₦airaland Forum

Baadal:
very clean Gionee P5W for sale with crack at the bottom of d screen but still works perfectly....selling for only 18k...call/whatsapp if interested

15k bro?

lexiconkabir:
Then you have to be taking comb about like me and do not keep touching the beards cuz it will get rough and stay that way which is why you need comb with you.

The comb in my wallet is more constant than the constants in integration

lexiconkabir:
It makes your beard shiny and neat, other brothers say it makes their beards soft but I personally have a stubborn kind of hair all over my body, it is a "takoko-ing" things I.e tangling kind of hair which makes curly pattern that can't be scattered, so in my case it doesn't make my beard soft.

I do have that kind of hair too

lexiconkabir:
Just as how you apply hair cream...

Was alaykum salaam.

what does it work for? Jazaakallahu khayr

Ama trained tisa

Ujoan:
So he should wait till his wife dies before he start taking care of his child?

No one said he shouldn't take care of the child

Ujoan:
So what if (God forbid ) the wife dies during childbirth? Is the baby doomed to complete lack of parental care?

But the wife is not dead yet

Note: I'm not saying the husband can't feed, bath and cloth the baby. This act promotes love in the Union BUT it is the wife's duty..... We shouldn't Westernize everything that comes in our way please

Ujoan:
That's why he needs to learn how to do it before taking up the responsibility. No woman was born with such Knowledge, we all had to learn it too. I don't see why men shouldn't as well.

Nigerian men think it's beneath them to attend antenatal with their wives or reserch on how to take care of babies. Meanwhile these are things every father should know ordinarily.

Take this man for instance, he only started learning how to bathe, feed, cloth, etc the baby when his wife'said maternity leave was due. But he had 9 months of pregnancy to research and 3months of maternity to practice. Yet he chose not to until the last minute. Now he's doing things wrongly and if something happens to the baby, people will blame the wife for passing her 'responsibility' to the man.

Come to think of it, isn't the woman working to support the family too? Why should she then have to bear the responsibility of childcare alone?

It just doesn't sound fair!

The husband can only assist but not taking the sole responsibility of child caring entirely. Likewise the wife too, it's not her duty to assist the hubby financial. It is her money, she can assist her hubby financially (which is commendable) but it's not her responsibility to do so. Just like nobody can say it's the wife duty to provide for the family financially. Child upbringing is not about just showering the baby with money but the motherly care. The husband and the wife have different role to play entirely. We were even taught this in Social Studies back in those days

rokiatu:
looking after the child is not only the wife responsibility.

The responsibilities are done in different ways. Not to the point of the father taking his infant child to his place of work when the child needed the mother most. Just like it is in the picture, a mother can't feed her daughter in such posture. They both have the child, it is their responsibilities but the responsibilities would be carried out in different ways...

mayorkyzo:
740million and more on the way..lets say a billion in today...and by law all land belongs to the government..in this lawless nigeria we live in the government might have decided not to pay..and also were they driven out of their houses or the government is paying for Virgin land?

The lands acquired are usually used for farming, fishing etc. And it affects not just one community but about 10 communities

All these self acclaimed MSSN leaders that are no more students but still claiming MSSN are the problem of the Muslim students and islam on campuses.... I don't need anyone to tell me that all what the DSA wrote were pure lies. May Allah break their back if they, the MSSN agbayas don't desist from their devilish acts.. Front page please.....

This kind of message infuriates me a lot . Though I do advise/admonish whoever send such message to me. Muslims need sound understanding of the Deen... Allah's Aid is sought!

This is a very very old news. This happened over seven years ago. Nigerians and old news

As salaamu alaykum,I don't know of any around ijegun/ikotun. There's one at cele ijesha. It do comes up every Monday and Tuesday. I think Ikotun should be close to Sheikh abd Majeed Eleha mosque (daaru na'eem)

Need to commend lexiconkabir and contact17 for the great job you both are doing in this section, جزاكم الله خيرا

lexiconkabir:
I got it!

Says who?

lexiconkabir:
Ah! Missed again?!! Okay, Eko, lagos ?

I won't say anything .... I comment my reserved

lexiconkabir:
Oh! Thought you from Ilorin, then i guess its ogun state... Cuz that's another jalabi arena

you are not good at guessing.. I ' pity' your (future) wife

It seems the OP doesn't live in Nigeria

lexiconkabir:
Have you noticed that awòn óní jàlábì are common in Ilorin more than any other place in Nigeria?

I don't know about Illorin and I have not gone there before

Contact17:
Do Alfa have types?
The article focuses more on the intention of going to see Alfas "làtí ló wòsé" .

yeah, alfa has types

The Op just generalised everything.. There are different kinds of Alfa... Even the scholars among ahlus sunnah (in Nigeria) here also referred to as Alfa. What the op typed up there is a typical Jalabi Alfa. You shouldn't have generalised

Nice piece @ lexiconkabir.. 100000000likes

Contact17:
“And whosoever fears Allaah and keeps his duty to Him, He will make a way for him to get out (from every difficulty).3. And He will provide him from (sources) he never could imagine” [al-Talaaq 65:2-3].

one of my best aayah

Surah Al-Mujadila, Verse 7:
أَلَمْ تَرَ أَنَّ اللَّهَ يَعْلَمُ مَا فِي السَّمَاوَاتِ وَمَا فِي الْأَرْضِ مَا يَكُونُ مِن نَّجْوَىٰ ثَلَاثَةٍ إِلَّا هُوَ رَابِعُهُمْ وَلَا خَمْسَةٍ إِلَّا هُوَ سَادِسُهُمْ وَلَا أَدْنَىٰ مِن ذَٰلِكَ وَلَا أَكْثَرَ إِلَّا هُوَ مَعَهُمْ أَيْنَ مَا كَانُوا ثُمَّ يُنَبِّئُهُم بِمَا عَمِلُوا يَوْمَ الْقِيَامَةِ إِنَّ اللَّهَ بِكُلِّ شَيْءٍ عَلِيمٌ

Have you not seen that Allah knows whatsoever is in the heavens and whatsoever is on the earth? There is no Najwa (secret counsel) of three, but He is their fourth (with His Knowledge, while He Himself is over the Throne, over the seventh heaven), nor of five but He is their sixth (with His Knowledge), not of less than that or more, but He is with them (with His Knowledge) wheresoever they may be; and afterwards on the Day of Resurrection, He will inform them of what they did. Verily, Allah is the All-Knower of everything.
Note: this verse does not depicts that Allah is everywhere but He is with them with His knowledge. He knows everything.
Some people use this verse to say that Allah is everywhere. Allah is not everywhere but on His throne. He is with the slaves with His knowledge.. May Allah grant us guidance

Their offence is grievous. There are more to this story than this. They both have skeletons in their cupboard

captaing59:
yes i have heard of him and even attended his alqah once in ede. I would appreciate your assistance

I'm not able to reply your pm since. Keep getting error message

Contact17:
I ask Allah to make the sisters' situation easy for her and everyone else going through similar trials. I always feel that situations like this are tests and Allah never burdens a soul more than it can carry.

aameen. Indeed they are tests. She has not even started using khimar and all these is happening. He threatens to curse her if she dares use a full hijab. Allahu musta'an
Situations like this are usually tougher for sisters than brothers

Why I my still single Even though I have a job, still needs Allah's rahmah.

A sister is currently going through this. Her father hates her because she decided to start using the hijab, he even told her to count herself out his children he has.. And she's really going through tough time now. May Allah assist her..
This do actually happens to most children that depends on their parents for living because the parents knew he/she can't do without their assistance. A brother told me that a parent once threatens his child (in the university) that she would stop paying his school fees if he continue with his Nisfu sak.
One of the solution i can proffer is that children should always exhibit good character, morals and attitudes at home and towards their parents.

adebayor1490:
And what is that man up there saying??

I'm confused too