bojbest:




Its cool
I just got paid

You convinced me,I,paid but uptill now now show?

I actually researched before joining mutual grant,and to be candid i searched on nairaland and this particular this thread when the guy finally said he has been paid made me now pay somebody only for my money to hook there for the past 1 month-

bojbest:




Its cool
I just got paid

So should I go ahead and pay?

Please,how reliable is Mutual Grant?Is it actually paying?
I have just been paired to pay 10k,please.

She get luck, if na me i for terminate her life-

Poison him-he is a degenerate!

It high time I need to shave my privates-

lonelydora:
Ojo was a total "akum diri uban" to Nde Asaga in particular and Ohafia in general. From 1999 till date, he occupied very prominent posts in the political arena but never did anything for his LGA and his immediate community. From 1999, he was appointed Minister of Culture and Tourism, Secretary to PDP, Senior Special Advisor to the President on Legal and Constitutional matters, Minister of Transport, Minister of External Affairs and latest Nigerian Ambassador to Canada. Ojo will ask you if he got his position through your vote? Ojo left nothing to be remembered for. Thank God there is no reincarnation, I would have mobilized Nde Ohafia to pray that Ojo does not touch the soil of Ohafia again. May God comfort and console his family.

Very right my brother,we used to stone him any time he is passing my village to his own,till a time he was subtly banished from ohafia.He was technically a persona non grata in Ohafia.He also contested against the brother sometime in one election.He had a serious battle with his younger bro.,Chidia preceding the burial of their mum as touts were being hired to steal the corpse of the mum (Whom he never catered for but wanted to use the burial for money making and that was the crux of the quarrel with Dr. Chidia -,Kesandu -)every now and then from mortuary to mortuary and eventually ended in law court.He did nothing in Ohafia and his village and we actually thank God there is no reincarnation really-

Is there a way the youths can form a party that one of the criterium for joining would be that you ain't more than 60 years-

progress69:


You just made a fool of your self in your to rush and make comment for likes from your kind

Bros,the guy is right na-how has common sense become so uncommon?

I wish I can get access to this chick,I would have made sure I sleep with her even if married.She got the type of kegs I like and please who knows her should contact me-

Can I share it with my wife and how do I do it,thanks-

mgbedianya:
She lived in the USA

So living in US guarantees the kind of money this gal has-I once asked her that and got no answer,though we quarreled.

This pix is more than 6 years before she came into politics-

henryanna36:
Blessing in disguise!

So we can now have sex with thr underaged to win scholarships for them!

Very soon ,na Dasuki buy am to bribe the lady to talk to EFCC OGA-

The judges sef dey vex for Pa Buharia-

This was even planned before the orchestrated rejection,another Hausa Man.

Islamic state of Nigeria-

Another Hausa Fulani ?

Only one thing-if you want to see your wife in future old age,look at your mother-in-law!

I have the experience now but if someone had told me what am telling you now,I wouldn't have made a mistake;
As marrying her was a mistake and infecting her with me has always been my undoing- STOP SEEING HER!

Looks like a caricature-

Spiritual covering

I understand that this is nigeria and a lot of people went to various lengths to get their money. Some went diabolic. When some people move into some houses, their financial or family situations gets worse. Some people will enter a house with 2 cars but will leave with no car , no job or very bad business. Please pray very well before looking for an apartment so that you will not be interested in the destiny killing ones.


MOST IMPORTANT-

She told me she is in ABU,Kano-

Why go to another high high court in Owerri?
Why don't you try to vacate the other of the Federal court in Abuja?
And his legal team knows that you must vacate the order of the court sacking him?
Why are they scared of approaching the appeal court?
Why are they postponing the evil day?
His legal team knows what to do but are not advising him correctly -

His tax clearance,whether right or wrong has been in question and he has been removed and sacked as the governor of Abia State and the only channel that can relieve him is an appeallate court not running around high courts in Abia and Imo.And they must go there at the end of the day.They most annoying thing is that his lawyers know the right thing to do but are rigmarolling -

DevGuru:
UPDATE!!!

I must confess that Nairaland is a wonderful online community. In these trying times of mine, the only thing that has kept my head intact is the company I have here reading all comments. I would have revealed much more information about us especially for the sake of those who have expressed their doubts about the veracity of my story, but I can't, because I wouldn't want to provide some pointers for anyone on this forum who might know any of my wife's relatives or mine. Although I got several diverse opinions, all comments still depicted the kindness in the the hearts of the commenters. Even those who called me stupid for not being too hard on my wife did so because they feared I could lose my life - a high level of kindness which I appreciate a lot. Even the opinions I did not follow on this thread still served a purpose of enlarging the pool of options from which I was able to make a choice. I expect much more expressions of disappointment towards my folly (for deciding not to go for a divorce for the sake of my child, the unborn and the fact that my faith forbids me from marrying another woman if I choose not to live with her anymore).

On the morning following my last update, my wife's depression continued but I tried to act like a loving husband towards her. I could read in her face that the more I tried to be kind towards her, the greater the emotional torment she passed through because she found it hard to believe that I could forgive her. Maybe she even thought I was planning a brutal revenge, but this time, not against her alone but against her sisters. She could not imagine the extent of my actions if I was to execute her thoughts. In the evening, as we were having dinner, she started talking softly to me while looking at the food on the table. I had to tell her to speak louder because it was like she was talking to the food. Then she voiced out as tears rolled down her cheeks saying "I've informed all my siblings about our conversations that got leaked to you and they are not talking to me again". I asked her why they were not talking to her and she said they all must have been confused and I understood that to be because they did not know what my next move would be. Married adults of ages between 35 - 45 were running helter-skelter because they had just ruined their sister's marriage. Their ONLY hope was in my forgiveness. The Lord had suddenly delivered my 'enemies' into my hands and if I chose to wield my sword, they might have to relocate away from their home town because the extended family would know the shameful story that threw their last born out of marriage. I told my wife that seeing her crying for the misery of her sisters was annoying to me as it meant she was further betraying our home. Then I picked her phone on the dinning table to check whether the records were still there... lo and behold... everything was gone. Even the app itself had been uninstalled. I smiled and asked her why she cleared the calls and the app, she replied (crying further) "I just can't listen to the evil voices of myself and my sisters". I smiled again and asked "What about the app? You don't want me to ever hear anything again? She replied "No, I just wished to clear everything that could bring bring back the memory". Then I opened my laptop and navigated to a folder where I had copied all the conversations. I played one and she was shocked to hear it even louder than it was on the the phone. Her fears had just been confirmed... "Why was he pretending that he had forgiven me..." - just my own thought anyways. But truly, I had forgiven her, I was just trying to follow some wise counsel from Nairaland. She couldn't wait till the end, she left me with the food and walked to the bedroom. I slept on the living room couch that night.

The following morning, I continued to read comments on this thread and remembered I was sitting on a time bomb by keeping the whole thing to myself. I went to have my bath and told her I was going out. She was surprised because it was a public holiday. I was already on the road when I called my father that I needed to see him urgently. Luckily for me, he was at home, so I went straight to him and explained all that had happened to him while I played some 'music'. He praised me for taking the matter to him first because he knows we are all closer to mum and revealing such an issue to mum would mean an end - or at most, the beginning of the end. My dad respects my wife's parents a lot and would not like me to take them to their knees on this issue. He spoke with me at length. He said my wife was a good lady but the reason she was so vulnerable was because of her position in the family and that the sisters weren't so lucky this time. He advised me to get closer to my wife so that a natural distance could evolve between her and her sisters. He then begged me never tell my wife that I had revealed the matter to any of my family members because that would be a strong way for me to prove my love to her which she would ever live to appreciate. After all talks, he asked me to call one of my wife's sisters' husbands right in his presence because he knew they (the husbands) must have been told a 'padded' story. I first used the FCMB Mobile App on my phone to load N3,000 before making the call. At the start, he was cold with me on the phone as if a rival was trying to ask for his girlfriend's best food. Later, he admitted that he was aware of all that happened and started all those Yoruba elders' talk... how he had never raised his hand to beat his wife, how he would always walk out, how he and his wife prayed together... bla bla bla. Then I told him I was going to terminate the call and forward some files to him on Whatsapp. I simply picked two of his own wife's conversation with my wife and forwarded to him, expecting him to call back. After about 30 minutes, my Dad told me to call back. I called twice before he answered. He became cold again and couldn't say anything but that his wife would call me soon. After about 1 hour and nothing happened, I had to leave, but my dad told me to carry him along. When I got home, I walked to the bedroom and met my wife on the phone but I did not know who she was speaking with. I returned to the living room and continued reading from my myriad of advisers on this thread.

Then the call came in. It was my wife's sister's voice (not the eldest one)... begging me to forgive and try to forget. She sounded like she was outdoors under the influence of some heavy downpour. I can't express the feeling at that moment but the only thing that I remembered was Proverbs 16:7. (apologies to the wonderful Muslims on this thread...). Even though she didn't believe me, I forgave her. Then the husband collected the phone from her and spoke with me at length... apologising on behalf of the entire family. The major point he kept re-iterating was that I should not let my people know...

All the while, several other simultaneous calls were on. My wife's family members were calling one another while some also called my wife to know the extent of what I got hold of. Interestingly, the first born (who advised my wife to keep a separate account) had also been hinted and had run to their parents to open up to them. She could imagine the level of shame that was coming to her - A PhD holder who is the family's Senior Adviser on every issue. Her parents called her husband to join them immediately as he was their only front soldier who could speak to me. Suddenly, the first born's husband's call came in. He pleaded that he would not like us to revisit the ugly situation but that I was the only one that could save the entire family from the mess by forgiving everyone. He stated that he had been told everything that was done to me and he would like me to honour him and reverse my war order - this was when I confirmed that they had been speaking to my wife. He showered prayers on me while I remained aggressive in my AMEN responses (as if to let them know I was neutralising their spells on me). He promised to call my wife and warn her never to discuss her family issues again with any of her sisters. He also begged me severally never to reveal it to my people as it would mean a reversal to the beginning. Although he didn't give me the impression that my wife's parents were with him - my wife told me this later...

At night, my wife came to kneel down by my side to make her own pleading. I was very glad because the whole ambience was like the clear sky devoid of any cloudy covering after a thunderous rain. I spoke softly to her and began to re-iterate my ideals to her - it was a good preaching time for me. Now everyone (including my wife) is praying that I do not decide to spill the whole thing out one day. My wife's eldest sister later called me that night to directly tender her own apology - at a time she had confirmed I wasn't going to be hostile anymore.

For me, I believe there's so much left for me to do on my wife. For anyone who has followed the recent events of my life which could have ended in a tragedy but for God's intervention and would love to give me some helpful ideas as I move forward, kindly drop your comments. I'll be very glad to read them.

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I really don't know what to say for now but,I still insist that forgiveness shouldn't have come that easily-given the same scenario ,they will all repeat same.The gang up is worse now cause it won't be recorded.You have already known your wife's loyalty and it will never change.What you would have done with respect to forgiveness was to send her home for sometime let them beg from there before you forgive so that the enormity of the action would be felt.But in as much as you allowed it to lie low,same will repeat or will happen again or has already started without your notice.

Forgiving,does it stop your mum from being a witch in their eye?
Does it replace your lost scrotum?
Does it stop your mum from changing her opinions about you as a wife beater?
Does it change anything?

The fact remains that you have already exhibited before now your weakness as a (wo)man to your wife.She knows how to manipulate you cause she knows you are weak and the family knows that you are insecure(you just proved that).You needed to assert your control on your home by taking a more drastic measure and put fear in the family and siblings not physically anyway but by resolving the issue head on.

You did well by forgiving which you ought to have done afterall but you went the wrong way,don't you have siblings and are you not a man to take some drastic decisions when you are expected as a man?You just make a grave mistake that will haunt you in time to come,mark my words-

But come o look at it,a person that wins a court case should be rejoicing-but from what I see there's absolutely nobody that is happy in all these pictures,even the man that is hosting them-prove me wrong?

Can this be real?

pedrilo:
Funny country!
One judge is removing u as governor and another judge of coordinate jurisdiction is affirming you to be governor!
I was explaining this issue to one guy on nairaland the other day but he kept arguing with me.
You can not pass a judgement bordering on forgery of documents "IF" the said document can be verified by/with the issuing body,
But in this case, NO VERIFICATION of the said tax clearance was carried out b4 Okon Abang passed his judgment.
He is a lazy, bias, corrupt and bad judge.

Ogar did not sue for forgery-

The lady in picture Nwanyi Afikpo-