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godoluwa:
why nt? infact ma galfriend dat we gonna wed next month is well educated, well exposed nd richer than me. she has travelled to 5different countries more than a time. wealth, exposure, academics qualification does nt make a happy home but love nd understanding does

Bros don't be blinded by love... Get it into your head that she will always act in control by the time you get married to her. You can't know a woman fully until she becomes you wife. Asked your dad, if he his still alive...

Don't be blabbing here, just find a way and groomed yourself. Double your hustling potentials and never allow her to take your responsibility...

Best of luck

lolababe331e:
They marry counterparts that they are equals with. No one needs control another in a healthy marriage

what do you mean by being equal?

Don't be fooled! It's either the man is in control or the woman. You can't have two captain in a ship.

If a man is not in control, he becomes a remote control...

Don't talk like someone who can be manipulated by a woman. Women craved for men that can control them. Asked you girlfriend if you have one.

lolababe331e:
Thank you rich women marry everyday to man within their class I don't think many women want to marry below their level sef, they know most men can't handle it

I will urge you get the statistics of very rich and educated women and also the average women on their marriage rate.

It will so shock you...

oreos:
Oh oh oh. Same way wealthy and very educated men find it hard to settle down. How would you know? You are not fit to mingle in their circle. FYI, They marry their counterparts. Men who are of their class. The ones in their social circle.

We are saying the samething. Put you brain to work. They marry their counterpart that can control them and are richer also.

That is the way it goes... Women crave for men that can control them both financially, emotionally and otherwise...

janefrancisca:
So u think her education is not an edge for her ?

Her education can be an edge to her but not to control me.

When it comes to family issues, everyone should know his/her boundary.

The man must always be in control. He must be the driving force.

SonOfEl:
hmm.....I get your point sir, but such definition of wisdom is inferior, we all know that. WISDOM IN A BLEND OF COGNITIVE AND EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE, I.e IQ and EQ...( + the God factor of course)

What is the relevant of the wisdom if you can't use it to make money and have a better life.

According to Abraham Lincoln ; If you can't convert your knowledge to fortune,then you are an educated illiterate. Knowledge is the key power to make wealth.

So if one is not wealthy, no one is ready to buy your wise idea.

SonOfEl:
see eh, most of my female friends are career women and rich business women. the are the ones craving to have marital homes. that is not to say, you don't find a few humble ones among them. I already have my boo who is intelligent and well-to-do, but dear, she doesn't intimidate me. she saw what I had that humbled her, and it was neither money nor intelligent.

I think cholerics go best with phlegmatics regardless of the gender involved.

I had a rich and intelligent female HOD when I was the course rep of my department back in the university days. we were close, and she give me some nuggets of wisdom that till today, works for me. I had a female boss where I once worked, believe me. she wasn't much older than me, but my popularity amongst the staff made her want 'prove her superiority' na she tire eventually. we are friends and confidants today. I once dated a medical student, I studied food science and nutrition, but being who she is, she gives remarks or make statements to supersede mine because she believes as students we both were, she was more 'placed' than I was. wisdom prevailed. I used wisdom to conquer her.

do you know that a wise woman will never try directly or indirectly to intimidate her husband even. if he 'feels' intimidated. in her wisdom, she has a way of making him feel on top. its only insecure men that feels threatened by rich and successful women.

What you are saying is stories and riddles. You date a rich girl, you had one as friend or boss, do this or that...

Marry her, then you will know her true color. Men are not intimidated to marry such women but some can't just stand being control by a woman. Take it or leave it, money begat pride. So if your woman is highly richer that you, one day she will begin to demonstrate it to you not because she is a woman but a human. It's our nature.

If you are not in control, you become a remote control.

Do you know why most of them hardly get husband to marry?

SonOfEl:
**laughs** levels kor.... ladder ni.... na so e pain you reach? anyway darling, I have NOTICED you. whether you accept it or not, women will always be women, but how a man REACTS to it put the woman in her place.

Personally, no woman can try to intimidate me and succeed, because at the end of the day, intelligence and wealth will always bow to wisdom. #fact.

Those who are wealthy are seen as wise men bro... not the number of books you read.

The trend has changed.

SonOfEl:
yes I can, both don't expect her not to use it against you at some point, because that's a woman for you. mind you what makes you a man is much deeper than more money and a bigger career. you wise judgements in crucial issues makes her trust you and obey you, because she will respect your views. two, if you are a romantic lover and fantastic in BEDmatics, she will call you lord, trust me.... three, once you are not the nosy and possessive type, it makes her free and herself with you..... there are many more deep things that tames any amazon queen or lioness as so called.

What are you saying? If you don't have money, your statement doesn't count. You are seen as a failure that can't advised someone.

You said bedmatic... she will be the one to control you in the room. When a man is not in control, he has lost it.

If you can't be in control, you become a remote control. Don't get it twisted.

kstadaura:
sir why you cannot accept richer?

It's simple. Two drivers can't drive one bus. One must be a driver and the other a conductor.

That's the logic.

Midehi:
its only true love that can answer that

You better clear your eyes and face the reality.

Money begat pride. No matter what, the woman will want the man to be subjective.


I can't shall... it is better we are of same level.

Redfruit:
.....Please stop saying that women can't do it. I lost my dad at the young age of 4yrs and am the last born in a family of 4. my mother with virtually no external support and through her very small retail business catered for us. Strange enough, we all went to private primary and secondary school. Paying minimum of 20k per term and are all graduates today, thanks to her lone efforts. I could still remember on one occassion when I was in ss1, my two senior siblings were in university already and my direct senior was preparing for waec, because of the much financial load, she could not pay my school fees and I was sent home inbetween the termly exams because I could not pay. We tried borrowing and she could not and she was totally banckrupt. So on one of those nights, I was alone with her in the house, my other siblings were in school. I heard sobs and I woke up and tried tracing where the sound was coming from, only to get to the veranda and met mum crying....I asked why she was crying and she said that she could not withstand the sight of me been at home while my mates are writing exam just because she could not afford my fees. I tried consoling her but she wont stop and we ended up crying together till morning. Early that morning, she took broom and rake and started going to sweep people's house and clean it up while I looked after her business. We realised the money in 3 days time and I went back to school though they were through with the exams when I came back. I promised myself never to disappoint her and thank God that today, I kept that promise together with my siblings. Mothers are diamonds, cherish them.

I feel your pain bro but did you read my comments very well. I don't think so. Did you see the word "Some" in my statement?

Please read comments very well before narrating your ordeal for self pity. I never said all women, I only said some except you fall into the category of some.

If I should narrate what my mum did for us, you will know your case is learning, so get the message.

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Boss what's happening? Why must you quote me to pass your message?

Please I am not a student. I am not also interested.

Still don't know what to do...


But MTN are very useless shall. Telling me a revalidate my line after series of registration both manually and via sms.

Don't think I ve such time now...


If not that our NCC and other communication agencies are usless, MTN can't do this nonesense in other countries.

Nigerians take so much shit with smile on their face.

jazinogold:
this list is incomplete without my name included!

Who you be?

Don't worry you can have her somedays..


I sight you Sire

FrankValency:
my brother,every school posses those set of students/graduates,u just met the average of that skul,I bet u there are very good students from Kwasu,mind u I'm nt a graduate of kwasu bt I don't like the descrimination,bad students are everywhere

You have a point...

Pegeantry is another way of gathering prostitute for big men in Nigeria. It's the new system now.



Niga never change for one bit...

Buhari doesn't think before he talks sometimes...


Everyone is not as dull as him. Why will I have a land and don't know the location? It simply means you don't have one.


Nigerian president don't learn at all. I wonder what they go abroad to learn!

shaokhan01:
You are not a student of unilorin if you are... You would know that kwasu have resumed for their first semester since last 2weeks while unilorin's admission is not yet out... Kwasu is the fastest among all

Kwasu is fast but producing half-baked graduates.

I meet some of them during my service year. They can't even construct simple sentence. Some can't even contribute to discussion in their field. What a shame!

Kwasu is just a glorified secondary school.

Nice one

I just pray it's not just talk alone but matched with actions...


Let things begin to work in Nigeria. We have suffered for too long.




Buhari I have not really felt your impart anyway.

I hardly believe any news from Premium Times.


They re bunch of lies...




Buhari will complete 100days soon and I am yet to see any meaning work going on...

He should keep fighting and sacking... I will see how long the shit will continue.

The government is just confused. They don't really know what to do.



Is feeding our major problem? I am even disappointed with the current system

The government is just confused. They don't really know what to do.



Is feeding our major problem? I am even disappointed with the current current

Add me. 08156885244

mikkymi1:
then I think it is probably better they post u to your house so u can be with your parents and loved ones and don't have to spend a dime.

Read my post very well. Get the message.

Don't come here to say trash...

If you have served before, you will know, it's not all about financial benefits.

mikkymi1:
then I think it is probably better they post u to your house so u can be with your parents and loved ones and don't have to spend a dime.

Read my post very well.

Don't come here to say trash...

If you have served before, you will know, it's not all about financial benefits.

Fake ladies... Nothing real about them




I cover my manhood with the blood of God.

kobosmalls:
None of what u said here makes sense.

ladies who married aki and paw paw dont love them.

they just like the fame and money.

That is exactly one of the things i mentioned in my post.

Your selling point is your 6ft3 in height and not your money nor your struggles.
dont u think that if u are rich that a short guy with all the money in the world has no chance if the two of u are competing to win a woman.
In fact the short guys wife will divorce him and go to you once u make the move.

I dont think you are in the best position to place advice here.

Who told you those ladies don't love Akin and pawpaw? What do you know about love?

Can't you understand simple english? I said my height is one of my selling point. Even if am not extremely rich, I have the money to take care of a woman very well. I am not a broke ass dude. I don't struggle to get a girl. I have the qualities and the sugar coated mouth.

Don't worry, a lady that love your height will locate you one day but you need to make money shall. Money will compliment your height. Lol

Work on yourself.