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krestup:
In as much as entrepreneurship is good but not everybody are born to be business owners...

Not every body are born to be slave to employers.

All the messages just to retain your job. There is more to life than your job jare. You should have time to relax, socialise, exercise and go on vacations.

Nigerians put too many emphasis on jobs and yet nothing meaningful comes out... We are still 90% dependent on the white who work for less hours.


The sure way of retaining your job is by getting your own job. Gbam.

Buhari... Charity begins at home. Your country is on fire. Face your country and leave Sudan alone.

just2okworld:
If she loves you
She ought to love whatever makes you happy


As you neither womanize nor drink nor party nor smoke sef

Hmmmm... is there a guy that doesn't womanize? I party jare.. I take beer but don't smoke.

I be witch when I nor go do @ least one.

okesgift:
Bottom line is you are not worth it. Ur gf shod know by now cos u are being immature abt dis whole tin. Imagine breaking off a relationship ova football,tell her to go look for some1 with a mature mind cos its clear that u are not a husband material!!!
And u neva loved her from the very begining and with all the comments flying around it really confirms how shallow minded people are!!!

What are you saying? Do you think am an ass licking guy like you that worship women and take their poo.

Women respect guyz with clear boundaries that don't tolerate rubbish.

Xeinstra1:
Leave the chick, Humans who don't watch Football can't be trusted.

Ohhhh my God... so this is coming from a girl... Jeezz.

I love you... I like your kind.

Valprof:
living in bondage

That man is living in a cage in his own house.

just2okworld:
One thing I know is this

Watching football amidst your friends is always more interesting, just make her understand her


BTW why is she so clingy na?

Babe I don't know ooo...

Kanyekels:
I really don't understand some women's disdain for watching football. While we were growing up, my mum did all she could to stop me from watching football in the early 2000's but nothing stopped me... And now that I'm now a grown up, someone else will try to stop me from watching the beautiful game? God forbid.

Women enmity with football emmm... I don't really understand. it's Niga mentality shall because when I watch international football, you have more women as supporters.

freecocoa:
Lol, no mind me jare, I been just vex as I read the write up.

My love for footie can't be quantified and seriously your babe (just like a gazillion others) need to understand how important the sport is, it's really annoying that attitude of hers.

Plus, she's too needy, try and get her to work on it.

Chop Nuko...

Na correct babe you be... she is still angry till now. I will meet her tomorrow let's defined our stand to respect each other boundaries.

Thanks jare... Na man born you.

freecocoa:
OP fvck your babe, she's not ready for a relationship.

How dare she try and come between a man and football, like she well so?

Football is life my nigga, don't let no one tell you otherwise.

You get mouth oooo

surprised a girl is saying this.. u are a correct babe.

... she is just acting possessive.

sade1994:
Seriously I enjoyed reading this story. ..

You enjoyed reading the story... how?

Have you been in such before? What did you enjoyed about it?

harsysky:
On behalf of Lalasticlala, look for what she loves and tell her to quit doing it. Whether it is TELMUNDO, fashion tv , whatever. Try to make her see how her feelings to what she loves correlate to your feelings to your sports too. Anything for my woman is my priority, especially something that won't kill/ remove money from my pocket if I stop it

Hmmm.

PA

MrImole:
Yes, you are right, she looks at me in a certain way anytime she wants something, the looks always make me feel weak and I seriously need the antidote.


I repeat, females are evils.

hmmm


Pathetic

alfredbisong:
my gf tried to stop me frm watchng futbal n i ask her to choose btween watchng futbal n chassng girls/women since then she allow me to b enjoyng my game,since den she has bn encouragng me to watch d game,giu ur gf an option to choose betwn watchng futbal n chassing woman let her choose

This is a nice tips ooooo.


I will try it

MrImole:
Mine didn't let me watch it too, she pretended to be sick, she slept on my chest till they finished the match.


Ladies are evils!

That your babe get your medicine I swear...

mysteryman2014:
Fake story

Everyone is not as fake as you.




What will I gained in faking the story?

fairygeh:
Your gf is silly( I am sorry to say that) what's her problem with you not watching football,abi after watching the football,didnt you go back to meet her at home.


Her own is too much now,kilode.she sounds possessive and the stubborn type, by the time girls wey no mind your football addiction snatch u from her,her eye go clear.nonsense.

I am not a football person myself but if my man is crazy about it,the worse I can do is to leave the room and allow him.

Afterall,he won't watch the ball forever.he go still carry his head come meet me after the ball to play the real ball in which,there will be no referee

I swear you are very funny... I just like your kind of person and the way you reason. A guy can hardly get tired of your type jare...

I told myself never to call or apologise that I won't happen again when I know it will definitely going to happen.

A woman can't cage my life because of what they called "Love".

V0lv0:
Both of you are childish.

You should have told her straight that you wanted to watch a match instead of lying to her.

Honestly soccer is something you love and she should understand that. If its something she cannot understand then its better you both go your own way before you start to hate and resent each other. She also seems very clingy. She should perhaps find a hobby or something to do during the times you watch soccer to keep herself entertained.

However there should be a balance. Hope you not the type of guy who watches soccer everyday and gives no attention to her because women also needs attention and she may feel that you love soccer more than her.

Both of you should try and come to an understanding and agreement but if you can't then....

thanks for your comments.

There is a reason I brought up that pranks. I said it to prevent her from coming but she turned it the other way I never imagined.

Once I tell call her to let her know I won't be around because of a match. If she isn't at work, that's when she will come let's make love. So I stopped telling her.

halfricanadian:
I dont depend on a guy for nything

Sound strange...



Hope you aren't a lesb...

halfricanadian:
Am nt possesive see av been taught a lesson never to depend on a guy for money or love

A guy dat will stay will stay d one dat will leave will leave.

Hmmmm

You sounded like me that ve gone through thorough emotional trauma.

So what do you depend on a guy for if not love, money and sex.

saintdennis:
Gotv aired the match.

Eyyaaa. I didn't bother to checked. I really wanted to watch it with friends. So you can do those crazy talks and argument.


Watching football alone is boring jare... it's like one person in a party.

ogorwyne:
Why will she want to stop you from what you love when it is not stealing or crime? Try and apologize sha. I just think she is over reacting and its annoying. I love dancing, is it rght for my boyfriend to ask me not to dance again simply because dancing is not his thing? When its not dirty dancing? Please talk to her o. She is being possessive. Am in a relationship with a man that loves soccer. He can never miss a chelsea game except its something that has to do with life. I had to start watching soccer with him. I love seeing him in those crazy moments, till I started going crazy myself.

Woooo... this is lovely. Only fit she can understand. I ve tried taking her to viewing centres so we watch together but it all ended up with quarrels and complains so I stopped .

The moment I get someone I admire like her and that can flow with me in football or even encourage me never to miss a particular match. I will start losing interest in her from that day.

She told me guyz that are too crazy about football are gamblers. Imagine that

halfricanadian:
Eaxctly aint scared of loosing any guy too

Are you sure? Ladies are very possessive in nature.

Lalasticlala... how far... what will you do?

smilinseun:
Haha reminds me of the time when I went to a girl 's place on a Saturday... I mean a girl that I really liked but Chelsea was playing.
Omo I dropped my phone at her place and asked her if there was any viewing Centre around... Chelsea lost, I didn't get the girl but I would do that over again

My fellow Chelsea fan... how far now?


Babes will want to control our lives... how can they tell us to stop doing what we started as kid.

When you watched foreign matches, you even see more of babes. Our Nigerian babes see football as horror movie. How do we change this mentality?

halfricanadian:
I agree with 100%

You don't know my woman. I know her very well. Sometimes you have to play pranks to your woman, then when it fails you tell her the truth so both of you face the reality. I told her so she can changed her mind from coming but since she didn't, I had to spill the bitter truth.


The fact am not scared to loss a woman doesn't mean I don't love her. If a woman want to exercise control over me, l shouldn't correct it because of love abi... love can't make me eat Shit.

I don't think marriage is all about love. Love is overrated that's the reason couples can say I love you today and divorce tomorrow.

Relationship should be based on compatibility and understanding. If we aren't compactible and can't understand our needs and desire, then we should go separate ways.

joceey:
Guy you can't marry football or can you ?you better forget football for now and embrace your woman.....

I can't become a remote control to a woman. I wasn't brought up that way. I quit playing games because of her, then I should quit football because of her. God forbid bad thing... I am not a slave to a woman neither am I desperately in need of a woman for dating.

If I can't take my stand now as a man, when will I? When we are married or when we start having children. It will better she knows what I desire now.

mizzbouqui:
Actually she can't change you from being who you are, she will endure if she loves you there are somethings one do for love but let her know its not that you are choosing the game over her that its just one of the things that makes you happy

Sound brilliant. Thanks for this suggestion.


I just pray she doesn't insist on me quitting sports. I will better quit the relationship.

I will call her later so we can talk about it.

discoprophet:
Hahahahaha.. Smh. Wetin we do these wicked people nor?

Girls, wetin come be una own, ehhn?

Boss I don't understand oooo. Women are taking it too far nowadays. When I was growing up, my mum didn't tell me to stop watching football, a girl am dating now is telling to stop or I forget about it.

See threat... she wants to turn me to mumu before my friends. so when they are discussing football, I go mute.

Is there still need to apologise on this?

debonairprinx:
You don't conform someone to become what you want, you accept and tolerate him for who he his. Then probably influence. The approach is wrong, forcing you to just drop something you like. Talk to her to strike a balance, and if she still acts sturborn, drop her so fast and hard she breaks the floor.
She's not respecting your views and desires in this case.

Guy you nor get mercy at all... I should drop her so fast and hard that she breaks the floor. abeg ooo... I nor want hurt someone daughter. I am trying to be diplomatic in the situation. I don't want to take harsh decisions. I'm still finding it difficult how will a woman am dating tell me to stop watching football. That means when we are married, she will tell me not to walk my friends away from my compound.

I won't yield to her request anyway.

doctorkush:
oh bro... just try to take her to watch the game with you someday, not in just a regular viewing centre but probably a bar and just get ready your bank account by buying her from the shawarma to asun and the gala and try tease her into guessing players. that way you can tame her into watching the game with you but at your account peril and try not to get carried away in the game and show her you still aware of her presence. soon you start reducing the chops and co till she become a die hard barcelona fan like my fiance.

Hmmmm


This sound interesting anyway... just that she hate football games. she might even decide not to go there fit anything like ball exist there.

Even if it will work.. it should me a Chelsea fan...