You guys should leave patience abeg. When the opportunity is there to steal and escape wouldnt you steal?

^^so if a man wouldnt kiss you till your wedding day he automatically becomes the ideal man?

^^Why?

The next topic Godmother may open here is: ''Why Are Men So Evil?''. When we see that topic then we should all conclude that the chips eventually went down.

Godmother my dear, I wish you good luck. But don't come back here to crucify all men in existence if things go bad.

Maybe you should spray a mouth freshener on his jollof rice or eba in secret. When he eats the food, the work is done. No fuss

What if your boyfriend is refusing to touch you and says no form body contact should be involved in the relationship and actually serious about it, how would you as a lady react and think about his decision?

I think the plot by our politicians to loot Nigeria dry was perfected before the independence in 1960. These politicians knew that the colonial masters were a hindrance to their quest to control the nation's resources and enriched themselves and therefore used independence as a means to achieve it. These guys knew that they weren't ready to govern Nigeria themselves, but they still pushed ahead with the independence cos their sole aim was just to have easy and free access to the nations treasury. If actually their intention was to develop the country they would have allowed the colonial masters more time to school them more and tighten some loose bolt properly before talking about independence. That strive for independence was just a rush to kick start the ''chop I chop'' system in motion. That's what I think.

Did you just say Nairaland has contributed to the political and economic development of Nigeria?? How did it happen? pls school me.

I think kids have taken over this site.

@OP. Are you advertising Igbo beauty to the world? I hope you wouldnt be angry when men from all over the world will come and pick all your women up leaving nothing for you. Not even the grandmothers and disabled.

Is this not the Aba I visited recently. The atmosphere wasnt like the city is troubled.

so this thread is still stuck here, after I have slept, eaten, gone off for the day's activity, chilled with friends, played games and music.

kokoye am not pissed. Only that I dont cyber love inked nerd like you. So get that to your kokonut head.

Even if by chance I see you in New york and realize you are Inked nerd of nairaland. Do you think I will bother saying 'Hi' not to talk of spending 5 mins with you and then 2 months?

I dont have to bother meeting you cos I know you gonna put up a false personality to ryhme with what you post here about yourself. Think am not sensible? Coming to New york isnt an issue.

Show me the evidence that you wouldnt take my pennies. That thread wasnt the first time you asked for an evidence. Whatever you post here concerning yourself must come with an evidence.

Inked show us the evidence that you wouldnt be upset. Mrs evidence.

If you ladies show me the evidence that Nigerian men are what you accuse them of then I will show you my own evidence about what I said.

concerning the evidence. So you think I dont interact with the white peeps eeh? Because you think am a poor black naija dude who dont travel out to see the other side of the world. sorry babes.

Sorry my 'sweet' black sissies. I will defend you against foreign invaders but not on nairaland. This place is mearnt for both sexes to iron out their disatisfaction about the opposite sex so they can take note and correct the bad traits. I still love you all.

@Ebony and Inked. I REPEAT AGAIN, THERE ARE GOLD DIGGERS IN ALL RACES, BUT THE BLACKS EXHIBIT IT HIGHER THAN THE WHITES. There should be a certain point you should chicken out of an argument in order not to appear foolish.

besides I dont need to control any woman. Any lady who wants me should know what she should do to keep me in her arms. Therefore her desire to have me should be the thing controlling her.

queeneve, so because I stated a fact which you you couldnt accept now makes me a hurt and mistreated nukka? Why not keep your mouth shut rather.

Most black sisters are fake. Take it that way.

Besides I never said ALL black sisters are fake. Go and read again

Inkerd of course I know it isnt proper to generalize, but I use a language that indicates its on the higher side. I dont seperate 'girls like money' from 'most girls like money' I take them as one.

Inked there are certain statements you shouldnt make so you wouldnt fall below standard. Must I meet every white lady in the planet before I know sh1t about them? if thats the way we learn then I think everyone should be a dunce.