Rtk4:
Before i woman does consistently are as follows;

** scenes.

Samantha124:
But don't you think she's trying to get you to bond with your own children as their father?

I mean, I have a very strong bond with my father because he always made time for us his children when we were young.

izonborn098:
You are a big simp...
Don't marry woman
1. Who have strong head.
2. Don't marry women who don't respect u.
3. Don't marry women who are violent.
4. Don't marry women who always have excuse for their mistakes.
5. Don't marry women who don't take correction.
7. Don't marry women who is always getting close to their families because she will use her family as excuse to either go and do hookup or other sins.
*oga the space u give ur woman was too much' she is just treatingu like her kid... Abi na she dey feed u?
Three kids'' try and have talk with her involving her family and yours to see whether see will change and u also need to stand ur ground... Because if u divorce her the fate of the kids is at stake....
But if she don't want to change then let her go...... Divorce her asap before she turn u to a house boy.
And pls do DNA with ur kids because there 70% chances ur wife is cheating that is why she potray head of the house... Maybe ur deputy is doing well.

Obaking7:
Oga simp, when next she does that always follow her behind without her notice. Keep the kids with a trusted family neighbor, do it four times and you will be shocked of the outcome. Any woman who does not care and respect her husband has another man she respect and care for.

Mind you the mother is aware of this, please do low key DNA test for the kids.

Rtk4:
Before i narrate everything, I would like to say that i swear I'm not a SIMP, I was just trying to be a good husband right from the beginning not knowing it was gonna lead to this.

I'm married with three children and my wife is not working for the past 7 years of our marriage. I'm responsible for everything in the house. I'm not complaining about the too much responsibilities but i really wanna end the marriage due to the following reasons, my wife lacks respect for me as a husband sometimes the way she talks to me as if I'm her boy or her mate. This woman called my wife is also very ungrateful. She never appreciate anything. I can't correct her when she's wrong without her getting angry, most times when i send her to buy something, her mood changes or she starts complaining, i can't tell her to cook what my appetite yearns for without her complaining especially swallow. The only thing this woman does consistently are as follows;

**Please could you stay with the kids i was called that my cousin is sick and they are in the hospital

**Please could you stay with the kids my mum's sister is sick and I want to go greet them

**Please could you stay with the kids we just lost our uncle

**Please could you stay with the kids my father's brother wants to see me

**Please could you stay with the kids, this, that and that.... I'm so angry because it doesn't allow me go out to Hussle. One of the most annoying part is when i have an important place to go, i'll have look for where to drop the kids or go with them? Sometimes you need to see the shame in me due to how people always look at me carrying 3kids up and down everywhere as if i don't have a wife. Even if i want to go and watch ball alot of times i'll have to go with them. She has 5 female elder siblings who are all married, why don't they behave like that to their husbands? Sometimes she'll be sitting or maybe she's doing something and one of the kid tells her he/she wants to poo, she'll tell the child go and meet your father, I'll have to go put the child on potty. The frustration is too much. I really wanna end the marriage. Most times when i report some things to the mother, the mother always looks for a way to cover for her daughter, the mother never sees anything wrong in what her daughter does. Do you know one of the thing she does that has gotten me fed up? I'll be in the middle of a very important work or meeting. This woman will start calling and calling, you will think it's something very important, the next thing she'll start texting me that won't you come home? She wants to go and check on her this or that who is in the hospital. So i should leave something very important which will give me money just to come and stay with the children so you could go visit a family member? This is a place you can go with the children. Please guys how do i go about ending this marriage because she is very violent and i don't want to create a scene because she likes creating scenes.

Lastmankc:
You guys we just come here and be talking rubbish.See your flat nose

Rtk4:
I've been planning to do that, but just last week she saw my chat with a hospital that does DNA test, you need to see the way she wanted to bring down the roof of the house. Shouting thaty what do i take her for? A prostitute or what?

Samantha124:
But don't you think she's trying to get you to bond with your own children as their father?

I mean, I have a very strong bond with my father because he always made time for us his children when we were young.

JONSYN7154:
Bros let me tell you the truth.
I'm sincerely sorry because the truth am going to tell you will HURT you.

THE TRUTH IS THAT YOUR WIFE IS HAVING AN AFFAIR AND THE MOTHER IS AWARE OF IT, THATS WHY SHE'S DEFENDING THE DAUGHTER ANYTIME YOU REPORTED HER.
ANYTIME SHE SAYS SHE'S GOING TO SEE SOMEONE ITS THE BOYFRIEND SHE DO GO TO SEE.

TAIL HER AND YOU'LL CATCH HER RED HANDED.

Rtk4:
I've been planning to do that, but just last week she saw my chat with a hospital that does DNA test, you need to see the way she wanted to bring down the roof of the house. Shouting thaty what do i take her for? A prostitute or what?

wis3:
I've seen single dad's who turned out to be better parents than single moms. This is a fact. Aman will always want to protect his daughter at all cost. Only down is he may not always be available to look after her because of work. But men do better at parenting than most women nowadays.

jackmrandy:


women will always side women.. which kind bonding you dey talk about here now. the going to watch football together is ok already. but you see that poopoo part, go and meet your dad, omo the woman is an arrogant woman. why don;t she go out with the kids to the hospital where she is going at least let the kids see things with their eyes and ask questions about life, like mummy why are these people crying? mummy where is this place, mummy why are these people on the bed, mummy who is that man putting on white? this way the mum will get to train the children. mind you she is not even providing for the house. and the person thats providing she want to use task to finish the person. I am not married yet oh, God know say if na me, I don tell that woman my full mind once oh. no need hiding anything or feeling all in the name of marriage. i go tell you for your eye. if you nor fit do am leave oh.

Samantha124:
So you'd be okay with your wife risking your children's health by taking them along to those hospital wards?

What if they catch an infectious disease in there because they're still young and fragile?... Wouldn't you still go ahead and label her a bad mother for taking them to the hospital to see that relative?

I don't know about Nigerian hospitals, but some SA hospitals don't allow children coming to visit their sick relatives because it's way too risky, especially in adult wards.

It's like you Nigerian men don't care about your children, you use your children to take out your frustrations on your women and in the end, it's always the children who suffer more consequences.

I'm sorry to say this, but you're already showing traits of a bad father if you think it's okay to risk your children's health in the name of training them.

wis3:
No. It just shows where her priority lies. And the OP is a weakling without any balls. I would have sent her to go cool of at her father's house a long time ago. Hire a maid and everyone's happy. It's that simple. But the OP hasn't got the balls

jackmrandy:




NO TRAIT OF A BAD FATHER, MY CHILD WILL HAVE THE BEST FATHER, REASON WHY I AM TRY AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE TO GET THE BEST MUM FOR HIM/HER. I CAN SENSE YOU ARE NOT A NIGERIAN OR POSSSIBLY A NIGERIAN WHO DIDN'T GROW UP ON THE NIGERIA SOIL.

Samantha124:
If you're going to tell your wife to go visiting hospital wards with your children, then you are going to be a bad father.

Fix yourself first because with your level of reasoning, you don't deserve a good woman in your life, you'll mistreat her like she's your slave and put your children's lives at risk.

You sound like you value your ego more than anything, even if it means your children will suffer for it.

My wife lacks respect for me as a husband. Sometimes, the way she talks to me is as if I'm her boy or her mate. This woman called my wife is also very ungrateful. She never appreciate anything. I can't correct her when she's wrong without her getting angry. Most times when i send her to buy something, her mood changes or she starts complaining. I can't tell her to cook what my appetite yearns for without her complaining, especially swallow.

Samantha124:
If you're going to tell your wife to go visiting hospital wards with your children, then you are going to be a bad father.

Fix yourself first because with your level of reasoning, you don't deserve a good woman in your life, you'll mistreat her like she's your slave and put your children's lives at risk.

You sound like you value your ego more than anything, even if it means your children will suffer for it.

Sonnobax15:

Alphabetical Red flags from A-Z. But you were busy tolerating all her excesses.....

My old man normally say this to all his sons-"No man can survive the wrath of an evil wife".

Op,na better one chance motor you enter so.......How can you be playing the role of hubby and wife at the same time?

LINSAR:


1. So children don't visit their sick parents in hospitals?

2. Have you asked why it is everytime her family members are always sick?

3. Also, why focus on only the children aspect? Why didn't you talk about this:

jackmrandy:


bitter women everywhere. all of you supporting the attitude of the woman, even when you know fullly well what the man has explained is bad. very very bad, and if possible, she is even cheating on him with another man. Ta. i will say it again, a woman dear not try this with me. who paid her bride price? she go con dey act this way. not one. not two, three. before this man came up like this he has exhausted all the available means to let her know what she is doing is wrong. women will always be supporting women even when you are seeing with your naked eyes what she is doing is wrong. birds of same feather.

Samantha124:
I'm sure if the husband explains to his employers that there's a family emergency, they'll understand.

So you expect the woman to go and see a sick relative with the children?

Samantha124:
Bitter women everywhere? Lol... Well, you know what they say, the truth is bitter..😂😂😂

It's only a confused irresponsible man that'll claim that his wife is cheating without proof and bring the issue of bride price whenever he's being told the bitter truth.

I repeat, you're not going to make a good father and you don't deserve a good woman.

Go fix yourself because that ego if yours that you value more than anything will destroy your life in the end.

Rtk4:
I've been planning to do that, but just last week she saw my chat with a hospital that does DNA test, you need to see the way she wanted to bring down the roof of the house. Shouting thaty what do i take her for? A prostitute or what?

Rtk4:
I've been planning to do that, but just last week she saw my chat with a hospital that does DNA test, you need to see the way she wanted to bring down the roof of the house. Shouting thaty what do i take her for? A prostitute or what?

Rtk4:
Before i narrate everything, I would like to say that i swear I'm not a SIMP, I was just trying to be a good husband right from the beginning not knowing it was gonna lead to this.

I'm married with three children and my wife is not working for the past 7 years of our marriage. I'm responsible for everything in the house. I'm not complaining about the too much responsibilities but i really wanna end the marriage due to the following reasons, my wife lacks respect for me as a husband sometimes the way she talks to me as if I'm her boy or her mate. This woman called my wife is also very ungrateful. She never appreciate anything. I can't correct her when she's wrong without her getting angry, most times when i send her to buy something, her mood changes or she starts complaining, i can't tell her to cook what my appetite yearns for without her complaining especially swallow. The only thing this woman does consistently are as follows;

**Please could you stay with the kids i was called that my cousin is sick and they are in the hospital

**Please could you stay with the kids my mum's sister is sick and I want to go greet them

**Please could you stay with the kids we just lost our uncle

**Please could you stay with the kids my father's brother wants to see me

**Please could you stay with the kids, this, that and that.... I'm so angry because it doesn't allow me go out to Hussle. One of the most annoying part is when i have an important place to go, i'll have look for where to drop the kids or go with them? Sometimes you need to see the shame in me due to how people always look at me carrying 3kids up and down everywhere as if i don't have a wife. Even if i want to go and watch ball alot of times i'll have to go with them. She has 5 female elder siblings who are all married, why don't they behave like that to their husbands? Sometimes she'll be sitting or maybe she's doing something and one of the kid tells her he/she wants to poo, she'll tell the child go and meet your father, I'll have to go put the child on potty. The frustration is too much. I really wanna end the marriage. Most times when i report some things to the mother, the mother always looks for a way to cover for her daughter, the mother never sees anything wrong in what her daughter does. Do you know one of the thing she does that has gotten me fed up? I'll be in the middle of a very important work or meeting. This woman will start calling and calling, you will think it's something very important, the next thing she'll start texting me that won't you come home? She wants to go and check on her this or that who is in the hospital. So i should leave something very important which will give me money just to come and stay with the children so you could go visit a family member? This is a place you can go with the children. Please guys how do i go about ending this marriage because she is very violent and i don't want to create a scene because she likes creating scenes.

AndrewTate:
Women don't like men who let them do as they please...this was your mistake. They love dominance,not violence or narcism but mental dominance.

They might fight against the above and try to counter it but never work with women based on what they say or "feel like they want" cos whenever women have the liberty to do as they please with their lives they have a great tendency of destroying it and not understand why they're not happy after they've done what they thought was right all along because they "felt" so...
She sees you as lesser mentally. This has nothing to do with academics.

And also many men mistake dominance with narcism...