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@sylve. I dont understand the church and money conection. how do you mean?

Am still in the introductory phase with a new girl I met. During our discussion in the evening some days back, she said there was something that has been bothering her through out that day which she wants to ask me at that moment. That made my heart to beat heavily cos her words indicated that its a serious issue, which means if I fail to give a satisfactory answer I may lose points at that moment. But to my uttermost suprise the question she asked me was, ''which church do I attend?'' that prompted me ask her why the church I attend should bother her and she said she was just asking. I gave her my answer and still kept wondering why the church issue bothered her. Does anyone have a clue what her intentions where for taking the church question serious? Besides she is not the church type. So why bother?

Omolola maybe your cousin was yet to take his profit (toto) from the investment he made on the girl. Probably thats why it pained him so much. Say sorry to him for me ooo!!

slex:
So they have decided to make jeans to cause more confusion for the men shey? If my babe buys this i will scream @her

Nigerian girls are free to buy it. No problem. But let me see who among them will open her mouth to say men are cheating alot these days.

yang:
In my expirience, most girls who are hard to get end up being boring in a relationship.
But the easy girls i have had, are actually a whole package. . . . . . . More like a differential equation with 10 variables. That's the kind of woman i like. . . . . Easy to get, Hard to keep.
It keeps me on my toes n makes me work hard

Take a hand shake.

Religion has played a role in shaping Nigeria to what it is today. Apart from the occurence of religious conficts, how will a 100% christain Nigeria fair economicaly and politically? I already have an idea of what a 100% muslim Nigeria will seem like so there was no need asking about the senario.

Check out obj's body build. Strong man indeed.

Check out obj's body build. Strong man indeed.

Does anyone have a rough estimate of the figures? Especially that of lesbians?

yang:
Girls have always had early puberty. Many girls in my js1 class knew about sex before i did :-C

You need to go back to js 1. Is puberty all about knowing about sex?

@lovebug. It has already worked for me. Tested and proven.

Mrbrownjay I mean the dating aspect.

At least its good news to know that new bossoms and behind are coming up to replace these worn out ones we have on nairaland.

Now I want guys to take a decision on this matter cos guys do complain that girls play hard-to-get and at the same time complain when they come easily. What do you guys want these girls to do? So guys, do you want a girl to fall easily in your hands or do you prefer to sweat blood before you get a girl? Tell the girls now let them know which game to play.

^^The omnipresent 190. nairaland is incomplete without you. You are the alpha and omega of every thread. Without you threads wouldnt be moving. I adore you. All praises and honour be thy name.

Am so scared of heart breaks and never want to experience such. That initially made me stay away from a relationship at the start, but unfortunately the ''temperature'' of my body began to rise to dangerous levels. I had to cool off before I start burning off, so I came up with a plan to date someone I feel less attracted to but sufficient enuogh to support the relationship. I decided to date such a person so that when the chips are down and she cheats or any problem comes up, I wouldnt feel hurt cos afterall I never felt anything big for her. She can go if she wants to and my heart will still beat Bum-Bum-Bum (I dey kampe) as if nothing happened. The first girl I dated left, and there was no shaking. I was glad it worked.

For the girls I have strong feelings for, I only keep them as friends and when the time comes to get married, I will sit down and call their numbers one by one to know which one I will give the ring cos I realized that relationships are bonded with ropes which can cut easily and leave your heart struggling to cope with the loss, but in a marriage setting the bond is made of concrete which is harder to break and therefore less likely your heart will suffer. Thats my method to keep my heart safe.

koruji:
@Brownteeth
Well, this is where short-sighted and completely selfish and shameless leaders lead a country.

You have painted a scenario that extends from here to 2019, while you don't even know what will happen to Nigeria in January for sure.

Here is another scenario for you that is just as scary: Jonathan is disallowed from contesting or it becomes obvious that his loss is a gang-up by a section of the nation. Niger-Delta militancy reaches the point of no return. For a good example, Southern Sudan is about to secede based on the same kind of issues - believe me this is where Nigeria will head.

And another scenario - the election of Jan. 2011 becomes unusually controversial and violent, Boko Haram steps in, Niger-Delta militants steps, OPC steps, Biafra re-emerges or even worse the military thinks it see an advantage and steps in. The only question under this scenario is how many pieces of Nigeria do you want?

The best answer is to have an issue based election, and then raise a mighty campaign that forces the issue of true Federalism on whoever wins the election!

But unfortunately that answer is not on its way coming, so lets begin now to gear up for the worse.

luvola:
2nd sem exam start nov 1 - 26

Thanks

Are you guys presently in your first or second semester? And when will your current semester be ending?

Andre Uweh:
This is a very stupendous thread. Must every one start a thread about Ndigbo and 2011. Why not post this junk on the already existing 2011 threads. Some jobless freaks do not think of anything else in their miserable low souls except the Igbo.
I spit on this moronic thread. Nonsense.

Oga, its so funny that in spite of all the sh1t you vomited you failed to state exactly what was moronic in the thread.

If jonathan wins the next election that means he has destroyed the chances of the Ibos to produce the next president at the end of Yar'adua's 8 year term in 2015. When jonathan's eight year term expires, the next president do or die must  be a northerner who will also be on seat for eight years. Maybe the Ibos should support a northern candidate so that if he wins and his 8 year term expires in 2018 or whatever, they will have a better chance to ''smell'' the seat in the near future. At least that will make the Biafrans among them to become Nigerians again.

If that dosent happen, I wonder if the Ibos will ever produce a president cos no one know whether Nigeria will last for 16 years more.

Is that why we didnt hear about the contest?

Only 2 ladies have dropped something so far. Hehehe

[quote author=Inked_Nerd link=topic=511725.msg6732952#msg6732952 date=1284153085]
LMAO, whatever. Keep being lazy then.[/quote]But not just the ladies, Including the men also. Nigerians are still primitive in some areas of life. Come to my world, my views on certain issues will appear weird to the average Nigerian cos Nigerians don't adjust to situations. They will always want to do it the usual way.

[quote author=Inked_Nerd link=topic=511725.msg6732879#msg6732879 date=1284151937]Says you.[/quote]I only mentioned that there's a problem in the system concerning Nigerian ladies and their decisions. I guess the fact that you are female makes you blind to see the truth. Am just lazy to type that's why I cant give a good challenge here.

[quote author=Inked_Nerd link=topic=511725.msg6732774#msg6732774 date=1284150367]
LMAO, well then I you need to educate yourself. The world is changing. Besides, being a woman being rich and depending on a man aren't necessarily one in the same. I have a friend who comes from a very rich family yet she depends on her husband. As a matter of fact, her net worth is a lot more than her husband. She could divorce him and still be rich.[/quote]The world is changing? Is that the excuse? Yeah the world is changing, but for the worse. What I said applies to Nigerian women specifically. Your overseas counterparts have no problem cos this African thing of "a man must be rich and provide everything I need" doesn't apply to them.

[quote author=Inked_Nerd link=topic=511725.msg6732525#msg6732525 date=1284147097]
Ok, then it still goes in conjunction to that I said. It is an opinion then. In between the original post you were pointing things out as though they were facts. [/quote]What are you saying sef? What I said is 100% true. But its my opinion that women shouldnt be rich if they want to depend on a man. Take it that way. How could you be asking me of proof as if you dont know that women want to depend on men? Are you in this planet?

[quote author=Inked_Nerd link=topic=511725.msg6732358#msg6732358 date=1284145253]
Yes, there is a need to ask for proof. Without that proof this is both a generalization and an opinion.[/quote]The last statement I made in my presemtation was "Thats my own mind" didnt you see it?

Marhoski:
poster i feel you too but its a free world, what if the husband dies or gets poor, but what i cant stand is when the wife is richer than the husband

If the husband dies then the wife can inherit the business or get a work permit.

[quote author=Inked_Nerd link=topic=511725.msg6732189#msg6732189 date=1284143352]
And, how did you come to the conclusion that it is 90%? Do you have any evidence proving that? Unless you've got proof about some global study that was conducted about the percentage, this would only seem like an opinion. You knowing or meeting women like that does not make it true.[/quote]Oh please you know what am talking about. Theres no need to ask for proof.

[quote author=Inked_Nerd link=topic=511725.msg6732100#msg6732100 date=1284142470]@OP: You saying "If women think a man must prove his manliness by providing everything she needs, why cant they stop competing with men for jobs and allow men all the jobs and money to take care of them?" is a generalization of women. Not all women think like Uche Iwuji. We don't all want me to spend money on us. When I shop, I pay for things with my money. I like to provide for myself. I'm not one of those women who needs a man to give her money for things. [/quote]Sorry I had to generalize because 90% women think like Uche. No much difference.

Theres a question I asked a long time ago, but I wish to ask once again cos of uche Iwuji's comments.
The question is,
Most rich men marry poor women and take them out of poverty.
But most rich women still go ahead to search for and marry rich men and still depend on them, therefore making no use of the money they have. The money she isnt using is probably what a poor man can get to make him rich and take care of a woman and some kids.

If women think a man must prove his manliness by providing everything she needs, why cant they stop competing with men for jobs and allow men all the jobs and money to take care of them?
Whats they need of women having money when they still want to depend on a man?
In addition, some rich women dont even bother to get married, they consume all the money alone. But put a man in that position, the wealth is sure to distributed to a woman and kids.
If rich women can marry men without jobs then their wealth justified.
Thats my own mind. Feel free to state yours.