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Stevecreativex:
Me if I remember I use to smile and swear for her with my smile
She's grace, fondly called Gracey, I met this werey when I was serving at Abuja 2014, But with the way we met seems like God wanted us together.

She works where I did my PPA, The first day we met I was working on some files and she was kinda asking her colleague who Steve is when she walked up to my desk, she called my name I looked up and she lost it like I could remember we both lost at each other for like 60 seconds before the lady sitting beside me called her name loud( that one don grab watin dey sup)

To cut the past lost story short.. we started talking we exchange contact and weeks later we started dating... Later she came over to the apartment whey I rented, I could tell her reaction she does not like the place (it single room thou )

Months later our relationship became so close that people started noticing in the office, exactly August they paidsalary and to my surprise, as we were going home together she gave me her August salary asked me to add some few bucks to it I should move out of the one-room apartment am staying saying she doesn't want me sharing toilet and bathroom...

Like I was wow. To be very honest that night I was so happy to the extent I had to cut all my spouse contact off and focus on only her... Like that night I vowed not to cheat on her ever...

So I finished my NYSC in Abuja and luckily my PDTF scholarship application was successful I was preparing to move over to Greece for my masters...

I and Gracey parted ways but we still dating, we call each other text each other... Months later I started sending money to grace for our building project, all the money I sent was around £125,500+ (54,233,804.62 nairas)

During this process, grace sends me pictures of the land she brought and how the construction is going on.....

To round up this painful crab only for me to come back home to meet my wife, married with a kid...

I arrested her and all she could say was "she thought I was just joking with her" that she never thought I still love her... Out of 54m, she could only recover 2.5m...

I was hospitalized for two weeks then... I sort I almost died the shock and trauma almost killed me... But thank God later I just have to return to Greece and start all over again... But what she did then is still the reason why am single today...

The truth sef is I insult any Nigerian girls I see in Greece... Nigerian girls in Greece are all lonely so anyone of then that comes across Nigeria guys is always waiting to be loved but I can't stop hating them...

The trauma still lives..

This is deep bro, I feel ur pains.....out of 54mili just 2.5 u got back so painful

How do you cloned the WhatsApp, pls anyone should tell me how

So the only Access bank in my town ughelli is shutdown, where people go con go now to resolve their issues

This guy Joe, did the right thing by walking away pls give him space and time.

You having a boyfriend changes things he cannot be hanging around you and spoiling his chances of other girls approaching him. He probably has analyse the situation so Its nice what he is doing Joe guy avoided friend zone.



I have this situation of my own, me and this girl have been friends for months now we met in school I knew her through her room mate who is my course mate, we chat alot we flow very well I really got strong feelings for her but she tells me she can't date me or anyg in school, she onced had a ex who was in military and she used to date guys that are in working class but now she said she just wants to remain single. She has left for her IT but she calls me regularly and very caring that's her nature, she gives me attention and tells me so much about her.

The thing is I'm confused, I'm finding it hard to leave her cause she is always there for me probably calling me her bestie and doin regular check-ups and I can't stay I'm hurt Everytime she says she can't date anyone in school and I think she is a year older than me but I look way older than her.

I'm young and would really like dating someone and been with her makes other ladies think we are dating and stay away.

She won't let me go she won't accept me, I'm tired �.......I need advice on my own too

khengxlei:
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hi guys I know 90% of us here were freaky scared when we first talked a girl to a relationship...
mine wasn't easy too..
let's share our experience and kill boredom

here's mine

there's this girl who I have been cutting eye for since I was still a kid,and I knew she had feelings for me too,buh the boy was to timid to approach her...we were close friends.
I decided to let the cat outta the bag...
telling her wasn't easy for me,so I wrote it down on a paper and gave it to her before she could ask me what it was for,the boy ran home outta being scared..
she came to my house tho and told me she agrees..that was how I started dating her..lol

LMAO ��

I'm the shy type and I hardly talk to ladies about such things but let me share my experience of the first girl I tried toasting.

It was a cool evening in Uniben, I was in 200lv then and me and my friends where on our way back home from class then we saw this girl on our way, my friends where just admiring from afar then suddenly they started daring me to walk up to her or was I that shy, me determined to proof them wrong suddenly increase my pace of walking to meet up with her on meeting her I said hi, she seemed statled and replied me saying Hi on seeing her face she looks more matured than i am and that was a big discouraging and intimidating thing for me.



My words failed me at that moment, so I decided to ask for her department and level, she said she was in agric and a 400lv student....chai � mogbe, me first time toaster I never get scope reach like this oh I thought to myself, the babe seem to already know all my moves am about to make becux she has played this toasting game alot. To cut story short she decided to take a right turn and to her destination and I was heading left I quickly bade her goodbye of hope not seeing her again.

I ran to my guys to tell them about the stories and we all laughed about the matter, I felt a bit embarrassed though but it was my first time.

That was all months back But now I'm getting really good at it.

I had this friend in school Chris, we have both been single since 100lv but he had always wanted a girlfriend very much, there was this girl that moved to their hostel in 200lv she was a loose girl. She has had romance and sometimes sex with other guys in the hostel, and a very close friend to me and Chris outside the hostel has had sex with her too inside the hostel.



So Chris and this girl were normal friends but began getting close and she started developing feelings for him. Chris who had said he can never date a girl like her because of the stuff he has seen, heard and done with her, I don't know probably out of desperation to get a girlfriend, asked her out and that's how they started a relationship till now, almost six months, but my friend Chris doesn't really trust the girl that much but she loved him so much.


If it was to be me it's a capital NO, I just can't.....you can't date a girl my friend or friends have bleeped.

Wow at least it's something

Na wa oh lord

This thread is exactly my thoughts

I've not heard of anyone encounters with the NCDC coming to their area for a suspected case, but the numbers just keeps increasing so are the money been put into the fight of covid-19.



I pray this leaders no they scam us, if na scam just share my own money reach me for this lockdown and all will be forgotten.

I would really advice you stand for her, just because it's your mum doesn't mean she can't be corrected, the little girl need someone to stand for her cuz now she is all alone.



If karma took it's cause you would be involved because you saw the bad deeds and didn't do anything, the girl would probably have you all at her mind of how she was mistreated with no helper

majamajic:
It's normal if a woman treats another woman's children a different way from hers, cos maybe she was not in support of the adoption .

There's nothing u can do here , than continue the love and accommodate the girl , as time goes on everything will be ok

Just keep up the good work , things will be perfect as time goes on , thank God she is a girl

Pls don't say it's normal, it's a hateful character sure you can't treat her like your own doesn't mean you should find the slightest means to beat or insult her.

I very much dislike women of such nature, so for a poor child to be seeking for care is a bad thing now

No matter the hate most Nigerians have for buhari he just keep excelling.

They wanted covid-19 to get him it hasn't.
Other illness too he over comes them too.

Just join hands and support him, he is unstoppable.



Kudos to buhari on his appointment
#staysafe

Wow

Iv been patiently reading every single story in this thread and i have come to a conclusion that I won't be with my wife at the labour room, my dad didn't do it now I understand why, I won't do it too.

So terrifying

07019974702

This is a very nice observation, I recall the girls I know from Rich or family with high income backgrounds are very appreciative, the ones from low income tend to raise shoulders while they got nothing to offer.


I support this op

I don't know what to say, the person below me will have something to say

Best post i have seen today

Na wa oh... Lord

I'm sorry to say this but, kyari is gone

Thanks for this update..... people are really misusing it. Ftc at long last

FTC

Finally first to comment.

This shit has spread far more than we think it has oh, God help us all

Corona virus self

Someone can not scroll through nairaland front page and see Corona as update without making their heart skip a bit�, probably thinking new cases will come

I'm i the only one experiencing this

BankyGee:
RIDDLE ME THIS

refrigerator

I'm i the only one thinking this coronavirus kini na scam.......made up to loot money.

ASUU sef, I won resume next tomorrow oh.

this strike would make ASUU unstable cuz some members have already registered IPPIS.

furthermore some schools are far behind on academic calendar and planning to pull out from ASUU if a strike happen.

NwaAmaikpe:





We have been drinking Garri even before Ojukwu thought of fighting a civil war.
We have always had rats run around our houses before Flora Shaw agreed to date Lord Lugard.
People have been dying from ailments even before the Israelites knew of a promise land.

So why should we bothered now?

Please drink garri if you can, especially if there is coconut and toothpaste nearby.

Because the fluoride in the toothpaste kills the Lassa virus and the oil in coconut creates a non-permeable layer on the stomach lining making it immune to attacks.

My people, I am a living testimony.
Ever since I started drinking garri with Aquafresh toothpaste, all sicknesses are scared of me.

LMAO MAD OH �

fergie001:
https://punchng.com/to-avoid-possible-lassa-fever-infection-avoid-drinking-garri

LMAO MAD OH �

when am about to resume school...... selfish ASUU wants to go on their annual public holiday ??

Have you check uniben??

for fresher's Acceptance fees #60k

school fees non sciences #69k sciences #73K

Returning students pays 45k till final year

I think uniben would be second to the above University