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I didn't work up to one month before running from the place. It's modern day slavery job.

Fayose is Buhari biggest Nightmare and now Ashia is among now...



I so respect this man for his confidence and boldness. The only westerners that isn't a coward.

refiner:
Nice point...

dont forget to vote me sir please

If I don't vote you... who will I then vote.


You got it dear. Love your height.

All these are stories.

Even if you apply for volunteers jobs, you won't get response.



Jobs is via heavenly and human influence.

That is what happened when a girl has only sex to offered in a relationship...



If she has more to offer, he won't treat her that way.

iLegend:
Been busy with other things. When I get some free time I will.

Oboyy u wan cast me ooo... Today na the deal day oooo...


Show some love brother... make I wear my bad guy cap to her place today.

iLegend:
ANSWER

1. Accusation:
Accuse her of ignoring you before she accuses you. Whoever accuses first got the power even when you're wrong. Learn to accuse first. The first accusation is always considered the real deal.

2. Ask a fun and naughty question.
3. Go blank on her again.

Eg. 1. Too bad! You just ignored me. Hmm! There's God o! I just became a soldier. Now you can look for sexual troubles and I'll always fight for you, but if you accidentally kill person u dey on your own o! What are you doing? And what are you wearing?

Eg. 2. So, na so u go carry become my friend? U no try at all. No msg, no call. Hmm! What are friends for?
(With this message she can't put you in her friend zone, cuz you've already considered her as a friend. You have the power to turn the hands of time to any type of clock you want).

Check my new post on 'Pickup Lines', though I don't like using pickup lines, but I just have to share them. They're useful.

Keep safe.

Boss hw far now. Come to my question now. You just born me like Buhari. Kilo de?

davibid:
My brother this country don tire me, I swear!!!

Go and read your books. Stop making noise.

Even the free jobs is not available now. You now need connections to get the free jobs.



Instead of using the connection to get that free job, won't I use it to get a paid job.

I should work for free after school when I ve lots of bills to pay. If you don't have who is supporting you or a reserve of income, you will get frustrated one day.

Motivation is what makes you keep smiling when doing a job. Motivation often comes with incentives.


The problem is that there is no jobs baba. The people conducting the interview were trained by the company yrs back when they got the job.

Dress code is overrated.


Your dress doesn't give you the Job. Your connections and brain give you the naughty job.




Why must it be a suit? What If I don't ve a suit. Nigerians copying white man since 1900. We haven't gained full independence. The white still controls our thought and mind.

Nigeria is a confused nation I swear. The ministers and NUC is a big shame to education sector. What is screening and what is post UME. How are they different? I see this present administration is just confused in every sector.

You don't tell universities how to admit their student. Post UME is for the bright ones that are from humble background. That is the only way their admission is sure. I see no reason scrapping it.

The universities too is getting beyond their boundaries. The fees charge for conducting this exercise is just too high. How will post ume form be higher than Jamb form? That is very wrong. They re just exploiting parents and students. I suggest NUC give a benchmark for the screening form not having a double mouth on Post UME. It shouldn't be more than 2k.

Corruption everywhere in Nigeria.

iLegend:
ANSWER.

Sowie Butanep, for the late reply. I was preoccupied with lots of things. Even if it's late, lemme give you an answer incase of next time.

1. we had misunderstanding which separated us for about 3months
Misunderstanding with women (anger) is the second BEST emotion you can EVER press on a woman. It's a sign of a bad boy and they love it, as long as there'll be reconciliation at the end; there'll be a steamy love session at the end of the tunnel no matter what is in-between. Women love rebels. It's their job to tame the rebel.

2. I decided to patch up things with her which took about one week
As long as you patch up things with her with a bad boy mindset you're in good shape, but if you act like a super nice guy during the reconciliation you'll get yourself into a bigger dilemma. Be good during reconciliation, but not nice. It's better to use Sexuality+Misinterpretation+Humor to reconcile with women than the typical 'I'm sorry'. If you're a nice guy, using 'I'm sorry' will make you appear weak, but as a bad boy it'll make you appear sexy, cuz they can't believe you could apologize. Bad boys have a little arrogance (or too much confidence) in them, so they hardly apologize, but when they do; everyone smiles. It's like achieving a feat by letting their egos down.

3. She later told me she is with someone but she will accept me
Don't worry about being with someone else. Na wash, even if it's true, the guy is probably a nice guy and she'll dump him soon after using his money. Things like this shouldn't bother you. And you never bring the boyfriend or girlfriend topic again in your conversations. If she brings it; change the topic with something more interesting. If you have a bad boy mindset and attitude towards women she'll soon be back; she can't help it. Telling you she's with someone else is a trick to raise her value. We love something we can't get easily. Now, your conscious brain/mind sees her as unavailable. People love what's unavailable, cuz it has value. If it had no value it would've been littered everywhere. Scarcity increases demand. Economics 101.

4. That she won't break up with him yet. I decided to play along but no sex during that period because of distance
Now I know she's not in a particular relationship; she's messing around with other guys, cuz she wants to hurt you back. Women revenge more than guys. They must succeed before they forgive; it's there nature. She's only using I'm in a relationship for confidence boosting. Some women see being single as being rejected. Only strong women can be single and happy, the rest can't be single and happy, so they resort to lies to feel good, but at night they're all alone or with a nice they can't wait to get ride of. Because there's no bad guy coming her way she stays with the nice guy till a baddo comes along. And she'll drop the nice guy like it's hot.

5. I slept with other girls but still missing her
When Emotional button is involve you'd always miss a girl and she's miss you more than you miss her. Any man who presses a woman's emotion with misunderstanding is a winner as long as you're the 'I don't give a fúck type' she'll be the one to give a fúck even when she says she doesn't. No mind am na wash. She gives 101% fúck. It's just the anger in her at that moment. Anger can make you do crazy things. Good you were busy with something else, but remember, she too was busy with other boys. If you ask her she'll say it's only one boy. So, don't ever ask. You're missing her not because you love her that much, but because you guys pressed each other's emotional mumu buttons. It's crazy when you press the button in a negative way it gives positive results at the end, but if press it in a positive way (by being nice and buying everything), it gives negative results.

6. During the period she told me to be calling her everyday but I didn't just want couple with certain things.
Wow! Thank God you didn't. You would've lost the remaining charms in you. Only a desperate guy does that. Though, a bad boy can do it and get aways with it, but not a nice guy. If a nice guy does it he's in a very big trouble. Women have a pattern and it's against their patterns. Calling everyday is pure neediness and desperation. Allow girls to miss you. Give them the gift if missing you. It's a game. Don't ever be a victim. Good job Butanep.

7. Few months later we had another misunderstanding
GOOD! I love it. Pressing her emotional button deeper and deeper. Guy, you better be careful, this girl is already (or will soon be) DEEPLY in love with you. Just make sure the love is not as strong as Stephen Keshi and his wife. Infact, this girl is officially addicted to you. What's left is to press her comical and sexual buttons so firmly.

8. This time she really hurts me by her words of mouth and I decided to hurt her too
If I were in your shoes, I wouldn't hurt her. I'd have ignored her and said, "everything you say against me is right, even when they're all lies. We all have angers, but I've learned to control mine. If you need a therapist to help you out, please lemme know, I'm busy with my life and I have an appointment today. C'ya kisses", then log off or end the call. This alone will frustrate her life and she'll be sleepless and helpless. She'll try her best to air all her angers, but I won't pick, neither will I read her messages. When they come I delete without reading them. Sometimes it's good to nip her squarely and put her on her seat. Be the leader, to avoid being led astray. Cool anyways.

9. I even send the pic of the recent girl of was dating to her. She was really hurt. I was just pushed to the wall.
You went too far. Anyways, it's anger vs anger. Sometimes it's good to pour your heart out, but other times don't. If she hurts you to your bone, then pinch her heart a little; that's where it hurts the most for women. But, do you know your actions has amplified the love she has for you? It's called 'drama' and you gave it to her the way she wanted it. This is very illogical, but it works. Some men are scared of dramas, but women crave it. It's a love amplifier. It makes you irresistible and makes you look like a no nonsense man. You ain't no apologetic nice guy.

10. After about 4 months... I began to miss her again. it's like she uses charm on me.
No, there's no charm involved. When there's drama, love automatically goes up. Feelings increase. It's just the same way controversial people get more popular, more haters, more lovers, more money and more everything. Dramatic relationship grows better with nasty dramas. Reconciliation is the time you'll reap the fruit of your drama. Everyone will respect their boundaries when you finally reconcile. Drama makes you miss someone. People are missing the controversial side of Jim Iyke now he isn't as controversial as before; that's the effects you're going through. Don't be deceived. The moment you get her back and bang her for 1 week your eyes will clear. It's infatuation of a distance. Not love in Tokyo.

11. I decided to test her. I called her I am in need of cash worth of 10k. That I was stranded where I travelled to

I do this a lot, even when I don't need the money. I use it to gauge her interest level and how pissed she still is at the moment. It's a good way to reconciliation. It's like using the backdoor to her heart.
Good job.

12. She spoke nicely as if nothing happened between us. She told me she has only 8k but will run around to get 2k to complete the 10k.
Of course, she's happy. She has been meaning to call or text you, but her ego didn't let her do it. She wants reconciliation, but she doesn't no how to apologize. Please don't apologize for what you didn't cause. Use this medium and invite her. Don't ever bring the topic of ex in your discussions or the drama you had.

13. I told her I might not be paying her back soon. She said I should take my time to return the money. I was just speeches.
You're very wicked #wink. She fúcking loves you. That's all I can say. No need to be MJ at this time. You're reaping the benefits of the dramas (movies) you shot with her some months ago. Women respect guys that don't take sh!t from them and you showed it, so you passed her test and she can do anything to make you happy. Your type of man is hard to find, and to worsen the case we have more women in this world than men. Men should count themselves lucky for being a man. You got the key and you can insert it in a any car you want. They (women) got the car, but without our keys they can't drive it. So don't give your key away because of love. Reread the highlighted 5 times and let it sink in your fúcking brain.

14. She was saying it with a happy mood and even said thank you
Haha! That's the effect of pressing a woman's emotional button with a nasty drama. They can't help it. It's like a jazz or magic to them. They can't help it, but become loyal and humble at the end.

15. She was surprised because she knows I don't ask her money and I do have money.
That's why it's called a test. If she had know it, it wouldn't have been a test any longer.

16. She credited me the money in less than 2hrs. I was shocked.
If only you saw how happily she was rushing to the bank. I think I saw her. She was putting on a red undies and black tight. She's all yours. Bad guy. Na another person pikin u dey surfer like this, abi? I go tell her parents. Wicked boy. #wink.

Op 17. I want you to read the actions to me and give me possible ways to try and get her back even if she is with another guy. I just miss her..
Now, you're asking for solutions. It's very expensive or I'd rather say cheap Mr. Butanep.

18. I will appreciate your reply... I need something that can turn her heart around that I have changed.
You're beginning to show some desperations and neediness. Be carful and watch your utterances, else you'll start acting like a nice guy and you'll finally lose her. Right now, she's still yours. Believe that.

After diagnosing your problems and mistakes.

SOLUTIONS

Sorry, my solutions are expensive.
I can only diagnose your problems. I charge for solutions (that's how I earn a living). The country is tough and this is my relationship hospital.

It'll cost you $100 for coaching, but because of the situation of the country I've reduced it to $50. I'll tell you how the female brain works and how to solve your problems and never go back to it in the future. If you don't know the solutions to your sickness you'll never get cured. If you want her back so badly, then you should spend any amount so happily to get what you want.

Keep Safe

—iLegend.

Wow. I am really amazed. Thanks for taking out time to reply my message bit by bit. You are really a nigga in the game. You read the actions and drama completely. I really do appreciate.

Boss that $50 is not that much shall but I don't have it this period. Buhari has block some of my source of income jare. Na mange we dae. Didn't you see I called my ex for 10k. The condition nor be small but he go better. Reduce the money, na wee wee oooo.


Now this is the next phase of it. I called her let's see but she refused coming down to my place. I insisted but she resisted severally. She said if I really want to see her, I should come to her station which is about 1hr 30min. After much talk, I told her I will come to visit in a week time but will call her before then. She said I shouldn't book a hotel or guest home because she won't come that it must be an open place. I was laughing if she is now scared of me or I ve become a muster to her. She said no but won't be comfortable if it's not a public place. I just told her I don't know till them... I was actually planing to book a guest house so we can resolve our difference both physically and sexually. She knows we can't be in a room alone without having sex. She can't just resist it.

I send her a message on whatsapp on a said day just to play with her but she keeps replying Ok, so I just stopped till we meet in few days time. I'm going to where she currently serve but want to come back with a smiling face that I ve won it again. She always say I am too proud so I want to reduced my pride a little toward her but not to the extent of appearing desperate to her.

We actually settled for a date to meet. I was to go and meet her that day. I called her a day before and she gave me description to where I can locate her. I then tell her to make reservations in case I can't make it back that day. She said i'm on my own. That if I need reservation, I should hold enough money. I said but I 'm coming to see you, you ought to host me, then she said it's my choice. We just said it with some element of jokes.

I told her I will call her when am on my way. I couldn't make it that day because of work issues and client I need to meet up with. I text her by 12pm saying, sorry dear I couldn't make it again to to work engagement... I called her twice the evening of it, she didn't pick, then I let her be... I just send her a message on whatsapp that I now understand. You couldn't pick my calls or return it when you saw it. It seems you need some space. Takia.



The fact is that the enthusiasms I had weeks ago to meet her after she send the money has begin to drop. The zeal is no longer there but I just want to cement things with her. I meet another clean new babe of recent and she is just using love to disturb me. She is just calling me like say her life depend on me. I know she actually want me to bleep her, from the way she is going. She has asked to come and see me, i'm the one forming busy for me since one week now.

Immediately I bleep this lady, I might not send going to see her again for another weeks because my mind is getting too occupied now.

... what's do you predict from these drama? Is there a way I can turn her ESCOFI buttom so that she come visiting instead of me going... I will even prefer she comes. She is just forming what I don't know but I don't really care.

Na man you be... will appreciate your timely response.

I do agree with most of Op post but this one, I strongly disagree.


I have Bleep a lot of pussy but I still Love on special girl. Even after the Bleep, she comes to my mind.


I have done everything to forget about her but to no avail. I had to date a lady far prettier than her with a good romantic style. It didn't still work... it only work for a short time and I will start missing her in the long run.

I have hurt her to make her hate me but she always prove that she can give me everything she owns in this life.


I have to resolve my difference with her because she became my life. She is just one naughty girl I can't afford to loss anymore.

This thread is not getting the needed attention.


@iLegend... what is happening? wake up from your hiding place and do justice to the thread.

bot101:
For some, yes. The guy I mentioned is just 1 person, where I come from, there are MANY such persons who are barely schooled(mind you, not uneducated) and are of about the same age range as the guy I mentioned and are from VERY poor backgrounds. I am definitely not where I want to be, but I am on the way there. Just a matter of time and milestones.

We are saying the same thing. For you to sum up the courage for politics, you have to be doing very very well. No good business man will even throw his hard earn income into politics without having a backing from somewhere. Most of the money you see them spending during electioneering process are stolen money so it doesn't have much effect on them when they loss.

Imagine a guy of 30 that have 300million in his account will bring out 250million for election when he is not sure of winning the election. Who does that in Nigeria?

They only want to pass such bill for the sake of their children. Tinubu son and daughter is a senator. Saraki is preparing his young son to become the next governor of kwara state.

Nigeria is a corrupt Nation. The senators only pass bill that will benefit them and not the common man in the street.

The government don't have you in mind. Get that clear.

bot101:
I know of a 23 year old nairalander who spends hundreds of millions to import goods for sale. You know what this guy and others like him didn't do? They didn't and aren't spending their hay days thinking about their next or last boyfriend/girlfriend, didn't spend it thinking about how to convince their next 'catch'to 'fall', didn't spend it listening to music that demeans them and fill their mouths with vulgar words, didn't spend it thinking about the next party to attend, didn't spend it cooking up lies to tell their parents to extort money from them as undergrads, didn't live with the belief that only fraudsters, corrupt politicians and ritualists become wealthy and rich, didn't spend it believing that they need a 'connection'to rise career-wise, didn't spend it blaming the government for their last fart. You know what they spent their hay days doing, they spent it thinking about their future, they spent it planning and executing same in pursuit of specific set out goals, they spent it studying about who, what and where they want to be in the next 5 years, they spent it listening to music that raised their spirit, they spent it thinking about how to live Godly, honestly, and prosper as well because they know it is not only possible, but the shortest route to living happily tomorrow, they spent it becoming the 'connection' others would need to rise, they spent it becoming a government unto their fellow men. These ones my friend are they who would become the youth leaders of tommorow, eventually becoming the leaders of tomorrow. Be wise, pray, plan and accept no negative thoughts and even the skies, won't be worthy of being called your starting point.

Don't talk too much guy. First check the history of that guy. He must have come from a wealthy home bros. At that age, if not with family or parental support, you hardly get one in such age running business of millions.

Even the richest youth in Africa of 27 with a worth ranging billions of dollars inherited a miti-dollar business from the father.

How much have you made now at your age with your personal effort? Before you say people's story, first find their background.

Even as wealthy as Wizkid, he won't want to throw his millions into politics without the backing of a wealthy godfather.

greatiyk4u:
Poverty, ill luck and laziness has done a lot of damages to your thinking faculty.................at 30, many Nigerians have the charisma, the finesse, finance and the popularity to win in a free and fair election, elections all over the world are sponsored by well wishers

Mr man don't deceive yourself. There is no youth @ 30 that can fund electioneering process without the backing of a strong godfather or wealthy parents. The bill has nothing to do with the common youth in the street. They want to create avenue for their children to milk down the nation after they have done their.

What the youth actually want is enabling environment, power, and basis amenities. We can provided jobs and other things for ourselves when things are working smoothly.

iLegend:
He's not pressing her ESCOFi mumu buttons. If he does, she'll respond. All women respond to it.

@iLegend

I have a problem. Op I will appreciate if you can help out with this... I will really appreciate. I just need the best way out.


I and this girl were dating but alone the line, we had misunderstanding which separated us for about 3months. I decided to patch up things with her which took about one week. She later told me she is with someone but she will accept me. That she won't break up with him yet. I decided to play along but no sex during that period because of distance. I slept with other girls but still missing her. During the period she told me to be calling her everyday but I didn't just want couple with certain things.

Few months later we had another misunderstanding. This time she really hurt me by her words of mouth and I decided to hurt her too. I even send the pic of the recent girl of was dating to her. She was really hurt. I was just pushed to the wall.

After about 4 months... I began to miss her again. it's like she uses charm on me. I decided to test her. I called her I am in need of cash worth of 10k. That I was stranded where I travelled to. She spoke nicely as fit nothing happened between us. She told me she has only 8k but will run around to get 2k to complete the 10k. I told her I mightn't be paying her back soon. She said I should take my time to return the money. I was just speeches. She was saying it with a happy mood and even said thank you. She promised to send the money and demanded for my account no. She was surprised because she knows I don't ask her money and I do have money. She credited me the money in less than 2hrs. I was shocked.

Op I want you to read the actions to me and give me possible ways to try and get her back even if she is with another guy. I just miss her.

I will appreciate your reply... I need something that can turn her heart around that I have changed.

iLegend:
He's not pressing her ESCOFi mumu buttons. If he does, she'll respond. All women respond to it.

Boss abeg answer my question above now.

@iLegend

I have a problem. Op I will appreciate if you can help out with this... I will really appreciate. I just need the best way out.


I and this girl were dating but alone the line, we had misunderstanding which separated us for about 3months. I decided to patch up things with her which took about one week. She later told me she is with someone but she will accept me. That she won't break up with him yet. I decided to play along but no sex during that period because of distance. I slept with other girls but still missing her. During the period she told me to be calling her everyday but I didn't just want couple with certain things.

Few months later we had another misunderstanding. This time she really hurt me by her words of mouth and I decided to hurt her too. I even send the pic of the recent girl of was dating to her. She was really hurt. I was just pushed to the wall.

After about 4 months... I began to miss her again. it's like she uses charm on me. I decided to test her. I called her I am in need of cash worth of 10k. That I was stranded where I travelled to. She spoke nicely as fit nothing happened between us. She told me she has only 8k but will run around to get 2k to complete the 10k. I told her I mightn't be paying her back soon. She said I should take my time to return the money. I was just speeches. She was saying it with a happy mood and even said thank you. She promised to send the money and demanded for my account no. She was surprised because she knows I don't ask her money and I do have money. She credited me the money in less than 2hrs. I was shocked.

Op I want you to read the actions to me and give me possible ways to try and get her back even if she is with another guy. I just miss her.

I will appreciate your reply... I need something that can turn her heart around that I have changed.

Please I really need this reply today

God save us from this economic recession.



Let those who have money now start investing into something profitable.

bookface:
Why do people get married and have kids when they have no source of income?

I really can't understand this logic

Boss you won't understand. If you pray to get settled before settling down, you mightn't be doing the right thing ap the wrong time.

I'm enjoying this thread like a cold bottle of beer...


Op ride on... I'm observing you from a distance.





Kudos.

I'm enjoying this thread like a cold bottle of beer...


Op ride on... I'm observing you from a distance.

Elxandre:
SAT is the equivalent of JAMB.

Why is there no Post-SAT?

Abeg....

That is because SAT exams is not corroded with series of malpractices like JAMB.

Baawaa:
That is a good news,because most of our universities has turned it to avenue of making money.

Just watch your bad english. This is one reason why universities need to conduct post ume to filter bad eggs like you.

HonabFaj:
Good News hope the universities and institutions can adopt it ,studying Aerospace Engineering here in UPM I applied with my WAEC result ,if I gain admission outside my country with WAEC certificate why cant it happen in my country
A New Nation
A New Nigeria
One step after the other we shall get there
#Ibelieve

What are you even saying? Why didn't you use the waec results to gained admission in top schools in the US, UK and Canada, if then nor throw away your clueless waec result.

Schools must be standardised. That's the reason America education is producing quality personnel that have changed the world today. If you don't get certain score in SAT, top schools in America wouldn't even listen to you not to talk about giving you admission.

Schools like MIT and Harvard test foreign candidates even after meeting the requirement because they have standard.

Your school must me one of the road side university. Don't be offended, I just spoke my mind.