lexy2014: I no what I no and what I no is this, if u google "satan is God", u will get every literature and research on it. If u google "Jesus had a wife and kids", u will get all d info u need on it. Nice try but it doesn't move me
Hehe, but of course. That's why arguments are so pointless.
Even if God opens the windows of heaven and says it, you'll still likely go: "It's written!..."
FrancisTony: Check ALL the Marriage Laws implemented by Christ in the new testament and they are all anti-polygamy.
Lol, I was talking semantics and mainly joking.
But if you go factual, some people might dispute the very existence of Jesus and the authenticity of the writings that chronicle his life - given that they were written ages after he was supposed to have lived
lexy2014: I don't need 2 google anything. If u don't no how 2 defend what u said simply say so. I happen 2 have an animal scientist 4 a father. He practised his profeSsion by rearing all sorts of animals, dogs, rabbits, guinea pigs, mice, goats, pigeons, fish, chickens e.t.c. Which I and siblings grew up with. D sexual instinct of every male animal is 2 locate d opposite sex. Usually animals of same sex fight 4 territory not have sex. Your nat geo wild and animal planet are available 2 all. Am certain u haven't seen any case of homosexual tendencies in animals reported on those stations. So oga, go back 2 your google and cross check your facts b 4 u start misleading yourself and others. Information age ko information age ni
You don't know what you don't know....
I used to be a bigot too, but in the end reason prevailed. May reason find you too IJN .
Homosexual behaviour has been observed in more than 1,500 animal species.
5minsmadness: No google is YOUR friend bro. You didnt answer the question. We are looking for a mammalian species in which the females have more than one alpha male catering to them I gave you one, search for another
Your position that animals are monogamous is a MASSIVE faux pas on the scale of the running joke in which some girl said she preferred London to UK.
Seriously.
Scientists have three classifications of monogamy in animals: Sexual, Social and Genetic.
Of the 5,400+ known species of mammals, only less than 5% are considered SOCIALLY monogamous. Sexual monogamy, on the other hand, is almost non-existent in ALL animal species.
Female chimps for example, are known to have intercourse with multiple males in her group, so as to confuse the paternity of their babies. And if she bangs all, the males think the babies could be theirs, so they don't kill them.
The most socially monogamous animals are birds. With the percentage running upto 90%. But it stops right there...
Sexual monogamy for them, however, is another story entirely.
5minsmadness: I must have a very intelligent a$$ then Can u kindly list 5animal species where the female is polygamous ? Let me help you with one...female lemurs keep more than one mating partner for life. That's from my intelligent as$ as well. My intelligent a$$ vs your brain. Let's go.
Lol, you'll actually have a hard time finding animals that are sexually monogamous.
And women are monogamous in nature. Once attracted to one man, they can't ever be attracted to another or Even be tempted in any way to get close to another man.
Relationship nowadays really baffle me. i really need to understand what ladies want in a relationship.
You see guys taking good care of a lady with the hope of marrying the lady but you see a sharp change in the lady's behaviour and at the end the lady ends up in the hand of a guy who just used her to satisfy her sexual desire or urge.
You could remember my escapade with my proposed wife that ended up in the hand of an ex-boyfriend who came on holiday from South Africa. Not minding the fact that i have invested so much on her. Trip to Ghana and Dubai all in one year, a room and a palour self contain in Ajah and furnished to taste and some other goodies showered on her. All she could do was to open her leg and got impregnated within one months of the visit and jetisoned a relationship of 2 years.
So i came up with this question, what does ladies need in a relationship or why do they have to play down on guys who take good care of them and ended up with guys who are just using them.
I'll be brief.
To a woman's brain, men usually fall into two distinct categories: Lover & Provider.
You could be either, or both.
From your post, you were in the provider role. The provider, well, provides: comfort, security, etc for her and her offspring. And the lover, provides her with seed - children.
They don't have much say in this really. They came programmed this way.
This is why it's hard to understand why a women you've 'done the world' for will throw everything away to get fvcked by a guy who doesn't give two sh1ts about them.
Her inherited brain compels her thus: this new dude has attributes that will make your kids survive, get his seed.
mrsmith11: Very funny comments above Its either you all don't understand what am talking about or you people are ignorant and somebody was even saying I should google it....Lol
There are some of the men that act as women,they dress like women,wear women clothes,fix nails,wigs,wear leggings,use heavy make up,wear women shoe ,talk and walk like women
If you have not come across them then you wouldn't know
I made this post because I just saw one I know walked pass me with his wig and leggings going out and I just thought to myself the question I asked
Our closest cousins, on the evolutionary tree, Chimps and Bonobos, like us humans, are such monumental sluts.
A very insightful book on the subject is "Sex At Dawn: The Prehistoric Origins of Modern Sexuality".
But you don't need to read a book to know this.
Just look around you. Are our females anything close to monogamous in their behaviour?
And if you're still in doubt, take a look at a woman's reproductive hardware, it is designed/evolved for sperm competition. Yes, lots of sperm, from different men, in there - at the same time.
There's also a book called Sperm Wars: Infidelity, Sexual Conflict and Other Bedroom Battles.
hamilton62: My religion is Christianity just as you might be Buddhist.... Maybe, you left all about yourself for others but some things don't change ... Abraham the father of all nation started it by God's calling so you don't know my religion and will if you understand what i am saying... ciao
If a radical Muslim says: " convert to Islam or die", you'll scream intolerance.
Yet you have no tolerance for people whose sexual orientation differ from yours.
You are part of foreign religion that displaced yours, yet you talk of culture.
hamilton62: Hahahaha brother, We are in Nigeria where norms, culture, tradition and religions are respected... i understand where you are speaking from. ask yourself what is the mindset of the western countries to ours? do you know that they wrapped this ill act with the so called human right respect and the feds and citizens back it? What almost happened to the angels who visited lot at sodom and gomorra even at lot's protest? This is of the church to start the good rebellion from inside out and not outside in because not all buys into your religion in the west... It's a dent to nature for anyone to subscribe to homosexuality but western world are separate specimen compared to the way you think... The churches need to prove to their congregation the right steps through the bible which is the sword of the spirit according to Ephesian 6 that they may know their part and want which is needed of a true christian then justification will be upheld.
It's quite funny how you're such an advocate for Nigerian traditions, if there be such, when you have already abandoned your religion, dressing, entertainment, education - or lack thereof, etc.
Nature is replete with examples of homosexual behaviour in other animals. So you can't say it's 'unnatural'.
A few years ago, some people believed - in their heart-of-hearts - that blacks were inferior to them, and had the same station as farm animals. But the world, as a whole, thinks differently today.
deeptesting: God has answered your prayers.... I will give you a new phone on my birthday 31st of this month. Email me resilienceguy at gmail.com God Bless you.
God is real and answers our prayers,i am happy you directed your heart to God when you can no longer bear it. It is what i want Christians to do and for sure God is always there for us.
Father lord, I thank you for using your beloved son, deeptesting, to give me a mansion in Banana Island.
jaysniggs: A very intelligent reply lol. Of all problems, we shouldn't be bothered about this. I mean this shouldn't be an issue for us. I do no know about other cultures, but mine without Christianity or Islam or even Paganism does not support homosexuality. If the western world loves homosexuals and feels they should be given equal rights with normal people, then they should invite them and make them live permanently with them. The Yoruba culture doesn't support homosexuality, that I am sure of.
Yeah, but your your superior culture supported human sacrifices.
gabazin080: pls guys advice me on wat to do, am confused because am not d type dat double dates nd i find it realy difficult to move on. pls i nid advise on wat to do
charlezok: I am a 36 year old man in pretty good shape, 6'2" and good looking. I am a very affectionate and loving person, but my wife is not. I am always the one to initiate sex, hugs, kisses, or any type of physical contact. I don't understand why she's so cold to me. I love her with all my heart, but she is breaking me down. I have tried doing more of the housework, working out 5 days a week, anything I could think of to get her more interested in me but nothing works. She tells me that she loves me, but she doesn't make me feel loved at all. I want her to want to be with me without me asking her too. We have 2 kids that I am committed to being here for, so I am at a loss as to what I should do. Sorry for rambling, but a brother needs help here.
My brother, the first thing you are doing wrong is that you are essentially rewarding bad behaviour.
Psychology 101: what gets rewarded gets done.
If you keep coming to work late, does your boss try bribing you with beer to become a better employee? I think not.
Secondly, sex with your wife is not something to be negotiated. Some wise guy rightly said: "Negotiated desire leads to obligated compliance". I believe you want the fireworks version and not a chore. This is the problem with counseling and complaining and whatnot.
Furthermore, your situation is not in the least unique. What is currently happening to you is just a universal story of women using their husbands for financial security and babies. And then keeping their legs shut.
Well, because her mission is accomplished.
You haven't seen a pattern, because you haven't looked. Similar stories are all over the internet, men from different cultures and continents, but the same story.
Women are lovely to look at, but beneath their lovely exterior lies an evolutionary serpent. Cunning, machiavellian and absolutely ruthless.
Last week, I watched the South African lion-whisperer guy on NatGeo, and the narrator said something very striking...he said experts criticized the Kevin Richardson guy because the tendency was for people to think lions were nice cuddly pets...instead of vicious predators.
Women too are not nice cuddly pets.
The thing with most of us men is that we barely know what we are dealing with. On the surface, they may not know what they are doing, but their software is fully aware, forever seeking its goals and totally unforgiving.
The only language it speaks is power. And it has zero sympathy for weaknesses.
You see its hidden hand whenever a young girl, somewhere, follows a 'bad-boy', instead of the nice nerd. You see it whenever a woman upgrades to a more dominant, more successful male. You see its hand each time a wife or girlfriend wields sex as a bludgeon. You see it whenever a woman masks a child's paternity and passes it off as yours.
You see it whenever an old flame is ignited just because you found a new mate. You see it each time women are into you - just because other women are into you.
You see it whenever a woman starts hoarding her vagina because she has accomplished her mission. In the US, for example, this is the point at which she divorces you, takes your house and babies and leaves you all fvcked up.
Short, bald, fat ugly men are getting laid by their wives. You don't need to be a model to fvck your own wife man.
Marriage is supposed to be the highest union and bond she could ever form with any human being on this planet. And fvcking you is one of the least things she could possibly do for you...and she is not doing it.
And if she's not fvcking you, she is derelict in her duty to God and to the marriage institution.
You owe it to yourself to seek your pleasures and comfort in whatever other arms that give it.
Be the man you are meant to be. Speak less in bribery, but in consequences.