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TallNigerian:
I feel you bro and I can perfectly relate as I was exactly in your shoes.

You are strong because this phase is truly depressing. But I must tell you that you can never truly win with betting. Please block all your betting accounts and stay away from betshops. This lifestyle will impoverish you. I have been there. I didn't even narrate up to ⅛ of my experience. I will write a book on my experience and that of some people I met at GambleAlert. Forget all the adverts and hype, no one truly wins from gambling. Whether small stake or big stake, please run away. You should have been a land owner by now. I'm sure you are yet to start a family at 34. Gambling will delay your goals, you will be so carried away and before you know valuable years have gone. Please bro, I beg you in God's name, stay focused and live within your means.

Thanks brotherly for Ur sincere advice, I know I can do it because I've just done it over and over again, this time around it's going to be the end no retreat no surrender, so helpe God.

Thanks once again, I really appreciate God bless u and true u help others.

TallNigerian:
It took me 10 years and a total loss of over 21 million in naira to break free.

It's never easy to break free from any form of addiction. When you think you have abstained and are free, then something triggers a relapse.

It's a battle of the mind but you will lose many things along the way; relationships, mental health, happiness, financial stability, personal success etc. Because all the monies you are supposed to channel into productive ventures will be channeled into gambling. Chasing losses makes what is already bad even worse.

I should have migrated a long time ago, I gambled away the funds I set aside for that. I abandoned my Masters program because I couldn't fund it. Not that I didn't have the means but all I saw in my head was how to double any available funds. The dopamine was real. I started stealing from my fiancee at some point and it formed part of why my relationship broke. I am only just getting my life together after abstaining last year. It's not been easy repaying unending debts and living frugally because of past mistakes. But it's the prize that has to be paid for my lack of discretion in the past.

As for your brother, you cannot stop him, he will either realize he needs to stop or he will gamble till he becomes suicidal. I know how many times I reported myself to GambleAlert, a gambling addiction reform organization. I started therapy but relapsed thrice. Then I quit. I just woke up one day after squandering the 4m left in my account and decided ENOUGH IS ENOUGH.

If not stupidity, I have 4m at hand, I am chasing 500k or 1m. I then lose the entire 4m in the process.

Bro it's never really easy to stop once u re in to betting.

I learn a thing or few from u now, mine was I stop mid last year and was doing ok for myself, all my focus was making money without even thinking about betting, I'm a skilled worker, precisely a phone repair technician, I make close to 300k/month, and sometimes 400k, outside expenses. After expenses for family because from time to time family we call, I saved 1m+, and I set a daily target on opay to be deducting 5k each day because I want to save up to buy a land. All plans was going well until the thirt for more came back again through betting, at first it was just a bit, from there another and again to an extent I wanted to recover the ones I lost, before I could understand myself all money was gone including the ones in opay about 1.7m, this was from January till today 5th of may 2026, I felt suicidal, I became tired and weak even to go to work because of the loss, no appetite to eat well.



Just today is 6th of may, I've set another tegert on opay, I started afresh because I'm kobo less now, My point is that I think I need help because I can't keep in like this at 34.

I see money every day but I can't account for it.

dollytino4real:
Help only comes from God not US,

U re way more ignorant than I thought 🤔.


So God will come down from heaven to help his people when he has soldiers scattered all over the earth?


Do u know the reason he's called the lord of hosts? That's because he can host through anything be human, animal, spirit and literary everything he wished to show himself, so if U.S if is going to fight these infidels to stop the genocide that's because God who is the lord of hosts chooses to do it through the United states of America.

Let that sink in ur ignorant skull.💀

Even a successful smooth life without a little ruggedidity is boring..

Everything is boring without the other boy!

Stop deceiving ur self,

U already have it in mind..

If really u re that kind enough, their actions still won't make u not to do what u want to do.

Stop the clout!!

Following

If u no get the subtle message ASUU dey pass like this, u re not a real Nigerian

Wetin I know be say this regim go favour me and my family.

Iluvmycontr3:
#The earlier you learn to read and understand the better your life become

I understand Ur own is right?

Thanks 👍

Can those with clear understanding explain in details please..


Long episode isn't my thing

The only time majority of people get to see or know their governors is during election/campaign period.

The only time a president/governor needs Ur help is during those periods, after which they disappear..

It's all game for them, and the people is playing just exactly how they wanted it..

Our mumu still plenty for this country.

I know that feeling of emptiness even when u have everything, and I know what is actually missing, not ur friends or family, but ur inner most self which is the purpose of ur reality.

You literally question everything around u, and sometimes u sound insane and ask crazy questions just like this one, but I tell u it's not crazy, not at all my dear.. what u re feeling is a clerion call, a call of ur true purpose in life, it's hidden deep down in u just that u don't know it yet or u know but u have any clue of how to stir it up.. Funny part of it is that something u feel like u re not meant to be here lol, and only about percentage of people around the world feel this way..I believe u have a very huge "PURPOSE"

The emptiness u always feel is love, ur heart is longing for love, not the love of any man but the true genuine love of Christ Jesus, I know even as u re reading this it sounds crazy to u just like the question u asked, but it's all true and nothing but the truth.

He's calling out to u, his love fills everything u could ever want or imagine, just taste and see my dear...

The choice is urs..

Abeg 9ja news don tire me,

I no get strength to come dey ready episodes wey no go bring food for my table.

fragility1000:
Mumu,so ds man never live life reach?shey u wn make he use your own join hm own

Block head like u, u no even know how to read talk of understanding it.

Na u mumu pass.

The kind of BP this administration dey give person enh, if u no strong for mind u no fit survive..

R. I. P Mr odogwu nwabueze..

I fellowed it throughout.

I've been having dreams like this for years now but don't really understand it, sometimes I'll even pray against it thinking it was a set back until I came across a fellowship that gave me a deeper interpretation of it and what it means.

After which I no longer worry my self whenever see such dreams, in fact I count it joy whenever it happens.. I know it is to keep me in check and also to create consciousness in me that life is a process/stages.. More importantly, that life outside God is nothing but and illusion that trapped the real man (which is the spirit man) that makes the journey to the kingdom of God.. flesh of a man is also an illusion and not real, it is a temporal sack bag that hosts the spirit because one day the body(sack bag) will die and the spirit person continues the journey in the other side of existence..

Life entirely is the deepest mystery..

What if life is a dream and the only way to wake up is when u die?

See this werey dey do long things,

Me Na cash dey talk for me..

I don jam few girls on the street, eatery places, schoosl, bank's etc, and demanded for scx. But first, I get to talking stage, then proceed to restaurant and boom pop out the wonder question with bondle of cash on my hand, this ranges from 20k, 30k, and 50k depending on the banny.

But I must tell u that out of 10 girls, 7 agreed.

End of story no time.

You must understand that heaven is classified, so only him know the one he's talking about.

But even before now i know that the kingdom of heaven neither here or there, but is within a man. That is to say that God is in a man, though is a whole lot of mystery to be interpreted..

Nigeria government is inceptionally designed to favour one particular region..

What's another name for a Zoooooo??

IconicR:
May we never experience Obi again
Having a loser like him is a great threat to national peace.
Losing an election means war to him and his supporters.
May Obi never happen to any country iseeeee
Soludo is the only man fit to contest a presidential election from Anambra
Please don't quote me, I'm emotional about my dislike for Obi 😭

We know u, u re not real but an imposter

It is gradually becoming real that nigeria forces are becoming puppies for FG.

O u poor man were is thine hope 😒😒😒

If the money is genuine, tell the person to send it either any of these mediums.

Money gram, send waves, world remit, and western union..

With these channels, u can easily receive any amount of money in hard currency majorly in U.$.D, though the all have limits of money you'll send.

How do u go about it?? (1):- Send the person ur full names in capital latters. (2) Send the name of the country u are in.
(3) Send the city u would like to pick the money from. (4) Send ur phone number...

Example:- Name:-FRANCIS KENNETH CYRIL
Country:- NIGERIA
City:- OWERRI
Phone no, 080**585190.
That's all u need to do, but make sure u have valid I. D card, voters card or international passport. Any of these can go because sometimes bank do request for it, but I think banks now do thumb print. Also, make sure that the names u re sending to the person tally's with any of the cards u are to use in the bank else you'll find it difficult to collect ur money..

But if the money is not genuine, u better ask for account, be 100% assured I'll deliver.!!

occfx:
Probably from the same virtual... So no gain no loss... Bet is gambling and its 100% luck. Any day your luck shines, don't invest it back in the gambling... Just invest in goods, services or assets. Gambling is pure luck, enjoy it when you are lucky to win.

Just dey play

SPAMBOX7:
Same here. I tried twice didn't work. But for the third I did and never looked back. I assumed that I got robbed off all the money they took from me at gun point. That was the only way I could use to console myself and move. Cos if them rob you at gun point e no get wetin you go fit do na. The only option is to count your losses. Thank God you are still alive and move on.

That's why I always advise p people that are addicted to gambling or anything that drains them off financially to implement the method I used. Cos it works all the times and it makes you move on faster than you could ever move.

The money wey this people took from me then, I no fit give am myself. Like take are of myself with it..

Very devilish addiction.

Goddyrichie:
I’m a compulsive gambler I lost a lot of millions to d same bet9ja virtual and hv been playing it since 2015 I was 17 yrs old then but I don’t kill my self cuz nothing in this life wey fit make me take my own life never

U no nothing son, never say never.

Onuimo1:
So sad.... Gambling is not a small issue but most people don't know. It can wreck someone. Rip to him

very bad habit/demons

SPAMBOX7:
Damn.
I think that bet9ja virtual have ruined more lives and dreams than any drug would. That shit is more deadlier than anything I have seen in this life but most people don't know.

yeah u re correct, was a victim of their bondage once.. but thank God today.

occfx:
How did he get the 2m? Just curious

Just dey play..