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1. Egyptians try to catch balloons distributed for free after Eid prayers outside Al-Seddik Mosque in Cairo,

1. Egyptians try to catch balloons distributed for free after Eid prayers outside Al-Seddik Mosque in Cairo,

Guys relax, we go beat this german team

Got up from bed and wash my face maybe na dream I dey dream but at last reality finally down on me

Hmm another heartache for the ijaw soldiers, afonjas does not tolerate nonsense
Send them to the after life

dachuchi7:
sorry bro,you can do anything for love.

baba i do shege for love

CindyeMerAld:
FYI... u can never get over an ex esp if u loved him or her.....the only solution there is 2 pretend they dnt exist,buh most of the times,all u do is think abt them

hmm you are right to some extent but have move on
girls of nowadays aint loyal o...my eye don see ehn

I don suffered from loving too much so tey I missaporpriated money meant for my academics

MyLuvmyjoy:
i ask because i'm into the business of making sure that ladies find husbands
these days are so bad that we need to help hook up people genuinely interested in marriage.

Hmm, e be like say aristo plenty for your hand abi

iykekelvins:
[color=#099999]Nigga, really?[/color]

Na so bro

halfricanadian:
yes me

I won't believe it untill I confirm from fistking01

@op so it is only women that make such a mistakes?

halfricanadian:
Firstking01 marry him 9:05 divorce him 9:06

Why do u always act like a kid, does someone force u to date him. Now that you have spilt you have open countless of topics because of him...must u date at your age? Rubbish
If I ever see you create a topic concerning your relationship on here ehn...u go see wetin I go do for u
Rubbish

STFUareyouG0d:
I met prettythicksme here and we are now happily married

Wake up from your slumber

;DYour financial status is a big problem for u
Chase money and gilrs will chase you

chai I don suffer...I will never spend on ladies again

Ogbeni, there's no way a Nigerian girl will contribute positively in your life in this present economy, rather they will start demanding from you. Not all gilrs though

keypad1:
na that day she go die if she comes back begging

Lol she no go die, I go just give her small change for transport fare and zoom off in my buggati lol

richard870:
@Op, I'm sorry you are going through this 'ugly' situation right now. I'm gonna ask a few questions before i proceed

1. Ever had issues about infidelity with her?
2. Is she materialistic?
3. In what way/ways did she reciprocate your kind gestures?

Ok now, all i'm trying to do is rekindle your memory so you can see if you probably ignored the handwriting on the wall

@Op, my advice for you is to ask her the reason/reasons for taking such heartless decision against you and be ready embrace whatever comes from it as one of the lessons of life

Pls don't go out of your way to suplicate!!! Because its obvious she's a fickle that wants a 'Gold laced lifestyle'

Its high time you took a bold step in life bro (God bless)

1. Not untill now
2. No she's not, last month I wanted to get her a new phone but she insist that she doesn't need a smart phone that a Nokia torch light phone is Ok for her then I buy a small Nokia phone
3. Before God and man, she always appreciate everything that have done for her

Midy28:
if he had proposed this is how he will be let down

Sincerely speaking, its seems you were there during our courtship I swear not to leave her for anything my parent accept her...most time I call her the mother of my kids, we have a goal

blackedwin:
Bro, how old r u and your girlfriend. Will advice u wen I get this data.

I'm 24 she's 21

feelings1:
I really don't blame the girl because you could not marry her for five years you met her that's why she left you. Sometimes in life love is not everything and enough. Sometimes it is easy to love than to be loved. There are many beautiful and big fishes in the ocean. Be strong.

Bro, she's 21 and we always talk about our future every single day have promise to marry her and take care of our kids blah blah there was a time I want to give her a promise ring but she declined

feelings1:
I really don't blame the girl because you could not marry her for five years you met her that's why she left you. Sometimes in life love is not everything and enough. Sometimes it is easy to love than to be loved. There are many beautiful and big fishes in the ocean. Be strong.

Bro, she's 21 and we always talk about our future every single day have promise to marry her and take care of our kids blah blah there was a I want to give her a promise ring but she declined

richez25:
Aunty Dove or Vulture, or wateva u call urself. Am not the OP.. Am just tryna console the guy ok.. Keep ur attitude to urself, aiit.. Tanz. And u can stop climbing my molehill, will appreciate that.. Remain blessed as u become positive to life and reduce the attitude, seems u had a terrible one too. PEACE..

Bro its ok, let it slide thanks for the advise God bless u

tabithababy:
OP, have you introduced her to your family during this 5 years.

I swear to God my mom knows her infact she use to tell me not to fight with her that we are perfect though we are still young...her mom also know me before demise. The most painful part was that my mom save her mobile number with my name.
Its just sad that am going thorugh these hard time I still can't believe I create a topic like this on NL, I always read it online

cococandy:
Maybe the relationship is moving nowhere and she wants to settle down. I think she did the right thing except that she didn't discuss it with you first. But Even if she did, you might have started thinking she's desperate or pushing you into something you're not ready for.

There's really no pleasing some dudes. So I don't blame her. A girl's gotta do what's best for her in that anti-woman environment. Afterall na una go still yab her when she's 30 and single.
But to marry them, you won't. You want to date them for 10 yrs. Well You can't eat your cake and have it.

As long as you live in and promote a society where the culture shames ladies ladies for being single past a certain age, you will all be dumped unceremoniously like this when wedding bells seem to chime. Real or fake.

we always discuss about our future plan and all

histemple:
Bros, please can you explain why you have been the one helping her financially and even paying her school fees yet you didn't enrol for your HND or B Sc ?

Her parent passed, her mom died last month even before then I always make her comfortable not that I was born with a silver spoon but I do everything for her within my capacity. If I have 2k I prefer to giver 1500 and I will part away with 500naira...its just love nothing more

manopaka:
It is very easy to wait n hope for the relationship to work out with d hope that she wld come come back. that is pure weakness on ur side bro. Before she called it quits she had taken her time to select a new guy...rich guy i believe. What she does not know is that money can come n go at any time, but a good man remains forever...Dust yourself, pick up the crumbs of ur life n mooove on.that is the sane thing to do now!.
Cut off all communications frm her for ur hrts sake. It may take even up to one yr but trust me u will be fine. Similar thing happened to me, mine left after 4yrs.I was set to marry her but no money yet n we agreed to wait wen it comes.She met a rich guy....something led to another n after 8mnths one of her frnds leaked it to me, as she was dating me n planning marriage with him
I took courage, got my self back in shape n now i am living better.Nobody has the key to ur life...n know this- the beautiful ones are not yet born.Complete ur studies...invest in urself...You will sure make it.
I forgot to say dis....cryyyyy plentyyyyy.it is part of the healing processs.

Thanks for the advise crying has now become my daily exercise

sbabimbola:
Brother another bane of a long term relationship, and dating age mates is what you just experienced.

I pray that the Lord will establish you so much so that you'll remember today and laugh out loud.

I can't blame her though, just move on pls.

Ameen, thank u sister

sade1994:
No wonder dem dump u.. . A shey ode ni e.. .. Bolo man
U never see anything

Hold on, did I point a gun in your head in coercing you to read my post? Just shut da mess up and get lost