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If a girl request for sex wahala, if she refused another wahala. No be human she be?

Na why I love white girls, if Dem request for sex and u want to make it a big they f**k u up, and if care is not taken Dem go shoot u for prick.

Nawao I tire for some people.

mysticgal:
In the light of the current trending Topic #horrible bosses on social media, I would love to give my take on how to spot red flags at workplaces before or during job interviews from my perspective as a Lawyer and Human capital manager.

1.Superfluous and Vague Job Descriptions: Personally,writing a job description for a job advert is usually to attract someone who can perform those duties to the best of their given abilities and qualifications. But when a job description begins to mention buzzwords like "do you get angry or upset when you lose a simple game with friends? Hated being in any other position than First position? Competed with siblings and friends on everything growing up? Good!!! we want you as our sales executive. Send In your applications to......"
Now this sounds fun and really catchy but if you look at it thoroughly,it is a pointer of a toxic workplace some of the times. As vague as the job description sounds, that is how your work roles duties are bound to become on starting the job.
You want to apply for a job with a specified job description and possibly specific SOP on resumption to work.

2. The Interview is Riddled with an Unclear picture of the Job rolea nd Work Environment : I would keep saying this, an interview is the portal to see everything you would be doing in the prospective organisation. Infact, it is called an interview because the employer and prospective employee are looking to see if they would be a great fit for the organisation.
While interviewing, ask questions about the organisation; about their work culture, their salary structure and frequency, talk about rewards, pension and hmo, and even their employee turn over rate. Dont be shy, I like bold interviewees.
It is bad enough when the hiring manager cannot even explain the responsibilities of the role to you and when finally employed, you would find yourself being the Receptionist, Accountant, Cleaner, Security guard and then the main role you were employed for, Graphic designer and God help you, you find out the employer hires and fires at will.
However,I understand the employer may not be truthful as to the turnover rate in organizational work culture. So do yourself a favour and go on LinkedIn, twitter, Facebook or Glassdoor, hunt down former amd current employees and ask for honest feedback as to the employee turnover rate and work culture.

3. The Employment contract: I have an acquaintance that gets paid her monthly salary on the third week of the next month. I mean, it was written in her employment letter and she signed on it in desperation.
I would advise that when given an offer letter and an employment contract which you should have within 2 weeks of your employment, be read thoroughly or given to a lawyer to read through and explained to you. You would be surprised the kind of clauses and words that could and would alter an original agreement without an unlearned eye noticing it.
In your employment contract, these following terms should be contained with no exception but not expansively mentioned:
a) Terms and duties of your contract, with your exact Job title in bold.
b)Remuneration and benefits
c) Work hours in bold. If there is overtime, it should be written and if its paid or unpaid, it should also be written.
d) Leave and (maternity leaves for females)
e) Probation.
f) Termination and notice, make sure it has a notice period and a right to terminate from both parties with salary in lieu of notice and other compensation benefits.
e) Anti slavery and Sexual Assault policy.

Note: your contract can be negotiated and should be negotiable. And if it helps, mention to the hiring manager your desire to give your employment contract to your lawyer to look through. It helps notify the employer of legal cover. If you know what I mean.

4.Pray to whatever you believe,that you don't get employed by a demon boss and if you have already trapped, plan your exit and run for your life!!

I didn't want this to be a boring read, please everyone can input on red flags at Job places,or job interviews and how to avoid them?

BTW, I'm a corporate lawyer with experience in Corporate practice, contracts(real estate contracts, probate administration included) and Human Resource management. My dm is open for business only. Thank you.

Hello Mr Op good evening, sorry to bother u but I would love ur take on this I'll be sharing with u.

There's this telecommunication company I applied for a work few months ago,(A SUBSIDIARY TO THE MAIN COMPANY). It happened that received a texted to come for an interview on 25th of February last month.

I went for the first interview, few days later I got a text that I was successful at the first interview and have been scheduled for another one.

On that said day of the second interview I met with the CEO, he asked me to write a shot detail of what I applied for, where I worked last, reason why I left, what I can do, reason why a fellow colleague might dislike me, my last salary and how much I would like to be paid. I wrote all that was requested of me and proceeds to be interviewed, after the whole session I left.

Few days later again I got a message that reads,:- good evening, please kindly check ur mail for an online zoom training. I check and I saw a link to join the zoom training a day after I received the email.

I joined the zoom training through the link I was sent, met some other people and few coordinators. The training was about what they are really in to and how it works, the whole session lasted for good 4 hours 30minutes, before the end I asked a question on how I'll be engaged and the tools of my work because it appears I was successfull during the whole interview session which is why they sent me a link to be part of their training, and I was told that I'll be communicated back to.

Ever since then I've not heard from them, but I do get messages from them that always refer me to check my mail, like a kind of update.

So my question is why take so long to resume work probably? And is there still hope about the job or should I just move on because it's been a month now since the first interview.

I'm worried

No man u re not cursed, it's normal except u force it.

And by forcing it might bring loads of problems to u which u re not even aware of.

So be content with what u have now, there's time for everything.

My mind is corrupt,

I thought that suck is for something else

So we should masturbate because ur phone said so

Be deceiving ur self

Ese2ehi:
Philosophers about to date ��

oh really? How so?

Munzy14:
It seems you relaxed when she said she will think about it?
If you did, that was wrong..She gave you heads on with the statement..All you needed was to give her few days, then return to know her stands..Then hear her out.

In all, a lady that likes you, won't stress you, when you woo her...But you must not relax..A real man goes for his woman..

No I didn't relaxed, it was actually my 4th approach in 6weeks, but all she kept saying to me was that she'll think about it.

Bro I've other things to worry as of then so no need to wait on the queue.

Munzy14:
Normally when a lady say she will think about it, just know you have won first leg of semi-final match in champions league..

But this your I will think about it, be like na opposite o...since 3years 3yrs pikin don dey waka na..

yeah bro, she kept me waiting all this while, though I've long moved on. Just all of a sudden she starts doing that notice me attitude.

That she'll think about it,

It's 3 years now aunty saw me and was like she no dey see me and I no dey call why?

I told her I'll think about it .

Stargurl20:
I'm not an hypocrite. Despite being a female, I do condemn my gender when they are doing something bad. Similarly men.

U only have the right to speak for ur self,

Except when u re envoled/called upon.

Stargurl20:
I'm not the one in question here. I'm speaking for all ladies out there

Oh I see you re one the likes of Linda ikeji that tells fellow women to do this and that but yet do another behind?

Ok, kwantinu.

Youto are ololololol , just passing time with one another.

Op kpekus don yabayaba because of this excuses from men.


Though it might've not been working for u, but I'm sure it works for others.

Take heart my dear

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Thanks...but don't you think sleep over sounds unusual and kinda awkward?

It doesn't, though it depends on the sentence u re making.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
This is the hotel we are going to sleep over the night?

It's wrong.
Hence there is sleep over, no need to put night again. Sleep over covers the night

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Spend the night not pass the night..

Sleep over not spend the night.

Mummy05:
you don't understand my meaning maybe you haven't got married yet

Yes u re right, I'm married.

But what if u end ur marriage because of hardship, and at the long run ur husband starts making progress at ur absence, I'm sure you would return with flimsy excuses.


Think twice before u walk out on him because of his current state.

U re SIMPly evolving to a goatie

Go for check up ASAP.

U never really talk why u want to end ur married,

It seems u skipped for worse during ur marriage vow's and only acceptted for better.

Viserion:
some women pretend a lot until they get what they want which is marriage.. I pray we meet and settle down with someone that will love and respect us all times

Yeah we all pray for a good wife, but it's not easy to come by.

[quote author=osmobil5 post=111166538][/quote]yeah man you've got a point .

IamAsiri:
All these deductions from just the account of the man? A man who thinks marriage is a bed of roses?

We all make mistakes.

Datboredberry:
God! Stop shaming people...

Nigerian men can be very boring...

It's actually something i would suggest...

My mention didn't read of shaming anyone, except u re guilty of it and ur concience playing it out.

Chill lady, is ain't a fight

Girlfriend or an upcoming porn star?

Which on re u talking about?

Even Olosho no even fit try am talk more of girlfriend.

[quote author=rwasiu post=111164554][/quote]Based on assertion then Courtship is useless. Why the need?

Downloaded In-message, created an account, opened it, wow my eyes was full.

Hit the search button, lots of beautiful girls are there both young, mid and milf .

My attention was drawn when I saw this acclaimed decent lady a guy was having serious relationship with in the next street, I was like ok make I initiate a chart first. We began to text, not after like 25 minutes she asked me my location which I told her, she was like so?

At first I didn't code, but in less than 10 seconds I don code . I was like how's it gonna be? She said it's up to u, I said ok meet me so so place in 2 hours time, but she said she doesn't have that luxury of time.

Long story short, we meet, and transact .

Ever since then I see this guy I go just dey node my head upandan in disbelief .

No be me go tell am, I'm sure he must've seen signs here and there but perhaps she has his mumu button.

Don't think she's all urs alone, don't be tricked to totally believe that, though she may appear all holy and decent, but bro be wise.