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chronique:
Sometimes, they end up with average looking girls cos the very pretty ones run away from them for fear of being jilted. Most handsome guys don't really date the prettiest girls cos for both of them, their looks is a curse them. They tend to form for each other and eventually don't end up with lasting relationships cos they both see themselves as too hot to bend backwards for the other. Ugly looking men usually have more confidence to approach the prettiest girls cos they have nothing to lose. A fine boy might not approach a very pretty lady cos he doesn't want his ego stroked if she says no.

On point. 100

Carlyboi:
Lol!this your hypothesis and theory is so flawed full of loopholes.In other countries some of those things tend to happen around attractive guys but guy in Nigeria and to most Nigerian girls na money be fine bobo!no dey even reason am!

Exactly!

Sweeetheart:
this is unlike Yoruba. Yoruba guys don't behave this local


imagine height of disrespectful to Chioma's and her family. with I can't wait to get you pregnant and what Friedrich Nietzsche said about women what different does it make?


you promised a lady wedding, you lured her to get pregnant, she did, to fulfil the wedding, na another child you dey use her normal pic to lobby for again



I thought Igbo have culture? culture! those two rejected Queens are still baby mamas to Flavour, so I was wrong to think there is culture to tame this height of foolishness


Davido need to register for rehab

The boy get issues. I guess he's always high.

horpigee1:
yh I don't deny the fact, its a good idea but checking of partners phone could lead to hrt attack

Yet it's necessary. Know your partner...

Ceenelly:
you are right bro, we form too much by saying is childish to check a partner phone, I do check unknown to her and when I notice any abnormal calls or chat I intelligently know how to handle it. Secondly guys should date ladies that love them more.

Exactly.

OP...Stay away from these slay mamas, forget about the fine face and big ass making you lose your mind.. The promiscuous beings are just for the highest bidders, loyalty is not in their dictionary...Abeg look for a homely girl to wife...

horpigee1:
ahahah bro. don't try to check ur partner phone, u won't beliv what ur eyes will see.

Every right thinking man should check their partner's phone once in a while.
Some girls don't care if you check it or not, they have nothing to hide... They are few tho..

MisterGrace:
What are you waiting for? Break up asap.

You too can still be fvcking her, but go out there and start to search for a decent and focused girl to marry.

Exactly my thought. He'll convert/degrade her from his fiancee to his 'olosho', simple.

themonk:
I hate when people cry about things like this. It makes it look like:

1) They are not worth it.
2) They are not strong enough emotionally to take the position.

Madam, you are a wonderful person and you deserve the best. Go and shake the governor firmly and just with a little smile. Don't put yourself in a position where people will belittle you.

Same reason Burna Boy said nobody paved way for him. Some of these celebs always feels so undeserving and unworthy of many things. Low self esteem at its peak...What if she's called to host an international event or job?? Na make she die be that o...

Don’t mind dem, most of them listen to Tope alani and come here to chat rubbish. Even Chris brown self never collect Grammy. Do you think it is easy to be nominated for Grammy. That boy is the greatest right now after Fela.

Agreed, we know he is the greatest right now but he shouldn't brag about it.

olivegirl:
This dude always feel that life should revive around him. He is very good idiots. I just imagine his relationship with his friends. A man who answered people yes sir but deep down he believed he deserved that yes sir from same person he answered yes sir. I am deleting his songs right now.

Exactly. I'm so disappointed in him either. I've been hearing that he's proud but I never believed. This write-ups just prove it.

Kemibabi:
coming from a single mother
I'm shocked
Do you think you deserve a man with such networth?

Thank you o. . That's how they deceive themselves, coming from a girl that might not have a good job or 500k in her account.

lucky4west:
i knew i was ready for marriage when one of my account had 1.4m way back and i have three other accounts couple with the fact that our estimate was not up to 2m...sharply like joke we started the prep and the rest is history.....but i must say since i got married and kids and all that...those account has stayed in the red region most times and even when they try to rise, rent,fees,car repair etc keep wiping off the green to leave the red light hahahahahahaha simply put i have never been as "comfortable" as i was before marriage....marriage is sweet because of kids, freedom frm guilt of sex etc but the bills is alarming!

That's why it's advisable to marry a wife having a job or good business, to ease the burden. Women should contribute and bring something to the table too.

If your wife ain't working, I think it's time she starts to work now.. This economy isn't smiling with anyone.

flex04:
Stop giving half story jor

That's because he's lying.

chuxjay:
Is that why you refused to be rich?

It's why I choose to be rich. Sissy man.

stanliwise:
But you have forgotten about "The Game"

Attraction isn't a choice. If you like a girl, you can get her if you understand her psychology.
If you know she is materialistic, show her money instead of spending it. If she wants marriage, flash the marriage right in her eyes before you marry her.

You're very right. Exactly! You really understand how it goes...'Flashing' does it...

Greystone:
I thought I was the only one feeling like this.

I've lost faith in dating beautiful ladies.

So many disappointments.

God will help us.

It's simple...Here is the honest truth..Money is the only language they understand these days. Some won't even agree to be just friends if you've got no dough.
Imagine one telling me to pay her house rent, I didn't, she refuse to talk to me again. Another asked me to buy foods for her sister on our first date, I didn't, she no pick phone again, and many more like that...Some will quit talking to u immediately when they notice you aren't wasting money on them.. Only for you to later see them hanging out with some G guys with cash or big men..
Even one fine Muslim girl wey dey cover head was claiming to be a virgin but at the same time looking for the highest bidder to date, I just weak
Meanwhile, spending on them don't guarantee that you'll still get them... They scam a lot too.. Learned the hard way, they don't know what 'appreciation' is coz a lot of guys r willing to spend on them. You've got to be very smart when dealing with a Naija fine gel.

One is comfortable too..House, work, car, cuteness, confidence, package dey but many beautiful gels eyes don tear pass all those ones in the recent times...

Most of them are aspiring to be like Chioma and Regina Daniels now.. And looking for men like Davido and Ned. You'll be shocked to see how these so called fine girls forming hard for boys send DMs to very rich guys and celebrities online. It's all flawed..

There is no more romance in Nigeria.

YorubaAmaka:
hmmm

being fair or yellow in complexion does not make you beautiful,
I checked you pics and I could not see anything beautiful in it,
just yellow PAWPAW" nothing much.

so don't think being fair or yellow gives you edge over BLACK BEAUTIES. BE GUIDED

if am to choose between you and a black girl, I'll choose a black complexion girl over you

BEAUTY IS IN THE EYES OF THE BEHOLDER.

See finishing

hammerU:
Marriage show be banned.


See waitin marriage cause?

Show bawo. 'Should'

What does she do? Hope no be big god thingz..

Heavensent01:
I'm not just handsome, I'm all ladies dream, so my wife to be must not only be pretty but must have a tiny face like Genevieve and Stephanie Okereke. she must carry yansh like destiny etsako

That kind of girl you describe will only go with $$$ in this part of the world o, (she'll probably marry an ugly billionaire) coz she'll have a lot of suitors, you'll still be one of her options even if you're rich. Better go for the girl that will give you rest of mind homie. Some gels are just meant for knackings o, not marrying.

And no be only be fine bobo o, I dey part of the fine boy association too. But fact remains fact.

Farki:
I'm Yoruba (mostly), and I must tell you me and Yoruba women are like oil and water. I just find them so hard to relate with at first, they seem to have this kind of proud, loud behaviour that makes them hard to talk to and most can be so rude, even the quiet ones can be rude. I find girls from the South East and South South to be easier to relate with they don't form like Yoruba women.

You are right. Eventhough I'm Yoruba, you're right about our girls...Yoruba girls can be so rude and proud..

larryking540:
Manners and attitude makes a lady beautiful
Just like the lady at my work place , beautiful and endowed but very disrespectful and disgusting ..
While the other lady not endowed has little pimples but then when she talks u want to be around her even though her English isn't strong like the other endowed lady ...

Manners and attitude makes a lady and that's wat I will teach my daughters

Apt! It's just so sad that the more beautiful or sexy they feel they are nowadays, the more the pride and bad attitude. I guess they feel like mini celebrities. How do you expect a girl to behave when she post pictures of herself on the net and hundreds of thirsty men are obsessed about her body..liking and complimenting her like she's a demigod. Different men chasing them from left to right. These hypes get into their heads.

xrayj:
The stunt is not immature at all, but a test of loyalty & sacrifice. Imagine she leaving the next morning?? That was too fast! No sort of encouragement from her. Don't men lose their job after marriage? Was that how she was going to handle it? God just saved op if the story is true.

Even if the story was fake. All the ladies supporting the lady would do the same if they had a similar experience. Now I see the reason why some guys prefer to just have babymamas and not get married. Wife is scarce nowadays.

Blu03:
if you were the woman, would you marry a broke man?
Abi you would prefer an uncertain future? I'm not defending the lady, but before love there are other factors we have to consider for our security. Humans are foremost selfish. It's our survival instinct.

What a shame. Smh

larryking540:
Hmmmmmmmmm


Yeah that's tru
The bigger the Yash the smaller the brain of many girls (female's)

Show me a girl with big Yash that thinks fast

That's because everything revolves around their bum bum. Men cause am by running after them. Woo a girl with big bum bum and she feels you owe her the world.

CAPSLOCKED:
FORGET WHAT YOU HAVE SEEN HERE. IN REALITY MOST PEOPLE NOWADAYS PRACTICE THIS LIFE.

THEY DON'T APPLY THE DO NOT PUT ALL YOUR EGGS IN A BASKET THEORY IN OTHER VENTURES. THEY DON'T RENT 2 HOUSES IN CASE ONE GETS BURNT. THEY DON'T SEND MONEY TO PEOPLE TWICE IN CASE THE FIRST ONE DOESN'T GO THROUGH. THEY DON'T REGISTER WITH TWO SCHOOLS IN CASE THEY GET RUSTICATED IN ONE. IN FACT, THEY APPLY THIS THEORY ONLY TO RELATIONSHIPS, AND YOU KNOW WHY?

MULTIPLE RELATIONSHIPS SOMETIMES COME WITH PRIVILEGES. THESE CRIMINALS DO NOT CONSIDER IT AS CHEATING TO BE WITH MORE THAN ONE PERSON BECAUSE IT IS "WISDOM" TO NOT PUT ALL EGGS IN A BASKET. THEY ARE GREEDY STUPĮD PEOPLE WHO JUST WANT TO LIVE LARGE ON MANY UNSUSPECTING PARTNERS.

HOW MANY OF THEM WOULD WANT TO BE IN AN OPEN RELATIONSHIP WHEREBY EVERYBODY IS DATING OTHER PEOPLE? NONE OF THEM. YOU KNOW WHY? THEY WANT TO BE THE ONLY ONES "ENJOYING" WHATEVER IT IS THAT IS ENJOYED WHEN ALL EGGS ARE NOT PUT IN ONE BASKET. THIS IS THE REASON WHY MANY CHEATERS FIND IT UNACCEPTABLE WHEN CHEATED ON. IF IT WERE COOL FOR ALL EGGS TO NOT BE PUT IN ONE BASKET, SHOULD BOTH PARTNERS NOT ADOPT THIS PRACTICE?
SELFISH CHEATING EVIL THIEVES.

I PITY THE CLOWNS WASTING THEIR TIME ON LOVEY DOVEY WHILE THE LOVE OF THEIR LIVES DISTRIBUTE EGGS IN ALL AVAILABLE BASKETS WHEREVER THEY GO.

Exactly. You said it all! That is Nigerian ladies for you.. If that is what these evil ladies choose to do, then everyone should be in an open relationship. No deceits...

Bad students . They did this to scare him. Maybe he's been giving them tough times..

They are all good looking but very poor. Wonder how nice they'll all look if they were more comfortable. Hustle o.

ireneidiva:
What has my gender got to do with it? Nigerian men. So its her duty? These are normal things people do in their homes. Like in the west you said. It is nobody's duty. When you do it, it is normal and not 'helping'.

So what do you want me to say now? You sounded like you were criticizing the act in your first mention now. You trolling me? Lol

ireneidiva:
Cooking what you will eat and cleaning your baby up is helping your partner? Smh

Yup. That isn't my duty but If situation on ground calls for it, How is that a bad thing? Like she's not so healthy or heavily pregnant... Are u sure that u are a female?..Was only responding to her based on what she's asking..