The government wants to steal again

After disbanding the panel are the lawyers going to setup their own panel ?

The child’s action can be classified as wickedness, but the neighbor’s action is cruelty. Some neighbors are so intolerant of children in the neighborhood... Why seize their ball ?

Hell has no fury like a woman scorned

And this will go unresolved like many others. May God have mercy on every Nigerian.

Davido for president

So it’s clampdown time, you see the government is not ready to listen or change. 2023 nor be forever, soon we will be there.

Nigeria bloggers and lies, you have given it your own story line

Why are they doing this ?

Antichrist back to power

Klass99:


WoW, a man who is not afraid to be vulnerable and to admit his confusion, I like You will be alright.

Your last sentence though, are you still going to try? It's admirable that you did the things you did out of love and not just for the sake of your child. Women mostly seem incapable of this.

Trying is where my confusion is

Honduras01:
some girls are just stupid sha. Aswear
this type of girls no suppose dey school



U dey university u still dey do ofofo.

when they rape them now they will start to cry.

Before u start quoting me, I'm not a rapist oo!

You just committed worse crime than the guys inciting violence and the person that responded

Klass99:


Lol , confusion is good and it's a normal part of life. Don't sweat it.

If your son wasn't in the picture, would you still want to be with this chic? Still dating her or......

If you had no child with this chic, do you see yourself being with her for the long haul in marriage?

Does the idea of marrying her, excites you or exhausts you? Really reflect on this one carefully and pay attention to your inner feelings/thoughts.

I know this is really hard for parents to do, but let's put you first for a minute. What do you want for yourself?

Let me be frank with you, I proudly did all I have done not really because of my son but because I wanted her to be comfortable.

If I say I don’t love this girl then I’ll be deceiving myself and everyone on this thread.

Now she has a confidant, an adviser and she now want to do the things I don’t know her for.

I won’t accept that

Snuffed life out of a fellow man cos of 500k

Klass99:


But..........what? You still love her? Or you don't want your son in a broken home situation?

I told you to fight for your relationship from now till the end of the year. But, this one she has already returned the house papers.............

Am confused

For real those SARS guys got what they bargained for

Political thugs from Africa, APC boys

qzaq42068:

Why you nor dey blaze for yourself abi you nor get fmt or you nor like plenty money ?

Was this US election organized by Nigeria politicians and INEC ?

I hope he referred this to Buhari

Klass99:


I'm surprised you could quote me, antispam bot banned me for that comment and hid it.

I LOL when you said you don't want to sponsor another reunion hangout.

If you are already paying rent of 750k and doing 200k monthly allowance, sponsoring a reunion is a walk in the park nah School reunions are a lot of fun but they rarely happen on a yearly basis.

I kind of sense relief on your part, at the end that's coming. Which must be from knowing you tried/did all you could to salvage the situation.

Yes I have done my best.... but

Klass99:


So, what's the latest with you and your girl now?

Are you talking or not talking? Closer to a resolution or a breakup?

Have you spoken with your son lately?

I speak to my son every day, I tried to make things work but her conditions are unacceptable. She wants to go to secondary school reunion which she attended last year and I sponsored, she is saying she wants to attend again next week.

Most definitely why her friend said I call her too much and I don’t allow her do what she wants, I don’t party nor club so I won’t allow that.

I got my documents, so I’ll work toward taking my son from her.

Was try to work things out cos of my son, remember I said her friend complained I call her too much, this her friend clubs and party, yesterday she told me she will be attending a secondary school reunion, she attended one last December with my son I was fully in support of that.

This time I reminded her of what her friend told me and why her friend said so, I told her she actually needed time to party and club.

I only told her to make sure my son is safe no matter what she does.

Good news is that she sent my documents to my sister.

I’ll talk her into giving me my son.

Shortyy:
Awon Alpha males.

No need to marry, get a baby mama.

Am not sure am alpha male, I go marry

That dog will perform better than Buhari

Graxie:
The truth is that she is a nice girl.
A typical Naija babe will be receiving the money and goodies while having fun with side boo.

Meanwhile, stop begging, keep looking after your son, give her time.

She will see the good in you with time and also her horrible friend.

You may have been having double mind about marrying her, all this my father said story would have been cut off with court marriage.

She can't just be waiting on nothing, put your sister in her position.

Being a baby mama and getting a husband is not easy in naija, you need to also view it from her fears.

She is broken!!!

Daygee1978:
. U are very stupid. Can u talk to ur father like that ? At least that man old enough to be ur father.... u lack manners .. u guys will just talk anyhow on this platform !

His father is not as wicked as that cow

Arthurity1:
May buhari die an unpleasant and shameful death!

So shall it be

Saintmary:
Lots of bitter people on this thread.

I dey tell you, but I have gotten the advice I came here for.

Thanks to everyone for their contributions

ozonechrome:


I don't have to read it to hear from her.

What has the money for upkeep and rent you pay got to do with her actually deciding she's had enough of your threat to leave her and has realized she may be better off without you afterall got to do with anything.

You want the little boys here to bash her and ask you to leave her or the ladies to think you are such a good catch because of how much you claim you spend on your family?

You confirmed already my next question to you have a nice day.

Gloriagee:
I can't stand 3rd party interference.
The friend has no justification in boldly telling u stuff like that. You can advise in the background but this one na awon friendly enemies.

Yea still trying to wrap my head around everything but not sure there is a future anymore.

I have never allowed anyone interfere in our relationship not even my dad who is my best friend.

Ishilove:

He wants to turn her to Lord of the ring.

Anyway, the grass isn't always greener on the other side. If it is meant to be then she will return when her eyes is clear. The op has spoilt her. Take away some of the gifts and she will experience factory reset.

Op you sef why do you always threaten her with break-up? You sef your way no pure

My brother wetin person see for past relationships dey make man fear oo