Women in the workplace are kinda funny. My male subordinates are very respectful and quiet but the female ones are too chummy and when you have to reprimand them they get emotional. Right now there is this one that is squeezing her face cauz I was a bit harsh on her yesterday. So me too I’m squeezing my face at her for today, but I’ll make sure I play with her tomorrow. *sigh* so tedious. Lol.
Anyway I’m taking a break off work to share some observations with you. Over and over, I have heard people, particularly guys, say, all Nigerian girls want is money but in my experience and from observation, this is not quite true. The more accurate assertion is, some Nigerian girls from a certain background prioritize money, and to be fair that is not inherently a bad thing: everyone is entitled to want what they want, and you don’t need to resent them just because you don’t have what they want.
The key is, find the person who fits your philosophy and status in life, and I’m going to help you do that by pointing out to you how you might identify what different classes of girls are more interested in.
NB: I am going to be making some generalizations here so you may probably know one or two girls who do not fit the mold: that doesn’t mean my general observations are untrue.
To start with, traditionally, all of society can be divided into two broad categories further broken down into 6 narrow classes:
The have-nots
1. Lower-lower class: the poorest of the poor living in extreme deprivation
Lower-lower class girls are usually very materialistic in their selection because they see a man as a hero coming to sweep them out of a life of misery. If you are not prepared to spend, avoid these ones. However, if you are prepared to spend you will find that she will genuinely love you and work hard to keep your home. As a broke guy, this type of girl may easily fall for your personality, but have it at the back of your mind that she may easily cheat on you for money.
What she really wants: A happy, comfortable life
2. Upper-lower class: not deprived of life’s basics but not enjoying any special comforts
Girls in this class have grown up watching their parents struggle to provide things for them. They are also materialistic but they also tend to appreciate the value of hard work, as often they’ve often had to join their parents to work at the shop, farm, etc. These girls are the ones who study very hard at school, and are career oriented. You can expect a girl in this class to work hard to take care of her own needs, but she also won’t settle for a man who is not more well-off than she is.
What she really wants: material comfort
3. Lower-middle class: getting by with some comfort but no luxury
This class of girl is just there. She is not particularly motivated by money since she may have often spent a lot more time around people in the lower class, and may be used to them looking up to her. She belongs to the highest class of the have-nots, and does not have that sense of deprivation. These are girls who easily fall for dreamers, and will happily tell you “money isn’t everything”.
What she really wants: a happy family
The haves
4. Upper-middle class: comfortable with a few luxuries
Upper middle class girls, unlike lower middle class girls, tend to spend a lot of time around richer friends and tend to feel deprived even though they actually live comfortably. They resent not being able to join in the conversation when their friends are talking about all the different places they visited, and may secretly resent their father’s for not being richer. These girls, surprisingly are the most materialistic of all, and when guys complain that girls are only interested in money, it is usually because they are chasing upper middle class ladies.
What she really wants: to undo the trauma of deprivation
5. Lower-upper class: luxurious life with some limitations
These girls are rich and they aren’t looking for a man to give them money, however it may appear that they are materialistic on the surface. This is because a lot of girls in this class tend to be bitchy and competitive, they want a man to show off, and are easily attracted to status symbols. To be with a girl like this, you must be either the cutest, richest, most popular, most notorious… etc. some of these girls actually pay for dates and shopping outings with their boyfriends, but pretend to others like “bae” paid for it all.
What she really wants: Status
6. Upper-upper class: absolute luxury These girls tend to live in a fantasy world, and they really believe in true love, however they only date superstars and fellow members of the elite. They are not materialistic but they hardly date broke guys simply because they hardly mingle with “commoners”, and mommy probably would have a fit if she brings a broke guy home.
What she really wants: Romance and fantasy
NB: people move between classes so don’t evaluate a girl by the class she is in today, evaluate her by the class her family was in during her formative years. The attitude she picked up then will likely stay with her for life.
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Bros..please if u cant find woman...pay for one. PREACH!
Women in the workplace are kinda funny. My male subordinates are very respectful and quiet but the female ones are too chummy and when you have to reprimand them they get emotional. Right now there is this one that is squeezing her face cauz I was a bit harsh on her yesterday. So me too I’m squeezing my face at her for today, but I’ll make sure I play with her tomorrow. *sigh* so tedious. Lol.
Anyway I’m taking a break off work to share some observations with you. Over and over, I have heard people, particularly guys, say, all Nigerian girls want is money but in my experience and from observation, this is not quite true. The more accurate assertion is, some Nigerian girls from a certain background prioritize money, and to be fair that is not inherently a bad thing: everyone is entitled to want what they want, and you don’t need to resent them just because you don’t have what they want.
The key is, find the person who fits your philosophy and status in life, and I’m going to help you do that by pointing out to you how you might identify what different classes of girls are more interested in.
NB: I am going to be making some generalizations here so you may probably know one or two girls who do not fit the mold: that doesn’t mean my general observations are untrue.
To start with, traditionally, all of society can be divided into two broad categories further broken down into 6 narrow classes:
The have-nots
1. Lower-lower class: the poorest of the poor living in extreme deprivation
Lower-lower class girls are usually very materialistic in their selection because they see a man as a hero coming to sweep them out of a life of misery. If you are not prepared to spend, avoid these ones. However, if you are prepared to spend you will find that she will genuinely love you and work hard to keep your home. As a broke guy, this type of girl may easily fall for your personality, but have it at the back of your mind that she may easily cheat on you for money.
What she really wants: A happy, comfortable life
2. Upper-lower class: not deprived of life’s basics but not enjoying any special comforts
Girls in this class have grown up watching their parents struggle to provide things for them. They are also materialistic but they also tend to appreciate the value of hard work, as often they’ve often had to join their parents to work at the shop, farm, etc. These girls are the ones who study very hard at school, and are career oriented. You can expect a girl in this class to work hard to take care of her own needs, but she also won’t settle for a man who is not more well-off than she is.
What she really wants: material comfort
3. Lower-middle class: getting by with some comfort but no luxury
This class of girl is just there. She is not particularly motivated by money since she may have often spent a lot more time around people in the lower class, and may be used to them looking up to her. She belongs to the highest class of the have-nots, and does not have that sense of deprivation. These are girls who easily fall for dreamers, and will happily tell you “money isn’t everything”.
What she really wants: a happy family
The haves
4. Upper-middle class: comfortable with a few luxuries
Upper middle class girls, unlike lower middle class girls, tend to spend a lot of time around richer friends and tend to feel deprived even though they actually live comfortably. They resent not being able to join in the conversation when their friends are talking about all the different places they visited, and may secretly resent their father’s for not being richer. These girls, surprisingly are the most materialistic of all, and when guys complain that girls are only interested in money, it is usually because they are chasing upper middle class ladies.
What she really wants: to undo the trauma of deprivation
5. Lower-upper class: luxurious life with some limitations
These girls are rich and they aren’t looking for a man to give them money, however it may appear that they are materialistic on the surface. This is because a lot of girls in this class tend to be bitchy and competitive, they want a man to show off, and are easily attracted to status symbols. To be with a girl like this, you must be either the cutest, richest, most popular, most notorious… etc. some of these girls actually pay for dates and shopping outings with their boyfriends, but pretend to others like “bae” paid for it all.
What she really wants: Status
6. Upper-upper class: absolute luxury These girls tend to live in a fantasy world, and they really believe in true love, however they only date superstars and fellow members of the elite. They are not materialistic but they hardly date broke guys simply because they hardly mingle with “commoners”, and mommy probably would have a fit if she brings a broke guy home.
What she really wants: Romance and fantasy
NB: people move between classes so don’t evaluate a girl by the class she is in today, evaluate her by the class her family was in during her formative years. The attitude she picked up then will likely stay with her for life.
DNA : which stands for deoxyribonucleic acid , is define as nucleic acid that contain the genetic code.
If you have SEX with a man, his DNA lives in you forever.
Workman noted that a research by university of Seattle USA has proven that; There is now a greater understanding of why God asks us not to have SEX before we get married.
*This research proves that any man, that a woman has SEX with leaves a part of his DNA in the woman*.
The man who has had more SEX with her, leaves more of his DNA in the woman. So when a woman ovulates, the eggs that she produces contain more of other DNAs.
So we need to educate the girl child to remain a virgin till marriage.
*Anytime you have SEX with another man you become one with that man (spiritually too) and carry the man's DNA and according to Workman this is called SEX Web especially when the woman has multiple SEX partners*.
At some point when you have too many of the male DNA in you; you change, because your cells are changing.
That also proves why when married couples live together for a long time they end up looking alike. *The woman's DNA changes when she has sex with men*. This is very serious.
*The world should know this and stop silly SEX promotions*.
It is bad than good. Unfortunately women are the victims.
This was found out in many other research articles mostly released this year. So it is new and we all have to know.
*The fact is,women retain DNA from every man they have slept with*.
Cells transferred from a man to a woman during intercourse become integrated into the woman's body after SEX, every single time they have SEX.
*This study found the presence of genetically distinct male cells in the brain of women*. This also means these other male cells will be found in a foetus when the woman gets pregnant.
(This is called microchimerism.)
*Every male you absorb sperm from becomes a living part of your life*. Sperm is a living substance. Living cells. It enters your bloodstream and collects in your brain and spine.
*Stop experimenting with SEX*.
When the sperm enters a woman it swims until it hits a wall and then seeps into your flesh.
If it's in your mouth, (abomination) it can get into your nasal areas, behind your eyes and even your inner ear. It then enters your bloodstream and collects in your brain and spine. You can never get rid of it.
It becomes a part of you forever. These are the true consequences of sexual intercourse.
Workman Leadership College says this Original research is from University of Seattle and Fred Hutchinson cancer research center.
They accidentally found this when they were researching to find out why pregnant women carrying boys get men neurological diseases.
This is real and not a joke.!!!
*Stop having SEX if you are not married*.
And stop having SEX with others than your husband, for the married.
*The consequences of doing this is devastating,humiliating and horrible*
*No wonder the world is the way it is,many marriages no longer hold water in peace,truth and love*!
Many children from most homes have behavioral tendencies alien to both parents
Now you know the possible cause
*Say no to SEX when not married*.
*Say no to EXTRA-MARITAL affairs*
so u sayin we should avoid babes even thou they hav big boooobsi or were mini sket... correct? .. ..Bros r u from mecca? (Juss askin)
DNA : which stands for deoxyribonucleic acid , is define as nucleic acid that contain the genetic code.
If you have SEX with a man, his DNA lives in you forever.
Workman noted that a research by university of Seattle USA has proven that; There is now a greater understanding of why God asks us not to have SEX before we get married.
*This research proves that any man, that a woman has SEX with leaves a part of his DNA in the woman*.
The man who has had more SEX with her, leaves more of his DNA in the woman. So when a woman ovulates, the eggs that she produces contain more of other DNAs.
So we need to educate the girl child to remain a virgin till marriage.
*Anytime you have SEX with another man you become one with that man (spiritually too) and carry the man's DNA and according to Workman this is called SEX Web especially when the woman has multiple SEX partners*.
At some point when you have too many of the male DNA in you; you change, because your cells are changing.
That also proves why when married couples live together for a long time they end up looking alike. *The woman's DNA changes when she has sex with men*. This is very serious.
*The world should know this and stop silly SEX promotions*.
It is bad than good. Unfortunately women are the victims.
This was found out in many other research articles mostly released this year. So it is new and we all have to know.
*The fact is,women retain DNA from every man they have slept with*.
Cells transferred from a man to a woman during intercourse become integrated into the woman's body after SEX, every single time they have SEX.
*This study found the presence of genetically distinct male cells in the brain of women*. This also means these other male cells will be found in a foetus when the woman gets pregnant.
(This is called microchimerism.)
*Every male you absorb sperm from becomes a living part of your life*. Sperm is a living substance. Living cells. It enters your bloodstream and collects in your brain and spine.
*Stop experimenting with SEX*.
When the sperm enters a woman it swims until it hits a wall and then seeps into your flesh.
If it's in your mouth, (abomination) it can get into your nasal areas, behind your eyes and even your inner ear. It then enters your bloodstream and collects in your brain and spine. You can never get rid of it.
It becomes a part of you forever. These are the true consequences of sexual intercourse.
Workman Leadership College says this Original research is from University of Seattle and Fred Hutchinson cancer research center.
They accidentally found this when they were researching to find out why pregnant women carrying boys get men neurological diseases.
This is real and not a joke.!!!
*Stop having SEX if you are not married*.
And stop having SEX with others than your husband, for the married.
*The consequences of doing this is devastating,humiliating and horrible*
*No wonder the world is the way it is,many marriages no longer hold water in peace,truth and love*!
Many children from most homes have behavioral tendencies alien to both parents
it as been God all the way. many of my mates are dead, some are sick, some are in prison, I am not mocking them but glorifying the name of God. here I am today, in good health.
though things might not be moving well the way I want, but I still thank God I am alive healthy to witness this wonderful day.
also, I share the same date of birth with my dad, but its so unfortunate he's no longer alive to celebrate with me. I love him, but God loves him more.
pls family, show your boy a love to make my day o. a happy birthday will go a long way. thanks
I saw someone asking a question the other day about people who don't smoke or drink, unfortunately, I'm one of them. So I guess nothing to drain the pains away.
...bro..smoking weed is good for forgetting problems...I used it any time babe reject me...the other option is juss pay for prostitutes...they will giv u student discount & truss me..they will take u to another planet wiT BJ. PREACH!!
Killertune20: Having dated for about 3 years, early this year, we had an altercation, I believe the distance between us caused it cause I moved to a different state.
Late last year she told me about a young pastor who's asking for her hand in marriage, I asked about her stance and she said she didn't see it happening, but 2 weeks after the altercation, she told me she is considering the pastor.
Ever since then, I have tried to move on but I can't, this babe ticks all the boxes for me, for more than 3 years cause we started dating in school while I was in 300L and she 200L, It's been like no other girl existed in the world for me.
Now the usual gimmick "the lord said you are my wife" has cost me something I value so much.
I love this babe with all my heart, now the things I do around her, like forced chats, unreplied messages gets to me, create a pinch on my ego and in a way emasculates me. It feels like she has moved on but I can't.
Now my question, how do people get over people so easily?
Have you ever met someone and feel like she is the one and it ended?
Has anyone been in my shoes and how did you move on?
The happily ever after I dreamt of has become a night mare.
Obinnaijezie: Another lady has rejected proposal from his boyfriend inside the market and calls it embarrassment. This kind thing is becoming popular these days.
WOW...but why the post for Gos sake??... u people r so backward its Irritately unbelievable... .....IS A WOMAN HAS NO RIGHT TO SAY NOOOOOO, GADDDDDDDEMIT!!!!
respet yor sef young man....STOP IT actin childish. doesent OBO mean pu55555y, toto, & virrrgina? please watch yor language. there are kds in the rooom!!!! (GROW UP PLEASE)
.. u attention seekin mofo... u ain't DEACTIVATED yet. ...u enjoying this attention correct? ....and then u create another thread. GOO AWAY FOR GODS SAKE !!!
Please what is the meaning of those words in asterisks down below??
Man: Please na
Woman: NO.
Man:
**I want to put the tip,just the tip**
**No,it will not enter too much,you will not even feel it**
**Okay,I'll just rub it around**
**It will not hurt you,I'll be gentle**
**Please na,just the tip**
Please,we don't understand all this foreign Languages.
Is it Latin or Spanish?? And what's the reason behind saying all those things cause, it's getting annoying already (Yes, barbarian languages we don't understand usually annoy us).
Honest and insightful answers please.
Thank you.
BRO U CREATE THREADS EVERY 10 SECOND.....IS LOCKDOWN REALLY AFFECTIN U or its boredom SIR? (juss askin)
Please what is the meaning of those words in asterisks down below??
Man: Please na
Woman: NO.
Man:
**I want to put the tip,just the tip**
**No,it will not enter too much,you will not even feel it**
**Okay,I'll just rub it around**
**It will not hurt you,I'll be gentle**
**Please na,just the tip**
Please,we don't understand all this foreign Languages.
Is it Latin or Spanish?? And what's the reason behind saying all those things cause, it's getting annoying already (Yes, barbarian languages we don't understand usually annoy us).
Even, if you hate me with passion,for the sake of my birthday Read this.
Getting your first degree after 21 is still an achievement. Being married after 32 is still beautiful. Starting a family after 35 is still possible. Buying a house after 40 is still a boss move. Don't let people rush you to their timelines!!!!! Happy birthday to me.
Even, if you hate me with passion,for the sake of my birthday Read this.
Getting your first degree after 21 is still an achievement. Being married after 32 is still beautiful. Starting a family after 35 is still possible. Buying a house after 40 is still a boss move. Don't let people rush you to their timelines!!!!! Happy birthday to me.
Romance / Re: What Nigerian Girls Really Want by Boxer007(m): 3:54pm On Feb 18, 2021 
