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cowardSeun:
Noise making afonja.....

What happened to Nigeria when Abiola was strangled to death and his wife lynched in the street of Lagos

U SOUND LIKE A SMALL 'PERSON' WEY U BE. EVEN THE PERSON IN UR POST PIC IS OLDER THAN YOU AS FAR AS UR COMMENT IS CONCERNED. U KNOW NOTHING ABOUT HISTORY AND AM VERY SURE U WILL NOT BE READY TO LEARN, BUT IF U PROMPT ME HERE, I WILL NOT HESITATE TO TRACE YOUR BACKGROUND AND UR GREAT GRAND PEOPLE FOR U. MA KI IPORI IYALAYA E FUN E!

jeffrizzy1:
The man is even managing you and you are having extra-marital affairs.All these calabar women sef.

LOLS. SHE'S NOT CALABAR SHE'S FROM AKWA IBOM ACCORDING TO THE REPORT... I KNOW U R UPSET, NO VEX

Modsenemy:
you wallow a lot in ignorance .
Since u know the law better, why don't get on the street with a camou , possibly walk past a cantonment . Don't forget to cite law excerpts when they start slapping u

YOU ARE SUCH A SINCERE PERSON. NIGERIANS ARE HATERS OF TRUTH, ETHICS AND MODESTY. LEAVE AM, ONE DAY SHE GO HEAR AM. SHE WANTS YOU TO SUPPORT 'FALSE'.

snakes are lazy @ night

campusflavour:
Muslims are... Peaceful. But I think she is the killer

ur suspect might have disguised in female attire so as to have access to female WC you know... i suspect you are the killer because u r a Religious Bigot.

azadus just wan come back sha! blackmailing does not pay!

so, azadus still dey. 'u is the one' crooner.

By Samson Folarin

There has been widespread condemnation of an alleged public harassment of a yet-to-be identified lady by some military officers.

A picture of the incident, which has been trending on the Internet, showed the victim being forced to pull down her trousers as her underwear jutted out.

A military man, who was supervising the unsavoury show, bent over the victim, who looked terrified and appeared to be begging another officer whose face was not revealed by the shot.



Although the identity of the supervising military officer was also shielded by his cap, the face of the lady at the centre of the drama was visible.

PUNCH Metro could not establish the time, place and circumstances surrounding the incident. But available information showed the victim was harrassed somewhere in the northern part of the country for putting on army camouflage.

A large number of people, who reacted to the photo on different social media platforms condemned the incident, saying the victim was dehumanised.

On Nairaland, a poster with the alias, Superpark, said it was wrong for anyone to take the law into his own hands no matter the offence.

While citing sections 108, 109 and 110 of the Nigerian Criminal Code Act which prescribed punishment for use of a military uniform for the purpose of impersonation, the poster said the lady was not guilty of any crime.

“She is not impersonating anybody with the clothes; when did army men start to wear tight trousers, and who gave the army the right to strip civilians?” he wrote.

Another poster, Mikool007, said the military were fond of intimidating civilians.

“It is your right to wear anything you want, but if you impersonate someone, e.g. a military officer, you will be prosecuted accordingly (not humiliated publicly) and is the army too dumb to differentiate their uniform from designer clothes? These guys are too busy intimidating us; we’ve forgotten they are here to serve us. I’m not in the army, but I know for sure that the girl is not wearing the Nigerian military uniform,” he said.

Another user, Link20k, said if the victim committed a crime, she was supposed to be taken in for questioning and not humiliated in the public.

He said, “If she has in any way breached the law, she should have been taken in for questioning or kept behind bars and the necessary punishment given to her, not behaving like you are in the animal kingdom where anything goes and stripping her. In a sane climate or where humans reside, the army officers should be the one behind bars now.”

Another user, Sweatlana, said, “In a sane country, these men would be arrested, charged, convicted and jailed! The Nigerian Army makes it very easy for civilians to hate them. Even when they die in battles, I don’t pity them! Is there any law that says civilians can’t wear camouflage? If yes, is the prescribed punishment stripping the suspect?

“If no, then who the hell do they think they are to tell people what to wear? It is written law that a person cannot be punished for a crime not known to law and punishment therein prescribed.

“What are we if we do not have laws? Bloody babarians! The western world is right when it thinks of us Africans as such. We have no atom of civility.”

On Facebook, one Isaac Okwu said camouflage was sold in some other countries.

“Nigerians are primitive and crude. In Dubai, camouflage is sold in all their boutiques and anyone is free to buy. I even bought it, which I wore down to Nigeria the last time I travelled. People wear it everywhere in other countries and their soldiers even like it; they feel honoured that the people are identifying with them,” he said.

However, there were other people who felt the victim should be blamed for the harrassment.

One Ezinne Chibuzo said the military had warned against wearing of military camouflage.

She said, “Please, let’s stop looking for trouble. These people have warned us not to wear their uniforms. If we refuse to listen, then we should be ready to take anything we get from them.”

Another responder, lectuerdabo, said the constitution of the country disagreed with the idea of wearing military camouflage.

He said, “Section 251 of the Constitution states; any person who, not being a person serving in any of the armed or police forces of Nigeria, wears the uniform of any of these forces, or any dress having the appearance or bearing any of the regimental or other distinctive marks of any such uniform, in such manner or in such circumstances as to be likely to bring contempt on that uniform, or employs any other person so to wear such uniform or dress, is guilty of a simple offence, and is liable to imprisonment for three months or to a fine of N40.”

One Zachariah Apamshan said, “Countries facing guerrilla or asymmetrical warfare, like Nigeria, where controlled military wares like camouflages are used by non-state forces to challenge the state, the state do not tolerate such indiscriminate use of military items. Nigeria is in a state of difficult warfare where the enemy knows you as a soldier while you don’t know the enemy. Come on people! We’ve got to support our military. You can join the military if interested in the uniform or go to other countries where you can be allowed to wear the uniform freely. Remember, camouflage remains a banned item in Nigeria. Be warned!”

The Director, Army Public Relations, Brig. Gen. Sani Usman, did not pick his calls and had yet to respond to a text message sent to his telephone line as of press time
http://punchng.com/soldiers-force-lady-to-UnCloth-for-wearing-camouflage/

come to the office everyday

na heat period we dey sha, i no blame am

e be like say dis 'heat' season dey affect all these girls these days o.... see a motivational speaker again in nude pix. smh.

GAD Republic again?!

speezyWears:
John from Abia......

Hmmm

NTA news

Josephamstrong1:
Hmmm...
This is public forum naaa, there's is no glory in falsity.

THIS KIND OF STATEMENT MAKES PPLE TO AVOID OWNING UP, BE LIBERAL BRO. AH HA, WHAT DO YOU WANT AGAIN ?

WetinConsignMe:
Actually, to be honest, we copied that chief stuff from Yorubas. There was no title like chief in Igbo land b4 the war and even after

WE USED TITLES TO ENCOURAGE PHILANTHROPISTS AND MOST ARE HERITAGE BUT THEY BASTARDIZED IT AT A POINT IN TIME BY 'SELLING' TITLES TO 'IN-CREDIBLE' ONES. AFTER ALOT OF CONFRONTATIONS AND ALLEGATIONS ON THE HUNGRY 'KING MAKERS', THEY STARTED REDUCING AND DO RESEARCH B4 DASHING OUT THEIR NONSENSE TITLES. REALLY, SCENARIOS LIKE THIS MAKE THEM SIT TIGHT, I BELIEVE YOUR PPLE CAN ALSO WORK ON THIS. ITS VERY IMPORTANT, THEY CALL IT ADVANCEMENT.

MODIFIED*
TO GOD WHO MADE ME, I DID NOT RESEARCH THIS INFACT WHEN I SENT IN THIS REPLY ABOVE, I READ TRU SOME FP TOPICS AND OPENED MY FB ACCOUNT AND TO MY SURPRISE, BELOW PIECE WAS WHAT I STORMED ON. I WAS COMPELLED TO COPY AND PASTE... YOU MIGHT FIND IT INTERESTING TO KNOW THAT ALL WE DISCUSSED HERE ARE JUST THE TRUTH. WE ARE BOTH RIGHT: PLEASE EN-DURE/JOY THIS:

The Aare Ona Kakanfo!
The Untold Story of How MKO Abiola Was Nearly Prevented From Becoming the Generalissimo

Where were you in 1987? That was the year Oba Yesufu Oloyede Asanike, Olubadan of Ibadan made history. Olubadan installed Moshood Kashimawo Olawale Abiola as the Bashorun of Ibadan. It was a prestigious title befitting of a distinguished personality in the mould of MKO Abiola.

That was the title of the legendary Bashorun Oluyole who was the paramount chief of Ibadan in 1850. It was also the title of Bashorun Ogunmola who reigned between 1865 and 1867. It was therefore historic that exactly 120 years after the death of Ogunmola, MKO Abiola became the fourth person to be conferred with the prestigious title.

It was indeed a befitting honour for someone who had amassed chieftaincy titles from almost every town in Nigeria. As of the time of his installation in 1987, MKO Abiola was reputed to have over 150 chieftaincy titles. He was the Bobajiro of Ode-Remo. He was the Bada Musulumi of Gbagura Egba.

As he drove out of the palace of Oba Asanike that fateful day with his son by his side, MKO must have thought that he had reached the peak of traditional chieftaincy in Nigeria.

He was just settling down in his Ikeja home when he was informed that he had a call. Who was on the line? He asked before collecting the phone. It was the Alaafin of Oyo, Oba Lamidi Olayiwola Adeyemi III.

MKO snatched the phone. “Iku Baba Yeye, Igbakeji Orisa! Kabiyesi!” The newly installed Bashorun paid his homage to the foremost traditional ruler. Alaafin must be calling to congratulate me, MKO thought. Kabiyesi was however not calling to congratulate the business magnate.

“We have decided that you are to be conferred with the title of Aare Ona Kakanfo!” Kabiyesi informed him.

The phone nearly dropped from the hand of Bashorun. Aare Ona Kakanfo! The Generalissimo of Yoruba race! The Field Marshall for all descendants of Oduduwa! The portfolio held by Afonja, the founder of Ilorin! The title of Aare Obadoke Latosa of Ibadan – the scourge of Efunsetan Aniwura! The position held by the last premier of Western Region, Ladoke Akintola of Ogbomoso!

For a single person to be Bashorun and Aare was unheard of. It was the ultimate! Traditionally, Bashorun is the Prime Minister. Aare is the Field Marshall. When Bashorun Gaa moved against Alaafin Abiodun around 1770, it was Oyalabi from Ajase (now Republic of Benin), the Aare Ona Kakanfo that came to the powerful monarch’s rescue. Now, Abiola was going to be both the Prime Minister and the Field Marshall!

Alaafin had spoken. MKO Abiola had no choice. The news spread like wildfire. Congratulatory messages poured in from all over the globe. Aare Ona Kakanfo was not just another title. It was the title. It was the father of all traditional titles. Father ke? No, it was the Grandfather of All Titles. If it were to be a national honour, it would be the equivalent of the Grand Commander of the Federal Republic!

Everybody in and outside Yorubaland was ecstatic at the choice of Abiola as the 14th Aare Ona Kakanfo. Well, almost everybody.

It happened that the Ashipa of Oyo, Chief Amuda Olorunosebi was not pleased with the choice of Bashorun MKO Abiola as the Aare. Ashipa was one of the prominent chiefs of Alaafin. He objected to the choice of the flamboyant publisher, an Egba man, as Aare Ona Kakanfo. He went to Kabiyesi to protest. Iku Baba Yeye was adamant that MKO was eminently qualified to be the Aare Ona Kakanfo.

The Ashipa went back to his quarters at Isale Oyo. As MKO Abiola and the Alaafin were preparing for the installation of Bashorun, Chief Amuda was consulting with his lawyers. This was however unknown to the Alaafin. It was assumed that the Ashipa had been convinced to support Abiola’s candidacy.

Abiola was no ordinary person by any standard. He was larger than life. He was flamboyance personified. He was determined to make the chieftaincy installation as grand as possible. He invited all his contacts from all over the world. All the military governors were invited. A special invitation was delivered to the President, Ibrahim Babangida, who was a close friend of the Bashorun. African Heads of States cleared their schedules in order to honour MKO. Nigerian Embassies were issuing visas on daily basis. It was going to be a grand occasion.

Then the unthinkable happened! It started as a rumour. It was days to the installation.

‘Eti Oba nile, eti Oba l’oko, eniyan lo n je be.’ The ear of a king is everywhere. Iku Baba Yeye was in his palace when he heard from the grapevine that a case had been filed to stop the occasion! “Ewo! Sango o ni je! Abiodun o ni je! Aole o ni je!” Kabiyesi went on to invoke the names of his predecessors on the royal throne of Alaafin!

It was around noon when the phone rang in Ibadan. It was from the Palace, Oyo Alaafin. Chief Afe Babalola, the famous legal practitioner, picked the phone. After exchange of homage and royal blessings, Alaafin informed Afiwajoye of Ado Ekiti that Ashipa had filed a suit against the installation of MKO Abiola. Not only that, a motion ex parte for interim injunction had also been filed. It was apparent that Ashipa was not ready to gamble with his chance.

Though Kabiyesi did not say it, Chief Afe knew the urgency involved. Installation was on Saturday. The call came in on Tuesday.

Less than thirty minutes after the call, Chief Afe was almost at Oyo. The legendary lawyer covered the 57 kilometres between Oyo and Ibadan as if he was on a chariot. He proceeded to court where he met the court registrar. Of course, the registrar knew Chief Babalola. It is doubtful if there is anyone in the Judiciary who does not know the Mayegun of Modakeke. Mayegun paid the requisite fees and conducted a search of the court’s file. It was there! Alaafin’s information was correct!

Iduro ko si, ìbèreè ko si fun eni ti o gbe odó mi. A person who swallows a pestle can neither stand nor sit comfortably. Installation was on Saturday. The search was conducted on Tuesday! The motion ex parte was to be heard the following day, Wednesday.

Time was of the essence! Chief Afe turned his car around, off to Emmanuel Chambers, Ibadan. Before the car reached Fiditi, he had mentally finished composing the processes. He was nodding as the cases and other relevant authorities began to surface in his mind.

By the time he reached his office, the mental process was complete. In a minute the Counter-Affidavit was ready. There was no need for a Written Address. Professor Yemi Osinbajo was then a Special Assistant to the Attorney General of the Federation. It would be years later before he introduced Written Address as the Lagos State Attorney General. The counter-affidavit was filed and served on counsel to the Ashipa.

On Wednesday, the court was full. Chief M. L. Lagunju, Ashipa’s counsel was in court. He adjusted his wig and checked his books. He smiled. It was a Motion Exparte. It won’t be contested. He checked his time. Then there was some commotion at the entrance of the court.

Chief Lagunju blinked! He blinked again! Walking in majestically was the Afiwajoye of Ado-Ekiti, the Balogun of Mobaland, the Mayegun of Modakeke, Chief Afe Babalola in flesh! He was followed by a host of other lawyers, each armed with bags of legal authorities enough to open a law library. Chief Lagunju didn’t know when he said: “The game is up!”

On the dot of 9 O’clock, the Court began sitting. The trial judge was a royalty himself. Justice Aderemi’s father was the late Ooni of Ife, Oba Sir Tadenikawo Adesoji Aderemi, the first Governor of Western Region. The case was called.

The plaintiff’s counsel sought to move his application. The learned counsel informed the court that it was an ex parte application and therefore the other party had no right of audience.

His Lordship turned to Chief Afe Babalola. The court was as silent as a ghost town. Young lawyers craned their necks to hear what the Legend was going to say. They have been taught in law school that Ex Parte Motion was for only one party. Some of them must have been wondering what magic the Mayegun of Modakeke was going to perform.

Chief Afe Babalola brought out the White Book. Oh! Sorry, you don’t know the White Book? The White Book is an important book for lawyers. It contains the sources of law relating to the practice and procedures of the High Court. Ask your lawyer friend to show you a copy. He won’t charge you, unless you open it.

The Legal Colossus was on his feet. He was vibrating like a trumpet, but his voice was as soft as velvet. He began to reel out authorities after authorities to the effect that a defendant who became aware, anyhow, that a party had gone to court and was about to obtain an order ex-parte that would affect him, had a right to appear in court and to insist on being heard.

His Lordship – a brilliant Judge from the Source of Yoruba Race – was nodding as he scribbled down the authorities being cited by the Legendary Advocate. His Lordship was not the only one writing. Most lawyers in court were writing furiously. One old man turned to his friend and whispered: “I don’t mind selling my house, Mufu, my son must become a lawyer like this man. Look at the way he is speaking English as if he is chanting oriki Sango!”

“There is merit in the case of the Defendants. I agree with Chief Afe Babalola, the Defendants deserve to be given the right to be heard. Case is hereby adjourned to tomorrow for arguments on the Motion on Notice.” His Lordship rose.

It is doubtful if the parties involved in the case slept that night. Whilst the lawyers checked and re-checked the authorities, the litigants were in anxiety mode. Chief MKO Abiola’s invited guests had started arriving from their various bases. Musicians engaged for entertainment had begun to set up their instruments in Oyo and Ikeja. Caterers had booked all the cows in Ilorin, Oyo and Ibadan. Local drummers had cancelled all engagements. The royal poet, Lanrewaju Adepoju had finished composing his masterpiece. All roads led to Oyo Alaafin.

If the court was filled to the brim on Wednesday, it was spilling over on Thursday. Litigants, journalists, lawyers, in fact everybody was in court that day. Chief Lagunju stood up. The learned counsel knew what was at stake. He argued his application expertly. He guessed the likely issues that Chief Afe would raise. He addressed each comprehensively. It was advocacy at its best.

Then the Balogun of Mobaland stood up. Like a surgeon, Chief Afe surgically cut through the issues deftly. He was not going to take any prisoner. After cutting through the issues, the authorities followed. From Halsbury’s Law of England to Commonwealth Law Reports, from decisions of House of Lords to decisions of Court of Appeal, from WACA to White Book, and then finally to the Supreme Court. The authorities were flowing like water from Asejire Dam. There was no stopping the deluge.

“In the light of the copious authorities cited by the learned counsel for the plaintiff and the defendants, the Court will be adjourning to……” There was pin-drop silence in Court. The installation was only two days away. “…Friday” Ha! Palpable relief went through the court.

On Friday, Chief Afe Babalola’s phone began to ring from dawn. “Chief, E ma lo gba ruling yin l’Oyo loni o. Please send your junior o.” Clients, friends and well wishers who witnessed or heard of the tension soaked session in court on Thursday were justifiably apprehensive. But Chief Afe was not the Balogun of Mobaland for nothing. A General must not be afraid of the warfront. Off to Oyo.

Chief Afe had hardly left Ibadan when he started seeing policemen at strategic junctions on the road to Oyo. As they approached Fiditi, the number of policemen increased. By the time they got to Jobele, it was as if the Police College had moved its campus there. In the forest, on top of trees, in the bushes, and on top of buildings, the police were everywhere.

The Courtroom itself was no exception. More than fifty police officers joined lawyers and litigants in the courtroom. If you were not wearing a wig and you were not a party to the case, you would have to stay outside.

Court!

Justice Aderemi went straight to the business of the day. “RULING” His Lordship began. Time stood still as His Lordship went on to review the facts of the application and the authorities cited by the counsel for the parties. “In the final analysis…” Counsel and cops in the court became tense. “This application fails and is hereby dismissed.”

As if by telepathy, the crowd outside heard the ruling immediately! Shouts of joy erupted. Drummers who must have been hiding theirgangan drums under their agbada sprang out.Sekere came out. Agogo was not to be left behind. Chief Afe Babalola was pulled out of his car, The Balogun was placed squarely on the roof of the car. Women danced, men jumped. I’m not sure but one of the songs on that day must have been “Ajekun Iya ni o je”. I have to confirm this from Chief. May God preserve his life.

Alaafin was waiting in the Palace with his Council Members. For a moment, the Sango of our time, Iku Baba Yeye was close to tears. It was an emotional moment. MKO Abiola was called. The Bashorun shouted: “Allahu Akbar! Alhamdulillah.”

On Saturday, January 14, 1988, Oba Lamidi Olayiwola Adeyemi III installed Bashorun Moshood Kashimawo Abiola as the 14th Aare Ona Kakanfo. The famous Yoruba Poet, Lanrewaju Moshood Adepoju was then called to the podium. In his deep and flawless Yoruba, Adepoju movingly rendered traditional poetry tracing the history of the title and the qualities of the new Aare Ona Kakanfo.

Abiola smiled.

It was indeed a glorious day for the husband of Simbiat Atinuke.

In recognition of his service to the Crown and the Law, Alaafin later conferred Chief Afe Babalola with the prestigious title of Aare Bamofin of Oyo Empire.

Thank you for your time.

WetinConsignMe:
Person wey single handedly build a whole church. If u get that kin money everybody go they beg u to come take chief, including Yoruba land

U GOT ME THERE... BUT TITLES ARE SILENT THESE DAYS IN YORUBA LAND, IT SEEMS THEY ARE ADVANCING THERE.

Nnamdi Ikegwuonu IS WORKING. ALL NNAMDIS ARE GREAT!

CHIEFTAIN TITLE NO DEY TAY TO OBTAIN FROM DAT SYD SHA....

rozayx5:
nice


one

not all these ones finding a guy with 5 cars and 10 houses

forget dat thing, if dem see kitchen apartment now, dem dey shook head. who wan marry (them) now? dem dey beg... just get a room apartment, u go see how dem go dey bring their clothe one by one. Na pple wey dey live for abj fit relate better sha!

if it happened there, its not strange, all you can hear from someone like ifeanyi is 'all is well' in capital letter but if it happens somewhere else, u go see the useless lens abi na binoculars boldly in-scripted with their SLAYER's nickname.

how? why? wawu!

APARUTU TI PO JU NI NIGERIA... ARRANGEE GOVT. IF DEM NO EMULATE LIKE ANDROID APP/BLUE STACKS, DEM GO MIME LIKE BANKY W, IF DEM MIME LIKE BANKY W, DEM GO COPYCAT LIKE CHINCO... FAKE LIFE TOO MUCH, NO ORIGINALITY KWA!

Narldon:

NA SO!


AS ANY WOMAN TOO GO PREFER A RICH GUY TO AN HUSTLER... TIT FOR TAT

MrReloaded:
Are they still together? Because I don’t know why she is so obsess about davido

SHAYBI DAVIDO BEEN EVEN TALK SAY THE WOMAN OLD PASS AM HE NO FIT MARRY AM...HUH!

DOES HE HAVE ANOTHER PRICK TO BANG VIRGINS IN HEAVEN OR WHAT....

Ekakamba:
Chinko & odd retribution

Meanwhile, here's NL Quote of the year; give or take. :'
(Nbote:
Stop exposing how stupid u are... Its gud for d goose but not for d gander abi?? It is becoming obvious by d day dat on d left side of ur head there's nothing right and on d right side there's absolutely nothing left...)

I CONCUR TO THAT QUOTE OF LIFE! GBA! WHEN I READ IT, I READE IT OVER AND OVER AND OVER AGAIN AND EVENTUALLY I DID NOT SEE ANY MISTAKE IN IT BASED ON THE CONTEXT. THO, I WISH THE 'QUOTER' COULD ALSO USE HIS BRAIN TO SOLVE NIGERIA'S PROBLEM... JUST WISHING.

[quote author=emmyw post=59190369][/quote]BUT THE QUESTION (Ladies, Would You Rock This Hairstyle?) IS NOT DIRECTED TO YOU NA.... OR ARE YOU RESPONDING ON BEHALF OF UR MAM'?

AWON BOYS TI GBA OBO NI IDI ELEI NI JOR! MTCHEW.

NA DEM DEY SUPPLY THE WHOLE COUNTRY

emmyw:
hmmmm, Rock What?? That Nonsense?

ARE YOU A LADY? WETIN CONCERN YOU!

MisterGrace:
This is just not adding up.

1. Who brought the man home?
2. Why did she accept to marry him?
3. Was there some sort of swapping along the line?
4. Did she let the man sponsor her education and then let herself fall in love with another dude?

read the post again and answer your four questions yourself. meanwhile, this is not question time, if u r not a good adviser, let someone else post in the front page jere! na so so dem go dey take nollywood experience answer simple question.
the girl jere, i understand by your mail dat u might be a gold-digger cos u did not mention anywhere the man's fault nor has incurable shortfalls, so makes my assumption. since u av decided to allow urself to be carried away with infatuation, call your man, tell him the truth, leave him to decide may be to go ahead or to quit, he can handle the rest, they are just paparazzi. otherwise, if he decides to 'mumu' himself and start convincing you how much he loves you or how desperate he can still change you (cos me am already seeing you as olosho), well goodluck to him, make his day, play along, let the wedding happen and aftermath, come to nairaland again after the wedding and remind us about your situation. probably by that time, someone like me would know what next to do, maybe tru what happened during the event and some days after staying together as couple (meanwhile, the wedding might actually make you to change your mind and forget about dat he-goat waiting for u @ the door! ehn! dat one wey follow u rish your wedding nite!