and stay with his people because he had stayed at home for like 5 years committing plenty atrocities before his mum managed to send him to school for PD. He was sad because he didn't want another man to take care of his child.

When I asked him about the situation after some time, he said the working guy had already accepted the pregnancy and had already started buying baby things down. lol... The guy didn't gain admission again and went back home. Later he came back and did Diploma... When I asked him of the child, he said the child was a carbon copy of him, that the girl had done intro with the guy but when he has money he would come back for the child..

Last month, I received a friend request from my fomer roomie on FB. Long story cut short, after 7 years, he has blown through yahoo in SA. I asked him about the child and he said he can't trace the baby mama again, her mum had relocated from that town and he has exhausted all means looking for them. I jokingly offered my help and the guy was willing to give me money to help him trace her. I told him I would see what I can do.

It took me a while but I was able to trace the girl on SM and even traced the now husband to LinkedIn. Babe is living well with Oil money and has 3 kids and truly the first girl is my guy's carbon copy.. Damn... I started feeling for the child. Beautiful soft girl-child.

I decided ring the girl and immediately I told her what was happening, she hung up and blocked my number.. lol.. I sent a msg to her with my second line and told her to better call me back before I send a message to her husband... babe called me and was begging.. that my former roomie is not responsible. he was not trying then... she couldn't wait .. blah blah .. that please I should not scatter her marriage... was really crying over the phone... The RP in me wasn't buying it until she mentioned that I should please think about how this would shatter her daughter's life. Omoh the human in me made me pause come begin reason am...

My former roomie's lifestyle isn't really what a child would be proud of.. the guy has done everything from cultism to robbery and still hasn't changed and now to yahoo.......only thing he has now to offer that child is money....He said his mother has been telling him to go and bring the child from another man's house.
I don't care about the babe because ladies always think their hoe-phase would go unrewarded..
I pity for the babe's husband coz he was simp then and has remained so till now oblivious of anything.....
I only sincerely care about the 7y/o child whose life would be turned upside down by this shocking revelation..

Anyway, I told her that I wouldn't do anything for now but my guy is very desperate and she better handles it fast and that it's only a mater of time my guy gets to her one way or another... Babe thanked me and hung up. Next day, she wiped her and her husband's SM clean and deleted the accounts.. except the man's LinkedIn of course.. The man don sha accept me as one of his connections.... I've not revealed any findings to my former roomie.. Last time he asked when I want to start tracking her, I just stalled him. I'm sitting on the sidelines for now.. Omoh I weak ..... The good, bad and ugly comments are welcomed.

Investigator sabinus, mind your business.

If/When the shit hits the fan,don't be in the equation.

When will this man ever make sense? Is Lagos a Muslim state?

How can you release schools to missionaries and leave Chritsian schools out n you think you won't be chased out of government house?

Just the way you can't try it in lagos,you can'tt try it in Nigeria too.

Your presidential ambition is dead and buried, we are just waiting for you to waste part of the money you've stolen.all these years.

compton11:
why would she think of Muhammed?

Is she not your sister in Christ again?

Ewó!

This movement is a tsunami.

Stand on it's way and be extinct.

Who hear tell who never hear

Fatwa placed on him by Khomeni has been finally achieved after 3 decades by religion of piss.

What a blasphemy from a silly harlot!

Try thinking of Muhammad if they wont roast you alive.


A whole JESUS CHRIST she referred to as Alakori ni bobo yen - the bobo is an unserious fellow


This spoilt girl needs stoning with sachet water

FreeBiafra2018:
You're actually the biggest fool and dumbest idiot here to think the person behind the account that you're chatting with is actually Simon Ekpa, so many fools in this shithol that falls for every little scam thrown on them, they can never reason in-between the lines of what they're reading. Fools everywhere.

What makes you think your demigod is not on nairaland or don't read comments here?

Most social media sychophants are all here with different monikers.

But the idi0t in you think like a mor0n,who is Simon Ekpa that's bigger than naira land, that nitwit with a bunch of dumbass followers like you is the one you think is larger than life.

You are such a bastard to attack me the way you attack your silly mother. You and members of your terrorist organisation are all f00ls. Uwazurike used you and made millions, kanu used your head like ping pong to make money to galivant round the world to sleep with prostitutes, now is one small boy Simon who does not even knows the road to his fathers house, using buffo0ns like you to destroy the land his father had no stake in.

Simon idi0t is here or not,I don't give a hoot,my message here is actually for wasted semen like you to read that you nothing and worst than a blind bat


Ewu albino!

Thunder faya ur isi.

rusher14:


When Ibos endorse Obi they are not tribal and certainly not monkeys right?

On the scale of corruption and competent btw Obi n Atiku, every sane Nigerian knows atiku will break the chain that holds the scale.

Agege bread in the mud.

The same PDP you all tried to annihilate before 2015

Tribal monkeys

You need to be physically and mentally fit to wrestle.

Special center at home?

Clowns everywhere. Keyamumu will do more damage to the senile agbado shaky shaky kaka than dino.

Yoruba1stson:
Don't start wailing now, make you wait till 2023 after the braindead bastard you akpu munchers are supporting don lule before you start to wail.... Piter hoebi idiot can only become president of beerfraud land, know this and know peace

Pounded yam and egusi with uzo ( ivbiẹdo'nuzumo understands) would have sounded better not akpu. That's btw.

Too much ewedu has turned the once white matter in your skull into black liquid, hence you sound sil!y like a mor0nic buff0on always.

Pray you are still standing without aid and your speech are not to slurred before May 29th 2023.


Ozuor!

Scatter skelter

Yoruba1stson:
If you zombiedents like make you post Tinubu on wheelchair, that won't still stop Jagaban from becoming president come 2023, BAT is unstoppable, he is your next president and nothing you akpu munchers can do about it.... Mind you, cow has a better chance than the idiotic bastard you guys are following, piter hoebi idiot can only dream of ruling this country

Tinubu health is your portion before 2023.

Ase!!!

What do you expect.

This is greatness. ASUU will now delay this bright future admission.

etrouble:
You are not too wrong.

Tinubu is sick and weak. But so also was Yar'Adua. Yet, the sick Yar'Adua performed better than the healthy and energetic Goatluck Jonnaddaft. Even in the other room, Yar'Adua performed better. Even if the Tiger has been suck for 29 years, a dig will not go to the Tiger's house to play with it.

Only idi0ts will say this.

Yardua was never sick to walk without aid, or stand without aid or wears diaper.

Or had shaky hands and shaky legs or slurred speech or dementia.

Yardua was strong and healthy until his body rejected the donated organ and went into coma.


Btw are you guys so dense? Tinubu is even healthier than his supporters who act like robots zombies.

May Tinubu present health condition be the best all his supporters will ever have before 2023.