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Good morning people. Can someone educate us on step by step how to prepare to practise in the US or UK or Canada. The requirements needed etc. For upcoming medical students aspiring to leave this country once they're done. I'll appreciate such info.
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Zzor:
You didn't even mention money smh,you are wasting your time writing epistle

The truth is that money is an obligate parasite of value. So become a person of value and money will follow you. Chikina.

It's very simple. Focus on being yourself and building up your career and vision. When ladies discover that you're focused and have somewhere going, those with similar purpose and vision will be attracted. And if you end up getting married to them, you will surely enjoy them. So guys, wise up. The stuff between the legs of a woman is overrated. Don't allow it to control your destiny, rather put it under ur control.
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Localchampion:
I'm really confused about my boyfriend if hes worthy of getting married to.
We are in a long distant relationship, we hardly see, sometimes thrice in a year, but I believe the reason we are still together is because its a distant relationship, as each time I go to Enugu to greet him and stay for 2weeks, my love for him is always reduced.
So much this time around, we haven't seen for a year, and I had something important to do in Enugu, so I decided to stay in his place and use the opportunity to greet him. The first 4days, we were totally fine with each other, as I was busy with doing the stuff I came to do. Meanwhile, I didn't spend his money, as I came with my money and give him money to buy me food, so for the first 3days he was the one buying the cooked foods we ate, but I would give him 1k. Naturally, I don't eat outside, nor do I eat junks, but because he said he doesn't have money, I just pitied him and did not mention the fact that he should get foodstuffs, I don't want him to start feeling bad that he has no money plus I was even busy, remember I came for a purpose. And I don't use it as attitudes for him, I'm a very happy enduring lady.

Now after the fourth day that I finished the program I originally came for, I lost my money, about 150,000, truth is when I'm sad, im usually harsher, and would not talk much, would become exessively quiet, because if I talk, I may start to cry, this is when problem started between us, he acted unconcerned about my predicament, I just ignored him, trying to see how I can get back my money. And the truth is, if I get the money, I will surely give him part of the money, there's no time I will make money and not give him. So for like two days, I was in depression due to my money, I didnt sweep, I was just sighning, and not cheerful to him, the next day afterwards, was when he bursted, and started talking
1. He said I'm useless to him
2. He compared me with other people's girlfriend, how they take care of their boyfriend, how they cook for them, cook extremely homey food for them.
3. He said his friends couldn't visit him because I'm in his house, and thus hes missing because the fact that I'm in his house I'm useless, not doing anything for him, and yet his friends couldn't come.
4. He said his cousins girl did this and that.
5. He said I'm talking of marriage, he said what is he marrying, he said when I'm not even showing any readiness bla bla bla
6. He said I should look at his house, does it look like a girl is there, he said his friend told him that since I'm around now, his cheeks would become bigger, and in his mind, he knew he would only grow thinner.
7. He said I should leave his house first thing tomorrow morning, since I'm not useful.
8. He said at this point, hes confused, if i want to break up, I should just let him know, because what is the point of our stay together
He said just too many hurtful things and those are the ones I could remember.
I was able to record some of those things, so I can relisten to them later. But he collected my phone and deleted all I recorded.

All through, I was just quiet and smiling because I don't even know where to start replying him and he was very serious, his face was in a fight mood, I don't wanna talk because I really don't like problems or fight. Then later, he said I must say something, he seized my phone, and almost made me loose a deal.

I just kept quiet, later when I started talking, he denied having said USELESS, something he mentioned more than twice and apologized swiftly.

All his accusations were wrong because the reason I didn't cook is because he has no single food at home and hes the one always complaining he has no money, so I just taught that, I wouldn't make my stay to disrupt his life, he knew I hate eating outside, and the fact that we buy food is something I am enduring, because the foods makes me nauseated each time I eat them. He knows how much i cook for him when he comes visiting me, I will cook several things, what I can't even eat myself due to financial problems, I am the one always fighting him to cook that Junks are unhealthy. But just because I was pitying him, I didn't bring up the idea of cooking, he accused me of being useless, he said I'm the one to bring up the idea as a girlfriend, bla bla bla.

Later that day, I brought the idea and he gave me 5k to the market, I cooked and did everything. I didn't buy a single food I could eat (I don't eat pasters), because the money isn't enough, so I just bought foods he likes and made a nice sauce. His friend came visiting, I packed foods for her and did normal. His friend called him to relate how I treated her, this is when my boyfriend started filling extremely happy, and thanking God for meeting me, saying nice things.

Since then, he has been saying stuffs of how much he's been gifted to have me bla bla bla, to me, whatever I have for him has greatly reduced, because I don't know the Essence of the relationship, because to him, its a roleship, where I must do my roles and if I miss, he won't even think why could I have missed it, if its intentionally, was it because I'm sad, the next thing he would be saying is if we should break up or not. Now, this is someone I never compared with anyone, I don't even compare people, I just do normal to him, like I will do to a brother, plan for him, etc, yet he compares me all the time and wants me to live like the other average girls that are using iphones.

I told him yesterday that since he wants a roleship, he would also man up, and for the first time in our 5years relationship, I started behaving like the normal girls, I asked him for money to make my hair, he doesn't have, I asked him for money for cream, he doesn't have and he has been angry because I told him I don't care whether he has money or not, since I must do my roles, he should also do his roles, and for the first time I also compared him and told him what men are doing for their girls.

He has been frowning and sad since I said those words to him, because they are deep, I just served him exactly what he did to me. I'm not happy, I'm doing that to him, I'm even sad I'm telling him all these because this is not me. I'm still going to make him realize how useless he is in my life, absolutely useless, and that is the truth, since he sees our relationship as a role one, then hes useless.

I can't marry him like this, God forbids, someone who can't endure due to the situation of things and understand, and he wants me to understand his own and endure for him, its not just possible for me, and he's good at talking, abusing, bullying, etc. Hes the one that will tell me to snap pictures for him, I will tell him I don't have clothes, he will say ''Go and Buy now'', He will bully me with my hair and compare it with that of other girls. He wasn't broke before the lockdown, but I didn't collect money from him because I want him to achieve and grow with the money, so that by the time we get married, he would be financially very okay.

Please should I marry this kind of Man? I really don't know why I should because it seems his happiness towards me, his affection and romance is dependent on fulfilling ROLES in his head.

It's obvious he doesn't value you. I advise you to call it quits, because you should understand your value. Any man who does not appreciate you, and keeps on degrading you by words and actions is showing red flag. It shows he doesn't respect and value you. He is not meant for you.

Bro, this issue is not black and white. It requires wisdom and direction from God. If I were in your shoes, I will push her to start up something for herself no matter how small, cos I'm also a medical student and still doing little things that give me money. You can contact me let's talk this is my no 08170381042 whatsapp

Corporate2020:
Can you see some people's role model? A man that is approaching 60 years, tweeting this type of rubbish at 12:15AM, definitely there is need for psychiatric evaluation.

I'm not surprised, people will always criticize whatever one does
So what should he rather be doing at 12:15am; twerking??
Bro, FFK owes you nothing, so you can go hug transformer

Fragility6:
Hypocrites. Doctors and lecturers in Nigeria are wicked and devilish. U saw d trend below of how dose Luth health workers attended to dat dying man same way university lectures devilishly fail students for reasons best known to dem...D govt still have dier own blame bt trust me even if d doctors n lecturers in Nigeria are paid well n given good working conditions, dey would still act unethical n evil to dier subjects.I no know why dey feel dey gods wen doing dier jobs.Its as if wickedness is dier natural habitat

You're the wicked man and the hypocrite here.
So 5k hazard allowance is good payment
People like u are part of the problem

I feel your pain bro
I also failed a course in my first yr in med school, but according to our regulation I was given a second chance to repeat the yr. They shouldn't push you away like day, there should be a second chance. Besides, since you did well in other subjects there's high probabilities it might be a marking error. So don't relent bro, push for a remark if possible. You can involve high handed people you know, and I also advise you to tell ur parents in a subtle way. You can always reach me if u need someone to talk to. Don't worry, you'll get through this
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This is a pure red light she showed you.
Thank your God that you've not married her yet.
If I were you, I would call of quits immediately, because she's not a lady of virtue. There's every tendency that in future she sees a wealthier and more handsome man than you, she will follow him.

Be wise my guy

Sue them to court immediately

Madam eh, I'm not married sha but I think this would help:
Marriage is about understanding. You know the type of person your husband is. So find a way to present the issue to him, in a non confrontational manner. Remember your manner of approach will matter a lot if you will achieve your purpose. There is a way you will say it, then he will take to mean that you're denying him sex, and other problems will result.
So it is something both of you will dialogue about so as to achieve a win-win situation. You have to pray for God's wisdom in dealing with the situation. As you do so, you shall achieve positive result. Amen. If you need more info or counselling inbox me via 08170381042

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RichDad1:
all these paid APC apologists should go and sit down.
Abia is PDP and Abia is in gods hands.
They should all go back to Oshogbo and ask Aregbesola to pay them.
No Governor owes salaries and pension in the SE.
Ikpeazu is the man of the masses.

Do you listen to yourself at all? Here is hundreds of aged pensioners protesting unpaid pension and gratuities and you're here talking trash. Does this protest look like they're faking it or what? Sometimes I wonder what kind of people that exist in this country

Too bad. Its unfortunate that in a whole so called giant if Africa, people still get killed just because they came to exercise their franchise. RIP man